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Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Kobicove(m): 2:23pm On Oct 04, 2025
Zocalite:
When kola olawuyi started nkan'be

We never saw anything then

So this one is pastor

Nkan'be
Ha! Nkan'bé!!! grin
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by dederocs(m): 2:24pm On Oct 04, 2025
OneCandleAway:
You didn't have to call her a stripper.

She inherited the pastoral calling just like other churches are doing.
By their fruits ye know them. A spiritual person has mind on spiritual things, speaking out the obvious is not judging, stop misleading people. A pastor has no business dressing that way.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by chipet67(m): 2:36pm On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
That is a photoshoot for her 40th Bday. The outfit has a body-coloured lining underneath so she is not displaying flesh. Also it is a full-length dress.

I am not surprised at your ungracious talk though as it is in character for you to use your uncouth mouth to run down anything and anyone Yoruba.

It is only confirmed personal conduct, such as immorality and daily scanty dressing, that should warrant anyone calling her the bolded.

When both are not her reality, and the second set of images confirms how she dresses daily, what does such say about you and the motivation behind your false accusation against her?
Let God judge our intentions.
As a pastor, why put on such dress that is capable of scattering the sheep?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by chipet67(m): 2:37pm On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
It does. You may not know him, but many here do to confirm he hates anything/anyone Yoruba. Check his past posts.

Also check the past post of his other usernames here like SadWaste and PrinceOfLagos. There is nothing in the woman's daily conduct or dressing (see below) to validate anyone rushing to call her a "stripper".

It is wrong, ungracious and wicked to assassinate character of others like that. Decent and objective people refrain from doing such.

Your comment below show you are no better than the person you are defending.



She is not "naked" and not in church. That was a photograph from a photoshoot for her 40th birthday. She is wearing a full-length dress with a body-coloured lining underneath and clearly not nude.

The above you'd know if an objective person who gave her the benefit of the doubt to do basic research rather than think the worst of her as most puritanical and over-religious Christians do.

You guys never live and let live and aren't greatly different , in my opinion, to moslem fundamentalists drowning Nigeria in death, terrorism and misery currently.
Abeg cl0 se mouth. Multiple paragraphs of tr a sh.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by victme1(m): 2:47pm On Oct 04, 2025
Something out of xxxn beastiality page.
Thus one nibe pastor.
I cannot concentrate ..... Se na de smoky lips abi the fish head souring her upper...
Temptations setting.... Satan bow!!!
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by InvertedHammer: 2:56pm On Oct 04, 2025
FarahAideed:
So you are judging her based on just one picture ?lol
/
Even Jesus judged money-changers and chased them away from the temple. Your oppressors squeezed in that verse in the Bible so that you can forget their transgressions and you run with it.

/
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Majesty7: 3:49pm On Oct 04, 2025
sreamsense:
You have to talk politely within the confinement of the scripture, but you are going too far judging her. Leave judgement to God and face your own life that is resonating with hatred. We have never even seen a better version example of Christianity to emulate in you either because all we see that come through you is hatred of anything Tinubu, south west,APC, Buhari.

Jesus never hated anybody! Jesus brought love. You keep enjoying south west peace, and resources but yet you keep hating anything that has to do with their progress. You even suddenly romance El-rufai that you once termed jihadist, terrorist, Fullani herdsman, body bag, Igbo haters just because of hatred you have for Tinubu, Buhari, APC. But the interesting thing is that the more you hate them, the more you keep becoming a perpetual political loosers as promotion keeps coming to people you hate with passion.
So, even when Jesus worked and delivered everybody irrespective of who they are, do they still followed in while in sin? Just don't know what to call you guys
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by bionixs: 3:56pm On Oct 04, 2025
sreamsense:
You have to talk politely within the confinement of the scripture, but you are going too far judging her. Leave judgement to God and face your own life that is resonating with hatred. We have never even seen a better version example of Christianity to emulate in you either because all we see that come through you is hatred of anything Tinubu, south west,APC, Buhari.

