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AngelSlay:
Emotional burnout.
Most people don’t truly understand how deep and exhausting it is—physically, mentally, emotionally—until they experience it firsthand. From the outside, it can look like laziness or lack of motivation, but when you're in it, even simple tasks feel overwhelming. It's not just tiredness—it's emptiness.

Well for me it's having a family to feed and when business goes south or one loses out his capital with no means to feed family. That can be very bad and hurtful. And then the family and maybe spouse begins to look down on the man. This for me is terrible among other things.

ukaface:
I want to experience this

I can give it you right now

AngelSlay:
Emotional burnout.
Most people don’t truly understand how deep and exhausting it is—physically, mentally, emotionally—until they experience it firsthand. From the outside, it can look like laziness or lack of motivation, but when you're in it, even simple tasks feel overwhelming. It's not just tiredness—it's emptiness.

The sting of a scorpion.

Death of a family member.

When I experienced it firsthand, I now knew what it is to lose a loved one.

Aydot99:
When you are in naija and your sis sends you just 10k like it's one big money, you get pissed of. But when you get to UK your self, you send people 5k

99thEnemy:
Exactly.

Someone used to tell me "Its all in your head" until she experienced it too.

I was glad she did experience it. That was the only way she could understand the feeling.

ChybuzzDD:
There's nothing like miracle.
If it's not by your effort, it's by someone else effort or by chance & time(even the Bible talks about time and chance deciding things).

The fact that i successfully passed through a particular spot, and a minute later, a tree falls on the next guy that tried to pass, doesn't make it a miracle on my own part.
It simply means i wasn't at that particular place at that particular time.
If i were there at that particular time like the other guy, i would face the same fate.
Miracle would mean that the tree got suspended on the air and remained there until i successfully passed before it would then complete its fall.

You don't understand it because you have not experienced it.
You are a perfect example of people who don't understand it.

Day169:
Impacted stool.. your inability to poo despite a strong urge and pain. It gives me an inkling of what women go through at childbirth!

One thing I don't want to experience again

Galactics:
Pray you won't need one one day.

u dey mind am to even reply

MARRIAGE

HacheNoire:
Racism.

You never know how much it hurts until you experience it.

Tribalism in Nigeria which is worse than racism.

ChybuzzDD:
There's nothing like miracle.
If it's not by your effort, it's by someone else effort or by chance & time(even the Bible talks about time and chance deciding things).

The fact that i successfully passed through a particular spot, and a minute later, a tree falls on the next guy that tried to pass, doesn't make it a miracle on my own part.
It simply means i wasn't at that particular place at that particular time.
If i were there at that particular time like the other guy, i would face the same fate.
Miracle would mean that the tree got suspended on the air and remained there until i successfully passed before it would then complete its fall.

I pray you experience it soon so that you can believe miracles exist.

Chronic Hemorrhoids

Misfortune. Through a miscalculated business move I bled 7.2 mil in cash over a space of 18days., worse of during this economic hardship, I was so confident on the move that I didn't even bother owning a motor bike for myself as e collapse I see shege plus plus, even my own immediate family used it as a tool to taunt me. Through Godwill and hardwork I am picking up every day. It's when you don't have that you see people's true colors.

New Nigeria Tax Law

APC as nd tinibu

Dysmenorrhoea, labour, PTSD

That health is wealth

Double0h7:
Multiple orgasms 😱

Like how....as lady or as a man?

Omotaday:
Lol you were making sense until the bolded. You described it like you were there when it happened, something you cannot proof.

I don't need to make sense to you, besides I don't see the bolded you are referring to

Salvation i.e being born again.

Mental health issues


Mental health issues.


I repeat: mental health issues

ChybuzzDD:
There's nothing like miracle.
If it's not by your effort, it's by someone else effort or by chance & time(even the Bible talks about time and chance deciding things).

The fact that i successfully passed through a particular spot, and a minute later, a tree falls on the next guy that tried to pass, doesn't make it a miracle on my own part.
It simply means i wasn't at that particular place at that particular time.
If i were there at that particular time like the other guy, i would face the same fate.
Miracle would mean that the tree got suspended on the air and remained there until i successfully passed before it would then complete its fall.

It's this complex state of mind that'll rob of true miracles even when you experience it.

and y'all forgot to mention WIKLOW abi WICKLO
.
Dah shhii fit make pesin wan exit life.

and y'all forgot to mention WIKLOW abi na WICKLO sef....dunno the spelling sef
.
Dah shhii fit make pesin wan exit life.

Total burn out.

I can mention about three

Orphaned
Raising teenagers
Poverty until you experience these three, you'll never know what's it's like.

clockwisereport:
Death of a loved one.

I never understood the reason people grief at the death of a loved one until I lost my elder bro. The thing scatter my brain

even people who console you with a genuine "I know how you feel" don't truly know how you feel until they are able to convince you with their own experience.

I can relate.

sajb:
Chronic Hemorrhoids

Lol
na people wey muscle full their body dey xperience this one wella plus too much of starchy food I think

ChybuzzDD:
There's nothing like miracle.
If it's not by your effort, it's by someone else effort or by chance & time(even the Bible talks about time and chance deciding things).

The fact that i successfully passed through a particular spot, and a minute later, a tree falls on the next guy that tried to pass, doesn't make it a miracle on my own part.
It simply means i wasn't at that particular place at that particular time.
If i were there at that particular time like the other guy, i would face the same fate.
Miracle would mean that the tree got suspended on the air and remained there until i successfully passed before it would then complete its fall.

You haven't experienced it.

See?

You just proved the whole.point of the thread!

Focusmind:
Unemployment

This is very devastating if you don't have any social support or any support system and responsibilities are staring you in the face.

I'm currently facing this although I am a fresh graduate. Three weeks after sign out, I'm tired already and feeling bored