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Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Softmirror: 5:20pm On Sep 30, 2025
What he is trying to tell men is that marring ugly women guarantees peace of mind unlike beautiful women. Lol 😂.

Men are forever confuse and very insecure.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by grandstar(m): 5:26pm On Sep 30, 2025
He focused more on the secret person of the heart,

Kudos to him.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by naijapikin2(m): 5:27pm On Sep 30, 2025
This is a crystal clear case of
.
INFERIORITY COMPLEX 😎

if you gat game..

You gat game bro
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by omoredia: 5:32pm On Sep 30, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Na so e suppose be.........If not for the fact that I owe my future kids a debt of a pretty mom,I don't think I'd have had any business with a pretty banny in the first place,let alone a fair one in complexion angry

I've equally noticed it about all my married nighas cool. Especially the handsome ones who were players back then angry. They all ended up marrying scare crows for the sake of their peace of mind angry

Reminds me of the story of one of my uncle whose Beautiful wives were all snatched away from him by wealthy men angry. He ended up marrying a crippled woman so that no man could look her way......That was when and how he finally found peace of mind and enjoyed his marriage till the end of his days on earth..

As a man, whether you agree with the man in the Op's post or not,but the truth is that marrying a pretty wife has the highest probability that many men would wanna steal her away from you angry. And I can't imagine myself hustling and struggling to put food on my table and the same time be thinking of fighting my fellow men over a lose woman angry
That means u be like toad 😆
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Konquest: 5:33pm On Sep 30, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Na so e suppose be.........If not for the fact that I owe my future kids a debt of a pretty mom,I don't think I'd have had any business with a pretty banny in the first place,let alone a fair one in complexion angry

I've equally noticed it about all my married nighas cool. Especially the handsome ones who were players back then angry. They all ended up marrying scare crows for the sake of their peace of mind angry

Reminds me of the story of one of my uncle whose Beautiful wives were all snatched away from him by wealthy men angry. He ended up marrying a crippled woman so that no man could look her way......That was when and how he finally found peace of mind and enjoyed his marriage till the end of his days on earth..

As a man, whether you agree with the man in the Op's post or not,but the truth is that marrying a pretty wife has the highest probability that many men would wanna steal her away from you angry. And I can't imagine myself hustling and struggling to put food on my table and the same time be thinking of fighting my fellow men over a lose woman angry
That cracked me up... Marrying scare crows? It ain't that deep.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Konquest: 5:33pm On Sep 30, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Na so e suppose be.........If not for the fact that I owe my future kids a debt of a pretty mom,I don't think I'd have had any business with a pretty banny in the first place,let alone a fair one in complexion angry

I've equally noticed it about all my married nighas cool. Especially the handsome ones who were players back then angry. They all ended up marrying scare crows for the sake of their peace of mind angry

Reminds me of the story of one of my uncle whose Beautiful wives were all snatched away from him by wealthy men angry. He ended up marrying a crippled woman so that no man could look her way......That was when and how he finally found peace of mind and enjoyed his marriage till the end of his days on earth..

As a man, whether you agree with the man in the Op's post or not,but the truth is that marrying a pretty wife has the highest probability that many men would wanna steal her away from you angry. And I can't imagine myself hustling and struggling to put food on my table and the same time be thinking of fighting my fellow men over a lose woman angry
That cracked me up... "Ended up marrying scare crows?" It ain't that deep.

In reality, men have to learn to up their inner games in order to be emotionally appealing to their women and NOT end up settling into a major relationship RUT down the road. With that, women are easier to understand on the basic instinct level. NO woman who's got an "emotional connection" with you would leave you for another dude. It is what it is.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Mayeldah(m): 5:34pm On Sep 30, 2025
Now that you have worked on her and advertising her, they still snatch her from you
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by adamkkk: 5:35pm On Sep 30, 2025
Why do some men see women as Commodities. How can u gamble or predict a woman's turn up ?
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by MarkNsukkaBread: 5:36pm On Sep 30, 2025
Mayeldah:
Now that you have worked on her and advertising her, they still snatch her from you
No mind am, him eye go soon clear grin
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Hismajesty44: 5:39pm On Sep 30, 2025
Men sleeping with other people's wives are here on nairaland trying to protect their own wives from other men, I just dey laugh! My friend you can't eat your cake and still have it. Nature know best why our sex organs are unmetered.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by JimD(m): 5:44pm On Sep 30, 2025
It's a character and values problem, not about beauty or ugliness. I've seen pretty ladies with the most virtuous characters and ugly, mannerless ladies that are just too loose. In fact, I see much of the later.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by InsteadOf: 5:51pm On Sep 30, 2025
Chilipepper:
I married my wife when her looks was not in the best form because I was sure I’ll enjoy peace and tranquillity — Engineer Shares
Instead Of Thinking In This Manner For Marriage,

Marry A Woman Who Possess "Loyalty And Respect."
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Kobojunkie: 5:54pm On Sep 30, 2025
adamkkk:
Why do some men see women as Commodities. How can u gamble or predict a woman's turn up ?
Many boys are raised into men who are convinced in their own minds that women are toys they are born with the ability to manipulate and use as they see fit. undecided
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by femi4: 6:00pm On Sep 30, 2025
Chilipepper:
I married my wife when her looks was not in the best form because I was sure I’ll enjoy peace and tranquillity — Engineer Shares
yinmu

Beauty fades with time
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by 82man: 6:01pm On Sep 30, 2025
The real G.o.a.t is teaching us something new
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Nobody: 6:07pm On Sep 30, 2025
I don't understand the message. So low that she's beautiful shouldn't your peace of mind be threatened, because you married her urgly for peace of mind. Why are you celebrating instead of being scared
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by georgeakins: 6:08pm On Sep 30, 2025
Antoeni:
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Because No Functional Government That Protects Lives & Properties
No Functional Legislation That Reflects Nigerians Interest.
No Functional Justice System to Help Prove Your Innocence.

