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Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by sreamsense: 11:39am On Oct 04, 2025
Brightest04:
But does her appearance speak well of the gospel she preaches? Aren't there any other better way to dress to portray your modesty? It's not about judging, it's about moral display of godliness. Though you maybe morally dirty inside but clean outside. And you maybe dirty outside but morally clean inside.
When you see a picture like that, the next thing is to conclude without using your brain well and make more enquiry or ask her before you conclude? What of if the cloth is her night private dress for her husband alone?

Did she tell you she approves the image before posting? Don't you see the picture was edited and even Photoshop to stay with horses, can see ride two horses she posed with same time if it were real? Until you hear from the person first, don't even abuse talkless of judging. If you want to comment, do it cautiously without poknosing on issue you don't have detail of it
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by mosaicafrique: 11:41am On Oct 04, 2025
Predictor3:
Look, let's Stop all this wokeness. That dressing says a lot about her.
Who knows why the marriage even crashed. It could be because of her attitude. Probably she cheated on the poor man and broke his heart. This one I'm looking at go like man well well.
Exactly, she looks like what I am thinking
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Kwinesther: 11:43am On Oct 04, 2025
Predictor3:
Look, let's Stop all this wokeness. That dressing says a lot about her.
Who knows why the marriage even crashed. It could be because of her attitude. Probably she cheated on the poor man and broke his heart. This one I'm looking at go like man well well.
What is wrong with her dressing? That gown has an inner lining that matches the colour of her skin (brown) and also the gown is of full length, no part of her body is showing except the face and hands, so what's the issue?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WaleBuraimoh: 11:44am On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
What's not cool about the dress below worn at a private photoshoot celebrating her own bday? As I said before, some of you may be fifty or sixty but you are kids in terms of knowing women, regardless of their occupation, and being able to treat them with grace and dignity.

Long-sleeved, full-length and with lining underneath is not cool how? Something women have been wearing since 1860 even?

She is a pastor, and so? Is any of her body part, underneath the dress, visible to you? Do you know anything of her private life to confirm she is not decent or virtuous as you are insinuating here.

Most of you are just unreasonable hypocrites and misogynists who belong in Somalia. Abeg go and sit down with your taliban mentality leave the woman be.
Guy man, be calming down! Private photoshoot that she made public by posting it on her social media pages?. Stop defending rubbish jare
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Zocalite: 11:45am On Oct 04, 2025
When kola olawuyi started nkan'be

We never saw anything then

So this one is pastor

Nkan'be
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by arantess: 11:49am On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
Oga, take your hypocrisy elsewhere. I have seen Christians worldwide. You Nigerians are worst when it comes to personal behaviour matching how God decree a Christian should live via his ten commandment.

If most of you so-called devoted Christians from Pastor to congregation members, actually walked the walk of Christianity, rather than talking the talk hypocritically alone, then Nigeria and the largely Christian South would be much better than it is today. That is fact 100%.

Go and preach to the unexposed and gullible Nigerians tithing Pastor Suleman etal into hideous wealth and opulence.
I hear you, Pharisee.

