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To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by ebubeson(op): 3:54am On Oct 19, 2025
When it comes to sexual fulfilment in marriage, to what extent are Christian couples allowed to explore sex?

There are certain sexual patterns in marriage that are ungodly. They do not glorify God e.g. anal sex.

Married Christian couples are free to enjoy sex to the fullest, but must be sensitive and watchful in not engaging in abominable sex pattern.

Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by ebubeson(op): 3:54am On Oct 19, 2025
Do all things to the glory of God.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by orisa37: 5:25am On Oct 19, 2025
THERE IS NO LIMITATIONS AND NO RESTRICTIONS.
THE LORD IS OUR DIRECTIVES, DIRECTIONS AND DISCERNMENT.
THE LORD IS A SPIRIT AND IN SECRET. WE MUST ALWAYS APPROACH HIM IN SECRET AND IN SPIRIT.
AND GOD ALWAYS ANSWERS US IN SPIRIT AND IN SECRET.
HAPPY SUNDAY.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 5:56am On Oct 19, 2025
Was Christianity created before sex or afterwards?
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by paxonel(m): 6:03am On Oct 19, 2025
ebubeson:
When it comes to sexual fulfilment in marriage, to what extent are Christian couples allowed to explore sex?

There are certain sexual patterns in marriage that are ungodly. They do not glorify God e.g. anal sex.

Married Christian couples are free to enjoy sex to the fullest, but must be sensitive and watchful in not engaging in abominable sex pattern.
Lies!

God is not concerned about how married people are enjoying their sex.
If you want to say a particular sex pattern is bad, then give a tangible reason why, and stop bringing God into it
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Goodlady(f): 7:16am On Oct 19, 2025
AntiChristian:
Which verse forbids anal sex in the Bible and promotes regular VG sex? What about MouthAction, intimacy gadgets, fingering etc?

Which sex style is promoted by Jesus (or Songs of Solomon) in the Bible?
Direct that question to the koran that you believed in or you go to mecca and ask or perform it there.

Seun, mynd44 Dominique nlfpmod come and carry this person wey dey enter christian posts every Sunday morning for derailing.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Goodlady(f): 7:16am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Was Christianity created before sex or afterwards?
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Don't be unfortunate.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Goodlady(f): 7:17am On Oct 19, 2025
ebubeson:
Do all things to the glory of God.
You v answered the sex styles and any curiosity with what you wrote above. To God's glory and moderation.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 7:31am On Oct 19, 2025
Goodlady:
Don't be unfortunate.
I don’t get it🤔🤔🤔 can you explain before I engage??

Sex started in the garden of Eden while Christianity started at Antioch by Christians so sex is older than Christianity and in the Old Testament, except from rape cases, homosexuality(indirectly) and adultery, there was nothing about sex styles or am I wrong??

Do your research, there’s nothing like anal sex in the Bible. Don’t deceive yourself😎
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 8:22am On Oct 19, 2025
AntiChristian:
Which verse forbids anal sex in the Bible and promotes regular VG sex? What about MouthAction, intimacy gadgets, fingering etc?

Which sex style is promoted by Jesus (or Songs of Solomon) in the Bible?
Romans 2:14.
If sayt's children did not show people that they have done abominations and made it look nice, no one would have gone anal most especially as it is even naturally blocked and locked

Na monkey see, monkey do na im cause am
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by RickyJesus: 8:22am On Oct 19, 2025
Na so one Christian been wan dey deny me doggy that year.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 8:23am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Was Christianity created before sex or afterwards?
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It was created before sex
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 8:26am On Oct 19, 2025
paxonel:
Lies!

God is not concerned about how married people are enjoying their sex.
If you want to say a particular sex pattern is bad, then give a tangible reason why, and stop bringing God into it
If oyibo never showed all these to you, you never would have done it.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 8:28am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
I don’t get it🤔🤔🤔 can you explain before I engage??

Sex started in the garden of Eden while Christianity started at Antioch by Christians so sex is older than Christianity and in the Old Testament, except from rape cases, homosexuality(indirectly) and adultery, there was nothing about sex styles or am I wrong??

Do your research, there’s nothing like anal sex in the Bible. Don’t deceive yourself😎
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Christianity started with Christ and it is Christ Who created us, so Christianity started before sex.

And do note, since marriage is done at the permission and Blessing and Celebration of the parents, Adam male and female broke The Law by having sex before their marriage.(fornication)
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by SpaceX: 8:33am On Oct 19, 2025
For the kingdom of God is at hand, repent or you ......
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by gohf:
ebubeson:
When it comes to sexual fulfilment in marriage, to what extent are Christian couples allowed to explore sex?

There are certain sexual patterns in marriage that are ungodly. They do not glorify God e.g. anal sex.

Married Christian couples are free to enjoy sex to the fullest, but must be sensitive and watchful in not engaging in abominable sex pattern.
so if a husband and wife decide to engage in oral and anal sex they both have sinned according to you or your Bible?

With the numerous lists of immoral sexual activities, please tell us where the above is stated or at least explain why it is abominable sex pattern that is ungodly because last I checked, Jesus nor the apostles NEVER described how a married couple should satisfy the bodies that now belongs to each other.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Kalulu44: 8:40am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
If oyibo never showed all these to you, you never would have done it.
Bcus oyibo get sense pass us. If to say oyibo no show us how to use handset and internet, you for never dey use am now
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by WantsandMore: 8:41am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
I don’t get it🤔🤔🤔 can you explain before I engage??

Sex started in the garden of Eden while Christianity started at Antioch by Christians so sex is older than Christianity and in the Old Testament, except from rape cases, homosexuality(indirectly) and adultery, there was nothing about sex styles or am I wrong??

