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Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by JoeEeL(m): 9:52am On Oct 04, 2025
One person don cheat. No waste ur time
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Host78: 9:56am On Oct 04, 2025
Anguldi:
Choir master go begin ride this Benz
we know as e dey be na.

Or na even one married man. It's always another married man once they leave marriage.

It's a funny cycle to watch
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by TRUSTEDGUY: 9:59am On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
Don't let these people drag you into dirty mud that is their own natural best habitat. She wore the dress for a private photoshoot for her 40th bday.

The only issues with wearing that dress in public would be that it would be too glamorous, and suited to a Nollywood award night for example, than walking around Shoprite.

From decent dressing perspective, nothing wrong with it at all. Long-sleeved, full-length and with a body coloured lining beneath as even our mothers use with their lace and iro outfit.

She is a decent women who was brough up well, as those familiar with her mother and family can confirm, and dresses as seen below normally and daily when not glamming up for a bday photoshoot as is normal and allowed.
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For a pastor her dressing no follow at all. It shows are likes and dislikes .
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by bmd1010: 9:59am On Oct 04, 2025
OneCandleAway:
You didn't have to call her a stripper.

She inherited the pastoral calling just like other churches are doing.
was. She a stripper?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Hellisreal70: 9:59am On Oct 04, 2025
Globad:
The comments by LagosOrigin doesn’t mean that he hates her

Also, why do some of you see everything as judging? Would you have said he shouldn’t judge her if he had praised or commended her?

Again, you should stop using Jesus as someone who accepted everything. No. He sent people out of the synagogue. What is bad is bad. A pastor should look the part.

For example, does it make sense for a naked person to call himself or herself a pastor. Stop justifying everything. The Bible is clear on so many things but people do selective reading

Oh, this one was not addressed to me. So, a women should not cover her head while in church. But the same Old Testament talks about paying of tithes. Right?
Don't mind them, they are using the tactics of the devil their master. Always twisting the bible to gaslight.
Is there not the book of judges in the bible?
Did Moses not judge the Israelites severally with penalties?
Did moses not appoint judges over Israel?
Through out the bible, are there not judges in Israel?
What Jesus says is that when you are a sinner, you have no right to point out lesser or equal sin in the life of others, that means he who must go to equity must go with clean hands. Or remove the log in your eyes first before you can see the speck in others eyes.
So a killer, murderer, thief, etc must not be called by their names abi?. If so how can there be repentance without conviction?
Can imam be rearing dogs inside the mosque and not be called out?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by ACRI: 10:00am On Oct 04, 2025
I have said it, lack of emotional intelligence will be the downfall of some people

If you are human being in 2025 and your response to anything good is to attack your life don spoil. Propaganda used post independence will not get you far in this digital age, it makes you look like a damaged vessel beyond repair and the fate of people like Simon Ekpa or whatever that mf is awaits you...

Are you God to judge people as sinners and saints ?? and we know what people like you do offline! Nuisance, I wish the Government will regulate the social media space in Nigeria. It is long due.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Kemijaji: 10:01am On Oct 04, 2025
I wonder o
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Helinuse: 10:02am On Oct 04, 2025
LagosOrigin:
She didn't inherit anything calling from anyone .. she looks irresponsible to be called a pastor .
🤣🤣🤣

Nigerians. You guys are so bold I’m even in stewpeedeetee
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by FreeStuffsNG: 10:03am On Oct 04, 2025
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WizardOfNG: 10:05am On Oct 04, 2025
OKOATA:
Oga rest from this talk. A pastor should not dress like this. Simple. If you like write epistle from morning till night it won't change the fact that the dress is trash.
Go and sit down somewhere. You think it is only your take and opinion on issues that matter?

Is Nigeria better than Sweden, Finland, Germany, UK etal where they are moderate in their Christian worship, and realise, naturally and in moving with the times, that Christianity has to come into modernity?

Contrast with Nigeria where you fundamentalist Christians have your most prominent practitioners and faces of Christianity (i.e Pastors, political leaders etal) being monstrous examples of what Christianity should never be about.

