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Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Kobojunkie: 11:00am On Sep 19, 2025
erniok:
✓ How did you come about this statistics. Also, how did you know they are Christian men. They shared their conversion story with you or they bear names like Joseph, john and live in Us? How?
1. It is not hard to search and track down a person's various online profiles to locate his or her residence. AI makes the job so much easier too. undecided

2. See shifting goal posts! Since when did being recognized as a Christian come to the hearing or speaking of this so-called transformation story which is nothing but nonsense if you ask me.. undecided
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Kobojunkie: 11:01am On Sep 19, 2025
wizod:
✓ Monks sex more than non celibate
Stop lying! 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Kobojunkie: 11:04am On Sep 19, 2025
ziemcorp:
relax abeg. It's clear that your antichristian bias won't allow you to view things from the OP's perspective.
I have nothing to do with the over 280 million men, many of them Christians, registered on only fans website where there are less than 4 million women.. if presenting the facts is considered antichristian, then is there any reason not to distance oneself from religion? 🥱🥱
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Coolgent(m): 11:09am On Sep 19, 2025
SuperPanther:
I am just tired and heartbroken. For me to have access to my wife for sex is so difficult. I work hard to ensure the family is fine and even try to do some chores in the house as I am able to.

Right now I am trying to configure my mind to forget about sex, just continue to serve God and remain a decent man. I am good looking so it's not a case of my being unattractive. There are many beautiful women I relate with that are willing to be in bed with me but I am a Christian. I am so frustrated now.

It's either my wife is pressing phone till forever, or she has one night prayer, or she is tired and wants to sleep.

Married men, how do you handle this situation?
How often do you engage in a bed business per week or month?
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by ziemcorp: 1:55pm On Sep 19, 2025
Kobojunkie:
I have nothing to do with the over 280 million men, many of them Christians, registered on only fans website where there are less than 4 million women.. if presenting the facts is considered antichristian, then is there any reason not to distance oneself from religion? 🥱🥱
And they're Christians or claim to be?
Where in the Gospels did you read about Christ soliciting the services of sex peddlers?
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Kobojunkie:
ziemcorp:
✓And they're Christians or claim to be?
2. Where in the Gospels did you read about Christ soliciting the services of sex peddlers?
1. Christianity is a claimed belief; according to you Christians, no one is born Christian, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

2. The Jesus Christ of Israel and His Gospels have absolutely nothing to do with your Religion of Christianity, or any religion for that matter. undecided
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Gerrard59(m): 3:57pm On Sep 19, 2025
georgee:
Suffer is ur middle name

Most married women are like this. That's why there are plenty and plenty of side chicks

My friend told me he had sex with with his wife twice throughout 2024..I wan cry for am
lol
grin grin

God forbid! I would gloat at such men! I would mock them to high heavens!!!!! I kuku get bad mouth! grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by femi4: 6:11pm On Sep 19, 2025
SuperPanther:
I am just tired and heartbroken. For me to have access to my wife for sex is so difficult. I work hard to ensure the family is fine and even try to do some chores in the house as I am able to.

Right now I am trying to configure my mind to forget about sex, just continue to serve God and remain a decent man. I am good looking so it's not a case of my being unattractive. There are many beautiful women I relate with that are willing to be in bed with me but I am a Christian. I am so frustrated now.

It's either my wife is pressing phone till forever, or she has one night prayer, or she is tired and wants to sleep.

Married men, how do you handle this situation?
It's either a medical situation or she doesn't find you sexually attractive

If its the first one..Oga carry your cross. No cure for low libido
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by erniok(m): 6:49pm On Sep 19, 2025
Kobojunkie:
1. It is not hard to search and track down a person's various online profiles to locate his or her residence. AI makes the job so much easier too. undecided

2. See shifting goal posts! Since when did being recognized as a Christian come to the hearing or speaking of this so-called transformation story which is nothing but nonsense if you ask me.. undecided
So all were mere speculations written written with arrogance so you have zero statistics or proof to back your claims.
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Kobojunkie: 7:28pm On Sep 19, 2025
erniok:
➜So all were mere speculations written written with arrogance so you have zero statistics or proof to back your claims.
Wrong! There are groups out there who did the research using account details provided on millions of men with membership on the OnlyFans website to find that data. Many of them are also married men. You can Google to learn more about it. Unless, of course, you would rather hold on to this delusion that religious folks are not mere human beings. undecided
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by erniok(m): 7:30pm On Sep 19, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Wrong! There are groups out there who did the research using account details provided on millions of men with membership on the OnlyFans website to find that data. Many of them are also married men. You can Google to learn more about it. undecided
You assert and I must prove. Rally?

If your assertion is married men, I'd have kept quiet but calling Christian's requires proof which I know you can never provide.
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Kobojunkie: 7:32pm On Sep 19, 2025
erniok:
➜You assert and I must prove. Rally?
➜ If your assertion is married men, I'd have kept quiet but calling Christian's requires proof which I know you can never provide.
I made no assertion. I posted a fact based on information available to me and everyone else who has access to the internet. If you doubt it, then do some research to counter the claims I made. Simple as that! undecided

2. Are there no Christian married men out there? huh
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Chinwe4real(f): 7:55pm On Sep 19, 2025
It's sad, but here's what you should do;

1. Have a conversation with her about your needs. Tell her how important it's for husband and wife to have sex often in a week.
2. Ask her what she likes during sex, or what she wants. More pre-intimacy? What positions she like?
3. Stroke her clitoris during sex (it would make sex enjoyable 100%)
4. Get a water based lubricant for days when she's dry during sex instead of using spittle or cream.
5. Slowly suck her nipple during pre-intimacy. Circle the nipple with your tongue.
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by erniok(m): 7:56pm On Sep 19, 2025
Kobojunkie:
I made no assertion. I posted a fact based on information available to me and everyone else who has access to the internet. If you doubt it, then do some research to counter the claims I made. Simple as that! undecided

