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A LETTER TO OUR WOMEN, MOTHER'S AND WIVES.

He’s not ignoring you, he’s drowning in thoughts that never take a break.

Every bill is a reminder that he must provide or fail.

Every pressure is a silent weight pressing on his chest.

Every mistake replays in his head louder than your words.

He was raised to believe that emotions make him weak.

So he bottles them up until they poison him from inside.

He endures long nights with no one to check if he’s okay.

He carries his pride like armor, but inside he’s bleeding.

He has learned to smile while his soul is breaking.

His silence is not neglect, it’s survival.

His quiet is not rejection, it’s exhaustion.

He doesn’t need pity, he needs understanding.

He doesn’t want saving, he wants respect.

Society told him to suffer in silence, so he does.

But even the strongest men need space to breathe.

He’s not ignoring you, he’s fighting a war you can’t see.


Comr.idoko valentine
© National President NNYI

Die in silent,they play …I’d always speak out when it’s get to brim…
I can suffer in silence I know,but there’s a limit to everything

Talkisneeded:
Die in silent,they play …I’d always speak out when it’s get to brim…
I can suffer in silence I know,but there’s a limit to everything

Then you not a real man. A real man can even take poison on behalf of his wife. . Men don suffer Sha.

Orlandoo:
Then you not a real man. A real man can even take poison on behalf of his wife. . Men don suffer Sha.

Women equally get depressed and overwhelmed in life. None of this has to do with men( or this delusion that is being a man), many of whom are in this day and age funded by the women they live with and call wives.

valentino057996:
➜A LETTER TO OUR WOMEN, MOTHER'S AND WIVES.
He’s not ignoring you, he’s drowning in thoughts that never take a break.
Every bill is a reminder that he must provide or fail.
Every pressure is a silent weight pressing on his chest.
Every mistake replays in his head louder than your words.
He was raised to believe that emotions make him weak. So he bottles them up until they poison him from inside. He endures long nights with no one to check if he’s okay. He carries his pride like armor, but inside he’s bleeding. He has learned to smile while his soul is breaking. His silence is not neglect, it’s survival. His quiet is not rejection, it’s exhaustion. He doesn’t need pity, he needs understanding. He doesn’t want saving, he wants respect. Society told him to suffer in silence, so he does. But even the strongest men need space to breathe. He’s not ignoring you, he’s fighting a war you can’t see.

Such a man has no business engaging someone else's daughter in an adult romantic/marriage relationship. The only people to bear this sort of being should be the mother and father who raised him into such an immature, irresponsible, and incompetent adult human being. He should remain a property of the society that fed him delusions in place of meaningful values.