Jesus never hated anybody! Jesus brought love. You keep enjoying south west peace, and resources but yet you keep hating anything that has to do with their progress. You even suddenly romance El-rufai that you once termed jihadist, terrorist, Fullani herdsman, body bag, Igbo haters just because of hatred you have for Tinubu, Buhari, APC. But the interesting thing is that the more you hate them, the more you keep becoming a perpetual political loosers as promotion keeps coming to people you hate with passion.
Oga, face the issue on ground. Everything he enjoys in the SW, he pays double with his own sweat. What are you saying?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Predictor3: 5:33pm On Oct 04, 2025
Druss:
Her dressing is not in line with expectations. I laugh and mark a red flag when I see people misuse the 'do not judge' quote.

A naked man is coming down the road with cutlass and spit at the edge of his mouth - you would not judge?
grin
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Predictor3: 5:38pm On Oct 04, 2025
sreamsense:
Why are you asking "who knows" when you already have the answer? You have already turned your "assumption/properbly" to reality or can't you see the list without even confirming that from her husband if she cheated and if she likes man-well well. You can go and toast her too since you knew she like man well well. You are just commenting out of the multitude of your junkie mind. May God forgive you and your ignorance
Get out of here. A pastor put on a dress with clearly displayed fake nipples on it to make it look like a see through cloth and you are here defending it. You are the ignorant one here. What did the bible say about causing others to sin? A pastor for that matter. Stop your silly wokeness, it doesn't make any sense.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by AfonjaPriest: 6:11pm On Oct 04, 2025
F.ake hair.
F.ake eyelashes.
F.ake chest.
F.ake complexion.
F.ake pastor.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by oluxy(m): 6:33pm On Oct 04, 2025
OneCandleAway:
You didn't have to call her a stripper.

She inherited the pastoral calling just like other churches are doing.
You don't inherit pastoral calls.

It's before birth not after birth.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by kennethesan(m): 7:17pm On Oct 04, 2025
Yet she has followers/members who listen or take advice from her? What fruit could she bear in them?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by God2man2again(m): 8:05pm On Oct 04, 2025
Marriage can be defined as the union two opposite personalities working hard to live together under the same roof.

Whenever you want to get marry, always have it at the back of your mind that you are going to experience conflict, war, battles, individual differences and so many opposite situations that may be difficult to control, you must learn how to say sorry or please, from time to time.

Why?

You both came from different background with different home training, so, you will need the help of God, to maintain peace and harmony.

The husband must be matured and the wife must be compassionate enough to understand the husband.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by ono(m): 12:23am On Oct 05, 2025
sreamsense:
You have to talk politely within the confinement of the scripture, but you are going too far judging her. Leave judgement to God and face your own life that is resonating with hatred. We have never even seen a better version example of Christianity to emulate in you either because all we see that come through you is hatred of anything Tinubu, south west,APC, Buhari.

Jesus never hated anybody! Jesus brought love. You keep enjoying south west peace, and resources but yet you keep hating anything that has to do with their progress. You even suddenly romance El-rufai that you once termed jihadist, terrorist, Fullani herdsman, body bag, Igbo haters just because of hatred you have for Tinubu, Buhari, APC. But the interesting thing is that the more you hate them, the more you keep becoming a perpetual political loosers as promotion keeps coming to people you hate with passion.
“Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life?”
‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭6‬:‭3‬ ‭KJV‬‬

Doesn’t work that way. You have to hate what is “hateable”. Don’t sugarcoat what’s “unchristian”. I get that this is the problem with many “professing Christian” who really don’t have in-depth knowledge of the Word of the Lord.

We are at War Christians. The battle we fight does not allow shitloads of useless things that this “hereditary” pastor has to present. I watched the YouTube interview myself. Yes, her story was touching. But standards remain standards. You cannot be a pastor as a woman, talk less of a divorcee.

