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correctguy101:
Oh ...

Why does that even matter?

Using kpekus or not, it's all a fair exchange no matter how you look at it..

It's simply a business between seller and a willing buyer.

Life na mostly about exchange the way I see it. I approach everything with that mindset. It's either I wan buy in or not. And if e no pay me, na me go face the consequences.

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Make your sister use her kp©kus buy Iphone how u see am e no bad na.
I mean share her kp©kus give to like 30 men for an iphone.
Since na sharing and exchange of goods
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MarkNsukkaBread:
Na im be say dem go pour you acid one day

No forget say nobody has the monopoly of acid.

lightwind:
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Make your sister use her kp©kus buy Iphone how u see am e no bad na.
I mean share her kp©kus give to like 30 men for an iphone.
Since na sharing and exchange of goods
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Why you dey talk like small pikin?

Shey because madam A dey live in a way mean say everybody be like that?

Me dey do things for my sisters and if they choose such life, how is that something I'll kill myself over? I'm sure none of my own sisters live like that, e get the way family go be, you will know this. Dem no even born my sisters well to boldly and openly do crazy things like these yéyé children you stoopidly compare dem to.. Na the way we raise our family... I no know about yours but me dey open to my sisters for wetin I go accept. I've been the father in my own house for really long and even my elder sisters respect that.

Na you sabi how you think or do ya own angle.

Sonnobax15:

Could be a planned work between the husband and his lovely wife.......

Las las,na the mumu native hen wey dey play the role of side-chick lose after collecting free d0ggy

YOU ARE 99.9 % CLOSE TO BEING RIGHT BECAUSE IS WHAT I CAN DO AND PLAN WITH MY WIFE

If she retrieved it, it means it wasn't bought in the name of the side chic.

Jennyclay:
Marriage will last if men respect and stop cheating on their wives.

...and ladies close their legs as well

Love800:
Lol.

That is breach na, or bully. Forcingly taking possession of another's property(car). The wife is all shades of wrong.

So even if you confront your husband's mistress, will it stop him from engaging the side chick or quit his fantasy with women!
The wife is threading without caution.

Lol....Be speaking grammar upandan. Car that was bought in the mans name. The man knew what he was doing all along 🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
Are those men equally tender with their wives? Or you think men are merely entitled to tenderness from women— a case of I want what I am unwilling to give?

Oroje1 is right. Most women have 3 major goals when it comes to marriage
1. Get married
2. Have children
3. Get the man to pay bills till they kingdom come

Once they achieve 1&2 they check out emotionally, and transfer all their love to the children.

At this point the man is only useful for 3 and if he attempts to find love outside it's a problem...

If the man cannot do 3 they will look for another man who can do it.... Even if the woman is rich she will still look for a man to do 3 because she believes her own money is not for taking care of the family...only God knows what most women intend to do with all the money they are hiding.

at this point she will disrespect the man and subtly turn the children against him. No appreciate, no gratitude, no affection. Then the man goes into depression and becomes a shadow of himself.

Some women will start cheating and later divorce the husband and take their children with them...if you don't believe me go to Facebook and see their bitter comments under various posts about marriage and divorce

This is the unfortunate story of most marriages today. If you still want to marry as a man I suggest open your eyes wide. Love is not enough

chieveboy:
This is unfair to the chick. Does the wife knows how much the girl toiled for this?

she toiled on the wrong farmland.

MisterYeeser:
Things men do for side chick ehn

Na side chick Dey give married men like us sanity

Mariangeles:
Before nko!

As she should.
What is rightfully yours cannot given to another, and if you don't take it, nobody will give it to you.
Only the violent taketh it by force.

Wahala for those ones wey think say wife go dey house dey cry. 😭

What of the doggy wey she don collect . How do we revise it

inoki247:
Lol maybe na skit...


To know wetin real this days hard...

You are correct, how come the two pictures was taken on the same spot.

Iamzik:
➜Oroje1 is right. Most women have 3 major goals when it comes to marriage
1. Get married
2. Have children
3. Get the man to pay bills till they kingdom come
Once they achieve 1&2 they check out emotionally, and transfer all their love to the children. At this point the man is only useful for 3 and if he attempts to find love outside it's a problem...
If the man cannot do 3 they will look for another man who can do it.... Even if the woman is rich she will still look for a man to do 3 because she believes her own money is not for taking care of the family...only God knows what most women intend to do with all the money they are hiding.
at this point she will disrespect the man and subtly turn the children against him. No appreciate, no gratitude, no affection. Then the man goes into depression and becomes a shadow of himself. Some women will start cheating and later divorce the husband and take their children with them...if you don't believe me go to Facebook and see their bitter comments under various posts about marriage and divorce
This is the unfortunate story of most marriages today. If you still want to marry as a man I suggest open your eyes wide. Love is not enough

. This is a useless epistle since I made it clear that a man has the right to walk out of a relationship whenever he chooses. Same way, a woman can walk out of even a marriage whenever she is done. (She can always leave the kids with the man if she is not financially able to raise them in a joint situation, at least— I advise women to have only as many kids as they can raise alone.)

