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Namaster:
"Tensions reportedly began when the woman asserted authority over her husband, threatening to remove him from the visa because he was only listed as a dependent."



The moment a woman possesses even a SEMBLANCE of power over her husband is the moment the marriage becomes a SHIPWRECK.

They CANNOT help it.

This one was NOT even patient enough to settle down before "showing her husband pepper".

Thank God that the man knows how to FIGHT DIRTY. And even more importantly, that he was WILLING to do so.

LESSER men would have allowed the WIIIITTTTCH to BANISH them to the hellish streets of Nigeria while the woman enjoys her life in the UK forming STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN with money that was BORROWED by the man.

Now that she has SCATTERED everything that took time, effort and stress to plan, her eyes will CLEAR!

I TRUST the man will NEVER take her back.
She's going to shoulder her own BURDEN by herself.

By the time she marinates in the Great Tinubulation for 6 months, she'll REGRET her life.

In fact, she's going to REGRET her senseless actions for the rest of her life.

KUDOS to the man in this story!

I agree... Infact want to become tin god in the home.

The power tussle that enters some women once they get abroad is nothing to write home about.

You planned this relocation with your husband, only for you to get to the UK and you're trying to remove him just because you both had little quarrel.

Should we call this lack of common sense or what?

If you believe this cock and bull story then you can believe that there's peace in Nigeria

Kobojunkie:
These una stories no dey add up. Please provide a link to the direct source of the story and not silly gossip. 🥱🥱🥱

It's a fake story created just to scare up social media traffic and engagement

What an amazing decision by the UK Government.
The USA should learn from the UK.
The Madness by these Lowlifers must be tamed

Apcshit:
Fake story

Everything reeks

It might not be totally fake.

Nairalander248:
But how Una dey marry person you no even love? How?

Western world dey scatter love...Once these jezebel of women tasted Western life the love go vanish. There are many werey women over there.

Nairalander248:
But how Una dey marry person you no even love? How?

Ha brother, na you dey talk this one? I mean, it is no longer news that Nigerian women don't always love who they get married to. Age, societal pressure and/or hypergamy is always the reason for them...

YoungLionken:
➜Ha brother, na you dey talk this one? I mean, it is no longer news that Nigerian women don't always love who they get married to. Age, societal pressure and/or hypergamy is always the reason for them...

So, Nigerian men, love their wives, na the women no wan love them back, abi?

OgaTheTop2:
Western world dey scatter love...Once these jezebel of women tasted Western life the love go vanish. There are many werey women over there.

Rather than look inwards, you would rather blame the Western world and life, abi?

otherway:
If you believe this nonsense you will believe anything.

Do you know the cost of deporting one person?

In most cases, only those who pose threat to UK as a country are deported in this manner.

Secondly, the UK has so much respect for kids and they will give soft landing to any matters that involve kids.

So I can say with my full chest that this story is made up.

Yes they can cancel their stay 100% but going as far as deporting them is not plausible.

Do you stay in the UK or work with the UK visas and immigration

Namaster:
"Tensions reportedly began when the woman asserted authority over her husband, threatening to remove him from the visa because he was only listed as a dependent."



The moment a woman possesses even a SEMBLANCE of power over her husband is the moment the marriage becomes a SHIPWRECK.

They CANNOT help it.

This one was NOT even patient enough to settle down before "showing her husband pepper".

Thank God that the man knows how to FIGHT DIRTY. And even more importantly, that he was WILLING to do so.

LESSER men would have allowed the WIIIITTTTCH to BANISH them to the hellish streets of Nigeria while the woman enjoys her life in the UK forming STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN with money that was BORROWED by the man.

Now that she has SCATTERED everything that took time, effort and stress to plan, her eyes will CLEAR!

I TRUST the man will NEVER take her back.
She's going to shoulder her own BURDEN by herself.

By the time she marinates in the Great Tinubulation for 6 months, she'll REGRET her life.

In fact, she's going to REGRET her senseless actions for the rest of her life.

KUDOS to the man in this story!

This is not completely true!
I joined my wife and two children on a spouse visa! For the first 6 months I didn’t earn a dime and my wife was the one looking after the family expense. Not once did she deny me sex maliciously, not once did she complain, not once did she make me feel uneasy! In fact when I became restless and was desperate for any job, she was adamant I must never do any odd job! She later facilitated a role I wasn’t qualified for, and helped me negotiate the opportunity to learn on the job, this was just 6 years ago!
Sometimes when I throw tantrums, she was always calm. I bet you, she isn’t the only one like that, there are many women who are the sole provider and are never disrespectful!

Women hate men naturally since old time, still want to slide your husband…my personal experience no fit allow me trust woman..if I do 1m u suppose still fit run 100k ..not because of anything, let her take responsibilities too

Namaster:
"Tensions reportedly began when the woman asserted authority over her husband, threatening to remove him from the visa because he was only listed as a dependent."



