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Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by DyshApp(op): 11:10pm On Sep 22, 2025
Reality TV star and Big Brother Naija alum, Neo Akpofure, has weighed in on the ongoing debate about whether men should kneel when proposing marriage.

In a post on X (formerly Twitter), Neo made it clear that he has no problem kneeling before the woman he intends to marry. He described her as his “God-given helper” and the one who will carry his future generations, adding that kneeling is not begging but a sign of honor and commitment.
Neo dismissed critics who see the act as unnecessary or demeaning, saying:

“I will gladly kneel before the woman I will ask to marry me! If it looks like begging to you, IDC! That’s my helper God gave me, the one who will bring forth my generations to come. Everyone just setting ridiculous standards these days y’all enjoy.”

His comment comes amid heated debates online, especially after a lady recently rejected a proposal because her man refused to kneel. While some argue kneeling is outdated, others insist it remains an important gesture of love and humility.


Is kneeling during a proposal still necessary in today’s world, or is it just societal pressure?

Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by dollytino4real(f): 12:44am On Sep 23, 2025
Na choice not force, but it all boils down to the guy proposing not who is watching
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Starboytwo(m): 8:18am On Sep 23, 2025
It wont bother anybody if you kneel or prostrate to propose...


But I ain't never kneeling for any body... Ever.
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by CorperKola:
God-given Destiny helper,lol
I laugh
Thats his personal problem
Thabks for sharing
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Ishilove: 1:17pm On Sep 23, 2025
I find it very unAfrican. Another senseless western importation.
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Haydens: 1:18pm On Sep 23, 2025
Slaves do that no free born like me.

Kneeling down before any body shows that the person is of higher authority over you. Imagine me kneeling down before a girl that I use 6-8 years senior.🤮🤮
It is too repulsive to think about it.

Only genuflect to a higher being.
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Talkisneeded(m): 1:23pm On Sep 23, 2025
Whatever makes him sleep well at night,I know what I’ll do and it’s has nothing to do with the western life
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by KayaMaghan: 1:24pm On Sep 23, 2025
Yeah
Lets all pretend what individuals do does not affect generally the culture and mindset of a people.

We are all free to do what we want. Our lives, our choices.

But our choices have communal effect. We are shaping the mindset of the human race.
What we refuse to break now will be a struggle for the next generation.

Things like kneeling to propose, bride-price, religion of all kind racial divides and political enmity.
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by motymop: 1:26pm On Sep 23, 2025
i agree with him

Personally, i dont believe anything from a nigerian man mouth especially those online alphas

they will kneel down..these people will do anything for sex
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by lexxwiz(m): 1:27pm On Sep 23, 2025
Africans no Dey give rings normally…. As you don copy ring, kuku copy the kneeling down na. Who said I can’t take my ring back the next week if I so wish? Nna Una too like issues for this country.
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Tendd: 1:28pm On Sep 23, 2025
Stop the Madness of kneeling for marriage proposals and the sham so called white wedding.lt is disgusting.Stop it already.
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by blesdman(m): 1:28pm On Sep 23, 2025
dollytino4real:
Na choice not force, but it all boils down to the guy proposing not who is watching
The guy plait hair already so he is feminine. A man should not kneel down in Africa to be a protector and provider, never. Marriage to a lady is a call to her to join him in his life journey. Not the other way round.
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Bahamas95(m): 1:31pm On Sep 23, 2025
Kneeling to propose to a woman doesn't make sense to me.


The man is the head of the family, na the woman suppose kneel down during proposal then the man go support her get up if she accept........If she nor accept just leave her there waka comot.

Men should stop embarrassing themselves with this useless kneeling stuff, it doesn't make you romantic but stew---pid!
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Ironfaceman(m): 1:32pm On Sep 23, 2025
There is no scriptural backing for kneeling in marriage.

Just as there's no backing for santa claus
All this are designed by man.

So if you're into it go ahead and if you're not down with it forget it.
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by blowjohn(m): 1:34pm On Sep 23, 2025
Why wouldn't u kneel when u adorn urself with earringshuh
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Laalasticla: 1:35pm On Sep 23, 2025
I don't care if a man kneels or not, my own be say when I'm married as a Yoruba lady, I can never call nieces and nephew sound enough to be my children brother and sister...

Only your siblings I fit manage call aunty and brother....
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Laalasticla: 1:36pm On Sep 23, 2025
Ironfaceman:
There is no scriptural backing for kneeling in marriage.

Just as there's no backing for santa claus
All this are designed by man.

So if you're into it go ahead and if you're not down with it forget it.
So Bible wasn't designed by men cool huh cool cool...

