₦airaland Forum

Kudos to her! Had it been me, the first time he does that is the last time he would've tried it as I wouldn't have let it slide. Arrant nonsense.

descarado:
This is Nigeria, remember?
Which authority?
Don't make me laugh please.

Do they know what safeguarding is?

My response was to the guy shouting sane clime.

A 7 year old should understand boundary except if he's autistic.

To me I think the lady was harsh on that child.
To me I feel the child may not really understand what he did was wrong.
Probably he was thinking that it is just fun to touch any lady her breast.

If the lady did not like it and she wanted to correct the child she could have done that with love.

Playfully the lady could have start like;
Lady: hello boy what is your name?
Boy: my name is xyz.
Lady; xyz what class are u?
Boy; I am in primary so and so
Lady; good, do u know what u are touching call?
Boy; it is call ...... whatever name.
Lady ; good boy, do you know what it is use for?
Boy: I know or I don't know
Lady: do u like touching it?
Boy; yes or no
Lady; (if yes) why do u like touching it
Boy; I just like it ( it all depends)
Lady; have u been touching ur mum breast?
Boy; yes or no
Lady ; (if yes) y?
Boy ; the boy may be shy or he may not give u a good reason.
(At time any sensible person will know if such a child had bad intention or just feel it is normal thing?
Lady; have u been doing that to other women? That is as old as ur mum or to other young girls?
( If the child is a corrupt child, he will spill it out and that will exposed poor parental up bringing ?

From there the lady will council the boy and his mum base on the outcome of the conversation.
Honestly the boy or the mother will thank the lady very well and she not forget that in a hurry.

Assuming the lady beat the woman and she collapsed instantly and died.
How will she handled the situation.
Honestly this present economy one need to be extra careful because everything should not be all about violent.

Even if u didn't want to correct that child a stern looked at the child could have sent a warning signal to the boy but u allow it to go on the boy may feel that u like it ur silence was a green light.

Kaczynski:
thats how you make your kids scarred of approaching you.

your kids cant talk to you about their troubles or issues they have and when you turn 60+, they leave you to rot at a home for the elderly .

your kids cant talk to you about their troubles or issues they have and when you turn 60+, they leave you to rot at a home for the elderly .

That's what white kids do to their parents...they ship them to the elderly homes. Asking african parents to copy white people ways of parenting is delusional! Your male kids will probably end up being effeminate and gayish too. keep imitating white man ways of parenting and your male kids would wake up one day and start wearing female clothes and want to cut his peepee off while the female, off goes her boobby...

We African parents do not tolerate or accommodate that, we exorcise excesses from the kids through hardcore spanking to set them on the right way.

Mindlog:
Don't forget the age of criminal responsibility in Nigeria is 7 years.

The child repeatedly touched the woman inappropriately under the observation of his mother, with no detterence from the mother rather, rationalization.

Where system works, children services would have the boy taken away ftom the mother and placed in care while exploring issues beneath the sexualized behaviour being exhibited.

At the same vein, Child Services would charge the bloated evening paper for assault on a minor and definitely end up in jail.
There's no way she won't go to jail regardless of the provocation by the 7 year old child.

muyico:
Madam?? You re too harsh, weytinz 7yrs old boy knw!

7 year old is mature enough to know the difference between right and wrong if well raised. Failed parenting here.
Although the woman was too harsh and stupid to launch all out attack on a mother in front of her children in public.

Kobojunkie:
Imagine raising a monster who might grow to prey on other women. You for make sure to tell her say she must also prepare herself to marry that boy she is raising that way, or else he might end up in jail if she does not take care. Child Protective Services(CPS) is long overdue in that country. Nonsense!

Hey kobo you have seen what i was trying to tell on the other thread,see eeh sometimes instantly retaliation nip some nonsense.

This boys mum knew she was raising a s*xual predator, but decides to keep mute and egg him on.

Thank God that woman gave them some dose of their madness.

Fountainofyouth:
Mothers focus more on training their daughters in preparation for adulthood and marriage but excuse nonsense behaviour from their sons, that's why we have so many deranged, pedophilic, sexual defiant men roaming the earth today creating havoc and messed up society at their wake, look at Nigeria, messed up by both young and old men,

God help the next generation.