You people are shameless and you don't work with reality. It is why Christianity has become a tool for scamming poor and ordinary folks in Nigeria, so Pastors and religious leaders can be hideously rich, hence the reason every Tom, D.1ck and Harry wants to be a "Pastor ".

Wheareas Christianity remains largely a medium of spiritual development, charity and goodwill towards others and, most importantly, establishing a good and devoted relationship with God who mandates us to live by his ten commandments whereas most Nigerians, including you, never do.

Keep fooling yourself. The proof of how Nigerians are practising Christianity wrong is the ungodly, troubld and poverty-ridden nation we have you hypocrites find convenient to heap all blame for on Tinubu and political leaders.

Not your Pastors who are much worse and never live/lead by Christian example.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by OKOATA(m): 10:06am On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
Go and sit down somewhere. You think it is only your take and opinion on issues that matter?

Is Nigeria better than Sweden, Finland, Germany, UK etal where they are moderate in their Christian worship, and realise, naturally and in moving with the times, that Christianity has to come into modernity?

Contrast with Nigeria where you fundamentalist Christians have your most prominent practitioners and faces of Christianity (i.e Pastors, political leaders etal) being monstrous examples of what Christianity should never be about.

You people are shameless and you don't work with reality. It is why Christianity has become a tool for scamming poor and ordinary folks in Nigeria, so Pastors and religious leaders can be hideously rich, hence the reason every Tom, D.1ck and Harry wants to be a "Pastor ".

Wheareas Christianity remains largely a medium of spiritual development, charity and goodwill towards others and, most importantly, establishing a good and devoted relationship with God who mandates us to live by his ten commandments whereas most Nigerians, including you, never do.

Keep fooling yourself. The proof of how Nigerians are practising Christianity wrong is the ungodly, troubld and poverty-ridden nation we have you hypocrites find convenient to heap all blame for on Tinubu and political leaders.

Not your Pastors who are much worse and never live/lead by Christian example.
It shows you don't have a job. If you have one you won't be typing this long for someone who probably doesn't know you exist.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WizardOfNG: 10:09am On Oct 04, 2025
ACRI:
I have said it, lack of emotional intelligence will be the downfall of some people

If you are human being in 2025 and your response to anything good is to attack your life don spoil. Propaganda used post independence will not get you far in this digital age, it makes you look like a damaged vessel beyond repair and the fate of people like Simon Ekpa or whatever that mf is awaits you...

Are you God to judge people as sinners and saints ?? [b]and we know what people like you do offline! [/b]Nuisance, I wish the Government will regulate the social media space in Nigeria. It is long due.
Absolutely. They are hypocrites and Nigeria is failing because Nigerians ,largely, are a people who are deceptive and hardly ever sincere.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by cucumbar: 10:11am On Oct 04, 2025
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Bellotelli: 10:13am On Oct 04, 2025
sreamsense:
You have to talk politely within the confinement of the scripture, but you are going too far judging her. Leave judgement to God and face your own life that is resonating with hatred. We have never even seen a better version example of Christianity to emulate in you either because all we see that come through you is hatred of anything Tinubu, south west,APC, Buhari.

Jesus never hated anybody! Jesus brought love. You keep enjoying south west peace, and resources but yet you keep hating anything that has to do with their progress. You even suddenly romance El-rufai that you once termed jihadist, terrorist, Fullani herdsman, body bag, Igbo haters just because of hatred you have for Tinubu, Buhari, APC. But the interesting thing is that the more you hate them, the more you keep becoming a perpetual political loosers as promotion keeps coming to people you hate with passion.
Sharrap boy, you are blabbing. What is wrong is wrong. I saw those pictures and shook my head.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WizardOfNG: 10:13am On Oct 04, 2025
OKOATA:
It shows you don't have a job. If you have one you won't be typing this long for someone who probably doesn't know you exist.
Lol. Is anything I typed a lie or wrong? You nko? Do you have a job? Let me guess.You are a Pastor of a church named something like "Holy miracle and fulfilment Ministry of Christ" or "Mountains of Miracle and achievement Church".