The moment a woman possesses even a SEMBLANCE of power over her husband is the moment the marriage becomes a SHIPWRECK.

They CANNOT help it.

This one was NOT even patient enough to settle down before "showing her husband pepper".

Thank God that the man knows how to FIGHT DIRTY. And even more importantly, that he was WILLING to do so.

LESSER men would have allowed the WIIIITTTTCH to BANISH them to the hellish streets of Nigeria while the woman enjoys her life in the UK forming STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN with money that was BORROWED by the man.

Now that she has SCATTERED everything that took time, effort and stress to plan, her eyes will CLEAR!

I TRUST the man will NEVER take her back.
She's going to shoulder her own BURDEN by herself.

By the time she marinates in the Great Tinubulation for 6 months, she'll REGRET her life.

In fact, she's going to REGRET her senseless actions for the rest of her life.

KUDOS to the man in this story!

Gbsmsulotey hahahahahahaha Muchechecheche Hehehehehe 😂

Sani satani….

the woman is now a government official who can revoke visas?

interesting

Kobojunkie:
These una stories no dey add up. Please provide a link to the direct source of the story and not silly gossip. 🥱🥱🥱

Nobody owes you any proof. Believe it or bounce off. Once you read of any badly behaved woman that was properly served, you get uncomfortable.

Namaster:
"Tensions reportedly began when the woman asserted authority over her husband, threatening to remove him from the visa because he was only listed as a dependent."



The moment a woman possesses even a SEMBLANCE of power over her husband is the moment the marriage becomes a SHIPWRECK.

They CANNOT help it.

This one was NOT even patient enough to settle down before "showing her husband pepper".

Thank God that the man knows how to FIGHT DIRTY. And even more importantly, that he was WILLING to do so.

LESSER men would have allowed the WIIIITTTTCH to BANISH them to the hellish streets of Nigeria while the woman enjoys her life in the UK forming STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN with money that was BORROWED by the man.

Now that she has SCATTERED everything that took time, effort and stress to plan, her eyes will CLEAR!

I TRUST the man will NEVER take her back.
She's going to shoulder her own BURDEN by herself.

By the time she marinates in the Great Tinubulation for 6 months, she'll REGRET her life.

In fact, she's going to REGRET her senseless actions for the rest of her life.

KUDOS to the man in this story!

Marinate sent me 😂🤣

Namaster:
"Tensions reportedly began when the woman asserted authority over her husband, threatening to remove him from the visa because he was only listed as a dependent."



The moment a woman possesses even a SEMBLANCE of power over her husband is the moment the marriage becomes a SHIPWRECK.

They CANNOT help it.

This one was NOT even patient enough to settle down before "showing her husband pepper".

Thank God that the man knows how to FIGHT DIRTY. And even more importantly, that he was WILLING to do so.

LESSER men would have allowed the WIIIITTTTCH to BANISH them to the hellish streets of Nigeria while the woman enjoys her life in the UK forming STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN with money that was BORROWED by the man.

Now that she has SCATTERED everything that took time, effort and stress to plan, her eyes will CLEAR!

I TRUST the man will NEVER take her back.
She's going to shoulder her own BURDEN by herself.

By the time she marinates in the Great Tinubulation for 6 months, she'll REGRET her life.

In fact, she's going to REGRET her senseless actions for the rest of her life.

KUDOS to the man in this story!

Lmao 🤣

His wife should be blamed.

I don't know how some women are quiet senseless, hopeless and not deep thinking at the same time. Very selfish to a fault. While men take risk to make sure they live fine and ok with the kids , some of them claim never to unshaken the chord that binds their immediate family and friends together just to accommodate the poor man. So where is the trust .

You see, know yourself and know God . The moment you see any form action in your wife that can cause you guys a fortune in future, pls don't give her any big and serious responsibility in life and also put the ones you give her into checks.
1. Pay your children school fees yourself
2. Buy them things directly yourself and let the children know that you're responsible for it.
3. Never play a second fiddle to her, even if you're still jobless and seeking for a decent job , always carry yourself with dignity especially in front of your inlaws and don't stay too close to them. There must be a distance
4. And if you're a Christian pls read this verse especially for those foolish ones amongst you that still wan to argue . I got not time for that .Micah 7 vs 5

I have a friend like that that has been trapped in the UK the same way , he was separated from the wife for almost 4 years and the wife tried taking the kids out to UK but was rejected except in the orders of their father, now the families prevailed on him to follow them cos of the children. Now the lady is showing him pepper etc even to the extent of lambasting the hell out of him , denying him sex and monitoring how he spends his money, ordering him to send money to her own parents . He was communicating before but now the guy don hook. Will that not cause depression . Buy I warned him, now he is on his own. What a woman cannot do does not exist.

Who funds the money for the Visa, the money they borrowed came from who? He or she. If it is the man that sourced for the loan he is the most stupid human being on earth.

