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Just imagine somebody that's been praying for a way out of the bondage before her prayers finally got answered by the death.of.the husband and to make it sweeter, he died with his side chick......thats automatic closure for her.....a new beginning don start fast fast......ghen ghen.......

Mariangeles:
I would've said they should get the side-chic to mourn him, if it is that important to them, but since they both died together, let everything just end there.

The widow woman has gotten the closure she needs to move on.

Mathewrichard99:
➜ Just imagine somebody that's been praying for a way out of the bondage before her prayers finally got answered by the death.of.the husband and to make it sweeter, he died with his side chick......thats automatic closure for her.....a new beginning don start fast fast......ghen ghen.......

How in the world is this a new begining for a woman literally left to care for children without any form of financial support from their father? Why is this god who answers prayers for you all always so wicked with his responses?

If she had divorced him long before this, obtained shared custody of the children, and spent the time she had without the kids building her life, finances and self-esteem, she would end up a widow with likely nothing to show for it but lots of mouths to now look for how to feed alone.

Chilipepper:
My brother's wife has refused to mourn him because he died with his sidechick: Lady seeks help

Sheybi una don bury the Man? Leave the wife alone!!

Culture isn't always right. Well, I understand the part of duty but not many woman will stomach that idea and put up a show of crocodile tears.

It's well with everybody.

Given me one good reason why she should come to mourn the man?

If she is my sister I will never allow her to mourn him. That is it.

Let his family mourn him if mourning is so dear to them.

I no come know why I dey laff since.

You people are not even talking about the pain your brother caused the woman because of an away goal. You turned her to a widow leaving her with the responsibility to care for the family alone. Leave her to lick her wound.

Are we sure she doesn't have a hand in his death?

People dey do things oo. Kpai with side chicken 🐔

Chilipepper:
My brother's wife has refused to mourn him because he died with his sidechick: Lady seeks help

If it was the woman that died in the arms of another man, would you brother had mourn her? Don't you think you brother will call all her husband family members and disgrace them all?
Do you for once ask what she had gone through in that marriage? Lies upon lies from the man yet she still bear all only for him to be publicly exposed..........She even tried by attending the burial because it takes courage for her to go out.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6SgKDKr-xUg

If she was the one to die with her side man, he would beat the kids if they dared to mourn her.

The way you lay your bed, is the way you lie on it.

Lesson: be loyal to your spouse.

Second lesson: Let the woman be.

dheolexaone:
As men would say, that they are polygamous in nature, a definition used to scatter the system as if God gave Adam 2 wives from onset.

Any cheating man, I repeat! any cheating man that neglected his family while alive to follow the rule above especially in marriage to frolick up and down, dies and dies to meet his creator peacefully or sorrowfully.

His remains are nothing but regrets. Let the family mourn him. Respect is reciprocal.

Live responsible, they won't hear.

Well in that case, start from our mentors Abraham, King David and King Solo.

Since God favour you pass them abi? And you sabi God pass them.

Yet, Feminazis will expect everyone to mourn paternity fraudsters.

No excuse for the man. A dead man has no blame, I mean for memories sack she's supposed to mourn her late husband regardless. Whether my wife cheats on me with a man, I can never wish death for her.

Chilipepper:
My brother's wife has refused to mourn him because he died with his sidechick: Lady seeks help

A similar situation occurred in my estate where a wife mourned her husband for over 3 years before remarrying, but what many didn't know was that he actually passed away at his mistress's house in another state while working on a project. It was the husband's family that eventually encouraged her to remarry after 4 years. The details of the affair were kept private until the woman confided in someone close to me, with the saying 'she should respect her children's father for the sake of posterity' ringing true.

Chilipepper:
My brother's wife has refused to mourn him because he died with his sidechick: Lady seeks help

Will mourning him raised the dead?

Let the dead rest and allow the living to continue to live.

Our actions or inactions have no impact on the dead

I will do the same thing if I am a woman.