Nigeria is the way it is because of people like you.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by boxypane: 10:14am On Oct 04, 2025
LagosOrigin:
She didn't inherit anything calling from anyone .. she looks irresponsible to be called a pastor .
Look at that dressing up close before you start insulting...
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Druss(m): 10:15am On Oct 04, 2025
Her dressing is not in line with expectations. I laugh and mark a red flag when I see people misuse the 'do not judge' quote.

A naked man is coming down the road with cutlass and spit at the edge of his mouth - you would not judge?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Sagacity10(m): 10:15am On Oct 04, 2025
LagosOrigin:
She didn't inherit anything calling from anyone .. she looks irresponsible to be called a pastor .
And who made you a judge over others..huh Meanwhile some self righteous persons like you do horrible things in secret.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by IbrahimSola: 10:16am On Oct 04, 2025
Most marriages end when the man stops to love his wife or the wife stops to submit to the man. Once this happens, God has packed out of the marriage and the two of you will soon find out.

Pastor or not, marriage needs efforts. And women are easily overcome by the idea of comparing themselves with their husbands once they start seeing good money. This by itself puts them on a collission course. I'm not saying that there are no women who see more money and still submit to their husbands. The number is very slim, and this is why most woke marriages crash. Argue all you can, but this is what I have noticed all around me.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by okorogodwin4(m): 10:16am On Oct 04, 2025
End time pastors marriage must collapse
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by brain54(m): 10:17am On Oct 04, 2025
Druss:
Her dressing is not in line with expectations. I laugh and mark a red flag when I see people misuse the 'do not judge' quote.

A naked man is coming down the road with cutlass and spit at the edge of his mouth - you would not judge?
This one na trust issue o...
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Druss(m): 10:19am On Oct 04, 2025
Sagacity10:
And who made you a judge over others..huh Meanwhile some self righteous persons like you do horrible things in secret.
If I recall there is a portion of the New Testament which actually calls for Christians to do such. I forget the exact verse.

Also what Jesus actually meant was for you to judge yourself before you judge others so that you are not a hypocrite.

True love is also correcting others when they are walking in the wrong.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by PisciMan: 10:20am On Oct 04, 2025
. Okayy
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Dee60: 10:20am On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
Don't let these people drag you into dirty mud that is their own natural best habitat. She wore the dress for a private photoshoot for her 40th bday.

The only issues with wearing that dress in public would be that it would be too glamorous, and suited to a Nollywood award night for example, than walking around Shoprite.

From decent dressing perspective, nothing wrong with it at all. Long-sleeved, full-length and with a body coloured lining beneath as even our mothers use with their lace and iro outfit.

She is a decent women who was brough up well, as those familiar with her mother and family can confirm, and dresses as seen below normally and daily when not glamming up for a bday photoshoot as is normal and allowed.
Men see something 'wrong' in a lot of dresses worn by women but they never see anything wrong with what men wear. And vice versa. It is just that when women see provocative dresses, they keep quiet so that they dont appear to be looking too much. For example, men dont know that wearing shorts can be seductive to women, and men even wear shorts to meetings and sit in front. If you ask 100 women to comment about this dress she is wearing, I think 100 of them will say it is very good and in order. If you ask men, 50% of them will say No. What I have come to realize is that sometimes a woman wears what she fancies and dont look to the extent a man will look. It is the role of the husband sometimes to balance this up. I am not talking about women who dress shamelessly. If you are condemning this dress of hers, it may be that you are looking too much! I said maybe. Personally, I am not in any position to judge.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WesleyPepper: 10:22am On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
It does. You may not know him, but many here do to confirm he hates anything/anyone Yoruba. Check his past posts.

Also check the past post of his other usernames here like SadWaste and PrinceOfLagos. There is nothing in the woman's daily conduct or dressing (see below) to validate anyone rushing to call her a "stripper".

It is wrong, ungracious and wicked to assassinate character of others like that. Decent and objective people refrain from doing such.

Your comment below show you are no better than the person you are defending.



She is not "naked" and not in church. That was a photograph from a photoshoot for her 40th birthday. She is wearing a full-length dress with a body-coloured lining underneath and clearly not nude.