Pastoral calling is not for all Tom, Dick and Harry! If you don’t meet the standards, ship out to something else. As someone pointed out, she looks like a stripper! She needs to work on that and right her way with the Lord!
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by laudate: 1:46am On Oct 05, 2025
zoedew:
What does the Bible say about a woman dressed like this?
Nothing. Go and rest....
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by azpekuliar: 3:13am On Oct 05, 2025
LagosOrigin:
She didn't inherit any calling from anyone .. she looks irresponsible to be called a pastor .
It is a family business first and foremost. That said it has to be passed down to the next generation and that is what has happened. If you like go dey find who get calling, na u sabi.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by ono(m): 5:26am On Oct 05, 2025
azpekuliar:
It is a family business first and foremost. That said it has to be passed down to the next generation and that is what has happened. If you like go dey find who get calling, na u sabi.
Pastoral calling is NOT a family business !!
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Mrexcell(m): 8:05am On Oct 05, 2025
WizardOfNG:
What "wokeness"? How about you refrain from talking as if we are in 1862? She is wearing a full-length dress, that even resembles a glamorous wedding gown, that has a body-coloured lining underneath at a photoshhot for her 40th bday. Dude, are you serious?

Problem is that most of you are kids lacking the experience and wisdom proper men have had. If you been married and have a wonderful wife who has given you three kids, you would not begrudge her a photoshoot on her birthday where she dons a glamorous but decent dress that makes her feel good on her special day even if she is Mother Teresa.

Everything, to include things that should not concern you, Nigerians will ungraciously put judgemental and bad mouth in.

Imagine even hinting her marriage failed because of her. Could it not be for a million reasons to do with the husband like infidelity etc?

This repellent conduct of you lot would not be so bad if most of you are even virtuous and upright in real life, as you pretend to be, whereas the opposite is 100% the case on the ground.

You people should be attacking philandering Pastors like Suleman and his ilk you go and tithe into greater riches, every other day, and not this lady who has done nothing wrong.
When Christians begin to vehemently defend immorality then it's obvious we are indeed in the very last of days why are ayodepo and adeboye's wives not dressing like the lady you are blindly defending here?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WizardOfNG: 11:52am On Oct 05, 2025
Mrexcell:
When Christians begin to vehemently defend immorality then it's obvious we are indeed in the very last of days why are ayodepo and adeboye's wives not dressing like the lady you are blindly defending here?
There is no "immorality" being defended. You only percieve that because you are completely entrenched in how Nigerians blindly and unquestioningly adopt outside influence and then unintelligently stay years behind those nations who gave you those influences failing to evolve or modernise what you were given to suit your peculiar African reality.

Whereas those nations, like the UK that gave Nigeria Christianity through the missionaries, saw the need to evolve those influences you adopted, be they political or religious for example, to keep up with how the world has also evolved.

Those who gave you Christianity, to now see you lot pretending to be more Catholic than the Pope, understand that some ideas from 2000 years ago are hard to validate today or, per religion, even preach to congregations in their different Church.

You should tell me, for all your decades of carrying old and pretentious puritanical version of Christianity on your head like a tray of Gala, when such is merely crude prosperity preaching in disguise, whether Nigeria is even 5% as Godly, charitable to its most poor, as Jesus showed is sacrosanct, or as decent as the UK that gave you Christianity.

Tha lady is not indecently dressed. Nigeria is not the only devout Christian nation of the world. In fact, the practice of Christianity in Nigeria is a shame to Christianity because it focuses on the wrong things entirely and warps the essential doctrine of Christianity.

Do you never wonder why, for a continent with many in extreme poverty, Christianity in many African nations remains mainly about miracles and prosperity preaching but never about charity and certainly not about being your brother's keeper to the extent every one of us should insist Christianity should make it an obligation for the rich to uplift their fellow citizens and nations?