I hear you
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by arantess: 11:50am On Oct 04, 2025
WaleBuraimoh:
Guy man, be calming down! Private photoshoot that she made public by posting it on her social media pages?. Stop defending rubbish jare
No mind am.
He will soon tell you her phone was hacked or it was a family member that posted it.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by APCNig: 11:53am On Oct 04, 2025
LagosOrigin:
She didn't inherit anything calling from anyone .. she looks irresponsible to be called a pastor .
Shey anybody dey call them ni? Na dem stomach dey call them nah. Hunger will call Father, the father will call his wife to be Mummy G.O. and the husband and wife will call their children
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Omookunnimi(m): 11:55am On Oct 04, 2025
I don't know what these generational pastors preach to their members. I don't know how they read and interprete the Bible. I don't also know what counsel they give to couples facing challenges in their marriage. The likes of Kumuyi, Adeboye, Oyedipo, Okukoya, etc despite facing challenges endure and their marriages work, why can't these genz pastors learn from them.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by sreamsense: 11:56am On Oct 04, 2025
Bellotelli:
Sharrap boy, you are blabbing. What is wrong is wrong. I saw those pictures and shook my head.
You properbly shook your head because you needed to confirm if the your head count is still one. But at times, big head without brain to think right is just a big load on the head ( not direct to you to insult you o). When you saw the picture, you didn't see that the picture was edited or photoshopped? You could see that the second image was imposed on two horses background, could she ride the two horses at the same time if it were life to snap that picture? What of it was her night dress meant for her husband or privacy alone? Before you conclude, there is nothing too bad for you to listen to her first or ask her questions before you conclude. That was how some people were busy insulting and judging. pastor Adeboye son on contract issue because they read from Sahara reporter until his response Silent critics
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WizardOfNG: 12:02pm On Oct 04, 2025
WaleBuraimoh:
Guy man, be calming down! Private photoshoot that she made public by posting it on her social media pages?. Stop defending rubbish jare
So? Why don't you go and see the comments of her friends, family and even Christian affiliate who know her well such as the complementary one beneath her picture below?

You guys are all judgemental fundamentalists and ectremists who cannot live and let live and are more interested in sounding or appearing pious than actually being pious in deeds and character.

It is the reason Nigeria, touted arguably the most religious nation in the world, is Ungodly and the opposite of what a land that God lives in should be and exemplify.

Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by lailo: 12:07pm On Oct 04, 2025
hhollossho pastor divorce, na jobless people dey cry for am grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by abysirius(m): 12:16pm On Oct 04, 2025
Power, Wealth and Success often send women out of marriage. Only very few of them can manage or or 2 of these things together with marriage.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by RedpillAnalyst: 12:21pm On Oct 04, 2025
abysirius:
Power, Wealth and Success often send women out of marriage. Only very few of them can manage or or 2 of these things together with marriage.
Sadly... I don't want women down. This has been a thing of concern.

By the way "female pastor" is not Christianity.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by LordReed(m): 12:24pm On Oct 04, 2025
phosky:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yduu4MJHjYw?si=QfJs_Ks0vaD43YQH



https://eyesoflagos.com/pastor-tolu-odukoya-confirms-collapse-of-her-marriage/
Please stop deceiving yourselves, there is no divine anything that helps you keep your marriage. It is by your own hand that your marriage either lasts or scatters. Take responsibility for your part in the marriage you entered into with your two korokoro eyes.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Validated: 12:26pm On Oct 04, 2025
FarahAideed:
So you are judging her based on just one picture ?lol
Dress the way you want to be addressed .
If you dress like a prostitute, you will be called a PROSTITUTE.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Steep(m):
Adopting unbiblical standards is the undoing of the modern church.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by zedman1(m): 12:27pm On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
That is a photoshoot for her 40th Bday. The outfit has a body-coloured lining underneath so she is not displaying flesh. Also it is a full-length dress.

I am not surprised at your ungracious talk though as it is in character for you to use your uncouth mouth to run down anything and anyone Yoruba.

It is only confirmed personal conduct, such as immorality and daily scanty dressing, that should warrant anyone calling her the bolded.

When both are not her reality, and the second set of images confirms how she dresses daily, what does such say about you and the motivation behind your false accusation against her?
Nairalanders self. What brought tribe into this topic again? The person you quoted, even if a tribal bigot as claimed by someone above, did not mention tribe. What is improper is improper. We mustn't look at everything through the tribal lens. Northerners are very silent compared to Igbos and Yoruba's online, even when Buhari was in power. You people should learn from them.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Chegesnd: 12:37pm On Oct 04, 2025
sreamsense:
You have to talk politely within the confinement of the scripture, but you are going too far judging her. Leave judgement to God and face your own life that is resonating with hatred. We have never even seen a better version example of Christianity to emulate in you either because all we see that come through you is hatred of anything Tinubu, south west,APC, Buhari.

