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Hello nairalanders

I want to draw u people attention to what females are doing in our higher institutions.
I currently live in students environment close to a reputable tertiary institution in Nigeria.

When I see what young girls who live off campus do. I WEEP for their future husband.

How on earth would girls leave the rooms they rented, and go and live with their boy friend through out the years of their schooling as if they are married....IN THE NAME OF SCHOOL LIFE !
The guys will be bleeping them for FREE...

Then after graduation everybody go find their way.
THE SAME GIRL GO COME THE FORM RITCHO FOR MEN .

Man go still marry that kind girl....PAY her bride Price....carry am put for him house!

NA NOW I SEE WHY SOME OF MY FREZ SAY THEM NO GO EVER MARRY A GIRL WEY GO HIGHER INSTITUTION.

Makavelli001:
Hello nairalanders
I want to draw u people attention to what females are doing in our higher institutions.
I currently live in students environment close to a reputable tertiary institution in Nigeria.
When I see what young girls who live off campus do. I WEEP for their future husband.
How on earth would girls leave the rooms they rented, and go and live with their boy friend through out the years of their schooling as if they are married....IN THE NAME OF SCHOOL LIFE !
The guys will be bleeping them for FREE...
Then after graduation everybody go find their way.
THE SAME GIRL GO COME THE FORM RITCHO FOR MEN .
Man go still marry that kind girl....PAY her bride Price....carry am put for him house!

NA NOW I SEE WHY SOME OF MY FREZ SAY THEM NO GO EVER MARRY A GIRL WEY GO HIGHER INSTITUTION.

What's the solution to that?

To marry girl wey go higher institution na big, very big GAMBLE.

After what I saw and experienced in school, I said the same thing - That I wouldn't want to marry a girl who passed through the system.

For your own sanity, avoid ever marrying such a lady. Do not say you were not warned.

This is surely another one. How do you pple arrive at this fallacy of hasty generalisation? If dem open some of Una skulls, na shit water full inside.🥱

let dem enjoy their lives in peaccccceee

It part of academics. You learn on campus and off campus 😉

I don't get. What were you expecting? This has been going on for years. Not just in higher institutions(Universities, Colleges, polytechnics) but ALSO in banks, churches etc

Your friends saying they wont marry a girl that went to higher institutions is just naive. Especially when 90% of girls will go through a higher institution especially the good looking and educated ones.

Now, this shouldn't discourage anyone. Not every girl will indulge in questionable acts. And even if she stays with her bf, it doesn't mean much... LTR goes beyond sex

Op, if they tell you what the girls schooling abroad that you maybe praying for do, you will turn to a Reverend Father


The thing is, take your mind off these things and just pray to your God for a good spouse with good heart and human conscience, those are the key qualities you must consider.


Some Virgin girls are soulless you will regret ever wifing them.


You guys should take your minds off these things and focus on bettering your lives economically/financially and on how to stop failed, corrupt kleptomaniacs from being elected into offices as Governors, Senators, Reps and President in Nigeria starting from 2027. Those are the major issues destroying lives and pushing our young girls into immoral lifestyle

Why didn’t you mention the guys bleeping the girls. Who told you the girls are complaining?

If all men are to marry only virgins then, who will bleep them men.

There is nothing new under the sun

It costs nothing to mind your business.

The illiterates you intend to marry nah still retired community property so what's the fuss about?

erad:
It costs nothing to mind your business.

The illiterates you intend to marry nah still retired community property so what's the fuss about?

He’s clearly stuck in the past. The truth is, things are even tougher in many villages. A lot of village uneducated girls there are pushed into sex way too early because of poverty. By the time they’re 18, their experiences are nothing like those of university girls — the contrast is heartbreaking.

Then marry an illiterate and stop complaining. What kind of foolishness is this ?

And years later, same men will open their spittle yapping mouth to say they will marry virgins or nothing, who do you want to leave those girls for?

I put it to you that you will never even see a virgin not to talk of smelling or marrying them, you will marry worse than those girls you ravaged all through your university days, or you will marry NOTHING.