A woman does not owe a man what the man is himself unwilling to give her. If a man cannot appreciate, show gratitude, or affection to his wife, then he should not expect any from her. So?

Mariangeles:
Before nko!

As she should.
What is rightfully yours cannot given to another, and if you don't take it, nobody will give it to you.
Only the violent taketh it by force.

Wahala for those ones wey think say wife go dey house dey cry. 😭

Funny enough, the man will still buy her another car

Mariangeles:
Before nko!

As she should.
What is rightfully yours cannot given to another, and if you don't take it, nobody will give it to you.
Only the violent taketh it by force.

Wahala for those ones wey think say wife go dey house dey cry. 😭

what is rightfully hers
Is it her money
She's lucky she has a weak husband who has a weak side chick

Cromagnon:
what is rightfully hers
Is it her money
She's lucky she has a weak husband who has a weak side chick

You wish she was beaten up, right?

All you wicked hearted men that are always against wives, and would rather support hoochies that were picked by the wayside, here's an advice for you all: instead of marrying wife material [you know them], just go ahead and make side-chics material your wives. I believe you know them.
Instead of hating on wives [that most of you are even yet to marry], and hatching wickedness on how you're going to cheat on them with hoochies at the slightest.

I can't stand your kind!
Tueh!😪

If your advice is to walk away when just feel like it,then you don't know the essence of marriage.when you get married you enter into a bidding oath for life, except there's adultery then you can walk away.but if there's threat to life or a man is not willing to provide for his wife then she can lat separate from him.....See marriage is not by force,if you're not willing to be under the oath or under the sacred nature of the union then just stay away and enjoy your single life...na so I see am o

Kobojunkie:
. This is a useless epistle since I made it clear that a man has the right to walk out of a relationship whenever he chooses. Same way, a woman can walk out of even a marriage whenever she is done. (She can always leave the kids with the man if she is not financially able to raise them in a joint situation, at least— I advise women to have only as many kids as they can raise alone.)

A woman does not owe a man what the man is himself unwilling to give her. If a man cannot appreciate, show gratitude, or affection to his wife, then he should not expect any from her. So?

oroje1:
➜If your advice is to walk away when just feel like it,
➜ then you don't know the essence of marriage.when you get married you enter into a bidding oath for life, except there's adultery then you can walk away. but if there's threat to life or a man is not willing to provide for his wife then she can lat separate from him.....
➜ See marriage is not by force, if you're not willing to be under the oath or under the sacred nature of the union then just stay away and enjoy your single life...na so I see am o

From the time of your literal ancestors, walking away(aka unofficial divorce) in the form of spousal abandonment has been literally praised over and over until much recent times when the government decided to criminalize it in favor of official divorce.

This has nothing to do with me advising anyone, but more to do with a concept sanctioned as a valid end to marriage since the time of your ancestors.

2. Divorce has been an aspect of marriage for thousands of years before you were conceived. If you don't know and understand this, then surely, you know nothing about marriage but the lies you have been brainwashed with. Some of your ancestors walked away(spousal abandonment) from marriage if they simply did not like a wife's hairdo, but here you are in 2025, telling us stories of how only in the case of adultery can a person walk out of marriage. What nonsense!

3. You literally don't understand what "Marriage is not by force" means, do you?

"Marriage is not by force" means that at any time in the union, a partner can decide he/she no longer wishes to continue with the partnership, and nothing can be done about that. Any attempts to keep the individual in the union against his/her will amount to kidnapping/entrapment, and that could lead to criminal charges and prosecution.

Mariangeles:
You wish she was beaten up, right?

You said so not me

All you wicked hearted men that are always against wives,

Wicked how
Did they not marry her
Did they chase her out of the house
Wicked how
Yet she goes around making a fool of herself and embarrassing her husband
You are the wicked one

and would rather support hoochies that were picked by the wayside,

We're you not picked by the wayside
What gives you a monopoly off wayside

here's an advice for you all: instead of marrying wife material [you know them], just go ahead and make side-chics material your wives. I believe you know them.

here's an advice for you all: instead of marrying husband material [you know them], just go ahead and stay single lets see how long you last in the wilderness.

Instead of hating on wives [that most of you are even yet to marry], and hatching wickedness on how you're going to cheat on them with hoochies at the slightest.

I can't stand your kind!
Tueh!😪
Where did we gate on wives
No be out fault nobody wan Mary you o
Where is the wickedness when a man provides roof over an ingrates head

you wish you could get our kind
That's why you fight with and nail against competition that put you in your toes

Kobojunkie:
So, rather than urge married men not to make advances, you want to place the burden on the ladies they prey on?

They will definitely make advance even when they don't need it, it's in men blood.