Jesus never hated anybody! Jesus brought love. You keep enjoying south west peace, and resources but yet you keep hating anything that has to do with their progress. You even suddenly romance El-rufai that you once termed jihadist, terrorist, Fullani herdsman, body bag, Igbo haters just because of hatred you have for Tinubu, Buhari, APC. But the interesting thing is that the more you hate them, the more you keep becoming a perpetual political loosers as promotion keeps coming to people you hate with passion.
So that hatred for your APC, Tinubu, Buhari, South West etc has extended to this lady?
You're not brilliant!
What has his condemnation of a Pastor dressing terribly bad, got to do with hating you and your gods?
If that picture actually belongs to the pastor and you want someone to reprimand her in hushed tone, to please your warped mind, then go a hug transformer.
That's how some Redeem pastors are married to non- christians and you people want everyone to keep quiet because the has been rewritten.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by ufotunang: 12:41pm On Oct 04, 2025
zoedew:
What does the Bible say about a woman dressed like this?
.. there are women that dressed decently, where long gown cover up themselves..but they still commit sins or commit sins secretly .. some of them cheat on their husbands, some of them flirts with boys, some of them have misunderstanding, quarell with their neighbors or have malice, envy or bad mindset concerning their neighbors, friends, or people around them ..so those that dress decently and well also commit sins and some secretly
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Predictor3: 12:41pm On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
What "wokeness"? How about you refrain from talking as if we are in 1862? She is wearing a full-length dress, that even resembles a glamorous wedding gown, that has a body-coloured lining underneath at a photoshhot for her 40th bday. Dude, are you serious?

Problem is that most of you are kids lacking the experience and wisdom proper men have had. If you been married and have a wonderful wife who has given you three kids, you would not begrudge her a photoshoot on her birthday where she dons a glamorous but decent dress that makes her feel good on her special day even if she is Mother Teresa.

Everything, to include things that should not concern you, Nigerians will ungraciously put judgemental and bad mouth in.

Imagine even hinting her marriage failed because of her. Could it not be for a million reasons to do with the husband like infidelity etc?

This repellent conduct of you lot would not be so bad if most of you are even virtuous and upright in real life, as you pretend to be, whereas the opposite is 100% the case on the ground.

You people should be attacking philandering Pastors like Suleman and his ilk you go and tithe into greater riches, every other day, and not this lady who has done nothing wrong.
Na you dey comot tithe from my account dey pay am into pastor's account Abi? You've also made a lot of assumptious nonsense here just like you feel the post you are condemning has.
And I don't know why you are crying.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by sammiewrite(m): 1:00pm On Oct 04, 2025
Isn't her brother the one always on dreads and acting romance scenes in movies as a pastor son even while his parents were still alive? Didn't his marriage crashed too? Now the sister.

The thing is, rebels don't last long in anything or anywhere so I'm not surprised. If you can’t submit to authority, to structures that have existed thousands of years ago. And find yourself always questioning everything and everybody, constantly going against the rule or fighting the system. Did the brother think there weren't pastor's sons in Nigeria who also wanted to act erotic movie scene and spot dreads? What did he think held them back or why did he think he is the one to go against the grain. Same with the sister now openly announcing the collapse of her marriage like it is something to be proud of even when she knows the stand of christainity on divorce. Plus, the choice of that outfit for her birthday photoshoot.

It is just like joining the army as a man and saying you don't like taking orders from your fellow men, hence only selecting orders to obey. Or insisting on spotting full beards as a service personnel. Or a woman joining the police and insisting on wearing necklace, earrings, or legchain while on duty.

