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Host78:
I am going to say this stuff and most guys will probably relate with it.

You may have noticed it too. But if you have not, as I describe this you'll understand it once.

So, when we just gained admission newly and resumed school, for most of us we just want to get the best grades.

But not just grades sha.

I personally made a vow that I'll have my first serious girlfriend from 100l.

My goal was that we could grow together from there and probably get married someday.

Don't blame me, your boy was young and naive then.

Most girls in 100l with us then just won't date us.

I mean some did but never anything serious.

Their eyes were rather on the senior students. These girls were going with guys in 300l and 400l students.

Omo, senior men wey we dey respect as guys naim these girls dey call 'baby'.

100l was tough.

You will toast this girl today and both of you'll be feeling it and the next day same girl will break up with you.

Not that you did anything o. Na senior student Don toast her be that.

Now here's the problem. It's 6 years after and we are in 400l.

We are now the 'highest' in the school.

And the obvious now is some of these girls are now trying to cling to us.

It's funny now sha. Person wey dey feel like say dem no fit look your side a few years ago now wan dey follow you package stuff.

Unfortunately, me no too send them again. Fresh babes are coming in every year and they seem better, look more eager and tends to demand less.

So why would I leave such for my mate who dem chew for my front and she's still demanding something serious?

I also think this same thing happens in the real dating world.

These girls in their younger age will go after matured men leaving boys in their age groups.

A few years later, these boys will catch up and the girls will want to come back but then younger girls go don already dey.

What you described is a natural process, it's nature taking its course not the female student's fault nor your fault so don't take it personal.



Women by nature date up not down.


Women by nature are wired to look up to their partner not look down. They crave to date or marry someone higher and better than them so they can depend on him, that is how nature wired all women, that some overcame this natural protocol is also normal because in every 12 there must be a Judas.



Every young man must bear this in mind and always remove eyes from girls of his age and go for the younger girls where he would have more competitive advantage.


Women tend to age faster than men.

Women have menopause, men don't have.

Time is against women, it's not against men.

Women naturally work with time because of how nature built them.


Before a woman look downwards when it comes to relationship, romance and marriage, she probably failed in looking upwards, or she was madly in love with her mate or someone younger from a long time. Take those scenarios away, women prefer to marry someone older than them, they prefer to date guys older, richer, better, taller, etc than them.

Why are you guys fighting the guy, what he said is true.

Host78:


Some of una go siddon for una bed dey formulate statistics.

It's not statistics, it is true. Only a few lucky or rich students find their feet immediately after first degree. A few get married to their mates especially if the female has a committed heart.

Your problem was desperation. Leave girls alone and update your dressing and smell. One will draw close to you on her own and will refuse to leave even if you tell her to go

Host78:
I am going to say this stuff and most guys will probably relate with it.

You may have noticed it too. But if you have not, as I describe this you'll understand it once.

So, when we just gained admission newly and resumed school, for most of us we just want to get the best grades.

But not just grades sha.

I personally made a vow that I'll have my first serious girlfriend from 100l.

My goal was that we could grow together from there and probably get married someday.

Don't blame me, your boy was young and naive then.

Most girls in 100l with us then just won't date us.

I mean some did but never anything serious.

Their eyes were rather on the senior students. These girls were going with guys in 300l and 400l students.

Omo, senior men wey we dey respect as guys naim these girls dey call 'baby'.

100l was tough.

You will toast this girl today and both of you'll be feeling it and the next day same girl will break up with you.

Not that you did anything o. Na senior student Don toast her be that.

Now here's the problem. It's 6 years after and we are in 400l.

We are now the 'highest' in the school.

And the obvious now is some of these girls are now trying to cling to us.

It's funny now sha. Person wey dey feel like say dem no fit look your side a few years ago now wan dey follow you package stuff.

Unfortunately, me no too send them again. Fresh babes are coming in every year and they seem better, look more eager and tends to demand less.

So why would I leave such for my mate who dem chew for my front and she's still demanding something serious?

I also think this same thing happens in the real dating world.

These girls in their younger age will go after matured men leaving boys in their age groups.

A few years later, these boys will catch up and the girls will want to come back but then younger girls go don already dey.