See what the act of wickedness, impatient, pride and greedness had caused them.

They tasted happiness for having the visa and being in UK for a short period. They used their stupidity to destroyed themselves.

We need to learn how to forgive and forget easily.
Vengeance always take peace of mind from you.

No sympathy at all. That money can set up a small scale business that can blossom in no time.

Why are some women so selfish. I give it to the men oooo,man makes money he wants the whole family to feel the comfort even at his own expense but woman make money just look away oooo cos she no send you. Even if you're trying to give a credible advise they see you as a gold digger

Suicide loading

2aces:
Madam thought she was smart na ,you want to japa without oga and leave him to pay 20 mil gbese abi
Women and selfishness

new UK law, if women mess up they follow there oga come back

Namaster:
"Tensions reportedly began when the woman asserted authority over her husband, threatening to remove him from the visa because he was only listed as a dependent."



The moment a woman possesses even a SEMBLANCE of power over her husband is the moment the marriage becomes a SHIPWRECK.

They CANNOT help it.

This one was NOT even patient enough to settle down before "showing her husband pepper".

Thank God that the man knows how to FIGHT DIRTY. And even more importantly, that he was WILLING to do so.

LESSER men would have allowed the WIIIITTTTCH to BANISH them to the hellish streets of Nigeria while the woman enjoys her life in the UK forming STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN with money that was BORROWED by the man.

Now that she has SCATTERED everything that took time, effort and stress to plan, her eyes will CLEAR!

I TRUST the man will NEVER take her back.
She's going to shoulder her own BURDEN by herself.

By the time she marinates in the Great Tinubulation for 6 months, she'll REGRET her life.

In fact, she's going to REGRET her senseless actions for the rest of her life.

KUDOS to the man in this story!

Take one beer for my head

Imagine lost upon lost. When you think you marry Marry in Jezebel disguise.

Nairalander248:
But how Una dey marry person you no even love? How?

Nigerian women don’t marry for Love they marry for money,
They marry because they are due for marriage and all their friends are getting married
It is not unique to only Nigerian women, Indian women and many other nationalities of women especially from poor countries or poor background marry for money or as a way to get out of poverty so they marry a man they dont ordinarily like and they are not even really attracted to the man.
So they can show the man pepper without remorse because they don’t like him they only like his money.
If they can find a way to enjoy the money without seeing his ugly face they will gladly take that option hence when they get abroad divorce becomes their top priority.

If you want to see real couples in love check out couples who are from different race, different religion, who got married against all odds, couples who fought and struggled with their family and friends just to be together. People whose parents or society cut them off for marrying someone of a different caste, race, financial background etc.

When these types of couples talk or even look at each other you can see the love nobody needs to tell you these people are in love you can see it, you can feel it.
But papa Emma and mama Emma who got married because they mistakenly got pregnant and were forced to marry or just because they were told that is what people their age should do after touching small money or reaching a certain age they CANNOT have that same fire in their hearts and souls for each other as the other couples who actually love themselves.

With couples who are actually in Love even if they aren’t together, they will not want to see the other spouse suffer great pain or hardship, small pain just to learn lesson maybe but great pain and hardship not at all. That Love you have for them will not allow you let that person suffer unnecessarily especially when you can help.

Its like any other love: the Love a mother or father should have for a child, if you have that love for a child yes you may want to discipline them small with doctor do-good to correct them from time to time (small suffering to teach them a lesson) but you will not want them to be permanently disfigured as a result infact your doctor-do-good small suffering is to prevent them big suffering or from doing something that will lead them to suffer some great harm.
But wicked aunties maltreating their house-helps dont love those children (house-helps) that is why they can maltreat them so much
It is the same thing with these type of women who do things like these to their husbands; they never loved those men. Na money dem find come.

If you have experienced true love as a Nigerian man you will understand what I mean. But unfortunately most Nigerian men and women will never experience true love because most Nigerian women are disguising lust for money as Love, and most Nigerian men misinterpret a woman's interest in their money as love for them.
A woman who cannot love you without money does not love you with money.

I have a friend, Nigerian guy, who dated this korean girl when she was leaving the country he told her he will give her anything she asks for she should ask she said she will think of something she really wants she couldn't come up with anything on the spot 2 days later she ran towards him smiling excitedly and yelling I know what I want, I want that your red hat and one t shirt he wears often to chill at home. This naija boy looked flabbergasted and asked this babe are you sure? It’s only a $5 hat, She said yes this hat reminds me alot of us and the shirt smells like you I’m never washing it, I’ll hug it or smell whenever I miss you.
This man told me “guy I thought she would ask me for something else, something more costly more expensive, if na naija girl she for done ask for one expensive purse or new iphone”

Most Nigerian men will never experience that level of love.
And most Nigerian women will never love their husbands to the extent of missing the man for the man. Not because of what he does or how much he spends.

To the few who have found real true Love, Congratulations, cherish it, it is extremely rare.