Every institution have its structures/rules that its members must submit themselves to, or sometimes expectations that people have of the members of particular organisations or institutions. In the case of christainity, it is modesty and decorum--virtues the Odukoya's have consistently scorned. I'd think if their parents influence was too great on them that they couldn't be themselves while they were alive. Their parents are gone now, so they should just quietly leave in peace should they know they can't fully embody christain values.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by CharlesNavy(m): 1:01pm On Oct 04, 2025
You called this mumu a pastor? Never
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by DeepSight(m): 1:03pm On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
She is wearing a full-length dress with a body-coloured lining underneath and clearly not nude.
Those designs are made that way deliberately to simulate the appearance of flesh beneath and to that extent would seem rather questionable to me - for a person advocating the religious worldview she does.

Let me carefully state that I do not share such a worldview and I am entirely fine with women dressing as scandalously as they please.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by caye(m): 1:08pm On Oct 04, 2025
Sincerely, it's not easy for 2 ppl to be together. It takes God's grace and mercy.
I love Pastor Taiwo_ Bimbo Odukoya and their children.

I pray the healing she needs, may Olodumare give her, Amin.
I can NEVER SPEAK I'll of a black woman. We've sabotaged ourselves for too long.

To the spiritual , silly Nigerians, who will speak I'll of her , but are themselves very corrupt, evil , enslavers and themselves sexually amoral...see you, see God.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by judewrites: 1:12pm On Oct 04, 2025
OneCandleAway:
You didn't have to call her a stripper.

She inherited the pastoral calling just like other churches are doing.
No one inherits pastorship.

It's God that calls full time pastors not part time like she and her brother.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Almunjid:
LagosOrigin:
She dressed irresponsibly Oga, leave all this Grammer that you're writing here ..

Read the screenshot and tell me if she's a true pastor or one of the fake pastors/prophets that the bible talk about.
Engaging in a discussion with WizardOfNG may be futile, as Christianity has seemingly transformed into a faith based on personal opinions rather than scriptural teachings. Adhering to biblical principles would mean dressing modestly, and even wearing a black dress that reveals a woman's figure is considered immodest.

Furthermore, if Christianity were based on scriptural guidance, women would not serve as pastors, as it is explicitly stated in the New Testament that women should remain silent in church and refrain from speaking. This is supported by 1 Corinthians 14:34, which emphasizes that women should not speak in church but rather ask their husbands for guidance at home. In light of these scriptural references, the concept of women serving as pastors seems contradictory to the teachings of the Bible. As a result of this discrepancy between biblical teachings and the practices of modern Christianity, I would prefer to follow a traditional religion or any other religion rather than adhere to Christianity.

Peace!
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by mirrael68(m): 1:22pm On Oct 04, 2025
sreamsense:
You have to talk politely within the confinement of the scripture, but you are going too far judging her. Leave judgement to God and face your own life that is resonating with hatred. We have never even seen a better version example of Christianity to emulate in you either because all we see that come through you is hatred of anything Tinubu, south west,APC, Buhari.

Jesus never hated anybody! Jesus brought love. You keep enjoying south west peace, and resources but yet you keep hating anything that has to do with their progress. You even suddenly romance El-rufai that you once termed jihadist, terrorist, Fullani herdsman, body bag, Igbo haters just because of hatred you have for Tinubu, Buhari, APC. But the interesting thing is that the more you hate them, the more you keep becoming a perpetual political loosers as promotion keeps coming to people you hate with passion.
It's not hate
The attire she put on is that of a harlot as stated by the Bible in proverbs.- As a pastor, you should be a role model, you should be the Bible others can see and read.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by essentialone(m): 1:27pm On Oct 04, 2025
Another Religious Criminal, Scammer, and Fraudster.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by caye(m): 1:31pm On Oct 04, 2025
Nigerian youths, spending time criticising someone, who had been through a lot of deaths: mother ( plane crash), father, step-mum, Auntie.

And none of them can take 1/3 of that, without committing suicide. Silly ppl.
They never even commented on the topic at hand.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by swift123: 1:32pm On Oct 04, 2025
AM SORRY.... SHE'S IN RESPONSIBLE SIMPLE! BY THEIR FRUITS YE SHALL KNOW THEM
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