Oh Chim oo.

Can you focus on your studies first and leave girl matter for now.

You should start praying and fasting at 300L for God to direct your future well and give you his own purpose

Host78:
I am going to say this stuff and most guys will probably relate with it.

You may have noticed it too. But if you have not, as I describe this you'll understand it once.

So, when we just gained admission newly and resumed school, for most of us we just want to get the best grades.

But not just grades sha.

I personally made a vow that I'll have my first serious girlfriend from 100l.

My goal was that we could grow together from there and probably get married someday.

Don't blame me, your boy was young and naive then.

Most girls in 100l with us then just won't date us.

I mean some did but never anything serious.

Their eyes were rather on the senior students. These girls were going with guys in 300l and 400l students.

Omo, senior men wey we dey respect as guys naim these girls dey call 'baby'.

100l was tough.

You will toast this girl today and both of you'll be feeling it and the next day same girl will break up with you.

Not that you did anything o. Na senior student Don toast her be that.

Now here's the problem. It's 6 years after and we are in 400l.

We are now the 'highest' in the school.

And the obvious now is some of these girls are now trying to cling to us.

It's funny now sha. Person wey dey feel like say dem no fit look your side a few years ago now wan dey follow you package stuff.

Unfortunately, me no too send them again. Fresh babes are coming in every year and they seem better, look more eager and tends to demand less.

So why would I leave such for my mate who dem chew for my front and she's still demanding something serious?

I also think this same thing happens in the real dating world.

These girls in their younger age will go after matured men leaving boys in their age groups.

A few years later, these boys will catch up and the girls will want to come back but then younger girls go don already dey.

In my 100L na final year students I dey toast and I bin dey get dem .

I no dey even tell dem my level


I go just say my department and that is all.

I bin run dem wella

Even my padi man bin toast Post graduate master's student sef that year and both roll wella . She loved my guy like tomorrow no dey 😂😂

arantess:
Oh Chim oo.

Can you focus on your studies first and leave girl matter for now.

You should start praying and fasting at 300L for God to direct your future well and give you his own purpose

omo relax abeg. no be all of us dey approach life with fear

So you entered school with the mindset of getting babe from 100L

That's why most of you lack concentration.

As some discipline ones concentrate and pass exams with good grades, you were observing girls.

You see those guys that concentrated, graduate with good grade and gets a nice job, those your spec or kind of girls will crush on those guys today and settle with them.

As you graduate and get older without achievement, you will find it more difficult to have a girl of your type.

Many logically emotional beings go over shalaye today sha, Musa kawo mu kuli kuli de dankwa..

DoctorStanley:
Grow with? "After 6 years" he's in 400l

He's still growing. He will mature after ten years in 400l.

Host78:
I am going to say this stuff and most guys will probably relate with it.

You may have noticed it too. But if you have not, as I describe this you'll understand it once.

So, when we just gained admission newly and resumed school, for most of us we just want to get the best grades.

But not just grades sha.

I personally made a vow that I'll have my first serious girlfriend from 100l.

My goal was that we could grow together from there and probably get married someday.

Don't blame me, your boy was young and naive then.

Most girls in 100l with us then just won't date us.

I mean some did but never anything serious.

Their eyes were rather on the senior students. These girls were going with guys in 300l and 400l students.

Omo, senior men wey we dey respect as guys naim these girls dey call 'baby'.

100l was tough.

You will toast this girl today and both of you'll be feeling it and the next day same girl will break up with you.

Not that you did anything o. Na senior student Don toast her be that.

Now here's the problem. It's 6 years after and we are in 400l.

We are now the 'highest' in the school.

And the obvious now is some of these girls are now trying to cling to us.

It's funny now sha. Person wey dey feel like say dem no fit look your side a few years ago now wan dey follow you package stuff.

Unfortunately, me no too send them again. Fresh babes are coming in every year and they seem better, look more eager and tends to demand less.

So why would I leave such for my mate who dem chew for my front and she's still demanding something serious?

I also think this same thing happens in the real dating world.

These girls in their younger age will go after matured men leaving boys in their age groups.