Do your research, there’s nothing like anal sex in the Bible. Don’t deceive yourself😎
🚶‍♂️
your perspective is narrow, John 8:58 christ reveals his divinity is endless meaning his teachings are an endless source of inspiration and wisdom up until now 2000 years ago for which all men must abide to reach God the father almighty who is in heaven and whatever is abominable doesn’t abide in him. Anal sex,felatio exetera is a corruption of the divine reproductive abilities given to man by God.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Fiscus105(m): 8:50am On Oct 19, 2025
orisa37:
THERE IS NO LIMITATIONS AND NO RESTRICTIONS.
THE LORD IS OUR DIRECTIVES, DIRECTIONS AND DISCERNMENT.
THE LORD IS A SPIRIT AND IN SECRET. WE MUST ALWAYS APPROACH HIM IN SECRET AND IN SPIRIT.
AND GOD ALWAYS ANSWERS US IN SPIRIT AND IN SECRET.
HAPPY SUNDAY.
Does your God create your anus for sex or defecation?
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 8:56am On Oct 19, 2025
WantsandMore:
your perspective is narrow, John 8:58 christ reveals his divinity is endless meaning his teachings are an endless source of inspiration and wisdom up until now 2000 years ago for which all men must abide to reach God the father almighty who is in heaven and whatever is abominable doesn’t abide in him. Anal sex,felatio exetera is a corruption of the divine reproductive abilities given to man by God.
You’re saying something totally different from what I said. John 5 never mentioned about anal. So everything not stated in the Bible is wrong, right??
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 8:58am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Christianity started with Christ and it is Christ Who created us, so Christianity started before sex.

And do note, since marriage is done at the permission and Blessing and Celebration of the parents, Adam male and female broke The Law by having sex before their marriage.(fornication)
Define marriage please🤔 so marriage is until we go to church right? Adam and Eve were not married or he should have paid her dowry to God abi likewise Sarah, Rebecca and Rachael. I think we should go back to Sunday school🚶‍♂️
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by AntiChristian: 9:00am On Oct 19, 2025
Goodlady:
Direct that question to the koran that you believed in or you go to mecca and ask or perform it there.

Seun, mynd44 Dominique nlfpmod come and carry this person wey dey enter christian posts every Sunday morning for derailing.
Check songs of Solomon to confirm the best one for you!
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by juwoonn(m): 9:00am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Christianity started with Christ and it is Christ Who created us, so Christianity started before sex.

And do note, since marriage is done at the permission and Blessing and Celebration of the parents, Adam male and female broke The Law by having sex before their marriage.(fornication)
You can only argue this based on Trinity..
But in reality Christianity started with Jesus Christ... It means people who believes in Jesus and follow his teachings; people who are Christlike.
But sex has been in existence since the days of Adam and Even in the garden of Eden.
Inorder words, God created sex long before Jesus Christ came (Christianity started with Jesus Christ).
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by AntiChristian: 9:02am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Romans 2:14.
If sayt's children did not show people that they have done abominations and made it look nice, no one would have gone anal most especially as it is even naturally blocked and locked

Na monkey see, monkey do na im cause am
This is your ancestral Bible version design by you!
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by femi4:
ebubeson:
When it comes to sexual fulfilment in marriage, to what extent are Christian couples allowed to explore sex?

There are certain sexual patterns in marriage that are ungodly. They do not glorify God e.g. anal sex.

Married Christian couples are free to enjoy sex to the fullest, but must be sensitive and watchful in not engaging in abominable sex pattern.
Can you proof that anal does not Glorify God?

Does doggy glorify God?

What sexual pattern were Adam & Eve involved in?
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Hismajesty44: 9:07am On Oct 19, 2025
Paul invented Christianity..., just like how Arabian scholars invented Islam. It was discovery of sex that religion was invented to protect it from being radicalised. How partners chooses to praticalize their sexual affairs shouldn't be anybody business.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Ojady(m): 9:07am On Oct 19, 2025
Do spirits have any form of sexual intercourse? No, because it is a product of the fall. To procreate or know our spouse intimately, God's original intent was not to have us exchanging body fluid, grunting like lower animals, devising "styles' etc just to please flesh. All we did was "go to sleep" but since the fall, man has continue to wallow deeper and deeper into the flesh and finding ways, through the help of demons, to justify it. If publicly and in all things, a child of God (notice the use of child of God, not Christian - Christian also being word created by men to exploit others) is expected to be totally different as night from day, from the world, why then would a child of God not be expected to have restrictions and limitations in sexual exploration. For example, from who would a child of God get the idea of anal sex? The devil. A spirit does not have an anus but the devil persuades that a hole is a hole when the vaginal hole, the penile hole and the anal hole are not the same. As a matter of fact, the anal hole was not meant to be seen, talk less of penetrated. Let us remember, that in the garden, there were many trees (many equally pleasurable, unashamed ways of sexual exploration) but the devil emphasized and deceived man to fixate on that one 'tree' (anal, oral, porn, child sex, dominatrix, bestiality etc) that spiritually leads to death.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by AbuAeesha: 9:09am On Oct 19, 2025
Goodlady:
Direct that question to the koran that you believed in or you go to mecca and ask or perform it there.

Seun, mynd44 Dominique nlfpmod come and carry this person wey dey enter christian posts every Sunday morning for derailing.
I think he simply asked if there is a verse that backed this ruling from the bible?
Or is it just a thought of mind?
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Goodlady(f): 9:09am On Oct 19, 2025
AntiChristian:
Check songs of Solomon to confirm the best one for you!
Get away you defuuu uuul
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