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| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by samuelson06(m): 7:51pm On Oct 19, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:Don't be unfortunate. Your conscience is your sit of judgment. If you've got to a level that your conscience can't talk to you, that's too bad. Also, I don't really know what's your understanding of judgment. Well, every time you decide in your heart to take a position about an issue, that's judgment. Judgment isn't necessarily a misfortune coming to someone as a result of a wrongdoing they committed, but also your power to judge or decide on a matter. |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 8:14pm On Oct 19, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:Go and argue with Paul and Romans 1 who said lasciviousness and filthiness and dishonourment of your own bodies between yourselves. "Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between "themselves: |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 8:56pm On Oct 19, 2025*. Modified: 6:32am On Oct 20, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:See craze. No spirit told anyone to do anal until children of Sathan told them to chook the anus and that their eyes will open |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by kessler53(m): 2:38am On Oct 20, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:anal sex is an abomination,God hates it, the anus is meant only for the passage of unwanted faeces ( shit), and not for one man or woman to open his or her anus and a man inserts his penis inside |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by WeedAddict: 6:56am On Oct 20, 2025 |
Dtruthspeaker:Seek knowledge bro... All you typed here is nothing but rubbish ![]() |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:01am On Oct 20, 2025 |
WeedAddict:Why did you not drop what you think is wrong if truly you had something to say? |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Mrexcell(m): 7:29am On Oct 20, 2025 |
paxonel:Naturally everyone's instincts already knows what's normal and what's abnormal scientifically having sex through the anus comes with some health implications later even the popular mouth action can easily gives one deadly incurable infections like herpes and throat cancer imagine putting ur mouth where a human being passes out urine and feaces that's a free invitation to diseases. God in his infinite wisdom created the reproductive organs solely for reproduction purposes but man has gone ahead to be abusing it just like he does with other God's creations. |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 7:32am On Oct 20, 2025 |
samuelson06:What’s the meaning of your first statement 😏 I’ll let that slide. Now let’s argue like people with intellects. When Christ came, he came because the law wasn’t perfect. The law was made to punish sinners but when Christ came, he summarized everything into two which are based on love. Jesus never focused on making more laws. That was why he had issues with the pharisees. Even when the adulterous woman wanted to be punished, he restricted them teaching us not to focus on laws. After Jesus left, the apostles wanted to carry on but there were debates btw the apostle and Paul which brought our mission statement. “ the just shall live by faith.” They never focused on the laws and the debate ended. Now the Romans came and saw uncivility among the people and wanted to curb it. Then they made rules to govern the people and it’s good. But the next gen now took it as divine laws which they were not so instead of we having Christian “laws” 👆 we are suppose to have Christian doctrines and guidance concerning marital sex and not laws. Cos laws bring punishment. We should all stop using fear tactics to convert people. Tell them the truth so when they bring arguments like this, you won’t have to use your first statement to debate them cos that sounded so uncivilized. Those rules are guidances and doctrines and not generally laws Shalom 🥂 |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 7:33am On Oct 20, 2025 |
Mrexcell:So the reproductive organs don’t have sexual implications right🤔 SMH🤦♂️ |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 7:36am On Oct 20, 2025 |
kessler53:But the reproductive organs can be used for excrement right?? Who gave the body parts duties? You guys just keep generating more problems for yourself. That’s why there’s no different between this generation and the Pharisees🤦♂️ |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 7:40am On Oct 20, 2025 |
Dtruthspeaker:So you need a spirit to tell you to clap with your hands abi God told you to clap. Our natural instinct is bound to explore bro and if it is done with consent and love, I don’t see anything found with that. That’s why we celebrate explorers. Till tomorrow, even God on his seat knows we’re explorers that’s why he didn’t destroy the children of Babylon when they disobeyed him😁 🚶♂️ |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 7:42am On Oct 20, 2025 |
Dtruthspeaker:Only direct guidance I see there is homosexuality, lesbianism and beastiality. There are other sexual immorality but if the couples agree with love and consent. We have no right to judge them. Remember the just shall live by faith not laws😁 🚶♂️ |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by paxonel(m): 7:54am On Oct 20, 2025 |
Mrexcell:Then they should be allowed to face the consequences of their actions and learn their lessons so that God will rest. This Africa, we always like calling God for everything |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by samuelson06(m): 10:18am On Oct 20, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:Well, I'm sorry about that statement. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to create any form of law around marital sex. I don't even want to go into religion or theology. However, one thing is clear: Christ never came to abolish the law, and at the same time, grace is not to be abused. Many of us hide under grace and mercy to do abominable things. That's wrong. Christ came with the Holy Spirit to guide us against the law or sin, but many of us don't even listen to the Holy Spirit and also don't want to be judged with the laws. Instead, we want to hide under grace that's associated with the Holy Spirit and commit sin that we are supposed to be punished with the law. Does that make any sense? For example, the Holy Spirit can't teach you anal sex or bestiality when the virgina and the woman is right there for you. He can't approve a woman for another woman when the woman was made for the man and the man made for the woman. He can't teach you to chain or tie a woman to the bed or something to sleep with her because there's no place in the Bible that condemns that. So don't say because it's not written in the Bible you should go overboard. The Holy Spirit is bigger than the Bible yet we don't listen to Him. So this is what I'm talking about. It has nothing to do with trying to sell fear to people but charging them to listen to the inner voice in them that tells them the truth about their choices. That's bigger than reading Bible pages. That's God in you. And by the time you begin to go overboard because the Bible isn't explicit on those actions or choices, then get ready for repercussions. This is my position. |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:27am On Oct 20, 2025 |