A few years later, these boys will catch up and the girls will want to come back but then younger girls go don already dey.

My advice to you is to take your mind off this type of thing and focus fully on your education. That's what your parents sent you to school to do.

You'll have more than enough time for this later, else you'll end up like my junior brother who's in his 30's but his di.ck isn't working. He has used up himself in his stupidity. Now, he thinks that he'll get a big di.ck by taking my di.ck.

419 guys has finished him in the process, promising of using jazz to get back his di.ck. . He's so stupid and doesn't even know that's he's a scam victim, despite that I've warned him of everything I am saying.

Be warned!

NB: this is something I am still actively researching. I'll write about it here on Nairaland when I am through

It didnt start from uni, but from high school.

Girls in JSS3 are all after guys in SS3. Back then when I was in high school, cars are packed outside to pick up some of these girls. Their so called boyfriend.

Even in our neighbourhood, you see these girls hanging around with their bf in corners.

Infact some of the exotic foods like showarma many boys chop for the first time na from girls wey their bf buy am for

Nothing surprising here. It is nature playing its course. Just dont make anybody cheat you sha, that is your duty.

If your time reach, pick a younger woman that havent been damaged by other men, and be her first. It is exceptionally important that you are the first man of any girl you decide to be with.

Make you no suffer for wetin you no cause.

Any rat wey instead of digging his own hole, prefer to explore and enter another rat hole, make he no surprise if he find snake inside. If you no understand, na your wahala be that.

Is that what you're in school for..? LNY!!!

Host78:
I am going to say this stuff and most guys will probably relate with it.

You may have noticed it too. But if you have not, as I describe this you'll understand it once.

So, when we just gained admission newly and resumed school, for most of us we just want to get the best grades.

But not just grades sha.

I personally made a vow that I'll have my first serious girlfriend from 100l.

My goal was that we could grow together from there and probably get married someday.

Don't blame me, your boy was young and naive then.

Most girls in 100l with us then just won't date us.

I mean some did but never anything serious.

Their eyes were rather on the senior students. These girls were going with guys in 300l and 400l students.

Omo, senior men wey we dey respect as guys naim these girls dey call 'baby'.

100l was tough.

You will toast this girl today and both of you'll be feeling it and the next day same girl will break up with you.

Not that you did anything o. Na senior student Don toast her be that.

Now here's the problem. It's 6 years after and we are in 400l.

We are now the 'highest' in the school.

And the obvious now is some of these girls are now trying to cling to us.

It's funny now sha. Person wey dey feel like say dem no fit look your side a few years ago now wan dey follow you package stuff.

Unfortunately, me no too send them again. Fresh babes are coming in every year and they seem better, look more eager and tends to demand less.

So why would I leave such for my mate who dem chew for my front and she's still demanding something serious?

I also think this same thing happens in the real dating world.

These girls in their younger age will go after matured men leaving boys in their age groups.

A few years later, these boys will catch up and the girls will want to come back but then younger girls go don already dey.

This also happens in secondary school as well when I was in Jss3 their is lady who did same to me and she changed position come my side in ss2 I lash am and later ghost am
It's the sexual market value.As a young man your sexual market value increases and that young woman own started reduces as she clocks 26 upwards.
This is why between 18 years to 25 years they still in the market so as they get older they start to feel their sexual market value reducing that is when they will start coming around you looking for a serious relationship.
Bad guys have them in their prime for free (18-25), nice guys have them when they are fast losing their sexual market value

What is the IgnoramusNeverEvenBeginLifeFlyingFuck did I just read?

True most of us were once at this spot, but reading this write-up spell it out makes it so annoying to think one's mentality was once like this.

When I was ur age group and 100 level my class rep a pretty sexy girl was asking me out and even girls in higher classes i dont ask these girls out.. unless when I'm bored.

So I can't even relate to ur post my guy I'm sorry.

Obele nwa! ask any Igbo person the meaning.

I envy you. At this age, I was feeling the same as well.

Nevertheless, I would advise you to focus on your studies, plan for enterpreneurship after graduation. All these kitty-cats will be available and you will be tired of them in future. TO be candid, I heard similar advise while I was your age, but man must do something.

