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Nigerian preacher and motivational speaker Pastor Tolu Odukoya has confirmed that her marriage has ended, addressing weeks of speculation from followers and church members. Eyes Of Lagos reports,
Emotional Revelation

Speaking on her official podcast, Truth Table With Toluwani, Pastor Tolu shared that her marriage quietly ended due to circumstances beyond her control. She described the experience as profoundly painful:

“Most people don’t know that my husband and I have separated due to circumstances beyond my control. You don’t get into a marriage to leave a marriage. When your marriage is over, it is like a death.”

She also opened up about enduring multiple personal losses over a short period, saying:

“I have experienced a couple of deaths: the death of my marriage, my stepmom, my dad, and my dad’s twin sister. All these happened within 24 months (2021–2023).”

Speaking Kindly of Her Ex-Husband

Despite the separation, Pastor Tolu spoke warmly about her former spouse, describing him as a “great man.” She emphasized that sometimes, even with love and effort, two people may not be divinely ordained to remain together, making the continuation of a marriage difficult.

Public Reaction

Her revelation has generated widespread discussion online, with many expressing sympathy and support. Followers praised her transparency and honesty in sharing such a personal chapter of her life.

https://eyesoflagos.com/pastor-tolu-odukoya-confirms-collapse-of-her-marriage/

LagosOrigin:
Who made this stripper a pastor

This one is not a pastor

This are the people giving Christianity bad image

You didn't have to call her a stripper.

She inherited the pastoral calling just like other churches are doing.

OneCandleAway:
You didn't have to call her a stripper.

She inherited the pastoral calling just like other churches are doing.

She didn't inherit any calling from anyone .. she looks irresponsible to be called a pastor .

LagosOrigin:
Who made this stripper a pastor

This one is not a pastor

This are the people giving Christianity bad image

You have to talk politely within the confinement of the scripture, but you are going too far judging her. Leave judgement to God and face your own life that is resonating with hatred. We have never even seen a better version example of Christianity to emulate in you either because all we see that come through you is hatred of anything Tinubu, south west,APC, Buhari.

Jesus never hated anybody! Jesus brought love. You keep enjoying south west peace, and resources but yet you keep hating anything that has to do with their progress. You even suddenly romance El-rufai that you once termed jihadist, terrorist, Fullani herdsman, body bag, Igbo haters just because of hatred you have for Tinubu, Buhari, APC. But the interesting thing is that the more you hate them, the more you keep becoming a perpetual political loosers as promotion keeps coming to people you hate with passion.

LagosOrigin:
Who made this stripper a pastor

This one is not a pastor

This are the people giving Christianity bad image

So you are judging her based on just one picture ?lol

FarahAideed:
So you are judging her based on just one picture ?lol

What does the Bible say about a woman dressed like this?

sreamsense:
You have to talk politely within the confinement of the scripture, but you are going too far judging her. Leave judgement to God and face your own life that is resonating with hatred. We have never even seen a better version example of Christianity to emulate in you either because all we see that come through you is hatred of anything Tinubu, south west,APC, Buhari.

Jesus never hated anybody! Jesus brought love. You keep enjoying south west peace, and resources but yet you keep hating anything that has to do with their progress. You even suddenly romance El-rufai that you once termed jihadist, terrorist, Fullani herdsman, body bag, Igbo haters just because of hatred you have for Tinubu, Buhari, APC. But the interesting thing is that the more you hate them, the more you keep becoming a perpetual political loosers as promotion keeps coming to people you hate with passion.

The comments by LagosOrigin doesn’t mean that he hates her

Also, why do some of you see everything as judging? Would you have said he shouldn’t judge her if he had praised or commended her?

Again, you should stop using Jesus as someone who accepted everything. No. He sent people out of the synagogue. What is bad is bad. A pastor should look the part.

For example, does it make sense for a naked person to call himself or herself a pastor. Stop justifying everything. The Bible is clear on so many things but people do selective reading

Oh, this one was not addressed to me. So, a women should not cover her head while in church. But the same Old Testament talks about paying of tithes. Right?

FarahAideed:
So you are judging her based on just one picture ?lol

It should be up to one million pictures? Is the one picture not hers?

Funny

zoedew:
What does the Bible say about a woman dressed like this?

You dey mind them?