How many wealthy Christians in Nigeria do you see delivering great and life-changing acts of charity as witnessed with Christians in the West you lot view yourselves better Christians than?

Yet you lot come here spitting fire and brimstone over a perfectly decent dress worn by a pastor on her bday. You people's own version of Christianity is to talk the talk but never walk the walk as others do worldwide. What a joke..

https://www.quora.com/Must-Christianity-change-or-die-And-how-so?ch=10&oid=13344177&share=0d5b80ba&srid=wSmO7&target_type=question

Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by sreamsense:
ono:
“Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life?”
‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭6‬:‭3‬ ‭KJV‬‬

Doesn’t work that way. You have to hate what is “hateable”. Don’t sugarcoat what’s “unchristian”. I get that this is the problem with many “professing Christian” who really don’t have in-depth knowledge of the Word of the Lord.

We are at War Christians. The battle we fight does not allow shitloads of useless things that this “hereditary” pastor has to present. I watched the YouTube interview myself. Yes, her story was touching. But standards remain standards. You cannot be a pastor as a woman, talk less of a divorcee.

Pastoral calling is not for all Tom, Dick and Harry! If you don’t meet the standards, ship out to something else. As someone pointed out, she looks like a stripper! She needs to work on that and right her way with the Lord!
You are misinterpreting the bible to its context to suite your inordinate desire. You may have problem conflicting yourselves with other Biblical references that relate to judging others:

Matthew 7:1-2 "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged."

Romans 14:4 "Who are you to judge someone else's servant? To their own master, servants stand or fall."

Luke 6:37 "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned."

Bible does not give you license to judge others in the context you are trying to apply it. The verses I quoted above emphasize the importance of treating others with kindness, compassion, and understanding, rather than judging them.


In your own context of: "Do you not know that we will judge angels?":

The verses does not give humans license to judge others harshly or hypocritically in the present as you misinterpreted it. The focus is on the believer's future role in judgment. Apostle Paul is only emphasizing the importance of living a virtuous life and making wise decisions, as believers will have a significant role in judging angels in the future.

So, don't judge others; Jesus wants you to be at peace with all men. When you are pointing fingers at others, you yourself are guilty in many other areas, so remove the logs in your own eyes first. You can disagree with someone or give constructive criticism; but that is different from judging others like the guy did especially when you never heard from the same pastor.

Read my submission again slowly, it was not an approval for immorality; but you don't make hasty decision about something when you never heard from the sources mouth. It maybe her night dress to her husband alone, the picture was edited or photoshopped even with two horses meaning the picture has been edited and manipulated or can see stand with the two life horses together at the same time to ride? Shallom
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Mrexcell(m): 12:16pm On Oct 05, 2025
WizardOfNG:
There is no "immorality" being defended. You only percieve that because you are completely entrenched in how Nigerians blindly and unquestioningly adopt outside influence and then unintelligently stay years behind those nations who gave you those influences failing to evolve or modernise what you were given to suit your peculiar African reality.

Whereas those nations, like the UK that gave Nigeria Christianity through the missionaries, saw the need to evolve those influences you adopted, be they political or religious for example, to keep up with how the world has also evolved.

Those who gave you Christianity, to now see you lot pretending to be more Catholic than the Pope, understand that some ideas from 2000 years ago are hard to validate today or, per religion, even preach to congregations in their different Church.

You should tell me, for all your decades of carrying old and pretentious puritanical version of Christianity on your head like a tray of Gala, when such is merely crude prosperity preaching in disguise, whether Nigeria is even 5% as Godly, charitable to its most poor, as Jesus showed is sacrosanct, or as decent as the UK that gave you Christianity.

Tha lady is not indecently dressed. Nigeria is not the only devout Christian nation of the world. In fact, the practice of Christianity in Nigeria is a shame to Christianity because it focuses on the wrong things entirely and warps the essential doctrine of Christianity.

