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Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by helinues: 7:05pm On Sep 28, 2025
Sorry nobody. Dem never born that person well to show up at my door unnoticed
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Christlike01: 7:06pm On Sep 28, 2025
Pootle:
my mom, anytime any day

but i get one werey friend wey dey come my house anytime em like. but when i got married i tell never to try am
How about your Dad — he can't visit you without booking an appointment,right?
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:08pm On Sep 28, 2025
Chilipepper:
Who is the one person allowed to show up at your place unannounced?
Not a soul.

I don't know anyone who will just start coming to my home without letting me know.

Even my wife sef, if she travel, she dey call tell me say she don dey come back. My son wey go Church programme sef, he go call tell us say e don dey return.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Btruth: 7:09pm On Sep 28, 2025
My siblings. No more parents though 😭
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Sep 28, 2025
His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR)
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:09pm On Sep 28, 2025
Christlike01:
How about your Dad — he can't visit you without booking an appointment,right?
Even my Mom won't come unannounced. I must know when she's coming, because na me go arrange her journey.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by DoctorAyukebot(m): 7:10pm On Sep 28, 2025
Years back anyone could really drop by anytime any day and feel welcome. These days a lot has changed and I have become the friendly guy without friends
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Ishilove: 7:11pm On Sep 28, 2025
My loved ones. Anyone outside that circle should dey their dey abeg
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by efembaba(m): 7:16pm On Sep 28, 2025
Only my mum. Any other person must call me at least three weeks prior to the day that want to come.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by captaininiobong(m): 7:19pm On Sep 28, 2025
Kajaard:
Na wah for you oh bros righteousness. We know Jesus is our lord and saviour. The op is refering to earthly being not devine being.
Nigga always spiritualize everything
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Nefort: 7:28pm On Sep 28, 2025
Double0h7:
My default rule is no one but if you catch me in the right mood, on the right day, in a blessed month then I might open the door. I don’t drop in on people and I don’t like my personal space invaded without prior approval.
You don't look Nigerian. Where are you from?
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Ewedegubbler: 7:31pm On Sep 28, 2025
All my brothers and my ex jds. My doors are always open to them
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by SmartPolician: 7:32pm On Sep 28, 2025
Natbrowny:
My Pops anyday, anytym. Even if i dey straff or dey party inside my place.

Once he show up, i bill am straight, baba dey drop. 😂
See the kind people wey full for Nairaland.

People wey dey still chop mama, thank you

Chai cry cry cry
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by ThaThinka: 7:35pm On Sep 28, 2025
Probably my brother who lives in the same part of the state I am resident in.

If you live far from me or we're not that close, I don't expect you to show up unexpectedly. My dear mum lives far from me, so... smiley
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Obviouslyblunt: 7:36pm On Sep 28, 2025
My Dad.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by gigabyte13: 7:39pm On Sep 28, 2025
Any of my younger ones only...
Not even my pastor or friends is allowed.
Only my younger ones.....
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Silentgroper(m): 7:39pm On Sep 28, 2025
Yankee101:
If you’re an African this isn’t a question
Your family can show up anytime without announcement
Which family..
.oga no other persons u allowed to pop up unannounced except my mum..

I'm a very private person and I don't feel comfortable except it's my mum..

GFs are even the worst to show up unannounced to my place..
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Exponental(m): 7:40pm On Sep 28, 2025
Creditors
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by ayandee: 7:41pm On Sep 28, 2025
Mariangeles:
As long as you're a relative/friend, you're always welcome.
I want to believe that is how most of us were raised.
[The question is even weird, in my opinion]

Now, whether you can stay without prior notice, that is a discussion for another day.
thank you for this comment. I wonder when we started this new culture of friends and families announcing their coming. That's what's causing loneliness and dépression.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by ThaThinka: 7:41pm On Sep 28, 2025
Nefort:
You don't look Nigerian. Where are you from?
You check every profile?
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by donrolex(m): 7:43pm On Sep 28, 2025
Family only, any other person should inform me prior, even my girlfriend
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Nefort: 7:44pm On Sep 28, 2025
ThaThinka:
You check every profile?
Once in a while. Not always.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by APCNig: 7:53pm On Sep 28, 2025
Kajaard:
Na wah for you oh bros righteousness. We know Jesus is our lord and saviour. The op is refering to earthly being not devine being.
You should know by now that only pretenders who are unrepentant serial sinners behave like that Righteousness guy
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by MrDoGood(m): 7:57pm On Sep 28, 2025
Telephone is for what again?


Just call before coming
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by miketayo(m): 7:57pm On Sep 28, 2025
Natbrowny:
My Pops anyday, anytym. Even if i dey straff or dey party inside my place.

Once he show up, i bill am straight, baba dey drop. 😂
Imagine your dad comes unannounced from Abuja all the way to Lagos to see you and you are in Ghana, with nobody at home.
For me everyone has to let me know if you are coming to see me.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by miketayo(m): 7:58pm On Sep 28, 2025
Christlike01:
How about your Dad — he can't visit you without booking an appointment,right?
Its not about appointment. Its just making sure you are at home so they don't waste their time.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by greatiyk4u(m): 7:59pm On Sep 28, 2025
My family
Close friends
Inlaws
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by miketayo(m): 8:00pm On Sep 28, 2025
ayandee:
thank you for this comment. I wonder when we started this new culture of friends and families announcing their coming. That's what's causing loneliness and dépression.
What if you have traveled. So the friend or family will just waste their time.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Procashtips(m): 8:00pm On Sep 28, 2025
No one.

Except you're someone that never plans his or her life/schedule, why should anyone appear at your home or place of work unannounced?

What if I'm not home, at work or no longer live/work there?

You must call or contact me before ever leaving your location, if not, you go sleep outside.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Psoul(m): 8:02pm On Sep 28, 2025
Chilipepper:
Who is the one person allowed to show up at your place unannounced?
All my siblings.
My parents of their still alive.
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