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Kajaard:
It's always poor people that give birth to the most children

Just imagine an okada rider having five children, smh

Hw many kids u dad
Ur grandpa gave birth to

We al lazy youth as buhari says den

Ur wealth is measure wt numbers of kids nd wives u can manage and controled.. na billings and civilization spoil tins for us

None of our grandpa marry notin less dan 2 wives here

So wats our problem to jst manage only one wife

Sha get plans nd doings sha before u marry oo

I think one day we'll discuss the fact that s.ex is the most affordable form of recreation for a poor man.

LordBiden:
LoL

An okada rider having 5 kids in this tinubu regime.

Una get mind o.

Billionaires and powerful people like the Clintons and the Obamas are giving birth to one,two.

Atiku and Dangote didn't give birth to one or two

[quote author=Sonnobax15 post=136934626]Good morning and a happy weekend to every Nairalander out there..... Hope everyone is doing just fine?

Just this morning,the sad news about the demise of my neighbor who's an okada rider broke out....A young man who was in his early 30's....He had barely finished balancing the motorcycle which he took on a higher purchase price three weeks ago........And we even drank and celebrated with him when the original particulars of the motorcycle were handed over to him.... This was someone whom we joked and laughed as at yesterday morning before I left for my shop,while he also left for his transport work....

Before now,he spoke about him being fed up with the okada work....And how he planned to leave it anytime soon,but had wanted to open a provision shop for his wife....

Now,the real gist about his whole life was that he left behind 5 kids and a wife......All through the times we spent together as neighbors, he was a very hardworking man whom never relented or gave up on his responsibilities as a man....While most of us who were equally into the transportation business were resting,this guy was always on the road, hustling......... Sometimes,whenever we came across each other on the road,there was a popular Mama-Put joint where we used to usually buy beans and yam,and most times just chill up and gist ,I would joke with him like--"Oga Mike,eat better food , because na you dey work the money". But he would shrug it off, saying he can't, because his family were at home and it won't be nice if he should eat without them....

This guy never wore nice clothes......He lived his entire life solely on how to put food on his family table while neglecting his own self.......There were times when even to buy ordinary paracetamol,he wouldn't buy it, because he believed that money could be used for something else.......

Tho we've mourning but I find it quite amusing and confusing on why a man would live his life, being victimized by the responsibilities that falls upon him as a man....

Dear men, please take care of yourself.....Do not fall victims to the pressure that comes along with being a father.....Tho it's comprehensible that as a Father,it's your role to take care of your home.....But you can as well do that without losing your life in the process...... Because when you're gone,the same family whom you were toiling and hustling your asss up just to feed and shelter,they will move on with their lives and just within a matter of time, you'll be forgotten [anybody that ask for help is courageously asking]

richmond500:
Atiku and Dangote didn't give birth to one or two

And you felt the need to mention those two because they are raising their kids on okada man salary, right? 😏😏😏😏

Okada man with 5 kids?


Anyway na God dey train picking.

Wetin I know self?

femi4:
Dear men..do not allow women to pressure you. Be yourself

Dear men, stop pouring your seeds into women if you know you're not capable of taking of more than 2 children..........
In fact close your legs men if you're poor, u have not business having sex, even though youre married.

Laalasticla:
✓ Dear men, stop pouring your seeds into women if you know you're not capable of taking of more than 2 children..........
In fact close your legs men if you're poor, u have not business having sex, even though youre married.

Condoms have been available in Nigeria for almost 50 years yet the poor continue to impose unnecessary struggle and humiliation on themselves for reasons best known to them. 🥱🥱🥱

princepee:
Having more children than you can take care of is death it's self
Even dangote no born five...
Poor man and fck na 5/6

Exactly , like my soon to be ex husband's elder brother who died of liver cancer, he had five children he couldn't take care of before he died, after his death, his wife still go open tutu for two different men and still have two extra children, now she comes dey share the children everywhere make them dey do house maid..
One of her children lives with us, and there own family expects me to take care of her and treat her as my own child...
Me wey be say na only two I get and I have to do more than 8 abortions in this marriage cos I'm no longer interested in having children....
Na everyday me dey curse the woman o and trust me , to a smaller extent ,I'm using the girl as the slave her parents wanted the children to be....
Not the child's fault but she's suffering the sins of the parents....
Nothing concern me

Kobojunkie:
Condoms have been available in Nigeria for almost 50 years yet the poor continue to impose unnecessary struggle and humiliation on themselves for reasons best known to them. 🥱🥱🥱

And I dont even understand why majority of them reason in the same direction, cos I expect that common sense suggests to them that financial capacity should equate to the no of children they can take of but no, majority of them seem to reason a certain way that I can't fathom..

Laalasticla:
Dear men, stop pouring your seeds into women if you know you're not capable of taking of more than 2 children..........
In fact close your legs men if you're poor, u have not business having sex, even though youre married.

Lol

Funny but very true

Some preachers will still teach that children are gifts from God. Now that he’s dead Abeg who will help him to watch his kids? I really pity the children especially the female ones cos I know what they’re really going to pass through.

This perfectly mirrors my late brother's story. I never imagined I would be sharing this on Nairaland. He wasn't an okada rider, but he worked tirelessly to support his wife and two children, while she didn't work. Despite my warnings that those he sacrificed for would move on if he died, he didn't listen. Then, unexpectedly, he passed away without any prior illness. I suspect hypertension played a role. It's only been a month, and I still mourn him. If only he had heeded our advice. Miss you, Big Bro.

