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Dad called at 1 am which was quite strange, narrating stories about how my bro was hit by a vehicle without headlamps blah blah blah…. I thought he was talking gibberish until it dawned on me like “O Ti Ku”… Chaiiiiiiiiiiiiii
Mr bro why??
What’s the point of this life. Hit by car ? Chaiiiiii
My head is spinning, can’t cry, lots of questions.
My mom is in the UK, she mustn’t even hear about this, arggghhhh!!!!
Worried about him, about his spirit, what is he going through now, how can I help him?

I’m going to Ibadan at sunrise, I don’t know what is awaiting me, like his bloodied corpse ? Chaiiiiii
Never lost a dear one before.
Hes the first born, I’m second….. Whats next?

So many questions, who was he with before death took him? Where exactly did it happen? It’s just my dad and my baby bro at home, how do we find peace ? What is going to happen to my ever-worried soft-hearted mom? …….I found out he posted on his WhatsApp around 10 pm, guess what was his caption…..”Get Rich or Die Trying”

Ahhhhh Bro Tee!! He was 35.

Just Before I came online and opened this thread, I was thinking about my own life and how little the progress I had made since I graduated. I felt like I was fooling myself that God is helping me.
I was reminiscing about my university days and how my other friends must have been making strides.

Guess what, I am also 35.

I came online and immediately saw your thread. Something made me open it. I think this thread is a message to me.

I pray your brother finds comfort in his next journey. Sorry for the loss.

May his soul rest in perfect peace Amen

Be strong for your parents and sibling

This is very painful,I can relate cos I lost a lovely sister some years ago.May his soul rest in peace.Take heart bro

I don't know where you are going to Ibadan from, but I want you to consider not rushing there at sunrise if it's from anywhere far.

Your head is already spinning, so I doubt you can be thinking straight, and your rush to Ibadan will not raise your dead brother who now rests in peace.

I say this because I had an aunty who once rushed from Kwara to Ibadan when her mother died, and she never arrived, though I acknowledge your own experience will differ.

Accept my condolence.

Accept my deepest condolences

My condolences brother 🙏🏻

Accept my condolences bro . I know the pain of losing a pet , not to talk of a sibling . May you find comfort .

May his soul rest in peace…. Amen

Sorry bro.

May his soul rest in perfect peace and may your family be consoled.

So Sorry bro. Accept my Condolences

HelloWorld80011:
Just Before I came online and opened this thread, I was thinking about my own life and how little the progress I had made since I graduated. I felt like I was fooling myself that God is helping me.
I was reminiscing about my university days and how my other friends must have been making strides.

Guess what, I am also 35.

I came online and immediately saw your thread. Something made me open it. I think this thread is a message to me.

I pray your brother finds comfort in his next journey. Sorry for the loss.

If only you know how much your failed country has played a vital role in limiting you brother.

I'm so sorry for your loss

What a painful loss chai!!! May God rest his soul and comfort the loved ones he left behind especially your parents. That lunatic driver driving at night without headlights should be behind bars right now

Diegostan:
If only you know how much your failed country has played a vital role in limiting you brother.

When I was much younger, I used to believe everything is in my control and I can influence what I grow up to become.
Now I realised some things are beyond our control. Maybe it's the country, maybe it's the people themselves or maybe it's the opportunities that that are scarce, or maybe you have to beat the law to become successful.
I am starting to believe no one has ever become successful by following the laws of land.

I can only imagine how you are feeling bro. Me sef I haven't been able to move on since I lost my very close friend (not a family member) since 2020. Take heart. RIP to your brother.

Omo I'm also 35

RIP to your brother

This is painful.

May Jah comfort you & your family.

Death is anyone

Nothing dey this life
I just dey look people wey dey brag about worldly things shi shi you no go carry go.

I'm so sad right now.

My condolences Bro...

Na wa .. loosing a sibling is never easy .. RIP Teedris

Accept my condolence. I can understand your pain. May his soul rest in peace

The saddest day was that day....


The day I lost my sister....

Diegostan:
If only you know how much your failed country has played a vital role in limiting you brother.

The country has failed because many of you vote for your daily bread , not for planning and development for the future

HelloWorld80011:
When I was much younger, I used to believe everything is in my control and I can influence what I grow up to become.
Now I realised some things are beyond our control. Maybe it's the country, maybe it's the people themselves or maybe it's the opportunities that that are scarce, or maybe you have to beat the law to become successful.
I am starting to believe no one has ever become successful by following the laws of land.

Personally, i have seen successful corrupt politicans and prominent people humiliated and deprived of their gains

Does not happen as much as it should, but it happens.

Obey the laws and don't worship mammon

You can mock me now

May our sow ress in pis

A b c d f g h I j k n m o p q r s t u v w x y z

HelloWorld80011:
Just Before I came online and opened this thread, I was thinking about my own life and how little the progress I had made since I graduated. I felt like I was fooling myself that God is helping me.
I was reminiscing about my university days and how my other friends must have been making strides.

Guess what, I am also 35.

I came online and immediately saw your thread. Something made me open it. I think this thread is a message to me.

I pray your brother finds comfort in his next journey. Sorry for the loss.

Bro, I tell you something today..

There is a lot of noise in your head rn...
But most of these issues are lies echoed by social media.

They just want to steal your peace...


There is a place beyond money, sex, women, marriage, power-control, comparison with siblings/friends, competition with strangers etc...

Push yourself there and Start operating from that realm ...


Op, RIP to your brother...

No one knows exactly when the end will come.... until it happens

May God give you and your family the fortitude to bear the loss

IceColdVeins:
Dad called at 1 am which was quite strange, narrating stories about how my bro was hit by a vehicle without headlamps blah blah blah…. I thought he was talking gibberish until it dawned on me like “O Ti Ku”… Chaiiiiiiiiiiiiii
Mr bro why??
What’s the point of this life. Hit by car ? Chaiiiiii
My head is spinning, can’t cry, lots of questions.
My mom is in the UK, she mustn’t even hear about this, arggghhhh!!!!
Worried about him, about his spirit, what is he going through now, how can I help him?

I’m going to Ibadan at sunrise, I don’t know what is awaiting me, like his bloodied corpse ? Chaiiiiii
Never lost a dear one before.
Hes the first born, I’m second….. Whats next?

So many questions, who was he with before death took him? Where exactly did it happen? It’s just my dad and my baby bro at home, how do we find peace ? What is going to happen to my ever-worried soft-hearted mom? …….I found out he posted on his WhatsApp around 10 pm, guess what was his caption…..”Get Rich or Die Trying”

Ahhhhh Bro Tee!! He was 35.

Sorry bro. God will give you all a heart to pass thru this period

HelloWorld80011:
When I was much younger, I used to believe everything is in my control and I can influence what I grow up to become.
Now I realised some things are beyond our control. Maybe it's the country, maybe it's the people themselves or maybe it's the opportunities that that are scarce, or maybe you have to beat the law to become successful.
I am starting to believe no one has ever become successful by following the laws of land.

One can, I’m an example. Though, I’m not a multimillionaire—as in counting money in hundreds of millions—but I’m okay.