They want to eat their cake and have it

They will soon launch into a meaningless drivel about how Jesus loves everyone and how you should not judge

Meanwhile, Jesus loves but didn’t accept everything

They lap up judgement when it’s positive and suits them but reject it once it’s a criticism

LagosOrigin:
Who made this stripper a pastor

This one is not a pastor

This are the people giving Christianity bad image

That is a photoshoot for her 40th Bday. The outfit has a body-coloured lining underneath so she is not displaying flesh. Also it is a full-length dress.

I am not surprised at your ungracious talk though as it is in character for you to use your uncouth mouth to run down anything and anyone Yoruba.

It is only confirmed personal conduct, such as immorality and daily scanty dressing, that should warrant anyone calling her the bolded.

When both are not her reality, and the second set of images confirms how she dresses daily, what does such say about you and the motivation behind your false accusation against her?

Which kind mumu dress be this

Choir master go begin ride this Benz

Globad:
The comments by LagosOrigin doesn’t mean that he hates her

Also, why do some of you see everything as judging? Would you have said he shouldn’t judge her if he had praised or commended her?

Again, you should stop using Jesus as someone who accepted everything. No. He sent people out of the synagogue. What is bad is bad. A pastor should look the part.

For example, does it make sense for a naked person to call himself or herself a pastor. Stop justifying everything. The Bible is clear on so many things but people do selective reading

Oh, this one was not addressed to me. So, a women should not cover her head while in church. But the same Old Testament talks about paying of tithes. Right?

It does. You may not know him, but many here do to confirm he hates anything/anyone Yoruba. Check his past posts.

Also check the past post of his other usernames here like SadWaste and PrinceOfLagos. There is nothing in the woman's daily conduct or dressing (see below) to validate anyone rushing to call her a "stripper".

It is wrong, ungracious and wicked to assassinate character of others like that. Decent and objective people refrain from doing such.

Your comment below show you are no better than the person you are defending.

For example, does it make sense for a naked person to call himself or herself a pastor. Stop justifying everything. The Bible is clear on so many things but people do selective reading

Oh, this one was not addressed to me. So, a women should not cover her head while in church. But the same Old Testament talks about paying of tithes. Right?

She is not "naked" and not in church. That was a photograph from a photoshoot for her 40th birthday. She is wearing a full-length dress with a body-coloured lining underneath and clearly not nude.

The above you'd know if an objective person who gave her the benefit of the doubt to do basic research rather than think the worst of her as most puritanical and over-religious Christians do.

You guys never live and let live and aren't greatly different , in my opinion, to moslem fundamentalists drowning Nigeria in death, terrorism and misery currently.

FarahAideed:
So you are judging her based on just one picture ?lol

Look, let's Stop all this wokeness. That dressing says a lot about her.
Who knows why the marriage even crashed. It could be because of her attitude. Probably she cheated on the poor man and broke his heart. This one I'm looking at go like man well well.

zoedew:
What does the Bible say about a woman dressed like this?

Dressing like what exactly? She is not nude, as the full-length dress she is wearing has a body-coloured lining underneath it.

Also, that is a photoshoot for her 40th bday. Is she not a human being allowed to be decently glamorous on her most special day of the year?

She commits no sin nor crime. You are the one who should look in the mirror honestly for possessing a prejudiced mind eager to rush and judge others wrongly.

Globad:
The comments by LagosOrigin doesn’t mean that he hates her

Also, why do some of you see everything as judging? Would you have said he shouldn’t judge her if he had praised or commended her?

Again, you should stop using Jesus as someone who accepted everything. No. He sent people out of the synagogue. What is bad is bad. A pastor should look the part.

For example, does it make sense for a naked person to call himself or herself a pastor. Stop justifying everything. The Bible is clear on so many things but people do selective reading

Oh, this one was not addressed to me. So, a women should not cover her head while in church. But the same Old Testament talks about paying of tithes. Right?

You did not even comprehend the message you responded to. I quoted the person I directed my message to because he knew what I was talking about. I did not use "hatred" to describe his talk to pastor she commented about, but I used "hatred" regarding his many years of observation about anything south west, Buhari, Tinubu, APC. Unfortunately, you never knew why I used the word "hatred" before you commented on message I did not direct to you. If I want my message to be general, I will post it without quoting him alone.