Even quoran was designed by whohuh

All humans are products of programming by fellow men...know this and know peace .
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Kobicove(m): 1:39pm On Sep 23, 2025
That's his own opinion, it's not binding on every guy out there
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by IPDGP: 1:41pm On Sep 23, 2025
Did this guy win, if not I can see why he no fit win
😠😠aa
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Trendtips(f): 1:41pm On Sep 23, 2025
But you will knee to have sex with her and won't mind
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by NiceLegs(m): 1:49pm On Sep 23, 2025
I will not kneel down to propose to a woman.
I will not kneel down to propose to a woman
I will not kneel down to propose to a woman.

Abraham did not kneel down to propose to Sarah
Isaac did not kneel down to propose to Rebecca
Jacob did not kneel down to propose to Rachael.

There is no where in the Bible where God in heaven commanded a man whom he created to be the head to kneel down to propose to a woman.

My father did not kneel down for my mother when he wanted to marry her.
Therefore, I will not kneel down.

These "kneeling down" has deep Spiritual implications but men don't know.

May God help you people indulging in it.
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Famous606(m): 2:02pm On Sep 23, 2025
You are only do that once in a life time because you are taking her away from her parent and family so it's your right to ask her nicely, respectfully and show how much you care and respect her so you kneeling do not show sign of weakness rather it's show how mature you are it's also show how commitment you are and to round it up it's it's tells how responsible you are to your family and community.
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Kingpele(m):
Hahaha Hahaha men are becoming girls this days nawooh ,I have been married like more than a decade and I don't remember kneeling down to propose to my beloved wife....I just told her I want to see her parents and I paid them a visit and told them I want to marry theirdaughter...and they asked my wife if she agreed and she said yes ...the rest they say is history...Africa men should have sense bikuno...the werey said destiny helper instead of partner in destiny...apart from Christian faith not all western lifestyle is suitable for us as Africans...how will I kneel down to someone who's not God ...especially a woman I will fed till the end of time...for me it doesn't make sense ....show your wife real love ..not by kneeling down ...some of these so called romantic men end up cheating on their wives or even beat their wives at intervals...some end up getting a divorce.... grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Teeroyzimma: 2:07pm On Sep 23, 2025
Even this agege dey put mouth, crazy things are really happening
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by nonny1212: 2:07pm On Sep 23, 2025
Famous606:
You are only do that once in a life time because you are taking her away from her parent and family so it's your right to ask her nicely, respectfully and show how much you care and respect her so you kneeling do not show sign of weakness rather it's show how mature you are it's also show how commitment you are and to round it up it's it's tells how responsible you are to your family and community.
LAMBA.

35 more characters neededddddddddddddd
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by GenFunction: 2:11pm On Sep 23, 2025
Bahamas95:
Kneeling to propose to a woman doesn't make sense to me.


The man is the head of the family, na the woman suppose kneel down during proposal then the man go support her get up if she accept........If she nor accept just leave her there waka comot.

Men should stop embarrassing themselves with this useless kneeling stuff, it doesn't make you romantic but stew---pid!
You dey watch too much Nigerian movies.
Africa and the wrong side of pride
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by GenFunction: 2:12pm On Sep 23, 2025
blowjohn:
Why wouldn't u kneel when u adorn urself with earringshuh
See them.
All them chief judge
He can wear whatever
We are too intolerant here
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by StoryHaven: 2:21pm On Sep 23, 2025
Which of these girls is ready to kneel or bend as a sign of respect for the man when putting food on the table or giving her husband something?
Which of them kneel or bend when collecting gifts from the husband.
These are pure African traditional ways of respecting husbands or an elderly. And guess what, they have faded into the thin air because of civilisation.
No modern day wife wants to do that.
But they want the men to kneel proposing to them.

As who?

Does that stops them from cheating. Abi how many of them that their husbands knelt down to proposed to have been caught red handed by DNA.

IT IS NOT EVERYTHING THE WHITE MAN DOES THAT MAKES SENSE.
KNEELING TO PROPOSE IS ONE.
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by blowjohn(m): 2:32pm On Sep 23, 2025
GenFunction:
See them.
All them chief judge
He can wear whatever
We are too intolerant here
Why don't u wear skirt and blouse na.

We are too intolerant as if we should accept anything.

If ur a man, dress like a man.

Men like the ones above who wear earrings are either gay, cultists or are easily influenced by the action of others
Re: Neo Akpofure Speaks On Men Kneeling For Marriage Proposals by Ironfaceman(m): 2:34pm On Sep 23, 2025
Laalasticla:
So Bible wasn't designed by men cool huh cool cool...

Even quoran was designed by whohuh

All humans are products of programming by fellow men...know this and know peace .
Point of correction. The Bible was, is and never a program of man.

Because if you say man created the Bible, then who created God.
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