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There's nothing special about Nairaland gals... Nothing special.
Nairaland is not the best place to get really feminine ladies.
Most Feminine ladies are narcissistic, so they prefer platforms where their beauty, pics and videos will be liked by hoards of dumb men.... But ladies u find on a boring, pictureless forum like this are mostly feminist, tomboys, ugly, and women of low means.... At best, perhaps tired, jaded married women who are bored at home and uses comic comments on NL to ease their boredom

Mariangeles:
Once you block someone, you can't unblock them till it expires in 3 weeks time.
Once blocked, they will not be able to see your posts once online, and you also will not be able to see theirs.

Thank you the feature are Good but seun should put unblock so if you decide to unblock the person before ,3 weeks

Mariangeles:
This is a blatant lie!

Women like, and are drawn to kind men.
They feel safe around men who are kind, and stand up for them.

You intentionally did not add "Men that has Money and Money" ..... thats why i am giving you 2 ova 10

Mariangeles:
You're welcome.

Trolling used to be very bad here, until Seun introduced the block option.
I'm sure he did that mainly for the females.
Me, I just go ahead to block them.

If you observe, only the males have been the ones complaining about the introduction of new features here.

Alol ! the introduction of the block option seems like a success to the female gender, buh for the logical ones the block option only kept the women and men apart

the people have not changed, we are still the same What would have been better is growing to accommodate one another ... Buh e don late alfa males we die here
make dem just put me n that pocohantas for UFC ring 2hrs

kayperry:
You intentionally did not add "Men that has Money and Money" ..... thats why i am giving you 2 ova 10

She can add who ever she wants it her choice not yours . sometimes you don't have to respond to all post or comment

kayperry:
Alol ! the introduction of the block option seems like a success to the female gender, buh for the logical ones the block option only kept the women and men apart

the people have not changed, we are still the same What would have been better is growing to accommodate one another ... Buh e don late alfa males we die here
make dem just put me n that pocohantas for UFC ring 2hrs

I love the block features it will give you quality hide out from all does small secondary school boys using nairaland as abuse center and mature man no go one follow them cap much so you block . There are so many boys on nairaland and not men any more

Sammy101111:
I love the block features it will give you quality hide out from all does small secondary school boys using nairaland as abuse center and mature man no go one follow them cap much so you block . There are so many boys on nairaland and not men any more

if you think " abusive" is a secondary school things then it shows you aint conversant with "9ja" ... did you watch Oseni vs Umahi ... are they in secondary school boyz

Natasha case, Oby told a senator to shutup n the francas that ensuited those ones tew are secondary school boiz

i dont know why, all these " real men" " mature men" dont do this dont do that dont work on me 🤣 ... the more you play it on me the more i want to do what i wont even do on a norm .. cos it manipulative

Maturity us your composure even in discomfort, how you tend to handle others mis step

who set all this code sef 🤣 no head wey you take do boy still dey your neck ... dey play

Bro when you real men are busy dragging maturity, if i get humor i'm fine

Sammy101111:
She can add who ever she wants it her choice not yours . sometimes you don't have to respond to all post or comment

she is not your daughter sis or wife you don't even know her ... do you normally contradict your advice

FreeSpirited:
There's nothing special about Nairaland gals... Nothing special.
Nairaland is not the best place to get really feminine ladies.
Most Feminine ladies are narcissistic, so they prefer platforms where their beauty, pics and videos will be liked by hoards of dumb men.... But ladies u find on a boring, pictureless forum like this are mostly feminist, tomboys, ugly, and women of low means.... At best, perhaps tired, jaded married women who are bored at home and uses comic comments on NL to ease their boredom

Nah ! dont say that, NL gurlz are the same ones we have as neighbors, church members, we meet on Baddo, tinder and clubs they dont live in pluto

the whole ideal of NL being a faceless forum is one homo problem people have here

if these forum evolves to bio, with faces ... the pattern of conversation will change, let me see how kay will insult a fine gurl

imagine you don type insult you check her profile you see face like uche montana ... you no rush back delete nd comport yourself 🫢

as ishilove wan insult kay, she check profile see desmond eediot face .. she no go borrow character

kayperry:
Nah ! dont say that, NL gurlz are the same ones we have as neighbors, church members, we meet on Baddo, tinder and clubs they dont live in pluto

the whole ideal of NL being a faceless forum is one homo problem people have here

if these forum evolves to bio, with faces ... the pattern of conversation will change, let me see how kay will insult a fine gurl

imagine you don type insult you check her profile you see face like uche montana ... you no rush back delete nd comport yourself 🫢

as ishilove wan insult kay, she check profile see desmond eediot face .. she no go borrow character