However, you are quoting and interpreting Bible wrongly out of context for another event that has nothing to do with buying and selling in the church that Jesus drove out. You have forgotten that Jesus ate food even with sinners and never judged a woman caught in adultery that people were about judging in accordance with Moses commandment. You never understand weather that picture that he and you judge her with maybe her night dress in her house or something she wore in her home as night dress or casual outfit for her husband alone (..you can see that the image was imposedselfie.or edited on two horses background or can she ride two life horses together like that?).

What gives you assurance she wore that cloth to public place? Until you hear her directly talking about the picture and the cloth, you may not understand if it was deliberate. The person that put the picture may just pull out any random image he or she could find. That picture may not be with her approval. But unfortunately, you and her already judged the matter before you wait for more reason. The hatred of the man you are defending does not just start today, he knows what I am talking about which you don't know but defending what you don't understand

LagosOrigin:
Who made this stripper a pastor

Jesus died for sinners strippers inclusive

Predictor3:
Look, let's Stop all this wokeness. That dressing says a lot about her.
Who knows why the marriage even crashed. It could be because of her attitude. Probably she cheated on the poor man and broke his heart. This one I'm looking at go like man well well.

What "wokeness"? How about you refrain from talking as if we are in 1862? She is wearing a full-length dress, that even resembles a glamorous wedding gown, that has a body-coloured lining underneath at a photoshhot for her 40th bday. Dude, are you serious?

Problem is that most of you are kids lacking the experience and wisdom proper men have had. If you been married and have a wonderful wife who has given you three kids, you would not begrudge her a photoshoot on her birthday where she dons a glamorous but decent dress that makes her feel good on her special day even if she is Mother Teresa.

Everything, to include things that should not concern you, Nigerians will ungraciously put judgemental and bad mouth in.

Imagine even hinting her marriage failed because of her. Could it not be for a million reasons to do with the husband like infidelity etc?

This repellent conduct of you lot would not be so bad if most of you are even virtuous and upright in real life, as you pretend to be, whereas the opposite is 100% the case on the ground.

You people should be attacking philandering Pastors like Suleman and his ilk you go and tithe into greater riches, every other day, and not this lady who has done nothing wrong.

Are the comments calling her a stripper...


based on the picture I see above. Or am I missing something?


Anyway, i am sure she counselled married couples as a pastor. This just goes to show that there is no manual to marriage.

The married couple you are looking up to as ideal might just be having issues low key.

No relationships without issues!

Predictor3:
Look, let's Stop all this wokeness. That dressing says a lot about her.
Who knows why the marriage even crashed. It could be because of her attitude. Probably she cheated on the poor man and broke his heart. This one I'm looking at go like man well well.

Why are you asking "who knows" when you already have the answer? You have already turned your "assumption/properbly" to reality or can't you see the list without even confirming that from her husband if she cheated and if she likes man-well well. You can go and toast her too since you knew she like man well well. You are just commenting out of the multitude of your junkie mind. May God forgive you and your ignorance

OneCandleAway:
You didn't have to call her a stripper.

She inherited the pastoral calling just like other churches are doing.

Check his past post, and that of his other aliases here to include SadWaste and PrinceOfLagos, to note no day goes by he does not ungraciously attack the SW region or Yoruba people.

This is someone of Imo State origin yet living in Lagos.

WizardOfNG:
What "wokeness"? How about you refrain from talking as if we are in 1862? She is wearing a full-length dress, that even resembles a glamorous wedding gown, that has a body-coloured lining underneath at a photoshhot for her 40th bday. Dude, are you serious?

Problem is that most of you are kids lacking the experience and wisdom proper men have had. If you been married and have a wonderful wife who has given you three kids, you would not begrudge her a photoshoot on her birthday where she dons a glamorous but decent dress that makes her feel good on her special day even if she is Mother Teresa.

Everything, to include things that should not concern you, Nigerians will ungraciously put judgemental and bad mouth in.

Imagine even hinting her marriage failed because of her. Could it not be for a million reasons to do with the husband like infidelity etc?

This repellent conduct of you lot would not be so bad if most of you are even virtuous and upright in real life, as you pretend to be, whereas the opposite is 100% the case on the ground.

You people should be attacking philandering Pastors like Suleman and his ilk you go and tithe into greater riches, every other day, and not this lady who has done nothing wrong.

She dressed irresponsibly Oga, leave all this Grammer that you're writing here ..

Read the screenshot and tell me if she's a true pastor or one of the fake pastors/prophets that the bible talk about.

