Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? - Family (2)

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Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by Exceed15: 2:57pm On Oct 14, 2025

Most heart breaking is paternity fraud which also comes from a cheating wife.

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by Kingpele(m): 2:59pm On Oct 14, 2025

Well I don't have trust issues, if u will cheat just make sure I don't found out because the day I will found out will be the end of the marriage, this is what I told my wife a day before our wedding over a decade ago..without cheating Paternity fraud won't happen...there's no point to continue to be with a LovePeddler...men don't commit to sidechic ...but a cheating wife might not only give u HIV but might plan to kill you and marry her lover...

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by judewrites: 2:59pm On Oct 14, 2025

Waking up one morning and realizing you made a big mistake marrying the woman/man lying next to you.

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by TotoSuckker: 3:01pm On Oct 14, 2025

Diamond098454:
You didn't mention hard knacking some guys are something else and I don't need such men

It seems your to/tow is soft and delicate grin

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Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by Gotocourt: 3:02pm On Oct 14, 2025

ebubeson:
Which of These Options Scare You Most in Modern Day Marriage?

(a) Paternity Fraud.
(b) Cheating in Marriage
(c) Disrespect
(d) Fiance or Fiancee Sleeping with EX/Someone before wedding day.
(e) Spending your hard-earned money on the wrong person.
(f) Deceit.
(g) No true love in many people.
(f) Past body counts.

We have good marriages anyway.

(a) Paternity Fraud.

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by LaughingJackass: 3:04pm On Oct 14, 2025

dominique:
How about your partner having children hidden away somewhere or your children having half siblings they may not even know exist?

Na how that one take concern you abi you dey fear make dem no come follow your pikin drag inheritance? grin

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Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by FuckYeyeMods: 3:10pm On Oct 14, 2025*

For the singles, marriage is not what to joke around with.
Marriage is a very serious thing. So be very careful with it.
Most religion have stated out how you should chose your wife and God will take care of the rest.
You're lively and bubbling with that girl, very close and free with each other but after marriage everything will change gradually.
99% of time, women don't lose in marriage.
Please guys, marriage with wrong wife can ruin someone completely.
If you're a Muslim, do Istikhara with pure intentions.
Wallahi, marriage in itself is not too sweet

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Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by jamesversion: 3:12pm On Oct 14, 2025

ebubeson:
Which of These Options Scare You Most in Modern Day Marriage?

(a) Paternity Fraud.
(b) Cheating in Marriage
(c) Disrespect
(d) Fiance or Fiancee Sleeping with EX/Someone before wedding day.
(e) Spending your hard-earned money on the wrong person.
(f) Deceit.
(g) No true love in many people.
(f) Past body counts.

We have good marriages anyway.

How many f dey your list?? huh

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by DMCA: 3:13pm On Oct 14, 2025

Kobicove:
Is that why you should post her pic here?

u want to join me so we go use am do after sack? cool

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by DMCA: 3:14pm On Oct 14, 2025

goodlady cannot see this post cool

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by success1smyn(m): 3:17pm On Oct 14, 2025

Apart from the last one, all others are interconnected.

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by Tailorcaesar: 3:21pm On Oct 14, 2025

ebubeson:
Which of These Options Scare You Most in Modern Day Marriage?

(a) Paternity Fraud.
(b) Cheating in Marriage
(c) Disrespect
(d) Fiance or Fiancee Sleeping with EX/Someone before wedding day.
(e) Spending your hard-earned money on the wrong person.
(f) Deceit.
(g) No true love in many people.
(f) Past body counts.

We have good marriages anyway.

I don't mind marrying a woman with a thousand body count once she RESPECTS me

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by Dpharmacist: 3:21pm On Oct 14, 2025

All of them.

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by Prechgold1180(m): 3:45pm On Oct 14, 2025

ebubeson:
Which of These Options Scare You Most in Modern Day Marriage?

(a) Paternity Fraud.
(b) Cheating in Marriage
(c) Disrespect
(d) Fiance or Fiancee Sleeping with EX/Someone before wedding day.
(e) Spending your hard-earned money on the wrong person.
(f) Deceit.

Nothing fear me pass wedding jellof rice wey nur sweet. God forbid
(g) No true love in many people.
(f) Past body counts.

We have good marriages anyway.

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by E2000: 3:50pm On Oct 14, 2025

You said the same thing in different ways.

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by advanceDNA: 3:51pm On Oct 14, 2025

Tailorcaesar:
I don't mind marrying a woman with a thousand body count once she RESPECTS me

Lol.....it baffles me how y'all think w0men that sleep around, with no discipline or respect for their own body will have the discipline to respect you sir....
..it's like expecting someone very poor in math to be excellent in physics..I mean, some things are just naturally interwoven sir and some things just dont gel together

But any ways good luck finding her sir

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Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by emmaodet: 3:57pm On Oct 14, 2025

advanceDNA:
Lol.....it baffles me how y'all think w0men that sleep around, with no discipline or respect for their own body will have the discipline to respect you sir....
..it's like expecting someone very poor in math to be excellent in physics..I mean, some things are just naturally interwoven sir...

