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| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Deicide: 5:30pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Who go marry single Mother with 5 kids now |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by emiye(m): 5:35pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Sad, do not pack unnecessary load on yourself as a man. Why 5 and not 1 or 2 to lessen your burden ?? You only need a bit of common sense for these things. RIP to him. It is also true love to your family if you plan for a possible demise e.g wife having a job. I see a lazy wife who is birthing kids (5 ) and doing nothing? |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Gbogboski: 5:36pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:You shouldn't mock the dead. You don't have the full picture of the cause of his death and you concluded it's over pressure. People die everyday, both young and old, both the poor and the rich for a variety of reasons |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by zuby4real10(m): 5:38pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
May his soul rest in peace. But how can someone of 30 years has 5kids. Except if not all of them them are his biological children. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by kayyyy44: 5:38pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Point of correction poor man too like knacking Sonnobax15: |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by thomas2024: 5:40pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Tradepunter2:Oga your comment is unnecessary. I saw your first comment, I had to ignore until I saw this again. Why do you Nigerians glorify yourself in classicism like this? We are focusing on a sad matter, you're shifting attention to your family? Who your family help in this situation? I tire ooo. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by judewrites: 5:41pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Very sad story indeed 😔 Hard work alone cannot solve poverty.... You need to be favoured first by God and later favoured by influential people. That's we have lots of hardworking people eating from hand to mouth. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Kanixt(m): 5:45pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Kingpele:Are you married? |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Banbanna(m): 5:46pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
There's nothing normally here. Poor people due to their lack of judgement and proper family planning don normalize something or a situation that ought to be abnormal. That poor dude sent himself to an early grave. And like you said, those he's left behind are always going to move on with or without him. They're survivors. Sonnobax15: |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Dannyset(m): 5:55pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:No, he is the stupid one. How can you give birth to 5 children when you are not Elon Musk? He put himself under the unnecessary pressure. God rest his soul |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by NovusHomo(m): 6:08pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:Not fertility, but hopeless hopefulness. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Oizee(f): 6:12pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:I have shared this with my husband, I don beg the man taya to reduce unnecessary pressure, he worry over things that I feel is no big deal if we can't achieve it now, even if I pay children's school fees, when he has he would still return it saying it's his responsibility as if they are not mine as well. May God protect every responsible father and husband out there. Daddy oyoyo is a gift our kids needs to say to Daddies all the time. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Factcheck0001: 6:14pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:the guy killed himself Early 30's with 5 kids n full time house wife? |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by iSense247: 6:22pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
LordBiden: Sonnobax15:And he is in his early 30s. The man killed himself. May his soul rip. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by ARISHEM: 6:23pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
This is so sad |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by FarahAideed: 6:25pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
5 kids as an okada man in Tinubu era is suicide , pure suicide |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Kobojunkie: 6:27pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
tollyboy5:Oh, she will likely see shege assuming she does not abandon those children to go find herself a better life with a man somewhere else.( Yes, there are men and women who abandon even their own children for a chance at greener pastures.) But the fact here is what OP described as that family "moving on" is a farce...a lame attempt at presenting the man as some sort of victim when he was, in fact, the architect of much of his struggles in life and that of his children in death too. 🥱🥱🥱 |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Kobojunkie: 6:30pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Tradepunter2:Storyland! 🥱🥱🥱 |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Chummynoni(m): 6:32pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Na wetin bird chop , bird go carry fly . Men , take care of your health . |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by DrAda(f): 6:35pm On Sep 27, 2025*. Modified: 4:28pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
He killed himself. If I am a man, I would NEVER marry below 35 years of age to a housewife from a poor background or give birth to more than 2 kids less than 5 years apart. That's suicidal. Scratch the above. Chances are that I wouldn't even get married. Today's economy is not conducive to raise a happy, healthy family in the true sense of it and unless things change down the line, I will remain single. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Karleb(m): 6:39pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:I stopped reading when I saw 5 kids. How is an okada rider haver 5 kids? |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Kobojunkie: 6:40pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
DrAda:Just imagine! 5 kids and a wife before age 30 on the pittance of an okada rider! No be madness be that? 😒😒😒 |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by DrAda(f): 6:42pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Total madness |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Kobojunkie: 6:48pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Oizee:A man and woman who have more kids than they can afford to have are terrible parents...nothing responsible about them. ![]() |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Nobody: 7:02pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:Upon the whole story,not a mention of what killed him. Such a drivel |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Kajaard: 7:04pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Truer words were never spoken ![]() |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Exceed15: 7:04pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Painful however men please be wise. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Exceed15: 7:06pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
You might not even be part of the future you are tirelessly saving for. Take care of yourself first. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by bluefilm: 7:27pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
I tried But I couldn't I couldn't feel any pity for him as I continued to read |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Hassanmaye(m): 7:31pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
Sonnobax15: |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by j3r3myk3n(m): 7:33pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
This story here is a thing, from men working their asses off to take care of homes to a sudden disastrous outcome that might shift the whole nation this very story here brought back memories, of course people in transportation business in particular and men in general should see this sad story here as a wake up call. I wouldn’t want to share a personal experience of someone I know that ended up in such a scenario, man worked his ass off so bad that if you see him compared to his kids you’d wonder if this man takes time to even take care of himself at all, life lost but the children he worked so hard for are living their lives somehow, I know many could relate to these sort of stories and sometimes not even gender based. Please guys, take time to get off the whole stress sometimes and treat yourself right, do occasional medical check ups to be sure if everything is going smoothly. Most people that loses their lives, if being asked if they had such thoughts prior would say “No” Them no Dey write am for face and be vigilant too, not everyone out there is happy for you regardless of the smiles. A word is enough as they’d always say and with great responsibilities comes with much experience. May God see everyone through in their endeavors. Peace and light! |
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?? You only need a bit of common sense for these things. RIP to him. It is also true love to your family if you plan for a possible demise e.g wife having a job. I see a lazy wife who is birthing kids (5 ) and doing nothing?
. Na over pressure kill the guy, nothing else.....
