₦airaland Forum

Luckysbab:
Thank God say you sef be better man. Na make them dey pack come your side. More power to your elbows sir.

shortgun:
The white man's definition of marriage will never work, it didn't work in their countries so how will it work here.
Any organization where there's no clear defined leadership will only amount to confusion.

Our ancestors knew this for centuries but the white man came wiry the equality nonsense in marriages. Now neither the man nor the woman understand their roles in marriages

PantShifter:
I am also available to fork as many divorcees as possible

Fiscus105:
I guess you are advocating for boss- servant of a marriage. No where in the world that man is not headship of family, the word equality doesn't mean no clear, but trying to say you are helpmates in progress

SmartPolician:
Although a couple of marriages have failed, the failure rate in Nigeria remains insignificant. Why we think that many marriages are failing is that negative news easily gets media attention.

shortgun:
You’ve clearly misunderstood my point. When I speak of clear leadership, I’m referring to a kind of leadership that commands genuine followership and respectful obedience...this is something that’s sadly lacking in many marriages today.
This doesn’t mean a woman should be treated as a servant or a slave or shouldn’t be allowed to make inputs. It simply means that when there’s a clash of ideas in decision-making, the man’s position should take precedence for the sake of order and direction. Without this there’s always going to be confusion and never ending conflicts in marriages.

shortgun:
You’ve clearly misunderstood my point. When I speak of clear leadership, I’m referring to a kind of leadership that commands genuine followership and respectful obedience...this is something that’s sadly lacking in many marriages today.
This doesn’t mean a woman should be treated as a servant or a slave or shouldn’t be allowed to make inputs. It simply means that when there’s a clash of ideas in decision-making, the man’s position should take precedence for the sake of order and direction. Without this there’s always going to be confusion and never ending conflicts in marriages.

Nazgul:
This is why as a woman you must be mindful of who you'll marry. Don't just marry a man because he's financially OK. Rather marry someone you're compatible with.

Truth is you can find someone who is financially comfortable and compatible with you.

Never be in a hurry to settle down, cos if you marry wrongly and the unending crisis makes you leave your home, it's worse outside. A lot of women left their husbands to become a side chick to other women's husbands.

Some girls would say that they don't care about compartibality as long as he's rich it would work out. Look at Regina today, did it workout? Not even Ned's money could make her stay.

koladata:
But why can't they go back to their husband

koladata:
But why can't they go back to their husband

cityboylagos:
“There’s Nothing Outside” – Nigerian Divorcee Advises Women to Stay in Their Marriages Despite Challenges



https://eyesoflagos.com/divorced-nigerian-woman-advises-women-to-stay-in-marriage/

Nazgul:
Some girls would say that they don't care about compartibality as long as he's rich it would work out. Look at Regina today, did it workout? Not even Ned's money could make her stay.

Luckysbab:
Thank God say you sef be better man. Na make them dey pack come your side. More power to your elbows sir.

kingthreat:
In any situation in life, there must be a leader. That is order. Saying both husband and wife are equal is what's causing many marriages to break

ZaddyJ:
If na this lady she Dey depressed oo.