But any ways good luck finding her sir

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Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by humberjade: 4:00pm On Oct 14, 2025

Deceit! It encompasses almost everything on the list.

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by pocohantas(f): 4:04pm On Oct 14, 2025

You have evidence that some of the things on that list are modern? Have you done DNA on ALL your fathers kids or you assume ALL your mothers were angels. Who raised the modern couples? Mtcheeeew

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Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by spiritedtete: 4:05pm On Oct 14, 2025

Disrespect!

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by PeterObi4Presid: 4:20pm On Oct 14, 2025

Marrying a fake Christian.
A fake Christian lady lives by her own selfish philosophy, which can be for pleasure and self satisfaction.
They will never yield because they have personal rule for sex, marriage and respect... Many of them are even closet lesbians. Na my fear be dat

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by MobilityMFR(m): 4:25pm On Oct 14, 2025

If you and your partner are in synergy with each other, you need not be worried about any of these let alone be scared. There are great and happy marriages out there; the greedy ones mess up marriage. I can honestly tell you I know many a man, including me having a blissful marriage. God created it, it should be enjoyed brothers.

quote author=ebubeson post=137119050]Which of These Options Scare You Most in Modern Day Marriage?

(a) Paternity Fraud.
(b) Cheating in Marriage
(c) Disrespect
(d) Fiance or Fiancee Sleeping with EX/Someone before wedding day.
(e) Spending your hard-earned money on the wrong person.
(f) Deceit.
(g) No true love in many people.
(f) Past body counts.

We have good marriages anyway.[/quote]

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by PeterObi4Presid: 4:31pm On Oct 14, 2025

dominique:
How about your partner having children hidden away somewhere or your children having half siblings they may not even know exist?

How is that a problem when it's not paternity fraud, as long as the man takes care of the immediate family

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by PeterObi4Presid: 4:36pm On Oct 14, 2025

DMCA:
can I get to know u?
I am a supplier of hard knacking

How do you use and expose someones picture without consent. It's terrible for a man.... At ur age u can't coordinate urself. U don see picture wey u no even no where it came from and who she is, u don dey misbehave. Shay women no dey your house, your street and your church. Nonsense

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by DMCA: 4:50pm On Oct 14, 2025

PeterObi4Presid:
How do you use and expose someones picture without consent. It's terrible for a man.... At ur age u can't coordinate urself. U don see picture wey u no even no where it came from and who she is, u don dey misbehave. Shay women no dey your house, your street and your church. Nonsense

I hear u sir cool

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by femi4: 4:50pm On Oct 14, 2025

ebubeson:
Which of These Options Scare You Most in Modern Day Marriage?

(a) Paternity Fraud.
(b) Cheating in Marriage
(c) Disrespect
(d) Fiance or Fiancee Sleeping with EX/Someone before wedding day.
(e) Spending your hard-earned money on the wrong person.
(f) Deceit.
(g) No true love in many people.
(f) Past body counts.

We have good marriages anyway.

Nothing

Nothing new under the sun

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by Sakobaba(m): 4:53pm On Oct 14, 2025

Diamond098454:
You didn't mention hard knacking some guys are something else and I don't need such men

As big as you are , you are still scared of knacking

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by openmyway: 5:03pm On Oct 14, 2025

AfeezShomorin:
Mt main headache is that my wife's private part has serioisly expanded

Nothing prepared me for it

LoL how many kids has she given birth to?

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by MIKOLOWISKA: 5:24pm On Oct 14, 2025

Diamond098454:
You didn't mention hard knacking some guys are something else and I don't need such men

but hard billing is ok ba

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by Mistersolar: 5:25pm On Oct 14, 2025

may your days be long

kapelvej:
DISRESECT. That is what gives birth to all other. forget g and f you can take care of that from the begining by even choosing not to be with such characters.

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by Mistersolar: 5:31pm On Oct 14, 2025

wait what...ur new wife or future

AfeezShomorin:
Mt main headache is that my wife's private part has serioisly expanded

Nothing prepared me for it

Re: Which Of These Scares You Most In Modern Day Marriage? by Mistersolar: 5:37pm On Oct 14, 2025

ur last statement .....haaaaa

FuckYeyeMods:
For the singles, marriage is not what to joke around with.
Marriage is a very serious thing to be very careful with.
Most religion have stated out you should chose your wife and God will tka care of the rest.
You're lively and bubbly with that girl, very close and free with each other but after marriage everything can change gradually.
99% of time, women don't lose in marriage.
Please guys, marriage with wrong can ruin someone completely.
If you're a Muslim, do Istikhara with pure intentions.
Wallahi, marriage in itself is not too sweet

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