2. Are there no Christian married men out there? huh
You made no assertion? Really? Abeg swerve.
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Mosco100(m): 9:34pm On Sep 19, 2025
According to 1 Corinthians 7, it's sin for one of the couples to deny the other due benevolence. Let her know this. Also, pray that she repents of this sin. Amen.
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Kobojunkie: 9:41pm On Sep 19, 2025
Mosco100:
According to 1 Corinthians 7, it's sin for one of the couples to deny the other due benevolence. Let her know this. Also, pray that she repents of this sin. Amen.
It is not a sin for OP to be considering women out there who he desires are falling over themselves to have sex with him, but it is a sin for OP's wife not to be in the mood to have sex with him(something OP conveniently chooses not to fill us in on)? 🥱🥱🥱

Your Christians are indeed a hoot! 🤣🤣🤣
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Kobojunkie:
SOLTEM:
➜Divorce shouldn't be an option in this case. Even if he choses to divorce and marry another person, she may even be more worse. The sad truth is that, in this context of sex in marriage, almost all these women are the same. The way men see sex in marriage, women don't see it that way.
➜ You'll be surprised that little little things like speaking/doing her love language etc naturally turns them on. Stylishly find out her complaints about you, then try to adjust. Things like these will naturally touch that emotional part of her...
First of all, kill the generalizations... You will never make even a modicum of sense when you don't do that. undecided

Not all married men see sex the way you do. Some men don't mind having sex with their wife only a couple of times each year. Yes, they do exist, and many of them realize that just as when they were single, sex is not meant to be a priority even in marriage. A recent survey in the U.S. revealed that the vast majority of couples over 35 settle for having sex only a couple of times each month or year. Why? Majorly because many married individuals are preoccupied with other aspects of life and marriage to make sex, even in marriage, a priority that some of you here seem to think it ought to be for your relationships. undecided

2. Love language? Are you people for real? You think a wife is some sort of jukebox that you only have to put the right coins in and pick the right selection to get it going, playing the tune you love? Go back and re-read OP's description of what his wife would rather do, and see that she probably has other things keeping her from engaging him in this area. 😏

Women are humans and have emotions the same as men. A more reasonable suggestion would be professional marriage counseling, but even that may not work since OP already has his eyes on other women, and he has probably informed his wife of this, too. Which is why divorce makes sense. 🥱🥱
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Mishydoo(m):
DorianD:
Report to her parents
Lol, i’m yet to see someone who did something and the situation changed for good
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by ziemcorp: 4:08pm On Sep 21, 2025
Kobojunkie:
1. Christianity is a claimed belief; according to you Christians, no one is born Christian, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

2. The Jesus Christ of Israel and His Gospels have absolutely nothing to do with your Religion of Christianity, or any religion for that matter. undecided
Faux intellectualism.

You aren't even worth sparring with. I sincerely believe I'd be dumber for the effort. Have a nice life.
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by TotoSuckker: 5:16pm On Sep 21, 2025
Zooposki:
His wife does not enjoy sex from him. Its not that difficult to know what the issue is. I heard 90% of Nigerian women have never orgasmed from having sex with Nigerian men. Una no sabi.
Are you sweet in bed? grin
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Mosco100(m): 2:45pm On Oct 05, 2025
Kobojunkie:
It is not a sin for OP to be considering women out there who he desires are falling over themselves to have sex with him, but it is a sin for OP's wife not to be in the mood to have sex with him(something OP conveniently chooses not to fill us in on)? 🥱🥱🥱

Your Christians are indeed a hoot! 🤣🤣🤣
He's also in sin. I'm sorry I hadn't paid attention to the matter.
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Kobojunkie: 3:18pm On Oct 05, 2025
Mosco100:
He's also in sin. I'm sorry I hadn't paid attention to the matter.
So, if sin is his and and sin is wfe, how come your Christian deity still enter the equation? Does the Christian deity love sin or something? Or is it that as we have come to realize, the Christian deity only seems to attack and belittle women where sin is involved ? undecided
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Wenonawde(m): 8:03pm On Oct 05, 2025
SuperPanther:
I am just tired and heartbroken. For me to have access to my wife for sex is so difficult. I work hard to ensure the family is fine and even try to do some chores in the house as I am able to.

Right now I am trying to configure my mind to forget about sex, just continue to serve God and remain a decent man. I am good looking so it's not a case of my being unattractive. There are many beautiful women I relate with that are willing to be in bed with me but I am a Christian. I am so frustrated now.

It's either my wife is pressing phone till forever, or she has one night prayer, or she is tired and wants to sleep.

Married men, how do you handle this situation?
Ignore her for one month, I can bet with you that you she will be the one seeking ur attention.
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Mosco100(m): 1:06am On Oct 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
So, if sin is his and and sin is wfe, how come your Christian deity still enter the equation? Does the Christian deity love sin or something? Or is it that as we have come to realize, the Christian deity only seems to attack and belittle women where sin is involved ? undecided
Sin is condemned without partiality.
Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by Kobojunkie: 1:49am On Oct 06, 2025
Mosco100:
Sin is condemned without partiality.
So, let me get this straight, in your earlier comment...
Mosco100:
According to 1 Corinthians 7, it's sin for one of the couples to deny the other due benevolence. Let her know this. Also, pray that she repents of this sin. Amen.
... you desired to have one sinner accuse another sinner of sin? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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