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It is no news that gambling has ruined countless lives.
However, it seems that every week, a new sports betting/gambling company launches!

Obviously, the owners are cashing out while sending tons of people, on a search for hope, into the abyss of hopelessness.

I was in a stakeholder meeting recently when the MD of an Engineering company told us that the Management of a popular multinational company (their client whose name I will withhold) are grappling with a serious epidemic; they are inundated with a deluge of requests for salary advance by the 10th of the month! This prompted the management to launch an investigation into the root cause. Alas, it was discovered that sports betting is the 'locust' eating their earnings and leaving them with "too much month at the end of the money"

People earn salaries from year to year, but due to the locust of sports betting, they are worse than stuck - they actually retrogress, because from day to day, they sinker deeper into debt. Consequently, they can neither save to invest in themselves by acquiring certifications, furthering their education, starting a business or investing in assets. They even end up selling their assets to feed the 'hope chase'

Despite these very obvious problems, WHY DO PEOPLE REALLY GAMBLE?

If you are a gambler, why did you START GAMBLING and why have you not stopped?

Let us have a candid conversation.

Let's have a honest conversation on this.
Could it be that the no.1 reason why we have this virus spreading like wildfire is the EASE of ACCESS which is misunderstood by many as a SHORTCUT for EASY MONEY?

All you need is:
1. Walk into any betting shop ( which are just a 'stone throw' as many are littered around). You do not even need to know how to 'book' the games as the shop attendant will happily do that for you. People will be discussing games they are convinced will win, so even if you do not have a game in mind, voila, the shop got you. And talking of conviction, a 'good Samaritan' was so convinced that the Burgos versus Valladolid match played on the 12th of October will end in a draw. To prove his conviction, he promised to personally reimburse anyone who played that game fifty percent of their investment should the game lose. Well, Valladolid won the game by a goal! Welcome to the brotherhood! Does this remind you of the days of 'Key' in Pool gambling? In fact, every pool house displays at least 1 or 2 draws for the weekend; they love you that much that they make it so easy for you.

2. Most people have android phones and the apps are readily available on the Google Playstore as well as the Appstore, yours to download for 'FREE'

3. Once you enter the app, just like the shops, help is very readily available. Trust the UI/UX and Product Designers who will 'leave no stone unturned' to ensure the platform is intuitive and addictive. Don't know a game to bet on? suggestions abound with enticing odds! They even have options that allow you bet with confidence, as they will pay you should one game cut your ticket!

4. Many platforms allow you place a bet with as little as N20 and you can fund the wallet with as little as N100. This means that you can easily get started, and your journey down the rabbit hole of ruin is very easy


WHY DID YOU START GAMBLING?
SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCE BELOW, let's have a honest conversation.......

Na one bandit introduced me to it with his large winning in Kaduna then o,,e no reach one month,,e banged another winning..That time money get value,,na so guys start to rush am for codes oo..And being an arrogant bastard,,e start to dey form for people thinking say na so e go dey go..Na so me too go learn am ooo.. Now life dey some how without direction

In other words, you were influenced by someone's large winnings.
Don't worry, you can still get your life on track for success.

Edoreborn:
Na one bandit introduced me to it with his large winning in Kaduna then o,,e no reach one month,,e banged another winning..That time money get value,,na so guys start to rush am for codes oo..And being an arrogant bastard,,e start to dey form for people thinking say na so e go dey go..Na so me too go learn am ooo.. Now life dey some how without direction

Mine was on September 2nd 2011, a day after my court wedding. I sign up n place a bet n won...
The next days n weeks were thrilling as I now open for my wife too..play nairabet n we won huge sums then ranging from 95k, 101k n 234k.....
From 2014 to 2017 I enter a phase I called "winning streak" where N50 won me numerous huge sums...
I had to write a book online "secret of online betting for beginners " -hyattraction system
It's still on Google.

By 2017 ending we left nairabet wen the owner Akin alabi sold the platform to join sporty bet n since then we have been betting n winning responsibly

I’ve been betting since 2015, and like many people here, I’ve gone through just about every emotion the game can give — the highs, the heartbreaks, and the “how did that miss?” moments in perfect sync, thinking knowledge alone could beat the odds.

After years of wins and a whole lot more losses, I realised the real problem isn’t just betting — it’s how the system is designed. Bookmakers literally profit from you losing. You might hit a lucky streak, but the model is built so that over time, the house always wins don't get me started about leagueplus.

I actually worked as a Bet9ja cashier and later a manager, so I saw the inside of it too. What shocked me most wasn’t just how many people lost — it was how much the system made off them. It made me rethink everything about gambling and fairness.

So when people ask “why don’t gamblers stop?”, I think the answer is: because it’s not really about greed; it’s about hope. The feeling that maybe this next one will be different. That’s powerful stuff. I’d been through every betting strategy in the book — 1.5 odds singles, dutching, all the so-called “systems.” Sometimes I’d win four or five figures, but it never lasted.

That was when I saw how the house always wins. Bookies make profits from our losses, and we call it luck.

At one point, Visual League Plus nearly made me lose it. I remember getting so angry after a loss that my manager just took my phone and told me to calm down and keep working. That moment hit me hard. It wasn’t even about the money anymore — it was how betting could play with your head. I quit that week, and my former boss, on hearing, asked if I still wanted to work with bet9ja and asked me to help him setup a shop in 2 to 3 weeks I was managing a bet9ja shop.

That was when I started thinking differently. The only way to beat the system is to build another system i guess thats why bookies full everywhere.

