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Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Mountbatten: 8:25pm On Oct 08, 2025
Emu4life:
A fool @ 40 is a fool forever
You're rude 💀
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by eepeepook: 8:27pm On Oct 08, 2025
Information reaching me says that one man’s opinion is not enough to change my life.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Ofekongsk(m): 8:27pm On Oct 08, 2025
Most people get married not because they love each other
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Thephilosopher1: 8:36pm On Oct 08, 2025
otomatic:
"By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you will be happy; if not, you will become a philosopher"
Says Socrates
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by FuckYeyeMods: 8:38pm On Oct 08, 2025
Sabadon:
you attract your type, be a good man you ll attract a good woman... tho not a general rule, but most often times than non
False.. either you're good or not, some women will all be stupid
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by fergieboy: 8:42pm On Oct 08, 2025
Same here but I go born sha
Atleast 3kids
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by otomatic(m): 8:48pm On Oct 08, 2025
Thephilosopher1:
Says Socrates
Your moniker shows
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by EXPRESSSMAN(m): 8:49pm On Oct 08, 2025
Ambassadors:
Marriage is getting scarrier in this generation. I may never marry.
Please marry, don't be afraid. Nothing is easy in life. Many of us wrote Jamb up to 6 times. We did not quit because it was hard.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Morenikeji090(m): 8:50pm On Oct 08, 2025
lol I want you to now understand something that. Your word by saying to hell with married is beyond your mouth and mentality cos God who create man and woman you don’t know more than him…. So don’t let this crazy things get u carried away… and if u still choose to have that mentality of to hell with marriage you won’t understand now when u are still young you gonna understand when u get older that will make you understand why God almighty created man and woman to be together…
Comfortableme:
Wait, una wey don marry how is it going? It's like the good wife's has been married off. Because na almost every day I dey see news of wife killing her husband, one even use knife cut her husband preak. Am in my 40s but let marriage go to dungeon. No wife, no kids am good. My mama no kill my papa make one woman no come make my family cry over me.
Ire ooo
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Bluffly: 9:01pm On Oct 08, 2025
Comfortableme:
Wait, una wey don marry how is it going? It's like the good wife's has been married off. Because na almost every day I dey see news of wife killing her husband, one even use knife cut her husband preak. Am in my 40s but let marriage go to dungeon. No wife, no kids am good. My mama no kill my papa make one woman no come make my family cry over me.
Ire ooo
It is same people like you whose lives is about fear that commits those heinous acts. Crimes are nursed by fear
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Lekby25: 9:08pm On Oct 08, 2025
Gabrielshow24:
What year were you born? 🤨
So, he must there before ’it’ can be counted as a fact🤧.
I beg make una try write good English nah, abi na house you do GCE ni
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by merits(m): 9:13pm On Oct 08, 2025
Comfortableme:
Wait, una wey don marry how is it going? It's like the good wife's has been married off. Because na almost every day I dey see news of wife killing her husband, one even use knife cut her husband preak. Am in my 40s but let marriage go to dungeon. No wife, no kids am good. My mama no kill my papa make one woman no come make my family cry over me.
Ire ooo
All these your excuses won't save you during old age,old is inevitable and it's imminent at least you are now 40years in the 10years reality of not having a wife and child would set into your life.Please just remain single and see for yourself.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Taquin(f):
columbus007:
this a very obvious body shaming and a bully. undecided
I’m not age shaming anyone. He literally commented his age and the vibes that it comes with
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by iLoveYouToo(m): 9:16pm On Oct 08, 2025
Sabadon:
you attract your type, be a good man you ll attract a good woman... tho not a general rule, but most often times than non
Stop contradicting yourself
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Ayokequeen(m): 9:24pm On Oct 08, 2025
Bros Wetin you come gain? Las las na you lose na because no be every marriage is hell. No matter who you are once you neglect the Author of marriage it can never work whether you be pastor e no mean. The truth be say marriage is sweet for those who find grace.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by greatman247(m): 9:27pm On Oct 08, 2025
Sabadon:
you attract your type, be a good man you ll attract a good woman... tho not a general rule, but most often times than non
Who tell you? Dey play! Sometimes, it doesn't seem like that. Life is funny in fact very funny and at the same time life is crazy. Have you heard about the statement "The good die young" and some very brilliant, highly intelligent and very hardworking guy while in school may not even make it in life eventually such person may even get employed by a guy who was so lazy and dullard in school. This goes to say, to make it in life requires quite a few things than hardwork, brilliance and intelligence.