Oga.... Social media plenty... Dating app boku, picture and scrolling video app boku, why should a pretty girls waste her time here when she can gather thousands of simps, admirers and followers that will be hailing her and liking her in other platform. This is thing is common sense, but u just one argue.
If there be fine gal here, u can count them. Real feminine fine gals are narcissistic by nature who want attention. So u can't find them here cos that kind of attention they want don't exist here. Even if they get it from few moniker here, most monikers will bash and attack them because NL is a faceless very critical site where everyone don't care who are you. So u can't find them here .. Oga this thing na common sense.. No stress me with baseless argument. And NL doesn't need to start permitting pictures and scrolling. This is why it's NL. this anonymous model makes NL unique. Unfortunately fine gals won't like it

FreeSpirited:
Oga.... Social media plenty... Dating app boku, picture and scrolling video app boku, why should a pretty girls waste her time here when she can gather thousands of simps, admirers and followers that will be hailing her and liking her in other platform. This is thing is common sense, but u just one argue.
If there be fine gal here, u can count them. Real feminine fine gals are narcissistic by nature who want attention. So u can't find them here cos that kind of attention they want don't exist here. Even if they get it from few moniker here, most monikers will bash and attack them because NL is a faceless very critical site where everyone don't care who are you. So u can't find them here .. Oga this thing na common sense.. No stress me with baseless argument. And NL doesn't need to start permitting pictures and scrolling. This is why it's NL. this anonymous model makes NL unique. Unfortunately fine gals won't like it

You are not getting My point, platform yapa no one is disputing that, the reason lola feels she is not wasting her time on instagram would have applied to NL if it were a Bio platform tew .. numbers of platform doesnt matter, e.g i play around on NL you will never see me talk long on my facebook or my X account
i feel its same for most people here IF we check there rappor on Facebook nd NL its like two unidentical twins

one thing you must know is humans tend to bring out their flip sides with " mask on" .. this epistle don dey long i hope you get the hint

Sammy101111:
And a woman alway trust who are kind to them

So men on nairaland need to be kind and let this ladies be free here too much trolls on the ladies

Being kind goes both ways .. until that is agreed upon, it's all a waste of time

Sammy101111:
Thank you the feature are Good but seun should put unblock so if you decide to unblock the person before ,3 weeks

I like it better the way it is.
He should even prolong it to a month.

Silentgroper:
Being kind goes both ways .. until that is agreed upon, it's all a waste of time

U miss the context....being kind to a woman means being a simp, licking their @sses, and being okay with being used from time to time.. so no...it doesn't go both ways ....only a man should be kind to women to prove he's a "real man"

Mariangeles:
I like it better the way it is.
He should even prolong it to a month.

That cool . How as your day been today

Meedon:
They are not beautiful that is why

Some are but they don't make noise and are not bitter. Those that give us troubles here are the ones that are frustrated. A woman who is under the authority of a good man, there's is this peace you see around her. Start looking around you from today and watch married women and those in good relationships too. It's when they make the wrong choice of following the wrong men out of greed that they start to get frustrated and try to frustrate everyone around them.

Sammy101111:
That cool . How as your day been today

Going great, thank you.

I believe yours is going great as well.

pansophist:
Gender differences my friend.

More women uses instagram, tiktok, snapshat and facebook, or any platform that requires posting yourself.

Men on the other hand, uses platform that requires display of competences. So reddit, nairaland, or anywhere you can prove that you are competent and have sense.

So ignore those nonsense that men pursued women from nairaland. Na lie. When nairaland becomes a place for cheap attention and show of curves, then women will overtake men.

You need to post more egbon. You're the only person that challenge my perspective with interesting insight that makes me revaluate my position. Have learnt alot from you. Thanks to the person that created "Pansophist wisdom " book. Have applied most of your beliefs and Im now in a stage that I need your opinion on how I can get better. Don't know if I should write out here for others to me learn or I should dm.

Mariangeles:
Going great, thank you.

