I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! - Christianity Etc (5)

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Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by PerfectStranger(m): 4:52pm On Oct 12, 2025

lacasera14:
When they ban me now you'll run.

They can only ban you on earth not in heaven grin

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by EMIOMOADEOYE: 4:55pm On Oct 12, 2025

When someone publicly declares their virginity at 40, it often says less about purity and more about pain. A person who’s genuinely at peace with celibacy doesn’t need to announce it. Peace doesn’t seek validation.

I respect anyone who’s managed to remain a virgin that long; it’s no small feat in this world.

But it does make me wonder. Was it a conscious choice, or a quiet consequence of circumstances?

Too often, I’ve noticed that many women raised in extremely conservative circles — take Deeper Life women, for instance — struggle to connect socially.

It’s rarely about holiness alone; sometimes, it’s about being so closed off that no one can reach them.

And if so many share that same struggle, maybe it’s not a personal issue. Perhaps it’s a systemic one.

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Kemadealadire(f): 4:57pm On Oct 12, 2025

Virginity should be kept in obedience to God's word that says to keep the marriage bed undefiled and not for any man.

And there's absolutely nothing wrong or shameful about keeping your virginity in your 40s, 50s etc. if unmarried even when the world says otherwise.

God is the only one men should seek to please. Sexual purity applies to both male and female, none is left out.

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Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by riczy(m): 5:11pm On Oct 12, 2025

Let me sniff it if her claims are right or wrong, besides pain landed amongst those who are not, to them the sister lied, I have seen so many my self!. Cry if u like!

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by ussv: 5:26pm On Oct 12, 2025

Nice one ! Now go and collect your award

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by gtassure: 5:56pm On Oct 12, 2025

purples25:
Nobody cares but men on this platform go around using that same virginity (the lack of it) to shame women.

Those men you refer to are not men but boys! Any adult man knows that been a woman has nothing to do with virginity!

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by purples25(f): 6:12pm On Oct 12, 2025

gtassure:
Those men you refer to are not men but boys! Any adult man knows that been a woman has nothing to do with virginity!

Then there are many many boys in adult bodies on this platform.

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Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Callmemimitv: 6:19pm On Oct 12, 2025

No be lie 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Expanse2020(m): 6:29pm On Oct 12, 2025

Amotolongbo:
Virgin by appearance or anatomy?

To enter this kind of cave person have to hold a sharp chisel with slegg hammer with a hard knock on the cave ...pauuu before the gate will open...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Expanse2020(m): 6:31pm On Oct 12, 2025

AntiChristian:
Having the virginity intact is something common in the olden days! Nowadays, this culture is still prevalent in some families.

Virgins should be hotcakes! I wonder why guys are not marrying them all! If guys were marrying 2, 3 or 4 wives all these old virgins won't remain!

Samson would rather go look for Delilah to make straight!

🤣🤣🤣🤣 To enter that highland self person go look for strong navigation in order not wander like a ghost in the highland 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Expanse2020(m): 6:32pm On Oct 12, 2025

lacasera14:
I wonder how their first experience will look like. Now I would have loved to say certain things but the mods will ban me. I wish we can have a similar platform where everyone can just spill and rant all they want.

Let have it
Let have it...
Don't hold back
🤣🤣🤣🤣

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by judewrites: 6:46pm On Oct 12, 2025

R0LL0N:
My aunt is 51 attended deeper life. Am typing this in tears as she is still trusting God for a suitor. I prayed everyday to God to send her a helper.

Marriage is good, but once you miss God's will or marry the wrong person, marriage figuratively can be as hot as hell.

Your aunt should never rush to find a spouse, let her wait on God, He's never too late or too early.

One secret to find a life partner is finding favour with God especially through worship.

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Ogbenisoft28(m): 6:47pm On Oct 12, 2025

Make me understand! Mummy Esther was a virgin at 65 huh

Does that mean she doesn’t have a child?

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Arizoner: 6:52pm On Oct 12, 2025

Jabar2017:
This ones are just missing....I no understand how person go come dis life ND did not taste good dick......

you don forrc virgin before?

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Arizoner: 6:53pm On Oct 12, 2025

GUNITGuy:
Deeper life wife find me in Jesus name Amen

you dey forcc virgin?