May Nigeria Never Happen to You
RIP SOMTOCHUKWU CHRISTELLE MADUAGWU
My blother, you don carry your wailing come here.
How is your wailing related to the topic?

Just prepare for intense wailing, come 2027.
You go wail tire!
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by kiddaz: 6:15pm On Sep 30, 2025
We4all:
Story for the gods! In actual sense, men chase after women who are morally loose and give them greenlight. When I was in Uni, the most chased after girl in my department was physically unappealing with a macho body. However, she was a big flirt and many guys used it as an advantage. As a woman, if you carry yourself with elegance and dignity, men will get the message and accord you the respect you deserve
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by luminouz(m): 6:31pm On Sep 30, 2025
We4all:
Story for the gods! In actual sense, men chase after women who are morally loose and give them greenlight. When I was in Uni, the most chased after girl in my department was physically unappealing with a macho body. However, she was a big flirt and many guys used it as an advantage. As a woman, if you carry yourself with elegance and dignity, men will get the message and accord you the respect you deserve.
*Coughs*
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by luminouz(m): 6:32pm On Sep 30, 2025
koladata:
Pretty ladies have the most beautify heart, once they love you , they stick with you. But we confuse half nude dress ladies as being pretty. I'm talking about Cinderella kind of beauty. Those ones that when you meet them you won't even remember a lady should have breast of yansh. Their beautiful face is so distractive that you admire God's artistic work. That kind of beauty, they are usually beautified inside and outside, and they will give you rest of mind. Less attractive women give the most problem self
What in the world are you saying?
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by 3neetee: 6:43pm On Sep 30, 2025
Chilipepper:
I married my wife when her looks was not in the best form because I was sure I’ll enjoy peace and tranquillity — Engineer Shares
Wey the pishure
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by 2mch(m): 6:50pm On Sep 30, 2025
If you marry someone you are not attracted to, the marriage will never ever last. You will keep going around looking for the person that will stay. Attraction is very important in marriage.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by caesymore(m): 7:07pm On Sep 30, 2025
We4all:
Story for the gods! In actual sense, men chase after women who are morally loose and give them greenlight. When I was in Uni, the most chased after girl in my department was physically unappealing with a macho body. However, she was a big flirt and many guys used it as an advantage. As a woman, if you carry yourself with elegance and dignity, men will get the message and accord you the respect you deserve.
That depends on what a Man want from a woman.

If a Man wants just a score, he goes for the morally loosed wey dey give green light as you mentioned, then for a wife the case is different.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Jman06(m): 7:11pm On Sep 30, 2025
As for me o, I'll marry a pretty lady that I'm attracted to 100%. If she gives me peace of mind I'll return same to her but if she chooses to be troublesome, I'll send her home to her parents provided she has birthed my offsprings.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by bixton(m): 7:29pm On Sep 30, 2025
Samantha125:
So what now made her beautiful? I guess she went under the knife and he considers her botched body as beautiful.
Nope, not everyone has to go for botched bodys'.

There are women who not good looking physically but when they marry the right husband who takes care and loves them, you'll be amazed at how her physical looks will change for the best.
I have seen such.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Squirrel1(m): 8:12pm On Sep 30, 2025
koladata:
Pretty ladies have the most beautify heart, once they love you , they stick with you. But we confuse half nude dress ladies as being pretty. I'm talking about Cinderella kind of beauty. Those ones that when you meet them you won't even remember a lady should have breast of yansh. Their beautiful face is so distractive that you admire God's artistic work. That kind of beauty, they are usually beautified inside and outside, and they will give you rest of mind. Less attractive women give the most problem self
I swear.... Beautiful gurl or nothing. Imagine she con ugly and him no get get peace of mind. Na die 😂
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by bobolaga: 8:23pm On Sep 30, 2025
You are real men, you know how to make your choice, some men do not know that, women are like flowers that some time fade away, but the natural beauty never fade even if she give birth to 10 children.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Kobojunkie: 8:26pm On Sep 30, 2025
bixton:
➜Nope, not everyone has to go for botched bodys'. There are women who not good looking physically but when they marry the right husband who takes care and loves them, you'll be amazed at how her physical looks will change for the best. I have seen such.
I can't believe some folks would rather trade sanity for delusions. Where did you see these inhuman beings? undecided
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Kobojunkie:
bobolaga:
➜You are real men, you know how to make your choice, some men do not know that, women are like flowers that some time fade away, but the natural beauty never fade even if she give birth to 10 children.
See nonsense African reasoning in 2025! 😏

If the woman was naturally beautiful, and pregnancy did not steal it from her— not saying pregnancy did not inflict any damage to her body in such a case— how can the man be to take glory for any of that? 🥱🥱🥱
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by We4all: 9:22pm On Sep 30, 2025
luminouz:
*Coughs*
Ha..ha..ha...
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by We4all: 9:24pm On Sep 30, 2025
luminouz:
What in the world are you saying?
Lol...He got me confused too.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Bjornson01(m): 9:30pm On Sep 30, 2025
Kobicove:
I'm sure what the OP meant to say that his wife was not exposed to money when he married her but now that she has access to plenty of money she can spend more money to update her appearance which has made her more beautiful and appealing
Nice!! I mean alot of people don't read to understand.
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