Why won't i stop.. don't want to.... what i have learned from years behind the counter is that not everyone bets to win some just want to catch cruise. How else can one explain playing visual for over 5 hours winning tens to hundred of thousands but lose it all because you can't walk away from the edgy feeling of gambling?

Your story is quite interesting.
so it appears that you have betting as a sustainable business model. Can you please enlighten us on how you do this?

You also talked about betting responsibly. How do you explain that please, since this may mean different things to different people?

Thank you

valentineuwakwe:
Mine was on September 2nd 2011, a day after my court wedding. I sign up n place a bet n won...
The next days n weeks were thrilling as I now open for my wife too..play nairabet n we won huge sums then ranging from 95k, 101k n 234k.....
From 2014 to 2017 I enter a phase I called "winning streak" where N50 won me numerous huge sums...
I had to write a book online "secret of online betting for beginners " -hyattraction system
It's still on Google.

By 2017 ending we left nairabet wen the owner Akin alabi sold the platform to join sporty bet n since then we have been betting n winning responsibly

fegamble:
Your story is quite interesting.
so it appears that you have betting as a sustainable business model. Can you please enlighten us on how you do this?

You also talked about betting responsibly. How do you explain that please, since this may mean different things to different people?

Thank you

Wen I mean bet responsibly I mean to bet so it dnt affect your pocket...bet for fun n dnt fall into depression.
I go for simpler games like 1.5 goals full times....9
0.5 goals in 1st half.....22f n of course the banger in both first n second half....
I dnt park games....just 5 in all n 3 for the banger

Hmmmm....
Which one be 22f

valentineuwakwe:
Wen I mean bet responsibly I mean to bet so it dnt affect your pocket...bet for fun n dnt fall into depression.
I go for simpler games like 1.5 goals full times....9
0.5 goals in 1st half.....22f n of course the banger in both first n second half....
I dnt park games....just 5 in all n 3 for the banger

I played it for fun initially. But as time went by, i started playing to make serious money. When the serious money ain't coming anymore, i went back to playing for fun.

Am mostly into basketball bet sef. I play less of football.

bamasite2:
Hmmmm....
Which one be 22f

Second half most scoring.....let them score more goals in second half than the 1st

Ok.
Thank you for the clarification.

valentineuwakwe:
Second half most scoring.....let them score more goals in second half than the 1st

Having seen the negative effect of betting on your life(no direction), what would you say is the greatest challenge to quitting?

Edoreborn:
Na one bandit introduced me to it with his large winning in Kaduna then o,,e no reach one month,,e banged another winning..That time money get value,,na so guys start to rush am for codes oo..And being an arrogant bastard,,e start to dey form for people thinking say na so e go dey go..Na so me too go learn am ooo.. Now life dey some how without direction

Ok.
So how did you Start it in the first place, and since the 'serious money' you hoped to get is not coming, what do you think is preventing you from stopping?
Because it is like knowing you are going down a hole and you keep digging.

Love800:
I played it for fun initially. But as time went by, i started playing to make serious money. When the serious money ain't coming anymore, i went back to playing for fun.

Am mostly into basketball bet sef. I play less of football.

Ok, thanks for the clarification. But let me be an Oliver Twist .

Can you clarify when you say....'1.5 goals full times........9'?

valentineuwakwe:
Second half most scoring.....let them score more goals in second half than the 1st

bamasite2:
Ok, thanks for the clarification. But let me be an Oliver Twist .

Can you clarify when you say....'1.5 goals full times........9'?

Let them score more than one goal in the full matçh...

Then my best is 0.5goals in 1st half unto let one or more goals be scored within 45mins

Who told you am going down a hole!

I said am playing it for fun. That means i dont waste all my resources on it.

fegamble:
Ok.
So how did you Start it in the first place, and since the 'serious money' you hoped to get is not coming, what do you think is preventing you from stopping?
Because it is like knowing you are going down a hole and you keep digging.

Love800:
Who told you am going down a hole!

I said am playing it for fun. That means i dont waste all my resources on it

OK, so we take the bolded part of your quote.
One love.

Oh! I see....thank you

valentineuwakwe:
Let them score more than one goal in the full matçh...

Then my best is 0.5goals in 1st half unto let one or more goals be scored within 45mins

Depression!

Do you mean Depression pushed you into gambling/sports betting?
Would you mind sharing what pushed you into depression in the first place?

spencekat:
Depression!

fegamble:
Do you mean Depression pushed you into gambling/sports betting?
Would you mind sharing what pushed you into depression in the first place?

Long story,bro.I got my freedom from depression after three years of betting, but the addiction held me till after five years.I gambled for 8 years and months.

Your story is getting even more interesting I must say.
so can we say gambling liberated you from the depression?
Also, when you said you gambled for 8 years and months, we can deduce that you no longer gamble. So how did you break free? Mind sharing what worked for you?

spencekat:
Long story,bro.I got my freedom from depression after three years of betting, but the addiction held me till after five years.I gambled for 8 years and months.

fegamble:
Your story is getting even more interesting I must say.
so can we say gambling liberated you from the depression?
Also, when you said you gambled for 8 years and months, we can deduce that you no longer gamble. So how did you break free? Mind sharing what worked for you?

It didn't liberate me. I got my acts together after three years. I was looking at where and what to channel the pains to, betting became the thing. I don't gamble again. I did self exclusion of years from all my accounts on betting apps.

Glad to hear you are free!
Nice one

spencekat:
It didn't liberate me. I got my acts together after three years. I was looking at where and what to channel the pains to, betting became the thing. I don't gamble again. I did self exclusion of years from all my accounts on betting apps.