Ladies should the society by reject their advance

Kobojunkie:
. This is a useless epistle since I made it clear that a man has the right to walk out of a relationship whenever he chooses. Same way, a woman can walk out of even a marriage whenever she is done. (She can always leave the kids with the man if she is not financially able to raise them in a joint situation, at least— I advise women to have only as many kids as they can raise alone.)

A woman does not owe a man what the man is himself unwilling to give her. If a man cannot appreciate, show gratitude, or affection to his wife, then he should not expect any from her. So?

You found it useful enough to respond and you did not refute any of my points because you know deep down that it's true.

Guys be wise and open your eyes. Most young girls of nowadays do not know how to love... they are only in business. Guy you are the only one in love. A word is enough for the wise

My dear it seems you don't understand me.and it seems you don't know that we look at the marriage institution from different perspectives (1) the traditional view,(2) the secular view, (3) the biblical view....so if you don't know on what view or platform you're standing,you'll keep on talking from now till eternity without saying anything ,so now I ask ,from what view point are you speaking from? Tradition? Secular or Religioun?

Kobojunkie:
From the time of your literal ancestors, walking away(aka unofficial divorce) in the form of spousal abandonment has been literally praised over and over until much recent times when the government decided to criminalize it in favor of official divorce.

This has nothing to do with me advising anyone, but more to do with a concept sanctioned as a valid end to marriage since the time of your ancestors.

2. Divorce has been an aspect of marriage for thousands of years before you were conceived. If you don't know and understand this, then surely, you know nothing about marriage but the lies you have been brainwashed with. Some of your ancestors walked away(spousal abandonment) from marriage if they simply did not like a wife's hairdo, but here you are in 2025, telling us stories of how only in the case of adultery can a person walk out of marriage. What nonsense!

3. You literally don't understand what "Marriage is not by force" means, do you?

"Marriage is not by force" means that at any time in the union, a partner can decide he/she no longer wishes to continue with the partnership, and nothing can be done about that. Any attempts to keep the individual in the union against his/her will amount to kidnapping/entrapment, and that could lead to criminal charges and prosecution.

oroje1:
➜My dear it seems you don't understand me.and it seems you don't know that we look at the marriage institution from different perspectives (1) the traditional view,(2) the secular view, (3) the biblical view....so if you don't know on what view or platform you're standing,you'll keep on talking from now till eternity without saying anything ,so now I ask ,from what view point are you speaking from? Tradition? Secular or Religioun?

1. Your religious ideas regarding marriage fall right under traditional ideas of marriage — they are both removed from the legally defined unit that is considered marriage. However, both types of marriage — traditional and legal/secular —have, from their beginning been tied to a form of divorce.

How? You were not the one who created marriage in the first place,am I right? So if there's to be a rule for marriage it ought to come from the originator of marriage,am I right? I speak of the origin of marriage from the eyes of the Bible,,,,,what source are you speaking from?

Kobojunkie:
1. Your religious ideas regarding marriage fall right under traditional ideas of marriage — they are both removed from the legally defined unit that is considered marriage.

oroje1:
➜How? You were not the one who created marriage in the first place,am I right?
➜ So if there's to be a rule for marriage it ought to come from the originator of marriage,am I right?
➜ I speak the origin of marriage from the eyes of the Bible,,,,,what source are you speaking from?

What does it matter who created what when what we have had as marriage both at the traditional and secular levels are as defined(not created) by men— ordinary human beings like you and me? 🥱🥱

2. The rules are as defined by the law which one chooses to uphold. From the much we know, the traditional/religious marriages out there are defined according to the whims of men who run religious establishments whereas the legal/secular idea of marriage are as stipulated in the legal code of the country/state. 🥱🥱

3. Stop rambling please! If you have nothing tangible to state at this point, consider moving on. 🥱🥱🥱

Jennyclay:
Marriage will last if men respect and stop cheating on their wives.

Which one do you want? Money or respect?

Jennyclay:
Marriage will last if men respect and stop cheating on their wives.

True. But i believe marriage will last forever if these Girls/and women just saw NO to married Men.

Okay.

I don't understand dis.

But thanks anyway.

Iamzik:
Lol....Be speaking grammar upandan. Car that was bought in the mans name. The man knew what he was doing all along 🤣🤣

You seems to know more than your creator..i still see no logic in your argument..on which ideology are you speaking from? You no gree answer..you're just going up and down.no point...abeg you win!!!!!! Bye bye

Kobojunkie:
What does it matter who created what when what we have had as marriage both at the traditional and secular levels are as defined(not created) by men— ordinary human beings like you and me? 🥱🥱

2. The rules are as defined by the law which one chooses to uphold. From the much we know, the traditional/religious marriages out there are defined according to the whims of men who run religious establishments whereas the legal/secular idea of marriage are as stipulated in the legal code of the country/state. 🥱🥱

3. Stop rambling please! If you have nothing tangible to state at this point, consider moving on. 🥱🥱🥱