samuelson06:Now you’ve gotten me. If it is the spirit, then it’s okay. Even the Bible puts it that children are to be given milk and not meat but let it be done moderately because if it was a pagan, he’d have regarded us as liars not knowing the system. So let’s not make it kind of lawful but let’s encourage others to follow the spirit and not abuse grace which is higher than the law🥂 Shalom✌️🚶♂️ |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by samuelson06(m): 10:48am On Oct 20, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:That's it. And thanks for your understanding. That's why in some churches, they don't approve children's or teenagers' church. Everyone consumes the same Word and Holy Spirit. It's such a beautiful thing that every time you're faced with a choice, you check back your spirit and act accordingly—not Isaiah says this or Matthew says that. And the more beautiful thing is that as you keep submitting to the leading of the Holy Spirit, He keeps talking to you more and more. This doesn't mean you should ditch the Bible, but at some point, even the Bible will become a part of you. |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 3:10pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between "themselves: 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections:... 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman... 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;.. All these have already judged you as the Judgment is open ended capturing every case that falls into this situation. So this pronouncement of judgement is not limited to homosexuality alone but includes every act of "dishonouring your own bodies between yourselves, the unnatural use of a woman and the doing things that are not convenient. Also you must remember that the statement "the just shall live by faith not laws" is A Law and The Law. So you have no place to hide and God has already found you condemned you as He Said in John 3:18. So face it or keep dodging and trying to create excuses; they won't ever work and your condemnation will still be on you. |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
Dtruthspeaker:I won’t engage you again cos you’re funny😂😂 was Esau before or after the coming of Christ😂😂😂😂 You’re funny😂😂😂😂 Even Peter said Ananias sinned against the Holy Spirit😂😂😂 I’m not saying anal is good. My point is, it is not Christian laws but church guidances and counseling to curb barbarism and not make us act like animals😂 Abi you still want to invoke fire😂😂😂 Blacksmith 😂😂😂 🚶♂️ |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
Dtruthspeaker:Are you sure you are a Christian or a Pharisees 😂😂😂 You’re so quick to pronounce judgement on someone cos he doesn’t subscribe to your self deceit😂😂😂 There’s no difference btw you and the people up north 😂😂😂 This same thing was what made the Pharisee hate Jesus😂😂😂 See you in heaven bro🥂 🚶♂️ |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 3:53pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:Everything be hell. And funny you should say this for it is Written 21 Thou therefore which teachest another, teachest thou not thyself? thou that preachest a man should not steal, dost thou steal? 22 Thou that sayest a man should not commit adultery, dost thou commit adultery? thou that abhorrest idols, dost thou commit sacrilege? And here you are doing even the worst thing. You say you do not subscribe to anal, yet here you defend it when normally it is those who anal that teach others to anal. So clearly you are worser than those this scripture was talking to. Men, I pity you. If you are to be believed then this is where you learn that you destroy your own self playing with things that you should never have played with |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
Dtruthspeaker:😂😂😂😂 Christians will cut my neck ooo. I’m not defending anal. If the two couples agree with love. Let them do it and God will judge. Next time when bringing your teachings, differentiate btw Christians and divine laws and the doctrine of your church😂😂😂😂 The just shall live by faith🥂😝😝😝😝😝 🚶♂️ |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 4:21pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:I'm a Lawyer, so I read and study Judgments. And so I am trying to help everyone here understand that our Judgments have been Written in advance already covering every thing that man can do or plans to do. And to help them see that, that is why John 3:18 Says that "we are condemned already" and not "shall be condemned already" as people f00rishly think. Judgement Day's Judgement has been Written already and that is what the Bible contains, which f00rish people are thinking is a small thing and do not know what is waiting for them. So, I am here trying to help people by reading the Judgments God has already fore given and fore Written in advance, in a matter knowing that we men are very f00rish and will surely do all these things. And I won't have to be fighting all these fights if only those Lawyers who claim that they are Christians were doing their jobs and calling. But again, those ones don't even know that their own is going to be worser than regular people as God has even kept a special punishment just for them as seen in Luke 11:45 -52. Me, o don't want to be a part of them, so I am trying my very best so that God may keep me out of what is waiting for them for truly lawyers are and should have been the last hope of people but, they are not. So, I have presented my intentions and now you can leave me alone and look upon The already Written Judgments of God and decide how you want to live and where you want to end up. I pray, you choose the right and only Way! |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
Dtruthspeaker:Thanks preacher. I pray God directs me😂 🚶♂️ |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 4:36pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:And funny you say "the just shall live by faith" but you fail to ask, are you just? And already, you have proven that you are not, so you know what must befall you. Anyway, you have made your choice and you will carry the consequences of them. |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by FayaBall: 4:37pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:Come on, you do. You support it with you full anal which is why as you confessed you are trying to miseducate people. |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
Dtruthspeaker:Thank you daddy😂 Jesus died for my sin 😁 same way he allowed the thief into paradise and the adulterous woman, make e no shock you😂😂😂 🚶♂️ |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
FayaBall:Nah😂😂😂 I disagree ooo😂😂😂 I’ve never tried it in my life. And even if I did, let God be the judge🥂 🚶♂️ |
| Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by FayaBall: 4:39pm On Oct 20, 2025 |
Dtruthspeaker:Of course he is not as he even said he is here to miseducate people. Imagine oo |
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Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to create any form of law around marital sex. I don't even want to go into religion or theology. However, one thing is clear: Christ never came to abolish the law, and at the same time, grace is not to be abused.