I believe yours is going great as well.

My day is fine too thanks

Olamilekxy:
You need to post more egbon. You're the only person that challenge my perspective with interesting insight that makes me revaluate my position. Have learnt alot from you. Thanks to the person that created "Pansophist wisdom " book. Have applied most of your beliefs and Im now in a stage that I need your opinion on how I can get better. Don't know if I should write out here for others to me learn or I should dm.

I think say all my fans don mature run leave nairaland. I no know say I still get some.

I am busy man. As I don get madam for house, with business and family wahala, not much time to write here like before.

But you should write it here so others can learn. Na from others topic wey I comment on, you take pick one or two thing from abi?

Mariangeles:
For you information, you don't know it all.

Let women speak for themselves, and express how they feel.
You can't speak for both men and women, because you are a man and can't understand how women feel.

There are no transgender goat. Should I let goat speak for themselves or it's a statement of fact?

`Bobrisky is a man. Should I let Bobrisky speak for himself or my narration about his gender a statement of fact?

Please read this wikipedia article about gender differences in social media usage. It verifies and proves everything I wrote.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_differences_in_social_media_use

I understand say the thing pain you, but you cant change nature. I just opened my whatsapp status now, and all the post with people showing themselves are women.

A simple experiment you can do now is to look at your whatsapp contact, you will notice that women are usually the one that have their face on their profile picture compare to men.

kwanyere onwe gi ugwu, biko

pansophist:
I think say all my fans don mature run leave nairaland. I no know say I still get some.

I am busy man. As I don get madam for house, with business and family wahala, not much time to write here like before.

But you should write it here so others can learn. Na from others topic wey I comment on, you take pick one or two thing from abi?

We still dey, I even followed you and always anticipate to hear from you

Even checked your profile out last month even though have done that several times. Text can describe the level wey I put you

pansophist:
I think say all my fans don mature run leave nairaland. I no know say I still get some.

I am busy man. As I don get madam for house, with business and family wahala, not much time to write here like before.

But you should write it here so others can learn. Na from others topic wey I comment on, you take pick one or two thing from abi?

This my story, I'm one of the men you described as "INVISIBLE MAN" I came from society that has given up on education, I'm the only one that actually believe and didn't deviate from education, many of my friend are into yahvv, handwork or business, and they're doing well, I studied library and information science, which I realized it's ranked low in job market, during my undergraduate, I met some educated old men that advised me to pick a field and learn how to classify their book, I held on to that and I chose how to arrange law books, I went to UI law library to do that, several months after my youth service, I dmed a principal ( law firm owner) and pitched my idea to him that I can classify law books, he replied 2 months later and employed me , without interview or knowing where I'm from, he gave me accommodation within the firm premises (BQ), it's a top tier law firm in Abuja.

This my second month and I can tell it's God blessings. So have been thinking on how I can move forward not immediately but for future purpose cos I'm still classifying the books and after that it will be boring, so I was thinking maybe after a years, I should talk to the principal that I have interest to study law and also thinking of getting a camera and learn photography before that. I'm just thinking of what will put me further more.

I'm relating with the staff in a good manner, keeping calm not in rush and monitoring how they do things and their response have been positive.


Pls give tips on how to have good affairs with the staff and how I can get to the next stage, the behavior and attitude that I need.

Girls here too are from rich family,even though I hold on to the rules of not keeping affairs in the office.

Olamilekxy:
You need to post more egbon. You're the only person that challenge my perspective with interesting insight that makes me revaluate my position. Have learnt alot from you. Thanks to the person that created "Pansophist wisdom " book. Have applied most of your beliefs and Im now in a stage that I need your opinion on how I can get better. Don't know if I should write out here for others to me learn or I should dm.

Haha that was me, the one who made that book. I'm glad that it helps you.

Mariangeles:
This is a blatant lie!

Women like, and are drawn to kind men.
They feel safe around men who are kind, and stand up for them.

This is proof that you and I were meant to be together forever

Olamilekxy:
We still dey, I even followed you and always anticipate to hear from you

Even checked your profile out last month even though have done that several times. Text can describe the level wey I put you

For all this level wey you put me, you never ask for my akant number. E no good o.

I go respond to your other message soon. Make I Think

Zonefree:
There's no single fine nairaland girl, to start with.