You may even do good to people such as sponsoring them through life, give them clothes, shelter and feed them daily, this does not mean this same persons you have helped will not betray you along the line. In fact someone you often help with money may even be wishing you go dead broke and he may even be working day and night to ensure you have nothing. Life is deeper than you think, my friend

Same with marriage. A very bad lady or prostitute may get lucky in life and marry a rich good man while a very decent lady may end up with a drunkard broke and even evil man. E get why!
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by simplelad(m): 9:30pm On Oct 08, 2025
I will be very disappointed if you get any woman pregnant out of wedlock. Stick to your ambition till eternity. Please.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Zocalite: 9:32pm On Oct 08, 2025
Question

Are you banging a woman?
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Zocalite: 9:42pm On Oct 08, 2025
Morenikeji090:
lol I want you to now understand something that. Your word by saying to hell with married is beyond your mouth and mentality cos God who create man and woman you don’t know more than him…. So don’t let this crazy things get u carried away… and if u still choose to have that mentality of to hell with marriage you won’t understand now when u are still young you gonna understand when u get older that will make you understand why God almighty created man and woman to be together…
Hmmmm
Creating man and woman, does it translates to marriage

Marriage is union of man and woman, for sex, procreation, companionship

In the Bible Paul didn't marry, he even advised people to stay unmarried, cos marriage comes with mixture of sacrifice, trials, consequences,

But if you want to to stay unmarried, you must not fornicating
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Zocalite: 9:44pm On Oct 08, 2025
EXPRESSSMAN:
Please marry, don't be afraid. Nothing is easy in life. Many of us wrote Jamb up to 6 times. We did not quit because it was hard.
Lolzzzzz 🤣
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Guestmale: 9:46pm On Oct 08, 2025
ObaKlaz:
The likelihood of marrying a box-to-box midfielder, with many match caps naim even dey worse, than make one stupid woman cut your Gbolistic Gbola. Na oloshos full everywhere now.

Baba, stand your ground. If na to born pikin, find one woman gee bele, and take care of your offspring(s).

My mumu friends go come around, trying to trigger me by saying I wouldn't understand certain experiences because I ain't married yet. They say that with smug expressions on their faces, thinking I don't know that their wives are frying them like Ijebu Garri at home. And I even hol' bar pass dem.

Some of their silly wives behave so good around me, appearing very easy for me, if I had nasty intentions.

I bet If I splash some cash, I could clap their fat cheeks behind their goat husbands who happen to be my friends.
Please don't talk like this, marriage is good,marriage is ordained by God,if a man or a woman come to this world and died without marrying (except it is direct leading from God or any kind of extreme circumstances) he or she did not completely fulfill the purpose of his or her coming to this world
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by godofuck231: 9:47pm On Oct 08, 2025
A failed woman
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Revolva(m): 10:19pm On Oct 08, 2025
In today's world ..today's wvmen no be am ..they are unmarriageable let's be honest only 10 percent are good women

Ranging from feminism prostitushion disobedience uncultured and many more have made today's Nigerian gyals to be unbearable

Men have their own issues but a man can change later on but wvmen when e reach 35 years dem start to fade and menopause in d next five years draw closer
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by geoworldedu: 10:25pm On Oct 08, 2025
fnep2smooth:
That is your own choice, everyone get reason why they marry. As for me Na the below image be my target. grin
200k daily is like #2 o. Na that kine woman you wan go knack belle abi grin
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by olumaxi(m): 10:50pm On Oct 08, 2025
Some useless wife will even report u to her family after during husband/ wife normal misunderstanding