Darkmode64:
✓ This perfectly mirrors my late brother's story. I never imagined I would be sharing this on Nairaland. He wasn't an okada rider, but he worked tirelessly to support his wife and two children, while she didn't work. Despite my warnings that those he sacrificed for would move on if he died, he didn't listen. Then, unexpectedly, he passed away without any prior illness. I suspect hypertension played a role. It's only been a month, and I still mourn him. If only he had heeded our advice. Miss you, Big Bro.

Has your brother's children and wife moved on since his death then? 🥱🥱

dem no dey tell person.
Meanwhile let the wife too continue where he stopped. She will appreciate the person she used to call useless now

lailo:
dem no dey tell person.
Meanwhile let the wife too continue where he stopped. She will appreciate the person she used to call useless now

Because you were there with them to know and confirm that she called him useless?

And single parenting 5 kids has to be the same as having 2 adults as parents to the same kids, abi?

Laalasticla:
Exactly , like my soon to be ex husband's elder brother who died of liver cancer, he had five children he couldn't take care of before he died, after his death, his wife still go open tutu for two different men and still have two extra children, now she comes dey share the children everywhere make them dey do house maid..
One of her children lives with us, and there own family expects me to take care of her and treat her as my own child...
Me wey be say na only two I get and I have to do more than 8 abortions in this marriage cos I'm no longer interested in having children....
Na everyday me dey curse the woman o and trust me , to a smaller extent ,I'm using the girl as the slave her parents wanted the children to be....
Not the child's fault but she's suffering the sins of the parents....
Nothing concern me

madam if you can't take of the child send him or her back to her mother.
Don't use another man's child as slave that's wickedness!
Send him or back ASAP

Kobojunkie:
Has your brother's children and wife moved on since his death then? 🥱🥱

Maybe you should visit them to determine that 🥱

Darkmode64:
✓ Maybe you should visit them to determine that 🥱

You don't even know their status but are here to tell us how they are somehow part reason for your brother's demise? 🥱🥱🥱

princepee:
madam if you can't take of the child send him or her back to her mother.
Don't use another man's child as slave that's wickedness!
Send him or back ASAP

Don't forget to indicate that the mother who sent them out to be slaves -- she and the men who had them with no plans to cater for them -- is the greater evil in all of this.

femi4:
Dear men..do not allow women to pressure you. Be yourself

A woman pressured him into not using birth control until child #5, all on an okada rider's pay? Una no well at all!

yemmit90:
➜You are wrong by your prediction about them, the outcome of future cannot always be predetermined by the present circumstances.
The chances they will make it or miserable is still 50/50. Alot of things happened along the journey of life that change some people lives for good. If his wife can judiciously use the money realised from the sales of his Bike by venturing into profitable business, they will live ok.

With the poverty rate now at over 85% when only 20 years ago, it was still hovering at about 60%, you would still want us to believe that the outcome for those living in abject poverty in Nigeria remains rosy, abi? Make una continue! 🥱🥱

inyass2580:
Hw many kids u dad
Ur grandpa gave birth to

We al lazy youth as buhari says den

Ur wealth is measure wt numbers of kids nd wives u can manage and controled.. na billings and civilization spoil tins for us

None of our grandpa marry notin less dan 2 wives here

So wats our problem to jst manage only one wife

When we say people should not have too many children, shey dem attack me then? Say four children is okay. If he had just a child, this wouldn't have happened. Use contraceptives. Undergo vasectomy. Use condoms!

I have nothing else to say.

God sees us all...

princepee:
madam if you can't take of the child send him or her back to her mother.
Don't use another man's child as slave that's wickedness!
Send him or back ASAP

Did I ask for the child in the first place, if I wanted the child I would have given birth to a third child ...
Since she's refused to be cautious of the number of children to have, the offsprings she shuns out will be given what they rightly deserved, I don't have any sentiments or pity to give anybody...
Abi u think say I go dey pretend for here.

zuby4real10:
May his soul rest in peace. But how can someone of 30 years has 5kids. Except if not all of them them are his biological children.

Ten years ago, this post would have been unthinkable, but today, it is a reality.

Thank you Buhari and God bless Bola Ahmed Tinubu!

Emi Lokan!!!!!!!!

OneCandleAway:
I think one day we'll discuss the fact that s.ex is the most affordable form of recreation for a poor man.

Then such women should take long term contraceptives.

It solves the issue of having too many children.

Laalasticla:
Exactly , like my soon to be ex husband's elder brother who died of liver cancer, he had five children he couldn't take care of before he died, after his death, his wife still go open tutu for two different men and still have two extra children, now she comes dey share the children everywhere make them dey do house maid..
One of her children lives with us, and there own family expects me to take care of her and treat her as my own child...
Me wey be say na only two I get and I have to do more than 8 abortions in this marriage cos I'm no longer interested in having children....
Na everyday me dey curse the woman o and trust me , to a smaller extent ,I'm using the girl as the slave her parents wanted the children to be....
Not the child's fault but she's suffering the sins of the parents....
Nothing concern me

This harms your womb and hormones in the long run. There are long-term female contraceptives.

So many abortions are unhealthy.

Kobojunkie:
With the poverty rate now at over 85% when only 20 years ago, it was still hovering at about 60%, you would still want us to believe that the outcome for those living in abject poverty in Nigeria remains rosy, abi? Make una continue! 🥱🥱

Many of our people have issues with research, projections and numbers.

They live based on vibes and Insha Allah.

lailo:
dem no dey tell person.
Meanwhile let the wife too continue where he stopped. She will appreciate the person she used to call useless now

Worst she go share the children give relatives as your own people too dey give children to relative when their father die .
Hahahahahahahahaha..
U go tire