I beg to differ 🙄😋

pansophist:
For all this level wey you put me, you never ask for my akant number. E no good o.

I go respond to your other message soon. Make I Think

Only God fit reward you o but drop akant I go do sub money

Alright. I'll be anticipating

Olamilekxy:
This my second month and I can tell it's God blessings. So have been thinking on how I can move forward not immediately but for future purpose cos I'm still classifying the books and after that it will be boring, so I was thinking maybe after a years, I should talk to the principal that I have interest to study law and also thinking of getting a camera and learn photography before that. I'm just thinking of what will put me further more.

I'm relating with the staff in a good manner, keeping calm not in rush and monitoring how they do things and their response have been positive. Pls give tips on how to have good affairs with the staff and how I can get to the next stage, the behavior and attitude that I need.

Girls here too are from rich family,even though I hold on to the rules of not keeping affairs in the office.

If you will talk to the principal about it, then you must put his interest at heart. His interest is in what you bring to the firm, and it seems like you are good at what you do.

Going to the next stage of your life is in your interest, not his, unless you align it. So if you will speak to him, then he must see how your photography skills, and studying law will contribute to his own affairs.

Understand why you are employed, and make sure that the value they want from you is assured. This is the very basis of your negotiating power, and you must not loose it.

In every relationship between two organisms, the fundamental dynamic playing is the dynamic of power (strength and weakness). As an employee, you are weak, except in a situation where you are irreplaceable.

Otherwise, you rather save up, and bid your time. If you have calculated that such discourse might lead to a dissolution of your partnership, then you must be patience and prepare to a point where you are fine if both interest does not align.

About the women in your office, I wonder why you focused on the wealth as an introduction. When it comes to women, wealth should not be the determining factor. It can be one of the qualifying factors, but not a determinant.

You need good character, which will bring you peace. What you need as a man is peace. I do not know the level you are playing at already, or intend to play at, but a wealthy, woman that brings you war at home after daily hustle will break your soul and will turn ugly in your eyes in no time.

This is not to say that a wealthy woman cant bring peace, but it is like picking a well-designed car with faulty engine. The Engine (character) of any car you will buy is more important than appearance (beauty) or features (wealth). If the character is good, then you will enjoy her wealth and beauty.

Having said that, just make sure that your personal development in wealth, knowledge and sophistication never enter stagnation. We mirror who we are. A simple statement yet, so profound.

Most doors will open not because you want it, but because you deserve it. It is like how a bank advertise loans in millions to the rich, but wont give 100k to the poor.

pansophist:
If you will talk to the principal about it, then you must put his interest at heart. His interest is in what you bring to the firm, and it seems like you are good at what you do.

Going to the next stage of your life is in your interest, not his, unless you align it. So if you will speak to him, then he must see how your photography skills, and studying law will contribute to his own affairs.

Understand why you are employed, and make sure that the value they want from you is assured. This is the very basis of your negotiating power, and you must not loose it.

In every relationship between two organisms, the fundamental dynamic playing is the dynamic of power (strength and weakness). As an employee, you are weak, except in a situation where you are irreplaceable.

Otherwise, you rather save up, and bid your time. If you have calculated that such discourse might lead to a dissolution of your partnership, then you must be patience and prepare to a point where you are fine if both interest does not align.

About the women in your office, I wonder why you focused on the wealth as an introduction. When it comes to women, wealth should not be the determining factor. It can be one of the qualifying factors, but not a determinant.

You need good character, which will bring you peace. What you need as a man is peace. I do not know the level you are playing at already, or intend to play at, but a wealthy, woman that brings you war at home after daily hustle will break your soul and will turn ugly in your eyes in no time.

This is not to say that a wealthy woman cant bring peace, but it is like picking a well-designed car with faulty engine. The Engine (character) of any car you will buy is more important than appearance (beauty) or features (wealth). If the character is good, then you will enjoy her wealth and beauty.

Having said that, just make sure that your personal development in wealth, knowledge and sophistication never enter stagnation. We mirror who we are. A simple statement yet, so profound.

Most doors will open not because you want it, but because you deserve it. It is like how a bank advertise loans in millions to the rich, but wont give 100k to the poor.

Thanks so much man. Omo! So many things to learn from you, You dey burst my head.
I'll strategize on this.

Many thanks ♥️♥️♥️♥️.