They are not worth it
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Arizoner: 10:54pm On Oct 08, 2025
Blossomfirst:
It's a personal choice. But when you get older we won't be here to cry with you when you regret missing out the good part of marriage
are you celibate
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by 10thTenthMan:
Comfortableme:
Wait, una wey don marry how is it going? It's like the good wife's has been married off. Because na almost every day I dey see news of wife killing her husband, one even use knife cut her husband preak. Am in my 40s but let marriage go to dungeon. No wife, no kids am good. My mama no kill my papa make one woman no come make my family cry over me.
Ire ooo
Well

A few things are objectively factual about marriage, especially from the male perspective:

1. Children brought up in a happy and balanced home tend to thrive better on the average. Search for Research Papers on this if in doubt. So it is a better environment to have, raise and nurture kids.

2. Marriage leads to some form of ''order'' in the society. You can easily trace people to their father, mother, and get details like father's name, mother's maiden name, etc. Useful for law enforcement and general mass control and discipline of the population.

3. A happy marriage brings companionship, support, company and cooperation to increase the family's wealth, influence, power, network, net worth, status, etc.

4. Being catered for and nurtured at the home/domestic front. Having a clean, well managed, peaceful, and happy place to go back to.

5. Intrinsic reward that you are married and running the ''marriage project'' . Some form of bragging right and joy of having a family to go back home to daily.

But you see say each of the points above get one kain coma? E get a condition. E dey based on whether the marriage itself get peace or na where Afghanistan and Gaza come together to do meeting with Darfur.

Since it is based on both parties and many women are not in tune with playing the traditional roles. And many men lie that they can manage monogamy but also sleep around and many women are also sleeping around, the marriage turf is a battlefield of disappointment, turnmoil and wahala.

So, if you won't miss the possibilities of long term commitment, raising children in a home with one woman, having support and companionship, being taken care of as per the domestic front, etc. etc. Or if you have effective and efficient alternatives to enjoy these benefits, then you may not want to marry.

As for me, I do not intend to marry. To date, Yes. To marry, No. I date ladies, yes. One at a time. And I break up and end it peacefully. I have things in my life I am chasing to achieve. I am on a mission and on my own journey. You, the lady, you are coming as a passenger to join me, in MY JOURNEY. I wont stop the journey because of you. That wont happen. I have various destinations of progress and growth and achievements. It is not one. And yes, I tell them this fact from the beginning. 99% of the times, they didn't mind. From the virgins, to pastor daughters, to nuns, name it. But married women and children, daughters/sisters of family and friends, intoxicated women, etc. are all boundaries.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by thatigboman: 11:38pm On Oct 08, 2025
And it's on Frontpage. Seems people are people to put their posts on Frontpage
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by GenFunction: 11:41pm On Oct 08, 2025
If u no look well marry ozwor,anything u see,tor
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Amsickindahead: 11:49pm On Oct 08, 2025
ObaKlaz:
The likelihood of marrying a box-to-box midfielder, with many match caps naim even dey worse, than make one stupid woman cut your Gbolistic Gbola. Na oloshos full everywhere now.

Baba, stand your ground. If na to born pikin, find one woman gee bele, and take care of your offspring(s).

My mumu friends go come around, trying to trigger me by saying I wouldn't understand certain experiences because I ain't married yet. They say that with smug expressions on their faces, thinking I don't know that their wives are frying them like Ijebu Garri at home. And I even hol' bar pass dem.

Some of their silly wives behave so good around me, appearing very easy for me, if I had nasty intentions.

I bet If I splash some cash, I could clap their fat cheeks behind their goat husbands who happen to be my friends.
lol..u a badass nigga
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Tenrack: 12:49am On Oct 09, 2025
Chikky111:
I will marry, live happily with my wife,may God give good soft spoken woman please
lol. Una just funny for this app olohun.
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