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Sonnobax15:

Guy, shouldn't you be thinking of how you'd conquer the labour market after graduation, instead of thinking about bannies wey no equally send you too?

Commentor:
No.

He's no longer a boy, but a man.

He can chew gum and walk at the same time.

It's best if he can find his mate in the one place in life that he'll be surrounded by the most women.

Someone he can grow with.

DoctorStanley:
Grow with? "After 6 years" he's in 400l

Commentor:
Could it be due to ASUU strike?

DoctorStanley:
Either way it's too late for him to "grow with" anyone in school. He's almost done

Commentor:
He should not find a partner.

Host78:
I am going to say this stuff and most guys will probably relate with it.

You may have noticed it too. But if you have not, as I describe this you'll understand it once.

So, when we just gained admission newly and resumed school, for most of us we just want to get the best grades.

But not just grades sha.

I personally made a vow that I'll have my first serious girlfriend from 100l.

My goal was that we could grow together from there and probably get married someday.

Don't blame me, your boy was young and naive then.

Most girls in 100l with us then just won't date us.

I mean some did but never anything serious.

Their eyes were rather on the senior students. These girls were going with guys in 300l and 400l students.

Omo, senior men wey we dey respect as guys naim these girls dey call 'baby'.

100l was tough.

You will toast this girl today and both of you'll be feeling it and the next day same girl will break up with you.

Not that you did anything o. Na senior student Don toast her be that.

Now here's the problem. It's 6 years after and we are in 400l.

We are now the 'highest' in the school.

And the obvious now is some of these girls are now trying to cling to us.

It's funny now sha. Person wey dey feel like say dem no fit look your side a few years ago now wan dey follow you package stuff.

Unfortunately, me no too send them again. Fresh babes are coming in every year and they seem better, look more eager and tends to demand less.

So why would I leave such for my mate who dem chew for my front and she's still demanding something serious?

I also think this same thing happens in the real dating world.

These girls in their younger age will go after matured men leaving boys in their age groups.

A few years later, these boys will catch up and the girls will want to come back but then younger girls go don already dey.

Commentor:
➜He should not find a partner.

Kobojunkie:
From what he posted, he needs to find himself a solid job and life before anyone would want to partner with him. So, shouldn't it then follow that you encourage him in the right direction and not the one that he seems fixated on?

Fekumzi123:
10 Years from now, you'll regret the time you wasted thinking about women that don't even know you exist instead studying more and finish with good grades.

Commentor:
➜He should wait until he has a duplex and G-wagon.

Kobojunkie:
He should or he should find himself an unemployed woman(probably uneducated too) out there who sees him as his ticket out of poverty to settle with, like the millions of married-by-force folks out there. When she finds herself another man to level up with, she go latch on to that one.

Stay there... He dey find gals to look your way without you needing to level up, abi? There are millions of boys with such a mentality out there, so he won't be alone.

Commentor:
➜He'll find a lady right for him. Hope you'll find your own partner.

Commentor:
He should wait until he has a duplex and G-wagon.

KingDashx:
Una dey try oh
Una go school go dey chase woman.. we wey smart for school na them dey find us, even all those yahoo boys babes hear am for my hand.

Host78:
for your mind the rest of us no smart. you dey use cgpa and we no dey even use at all. go figure

Kobojunkie:
Life never do you tube-&-tire is why you're mouthing off that bullsheet! You'd better ask the millions of lonely Nigerian men roaming the campuses and streets of that country, some of them married(even some to more than one woman).🥱🥱🥱

Commentor:
➜Never been in that situation. I'm sure he'll be fine.

Kobojunkie:
It is already happening to him as he made this known right there in his OP. Yet, despite that, you wish to believe it could never happen to him? Are you sure you are OK in the head there? 🥱🥱🥱

Commentor:
You really don't read well, do you?

ednut1:
Your mates in 400l are not interested in you still. They are ready for marriage after nysc while it will take you guys 5-10 years to balance after school lol

Host78:


Some of una go siddon for una bed dey formulate statistics.

Commentor:
No.

He's no longer a boy, but a man.

He can chew gum and walk at the same time.

It's best if he can find his mate in the one place in life that he'll be surrounded by the most women.

Someone he can grow with.Nor mind am, oversabi

Goo0dHardDick:
That's how it works in life. Dude the girl you'll end up getting married to las las is probably still in primary school 🎒. You won't marry these ones and neither would they! They can't wait for you till you balance after school so they'll probably look for a man who's already balanced and available for marriage!