I admire pastor Tolu's resilience, dedication, and hardwork as a pastor. She has been through so much losses over the years that can cage any weaker person in depression for a long time. May the Lord strengthen her, encourage her, and help her where she needs it especially as her marriage has also suffered another blow from the devil.

WizardOfNG:
That is a photoshoot for her 40th Bday. The outfit has a body-coloured lining underneath so she is not displaying flesh. Also it is a full-length dress.

I am not surprised at your ungracious talk though as it is in character for you to use your uncouth mouth to run down anything and anyone Yoruba.

It is only confirmed personal conduct, such as immorality and daily scanty dressing, that should warrant anyone calling her the bolded.

When both are not her reality, and the second set of images confirms how she dresses daily, what does such say about you and the motivation behind your false accusation against her?

Oga and you assume everyone will have the time to be checking her other photos like you do. Mere looking at the photos from afar without looking at it closely shows it looks too saucy. Yes one photo can be use to judge someone and this dress isn't cool at all. She's a pastor so she should know better, I know that people like her know what they are doing. No be woman again.

sreamsense:
You did not even comprehend the message you responded to. I quoted the person I directed my message to because he knew what I was talking about. I did not use "hatred" to describe his talk to pastor she commented about, but I used "hatred" regarding his many years of observation about anything south west, Buhari, Tinubu, APC. Unfortunately, you never knew why I used the word "hatred" before you commented on message I did not direct to you. If I want my message to be general, I will post it without quoting him alone.

However, you are quoting and interpreting Bible wrongly out of context for another event that has nothing to do with buying and selling in the church that Jesus drove out. You have forgotten that Jesus ate food even with sinners and never judged a woman caught in adultery that people were about judging in accordance with Moses commandment. You never understand weather that picture that he and you judge her with maybe her night dress in her house or something she wore in her home as night dress or casual outfit for her husband alone (..you can see that the image was imposedselfie.or edited on two horses background or can she ride two life horses together like that?).

What gives you assurance she wore that cloth to public place? Until you hear her directly talking about the picture and the cloth, you may not understand if it was deliberate. The person that put the picture may just pull out any random image he or she could find. That picture may not be with her approval. But unfortunately, you and her already judged the matter before you wait for more reason. The hatred of the man you are defending does not just start today, he knows what I am talking about which you don't know but defending what you don't understand

Don't let these people drag you into dirty mud that is their own natural best habitat. She wore the dress for a private photoshoot for her 40th bday.

The only issues with wearing that dress in public would be that it would be too glamorous, and suited to a Nollywood award night for example, than walking around Shoprite.

From decent dressing perspective, nothing wrong with it at all. Long-sleeved, full-length and with a body coloured lining beneath as even our mothers use with their lace and iro outfit.

She is a decent women who was brough up well, as those familiar with her mother and family can confirm, and dresses as seen below normally and daily when not glamming up for a bday photoshoot as is normal and allowed.

Ah this is serious ooo even the odukoya collect Oya add 40 chars

Christians and hypocrisy.
All the [/b]"Assistant Jesus and Heaven'sGate keepers.".[b] E ka re!
We dey see una handwork 4 here. Nonsense!

God made everything in life simple it's we humans that complicate everything.

They share same faith, she said he's a great man and she's a pastor but can't live together peacefully and stay married?

Something is definitely not adding up and someone isn't telling the truth.

phosky:
“I have experienced a couple of deaths: the death of my marriage, my stepmom, my dad, and my dad’s twin sister. All these happened within 24 months (2021–2023).”

If in 24 months, all these misfortune happened to you, you ought to know that a flood has invaded your space. This is why being a pastor is more than being able to read the Bible, and making a brilliant exposition out of it.
I pray for you that you will recover from all these misfortunes, and that your marriage be restored. 😎

OneCandleAway:
You didn't have to call her a stripper.

She inherited the pastoral calling just like other churches are doing.

Nobody "inherits" pastoral calling.

God does the calling. He doesn't always give a father's mantle to the son. in truth, it rarely happens.

In most cases where it's done, it yields less than perfect results. Can you imagine John Osteen listening to his son saying gays will enter Heaven? He'd probably slap Joel's teeth out.

It's sad that men don't allow God do His thing. It's His Church, until they take control, then it isn't anymore, and they start doing advert, PR, bonding with politicians, preaching messages to please.........

Anyway, lemme come and be going jare, wetin I Sabi?