I don't pity or empathize with !d*ots

For those who do not understand contextual grammar, dying with his side chick in this context means, he died maybe in a hotel room while having xes with another lady. Not that the other lady also died.

SpencerForbes:
But the husband can disrespect her😂 I believe it’s a thing of choice and if she doesn’t want to, then it’s justified cos it wasn’t agreed in the family that the man will be polygamous. If you make any decisions be ready to face the consequences. The man made his decision and is bearing it. Let’s leave the woman to make hers too.

Just imagine if it was your mum, would you even allow her to go to the burial🤔
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better not going to the burial at all, than attending the burial with pepper red lipstick. It's like adding salt to injury.
If she was my in law and she attended the burial that way, forget, I swear she go collect better slap. He died on his side chick doesn't mean she can disrespect us

Chilipepper:
My brother's wife has refused to mourn him because he died with his sidechick: Lady seeks help

The person who is talking should put herself in the woman’s shoe 👠 and see if she will be able to mourn the man that betrayed his marital vow and went on active duty with another woman then died on the spot, it’s not really funny sha make God nor let this kind thing happen to my enemy Tufiakwa 🤭😂

Well he didn't make it easy

TheGift:
Guy, would you say the same if it was your sister, whose husband died with a side chicken?

At least, commend her for showing up at the funeral. Is it until she wears sack cloth and ashes that you will be satisfied?

Please leave her be. People mourn differently.

the best she might have done was showing up at the funeral, then leave immediately and promise not to mourn him. Or not showing up at all and still not mourn. She's entitled to whatever decision. But you see, showing up at the funeral with pepper red lipstick, that was a disrespect and an insult to her in-laws, which if na my family she did that, she go collect

Stueewped damily

I bsmethewifow for even attending sef.
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If he died with his side chick, the side chick an her. goon should go mourn him. His family should mourn him and stop stressing a hurting wife to mourn who abandoned his marital vows

Taaa!

Namaster:
The wife is a REALLY good person.
She went to the funeral.

A man died while actively DESECRATING his marriage why should the SCORNED wife mourn him?

Expecting the woman to mourn a husband who died while frolicking with his CONCUBINE is like expecting a man to mourn a wife who died while giving birth to a BASSSTAARRRRD.

It's MADNESS!

Quiet there.how abt d good times .how abt probably lifting that woman out of poverty n treating her like a queen.jst becos his manhood liveth n worketh elsewhere is not enough not to pay last respect

Dogalmighty17:
Showing up all made up the way she did and leaving as soon as he was committed to the ground will indicate that her character is a possible reason why the husband looked outside in the first place.
I am not excusing the late husband's cheating. But whatever it is, he remains the father of her children and if she has nothing else to mourn for, that her kids will grow up without their father is reason enough.
Secondly, her actions indicate she is outrightly cutting ties with her husband's people. Possibly, that will be the last time they'll see her or the kids.
The way the husband died is shameful. The wife drawing attention to it by her actions, embarrasses her in-laws and her children. Of course there will be mourners at the burial who are not family and they will be wondering why the wife left. They will get to know the reason why and whatever positive memory they may have about the late husband, will vaporise.

Any woman who can openly disrespect and disregard her in-laws like that is a woman who never had much regard or respect for her husband in the first place..
Kobojunkie avoid me. You go show here now now.

Trying to defend the indefensible. Man dies in active toto bunkering and you're trying to apportion blame to that innocent widow. i fear who no fear this gender.

The baba active until death 😆😆. Na so God go catch all of una for this nairaland. Serial cheats

Kobojunkie:
OP, tell us what the wife is to benefit from mourning a man she literally dedicated her youth, time, and energy to, only for him to die in the arms of another woman?

What happened to forgiveness?

greatiyk4u:
➜What happened to forgiveness?

What part of forgiveness suggests that you must attend your enemy's/abuser's funeral or even mourn his demise?

What do you expect? She should move on asap and not waste her tears.

Kobojunkie:
What part of forgiveness suggests that you must attend your enemy's/abuser's funeral or even mourn his demise?

Forgiveness abhors enemity in any form