Just look at what passes for a structure in a Nigerian university.
Compare this to the second picture below. That second picture is a pig house in China. A place where pigs are raised and slaughtered for consumption.

There is no Nigerian university that boasts of such a structure. Such a shame.

Anyways, I keep saying it. I pity the present Gen z guys. Na chaff remain for dem to marry.

Na still the same men bleeping them for free, go move to pay huge bride price for another lady wey him fellow man don bleep for free. Na still Una matter, e no concern us

These girls don't even fear anything again. Some girls legit go to school just to become somebody’s unofficial wife for 4 years. No focus, no boundaries, just vibes and “we move”. Then after school they start shouting “men are scum” like say dem no finish internship for free house chores and morning sex 😭. Truth is, not all girls are like that but the few doing it don spoil the name for serious ones. Everyone just needs to reset abeg.

Truth is as young adults with raging body hormones, they need a guy to satisfy they sexual urges and to explore as well after dreaming of an imaginary freedom from parental eyes. Secondly, they crave soft life so they run into arms of financially buoyant guys on campus to cater for their feeding and little expenses. I know some girls with good moral compass that never engaged in such but that's the norm among majority as o witnessed in my college years.

Makavelli001:
Hello nairalanders

I want to draw u people attention to what females are doing in our higher institutions.
I currently live in students environment close to a reputable tertiary institution in Nigeria.

When I see what young girls who live off campus do. I WEEP for their future husband.

How on earth would girls leave the rooms they rented, and go and live with their boy friend through out the years of their schooling as if they are married....IN THE NAME OF SCHOOL LIFE !
The guys will be bleeping them for FREE...

Then after graduation everybody go find their way.
THE SAME GIRL GO COME THE FORM RITCHO FOR MEN .

Man go still marry that kind girl....PAY her bride Price....carry am put for him house!

NA NOW I SEE WHY SOME OF MY FREZ SAY THEM NO GO EVER MARRY A GIRL WEY GO HIGHER INSTITUTION.

This remaind me girl wey we stage as if we are acting porn with camera on. Sotey the babe they call me porn star. I enjoy kpekus shall wen I was in uniben. Toto na water for me

Fountainofyouth:
And years later, same men will open their spittle yapping mouth to say they will marry virgins or nothing, who do you want to leave those girls for?

I put it to you that you will never even see a virgin not to talk of smelling or marrying them, you will marry worse than those girls you ravaged all through your university days, or you will marry NOTHING.

even if them manage go marry one virgin for village, their fellow men go still dey bleep their wife under their roof when they become impotent. What goes around, comes around. No escaping.

Has been happening since the days of your mothers that went to higher institution as well.
Why are we acting like it's a new development?

No level

nothing new,visit tind..er and see them hustling!

Just don't take things seriously with them..dazzol

where is this dirty place in the first place ?

i want answer pls

SeverusSnape:
To marry girl wey go higher institution na big, very big GAMBLE.

After what I saw and experienced in school, I said the same thing - That I wouldn't want to marry a girl who passed through the system.

It's really a very big gamble many no longer even have a womb due to so many abortions some have been used by yahoo boys.

Go to the Campus at night and see how haggling like market place for the night outing!

That wan dey but my own warning is for girls when say dem dey celibate.. RUN OH

Bro I no fit date girl way still they school
I go school so I know as he be

The knack way some guys done knack some girls even the husband way go marry am fit no fit knack her reach that level .

When I was in university my neigbours then was staying together with is girlfriend the girl done commot like 3 belle for the guy and yet the guy go they bang her every night they don't even use to coded it they will be banging loud screaming noise the girl go they scream loud.THE GUY NO STILL MARRY AM

It was better then, if people can tell you what's going on now. You'd be marvelled.

It's fully waywardness now. Being in a university environment, if I wasn't married, maybe I never would have.. everything is available

This generation I am afraid is a lost cause even though this has been going on for ages.