I just hope you will help break the cycle. Goodluck!

Host78:
I am going to say this stuff and most guys will probably relate with it.

You may have noticed it too. But if you have not, as I describe this you'll understand it once.

So, when we just gained admission newly and resumed school, for most of us we just want to get the best grades.

But not just grades sha.

I personally made a vow that I'll have my first serious girlfriend from 100l.

My goal was that we could grow together from there and probably get married someday.

Don't blame me, your boy was young and naive then.

Most girls in 100l with us then just won't date us.

I mean some did but never anything serious.

Their eyes were rather on the senior students. These girls were going with guys in 300l and 400l students.

Omo, senior men wey we dey respect as guys naim these girls dey call 'baby'.

100l was tough.

You will toast this girl today and both of you'll be feeling it and the next day same girl will break up with you.

Not that you did anything o. Na senior student Don toast her be that.

Now here's the problem. It's 6 years after and we are in 400l.

We are now the 'highest' in the school.

And the obvious now is some of these girls are now trying to cling to us.

It's funny now sha. Person wey dey feel like say dem no fit look your side a few years ago now wan dey follow you package stuff.

Unfortunately, me no too send them again. Fresh babes are coming in every year and they seem better, look more eager and tends to demand less.

So why would I leave such for my mate who dem chew for my front and she's still demanding something serious?

I also think this same thing happens in the real dating world.

These girls in their younger age will go after matured men leaving boys in their age groups.

A few years later, these boys will catch up and the girls will want to come back but then younger girls go don already dey.

DoctorStanley:
Grow with? "After 6 years" he's in 400l

Omo that line follow shock me

Make sure you find your wife in university days or nysc

Once you enter the rat race looking for money

You can no longer find a lady willing to build up with you, sorry is your name

You will have to buy your love and continue paying till it expires



I will advice anyone still in the university to leave books in the evening and go out, read your book in the morning and afternoon, find good girls, have fun while at it.

Before you close your eyes 4yrs don go, unless you plan to be single at 35

True love can only be found when you are in school

Sonnobax15:

Guy, shouldn't you be thinking of how you'd conquer the labour market after graduation, instead of thinking about bannies wey no equally send you too?

Lol nothing bad in what he said though… I don’t believe in making money and then searching for a woman to spend it with on after on…. Rather I believe in spending with the girl who was with you while you were climbing the ladder

That’s my piece

Bro, just face your life and leave these girls alone

dating in 3rd world countries are like that, girls there date for survival, you sef should focus on the freshers and leave the old cargoes too

We all experienced this as men, focus on your grind. by the time you are 30 and above and stabilized, most of those your classmates will either be married or out of the dating pool.

Ladies' market value is short hence they tend to find already made men, for a man, even at 50years, you are still in your prime

Sonnobax15:

Guy, shouldn't you be thinking of how you'd conquer the labour market after graduation, instead of thinking about bannies wey no equally send you too?

Guy, why do you guys always take so many things too serious. This is just a harmless post and a reality of life.
What makes you think he’s jobless. Did he beg you for money or job? Make una dey am take easy with this una seriosness abeg

Ade1177:
Make sure you find your wife in university days or nysc

Once you enter the rat race looking for money

You can no longer find a lady willing to build up with you, sorry is your name

You will have to buy your love and continue paying till it expires



I will advice anyone still in the university to leave books in the evening and go out, read your book in the morning and afternoon, find good girls, have fun while at it.

Before you close your eyes 4yrs don go, unless you plan to be single at 35

True love can only be found when you are in school

If you like find her at 100l, she can still be taken from you
post NYSC when you are trying to find your feet, she will leave for a man who is ready
You can find a good woman anytime, provided you search in the right places

Fekumzi123:
10 Years from now, you'll regret the time you wasted thinking about women that don't even know you exist instead studying more and finish with good grades.

And what makes you think he’s in the labour market now? Una too dey some matter too serious

Host78:
I am going to say this stuff and most guys will probably relate with it.

You may have noticed it too. But if you have not, as I describe this you'll understand it once.

So, when we just gained admission newly and resumed school, for most of us we just want to get the best grades.

But not just grades sha.