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Arizoner: 6:55pm On Oct 12, 2025

phemray:
Lolz, I think men are not really marrying virgins nowadays because they want ladies with experience in bed.

so you prefer a gal that has tasted it b4?

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by tete7000(m): 7:01pm On Oct 12, 2025

UkoAnnang:

This epistle could be true

Religious over zealous people hardly find a husband man

There's this witness girl I fell in love with this year she is in her forties and i believe to be a virgin. I love are so dearly and willy to marry her then, but the condition she gave me was that I must attend their congregation before she settled down with me. She said her mom won't accept the marriage except I converted to their own church. I tried to make her change her mindset but it couldn't work. As renowned Catholic I find it very difficult to do that and have to let her go.

As a Catholic, your belief and witnesses belief are at loggerheads. Infact, most of their preachings are targeted specifically against Catholicism. For a Catholic to marry a person born, brought up and indoctrinated witnesses way would spell doom for the marriage, it is good you let her go, you did yourself so much good. Even she would have been disfellowship and ostracised has she gone with you. There are things only love cannot conquer.

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Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by gtassure: 8:19pm On Oct 12, 2025

Goodlady:
Wish you the same.

I'm not a virgin! Lol! Kolewerk!

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by bandad: 8:36pm On Oct 12, 2025

Daejumong:
“There are many virgins in their forties,fifties and sixties in Deeper Life. I was a virgin up to my forties. Even Mummy Esther Kumuyi was a virgin at 65!” - Sister Joy( Former women’s leader in DLBC)

* Culled from Aunty Adunni reality show*

Food for Thought
-Is this peculiar to Deeper Life? Is there really a pandemic of unmarried women in the church?

- Is this due to the bottlenecks of the marriage committee? Are there things that can be done to make things easier for brethren to get married?

- The fact that Deeper Life women can retain their virginity into old age is one of the reasons I rate the church as one of the best ever. It takes a lot of spiritual strength,commitment and dedication to keep yourself with all the societal pressure to have kids and have a partner!

Matthew 19:29: "And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or fields for my sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life".

Dae Jumong 12/10/25

Really? Give yourself a big round of applause

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Teymanhenry(m): 9:05pm On Oct 12, 2025

Virginity is term often overrated. Being a virgin doesn't make you a better human than non virgins. So it'll only be right to stop the lies

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Father4all: 10:00pm On Oct 12, 2025

Who are they keeping if for

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by SwordBezalel: 10:07pm On Oct 12, 2025

Don't worry you will receive ballon dor award at the second coming of Christ... grin

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Talismann: 1:06am On Oct 13, 2025

R0LL0N:
My aunt is 51 attended deeper life. Am typing this in tears as she is still trusting God for a suitor. I prayed everyday to God to send her a helper.

no offense but make she chap chap run go convert to reverend sister make she dey fire dey go

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by Melonsmasher: 2:11am On Oct 13, 2025

Choiceone1:
But sleeping around is holiness? Listen to Ursef

You are a deeper life virgin at 60 and hates your neighbor, does that make you holy?

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by darediamond(m): 4:36am On Oct 13, 2025

MrPresident1:
Wundia at forty when you are not Gideon daughter

Is not the plan of God

What then is the plan of SATAN??
grin

Chaiiiii!!!
Nairanladers!!!!!!!
Ooooomo!!!!
grin

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by bewla(m): 4:40am On Oct 13, 2025

We4all:
Are you talking about Nigerian men or men from other planet? Is it not Nigerian men that are sleeping with dirty mad women, babies and imbeciles? They must have a weird taste, I suppose.

haaaaaass
Pls where we land so

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by WantsandMore: 5:31pm On Oct 13, 2025

UkoAnnang:

This epistle could be true

Religious over zealous people hardly find a husband man

There's this witness girl I fell in love with this year she is in her forties and i believe to be a virgin. I love are so dearly and willy to marry her then, but the condition she gave me was that I must attend their congregation before she settled down with me. She said her mom won't accept the marriage except I converted to their own church. I tried to make her change her mindset but it couldn't work. As renowned Catholic I find it very difficult to do that and have to let her go.

Bruv two people who love Jesus can’t marry because of church…This is diabolical

Re: I Was A Virgin Up To My Forties In Deeper Life. There Are Many Older Virgins ! by mankan2k7(m): 9:37am On Oct 16, 2025

I met one MILF, at the age if 53 she is still virgin. Naso I run o.

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