The above you'd know if an objective person who gave her the benefit of the doubt to do basic research rather than think the worst of her as most puritanical and over-religious Christians do.

You guys never live and let live and aren't greatly different , in my opinion, to moslem fundamentalists drowning Nigeria in death, terrorism and misery currently.
Big Chief
You really dropped the ball there . The fellow you are responding to is not any different from the AbakalikiOrigin impostor .
In fact, this one here claimed to be a Yoruba from Ibadan while her posts are deeply pro beerfravd and anti Yoruba.
You only need to go through her posts bro
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Druss(m): 10:22am On Oct 04, 2025
brain54:
This one na trust issue o...
Lol. Trust issue based on judgement? Your mind analysed the situation and saw danger.

Ditto this one. If I enter a church and I see this woman in this outfit at the pulpit - my instincts would scream to me to get the eff away from the church. Another level of danger.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Brightest04(m): 10:23am On Oct 04, 2025
sreamsense:
You have to talk politely within the confinement of the scripture, but you are going too far judging her. Leave judgement to God and face your own life that is resonating with hatred. We have never even seen a better version example of Christianity to emulate in you either because all we see that come through you is hatred of anything Tinubu, south west,APC, Buhari.

Jesus never hated anybody! Jesus brought love. You keep enjoying south west peace, and resources but yet you keep hating anything that has to do with their progress. You even suddenly romance El-rufai that you once termed jihadist, terrorist, Fullani herdsman, body bag, Igbo haters just because of hatred you have for Tinubu, Buhari, APC. But the interesting thing is that the more you hate them, the more you keep becoming a perpetual political loosers as promotion keeps coming to people you hate with passion.
But does her appearance speak well of the gospel she preaches? Aren't there any other better way to dress to portray your modesty? It's not about judging, it's about moral display of godliness. Though you maybe morally dirty inside but clean outside. And you maybe dirty outside but morally clean inside.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WizardOfNG: 10:24am On Oct 04, 2025
arantess:
ogbeni it is morally wrong for a so called pastor to dress in a suggestive way.

No matter the explanation you give, Jesus can never accept it

It is suggestive to the eyes upon first look and a Christian should not dress like this especially because of weaker ones who are still coming up.

Even Muslims will frown at this one

No be everything dem dey defend oo.

She is inexcusable before God
Oga, take your hypocrisy elsewhere. I have seen Christians worldwide. You Nigerians are worst when it comes to personal behaviour matching how God decree a Christian should live via his ten commandment.

If most of you so-called devoted Christians from Pastor to congregation members, actually walked the walk of Christianity, rather than talking the talk hypocritically alone, then Nigeria and the largely Christian South would be much better than it is today. That is fact 100%.

Go and preach to the unexposed and gullible Nigerians tithing Pastor Suleman etal into hideous wealth and opulence.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Sagacity10(m):
Druss:
If I recall there is a portion of the New Testament which actually calls for Christians to do such. I forget the exact verse.

Also what Jesus actually meant was for you to judge yourself before you judge others so that you are not a hypocrite.

True love is also correcting others when they are walking in the wrong.
Then I will urge you to study your Bible very well and know it first for yourself before you come out and be quoting that " there is a portion of the new testament that says" but you cant remember.

2 Timothy 2 : 15 says study to shew yourself approved unto God; a workman that needed not to be ashamed rightly dividing the word of Truth. So I urge you to Quote the scriptures accurately to support your arguments
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by nobilie: 10:27am On Oct 04, 2025
God called some pastors and their wives followed sometimes grudgingly. I know that a lot of pastor children did not grow like normal children. A lot is exp3cted from them even as children. You can not talk like this or dress like that or go to places like this. You are expected to be at every church service. Some of them even hate to become or be married to pastors. This children are not called to pastor and they want to live their life's in their own way. However to earn from the church they are to work as pastos. That's where d problem is.
Don't bother defending anyone. It the abundance of what is inside the outward expression speaks.
People have forgotten that judgement will start from the church. Do u remember how pst Bimbo looks and speaks?
If u are filled with the holyghost u will not wear anyhow thing that will make people doubt the presence of God in u. For the sake of the babes.
Make una no defend who no care
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