Do you never wonder why, for a continent with many in extreme poverty, Christianity in many African nations remains mainly about miracles and prosperity preaching but never about charity and certainly not about being your brother's keeper to the extent every one of us should insist Christianity should make it an obligation for the rich to uplift their fellow citizens and nations?

How many wealthy Christians in Nigeria do you see delivering great and life-changing acts of charity as witnessed with Christians in the West you lot view yourselves better Christians than?

Yet you lot come here spitting fire and brimstone over a perfectly decent dress worn by a pastor on her bday. You people's own version of Christianity is to talk the talk but never walk the walk as others do worldwide. What a joke..

https://www.quora.com/Must-Christianity-change-or-die-And-how-so?ch=10&oid=13344177&share=0d5b80ba&srid=wSmO7&target_type=question
God's biblical principles and high standards can never be changed to suite anyone no matter how civilised they feel they are. The west that derailed spiritually and envolved into accepting homosexuals and transgenders into their societies are gradually retracing their steps.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by ono(m):
sreamsense:
You are misinterpreting the bible to its context to suite your inordinate desire. You may have problem conflicting yourselves with other Biblical references that relate to judging others:

Matthew 7:1-2 "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged."

Romans 14:4 "Who are you to judge someone else's servant? To their own master, servants stand or fall."

Luke 6:37 "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned."

Bible does not give you license to judge others in the context you are trying to apply it. The verses I quoted above emphasize the importance of treating others with kindness, compassion, and understanding, rather than judging them.


In your own context of: "Do you not know that we will judge angels?":

The verses does not give humans license to judge others harshly or hypocritically in the present as you misinterpreted it. The focus is on the believer's future role in judgment. Apostle Paul is only emphasizing the importance of living a virtuous life and making wise decisions, as believers will have a significant role in judging angels in the future.

So, don't judge others; Jesus wants you to be at peace with all men. When you are pointing fingers at others, you yourself are guilty in many other areas, so remove the logs in your own eyes first. You can disagree with someone or give constructive criticism; but that is different from judging others like the guy did especially when you never heard from the same pastor.

Read my submission again slowly, it was not an approval for immorality; but you don't make hasty decision about something when you never heard from the sources mouth. It maybe her night dress to her husband alone, the picture was edited or photoshopped even with two horses meaning the picture has been edited and manipulated or can see stand with the two life horses together at the same time to ride? Shallom
Bros, the passage I quoted from 1 Corinthians underscored the importance of living a life that's above that of worldly conformance and standards. It brought to the limelight that living a lie and "making yourself a shepherd" of Christ's followers is not acceptable! How can you judge angels on judgement day and at the moment you're a divorcee? Do you know the standards angels are held to?? Can mortal men - especially divorcees live above that standard - to then be in a position to judge angels?

All of the verses you quoted from Romans etc is just about scratching the surface on judging others and preparing you for the one that's about judging angels -the real deal! The passage included the following "...how much more things that pertains to this life" It is a comparison of the 3 verses you quoted on judging mortal men and then judging angels! Think about that - for a while.

As I stated in my last post, Christians all over the world are locked in a battle between good and evil. The evil ones will have upper hand against feeble and unserious christians. They will mess up their marriages, their destinies, careers, spiritual life, growth potentials and aspirations etc etc. How are you sure the Devil didn't mess up this lady professing to be a pastor - when she's not strong in spiritual war fare? Don't you know that the things we see in the physical are the manifestations of that which have already been determined in the spiritual realms? A pastor ought to know this and not come to YouTube and be talking about how she failed in her marital life. I heard her say she married her husband when she was not strong in the faith. Well, maybe she shouldn't have brought up the subject then. Keep that out of the soul winning business that Christ called us all to do!
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by jetson06: 5:17pm On Oct 06, 2025
Abeg who get Pastor Tolu number? I am divorced and ready to re-marry. I have left that liability alone.
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