I personally made a vow that I'll have my first serious girlfriend from 100l.

My goal was that we could grow together from there and probably get married someday.

Don't blame me, your boy was young and naive then.

Most girls in 100l with us then just won't date us.

I mean some did but never anything serious.

Their eyes were rather on the senior students. These girls were going with guys in 300l and 400l students.

Omo, senior men wey we dey respect as guys naim these girls dey call 'baby'.

100l was tough.

You will toast this girl today and both of you'll be feeling it and the next day same girl will break up with you.

Not that you did anything o. Na senior student Don toast her be that.

Now here's the problem. It's 6 years after and we are in 400l.

We are now the 'highest' in the school.

And the obvious now is some of these girls are now trying to cling to us.

It's funny now sha. Person wey dey feel like say dem no fit look your side a few years ago now wan dey follow you package stuff.

Unfortunately, me no too send them again. Fresh babes are coming in every year and they seem better, look more eager and tends to demand less.

So why would I leave such for my mate who dem chew for my front and she's still demanding something serious?

I also think this same thing happens in the real dating world.

These girls in their younger age will go after matured men leaving boys in their age groups.

A few years later, these boys will catch up and the girls will want to come back but then younger girls go don already dey.

it is a cycle

sometimes you are up, sometimes you are down

When you make money, find one young girl and marry. She sef would dump her 400L boyfriend and marry you. You are only crying here because na your hand them break. 15yrs from now your tone would change. Except of course you don't make money to make settling down easier and more desirable. Your anger would be x500.

pocohantas:
When you make money, find one young girl and marry. She sef would dump her 400L boyfriend and marry you. You are only crying now because na your hand them break. 15yrs from now, your tone would change. Except of course if you don't make money to make settling down easier and more desirable. Your anger would be x500.

this here

we see am for school.

this dude dating this babe. both medico. 300l /400l i forget next thing one dude from schlumberger started toasting the babe

how do you match nacking while hanging leg on burglar proof to knacking in privacy in AC in fancy bed and big tv .

same way i knew a guy who was dating this chick in secondary school. they now entred same uni. teh babe fiine and teh guy dey just there. as in it was glaring.the babe even tried to be loyal but guy dey seriously insecure, and he was actually slapping her around on top.

when you dey 100L, the babes in your set are in demand - when you are in 400l, na you dey in demand it is a cycle.

also, if you are a erm patient dog type - just wait till 200L, the chicks wey u dey eye in 100l wey no dey give you the time of the day - will be all over you because they will be STARVED for attention.

as a parent - this is something i realise one needs to teach ones daughter about - october rush and distractions and how you can forget what you came to school for

Except of course if you don't make money

money na koko because if you erm hammer well well as a guy some women that ignored your chewing gum arse for what they thought was a made man at the time . . . .na so some abroadians dey do detty decemeber with peoples gfs and wives

Sonnobax15:

Guy, shouldn't you be thinking of how you'd conquer the labour market after graduation, instead of thinking about bannies wey no equally send you too?

Sonnobax15:

Guy, shouldn't you be thinking of how you'd conquer the labour market after graduation, instead of thinking about bannies wey no equally send you too?

Leave him.
After graduation and NYSC, all handouts and upkeeps from parent and extended family will stop.
They won't listen to your excuses or reasons to give you money again.
That is when LIFE will slap a reset button back on him.
Even the small bannies he gets now will leave him for a closer new 400Lv guy when he is out of campus.
Have seen this play out over and over

emmaodet:
Leave him.
After graduation and NYSC, all handouts and upkeeps from parent and extended family will stop.
They won't listen to your excuses or reasons to give you money again.
That is when LIFE will slap a reset button back on him.
Even the small bannies he gets now will leave him for a closer new 400Lv guy when he is out of campus.
Have seen this play out over and over

Why do you all think everyone's life experience is the same as yours?

Commentor:
➜Why do you all think everyone's life experience is the same as yours?

What makes you believe that by entering the same input as others before you — doing things as so many others before you have — that you will somehow come out with a result so many times different than theirs? I think this is a more valid question to ask at this point, given what we know of human behavior and consequences/outcomes.