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Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by okrikaboi: 8:02pm On Sep 28, 2025
Nobody at all but I may we very welcoming depending on the circumstances when you arrive. I don't joke with my space.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Comfortableme: 8:03pm On Sep 28, 2025
Natbrowny:
My Pops anyday, anytym. Even if i dey straff or dey party inside my place.

Once he show up, i bill am straight, baba dey drop. 😂
I go like to know you P man o.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by bunnae(f): 8:03pm On Sep 28, 2025
Immediate family.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by ideatoprince18(m): 8:10pm On Sep 28, 2025
Any of my family members!!!
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by DiarisGodoo: 8:12pm On Sep 28, 2025
Kajaard:
Na wah for you oh bros righteousness. We know Jesus is our lord and saviour. The op is refering to earthly being not devine being.
😅
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by TheGift: 8:13pm On Sep 28, 2025
Chilipepper:
Who is the one person allowed to show up at your place unannounced?
My Father. Mother or any of my Siblings, even though, and especially because they would normally not show up , unannounced.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by placeofallure(f): 8:14pm On Sep 28, 2025
You won't believe it, no friend has stepped into my house since I got married. I don't have friends.
My parents don't live in the same state as I, so they tell me beforehand. They hardly come around though.
My siblings do come around but they tell me before they come. They ask before they come, not as a form of asking for permission but they ask to be sure I'd be home cause I'm a workaholic, always on the move.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Bojack(m): 8:16pm On Sep 28, 2025
Nobody grin
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by blaise26abj(m): 8:16pm On Sep 28, 2025
Sorry . No one . I love my peace and tranquility. Always let me know so I can prepare mentally
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by ORIGENAL(m): 8:22pm On Sep 28, 2025
Only Jesus Christ the son of God
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by correctguy101(m): 8:22pm On Sep 28, 2025
Mariangeles:
As long as you're a relative/friend, you're always welcome.
I want to believe that is how most of us were raised.
[The question is even weird, in my opinion]

Now, whether you can stay without prior notice, that is a discussion for another day.
I off my hat for you.

As for me, it's irritating to the max. I don't do that so I expect any sensible person to not do that. Unless there's an emergency, and I mean "emergency", none is allowed to irritate me by showing up unannounced. Only my daughters seems to like doing that oftentimes and for no reason but to "surprise" their daddy. Those small girls no dey hear word.

i no want dem to feel bad so I just keep my dislike to myself.

Smh
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Erickymania(m): 8:23pm On Sep 28, 2025
My parents and my siblings
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by vaxx: 8:23pm On Sep 28, 2025
Chilipepper:
Who is the one person allowed to show up at your place unannounced?
my mom. She can ever tell me where to sleep in my rooms unchallenged .
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Barcalee: 8:24pm On Sep 28, 2025
My family members and few of my friends, and those friends they know themselves.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Mariangeles(f): 8:35pm On Sep 28, 2025
correctguy101:
I off my hat for you.

As for me, it's irritating to the max. I don't do that so I expect any sensible person to not do that. Unless there's an emergency, and I mean "emergency", none is allowed to irritate me by showing up unannounced.
Only my daughters seems to like doing that oftentimes and for no reason but to "surprise" their daddy. Those small girls no dey hear word.

i no want dem to feel bad so I just keep my dislike to myself.

Smh
cheesy
If they don't keep daddy on the edge, who will?
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Teeroyzimma: 8:43pm On Sep 28, 2025
Heffalump:
This is typically gen Z way of reasoning.
Why should you be expecting something from dad always?
this Ageism must stop in this country!

Are Gen Z still kids ?!!! In 2 years time they will clock 30 and you guys are mentioning Gen Z like they're 13 years old, when will this discrimination end?!
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by adams123: 8:45pm On Sep 28, 2025
Righteousness2:
My KING, LORD AND PERSONAL SAVIOUR, JESUS CHRIST
see this one ooo
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Mariangeles(f): 8:48pm On Sep 28, 2025
Btruth:
My siblings. No more parents though 😭
You [and your siblings] will always have God.
You can never lose God.
Remember that.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by tyinfinity: 8:49pm On Sep 28, 2025
All my relatives
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by NOETHNICITY(m): 8:51pm On Sep 28, 2025
We are Africans—we welcome all and everyone all the time to our homes.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by flokii: 8:59pm On Sep 28, 2025
Show up as how?.. is it casual visit or coming to stay for a while?
I don't have issue with anyone coming to my place.. but if you plan to stay and chill, you should pre-inform me at least.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by JobAndVacancies: 9:12pm On Sep 28, 2025
Mariangeles:
As long as you're a relative/friend, you're always welcome.
I want to believe that is how most of us were raised.
[The question is even weird, in my opinion]

Now, whether you can stay without prior notice, that is a discussion for another day.
your sugar daddy
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by JobAndVacancies: 9:13pm On Sep 28, 2025
Kajaard:
My mom since popsi is late
same here boss
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by olabrad: 9:21pm On Sep 28, 2025
Double0h7:
My default rule is no one but if you catch me in the right mood, on the right day, in a blessed month then I might open the door. I don’t drop in on people and I don’t like my personal space invaded without prior approval.
I'll love to meet you. If pretty is a person, it'll be you!!!
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by ayandee: 9:30pm On Sep 28, 2025
miketayo:
What if you have traveled. So the friend or family will just waste their time.
i get your point. They can call to know if you are around but some are so close to you they can predict your movement. Those ones should be able to drop by anytime.
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by HRTOFAKNG(m): 9:44pm On Sep 28, 2025
My Ex, weh leave me when things wer roughed.😠 Make she come see say level don change! 😁
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Princeton92(m): 9:47pm On Sep 28, 2025
OYONUDE!!!
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by InvertedHammer: 9:53pm On Sep 28, 2025
Kajaard:
Na wah for you oh bros righteousness. We know Jesus is our lord and saviour. The op is refering to earthly being not devine being.
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This is why we must appreciate Ebuka Obi for building the Psychiatric hospital. Mr Righteousness sounds like he is frustrated with life on earth grin

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Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by sprints1: 10:05pm On Sep 28, 2025
My secondary school crush angry grin grin grin grin
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Advancedman(m): 10:07pm On Sep 28, 2025
Responsible individuals
Re: Who Is The One Person Allowed To Show Up At Your Place Unannounced? by Laalasticla: 10:11pm On Sep 28, 2025
Nobody, if you must come to my place, u need to inform me before hand, Im an introvert and I don't like people barging into my space unannounced... cool
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