Hope you know your father too is among the "men" you typed cos I don't see any correlation between a wayward boy and the men you are tagging in your post

muyico:
Madam?? You re too harsh, weytinz 7yrs old boy knw!

Always supporting evil as usual.

Qualityoffer:
My bible in Ephesians 4:31 has advice for you: Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior.

That one you quoted have hatred for men generally by her comment you will know

Lies ! Lies !! Just to chase clout n a " notice me validation" . We have finally seen Ur pix ....

Nicely done. Stoopeed women who don't deserve to be mothers everywhere. I'm impressed, truly.

I like your actions. It will serve as a deterrent to him from then on. You should have given it to the mother wotowoto. Thanks jare.

The mother is the one spoiling the boy by allowing him to fundle her breast at home

Kobojunkie:
Imagine raising a monster who might grow to prey on other women. You for make sure to tell her say she must also prepare herself to marry that boy she is raising that way, or else he might end up in jail if she does not take care. Child Protective Services(CPS) is long overdue in that country. Nonsense!

If you cover those things well, the poor boy would not evil think or look in that direction . Always dress well and stop sexually harassing kids and adults.

I'm happy you rightly put culpability in the doorstep of women. They indulge their male children too much in the name of love

Fountainofyouth:
Mothers focus more on training their daughters in preparation for adulthood and marriage but excuse nonsense behaviour from their sons, that's why we have so many deranged, pedophilic, sexual defiant men roaming the earth today creating havoc and messed up society at their wake, look at Nigeria, messed up by both young and old men,

God help the next generation.

If you do my pikin like this things go sup wey go actually pass your power o

kpankpangolo:
All Nairaland is for nowadays is reading lies. I pity those on the platforms that these stories are concocted. I go soon delete my account from frustration.

Here's overcrowded.
You may take ur leave.
Walahi we no go notice say u don comot sef.

ChybuzzDD:
But did the focused training on your gender make them better??
Go to social media and their marital homes and see the manifestations of those ''good'' trainings they received.

Lol.
This our generation wey to marry,person go open eye like who wan cross express road.

Fountainofyouth:
Compared to especially Nigeran men that always display and are known for negativity home and abroad, yes we are 1000 times far better, in every ramifications.

Na stil ur well trained gender wan embarrass the whole country via her world guiness sex marathon.
I fear who no fear 9ja barney o.

Thank you for your service ma

descartes400:
My sweet Pa, and Uncle spanked me thoroughly, and I'll carry on the legacy. it shall be passed down from generation to generation titi lie lie. AMEEEEN!

Discipline them.
Don't harden them.

Fountainofyouth:
Mothers focus more on training their daughters in preparation for adulthood and marriage but excuse nonsense behaviour from their sons, that's why we have so many deranged, pedophilic, sexual defiant men roaming the earth today creating havoc and messed up society at their wake, look at Nigeria, messed up by both young and old men,

God help the next generation.

Exactly!

I feel the same effort by mothers should be made towards the boy child as regards domestic violence in relationships so that the next generation of men would be apaled to even hear of a man beating a womam in past times.

We know mothers do more of nurturing kids which surprises me that men still grow up raising their hands against the one they are meant to protect. Some MILs actually support this violence against their son's wife.

Kaczynski:
must she lay her hand on the boy


cant she correct him without attempting to spank her??



i pity this generation of women always taking things too seriously


so because a small boy touched your b ,person no fit hear word again


i no blame her, she don see opportunity to create content and trend

So you nothing wrong with such Nasty attitude.
I hope if a little child press your preeeq you will clap for him

Caaz:
✓ Hey kobo you have seen what i was trying to tell on the other thread,see eeh sometimes instantly retaliation nip some nonsense.
This boys mum knew she was raising a s*xual predator, but decides to keep mute and egg him on.
Thank God that woman gave them some dose of their madness.

The spanking will not stop the boy from continuing to objectify other women, though it might make him a bit more cautious when picking his victims next time. That mother and maybe even the father are the major problem when it comes to changing his behavior. 🥱🥱🥱

A child of 7 years and below is incapable of committing a crime under Nigerian Criminal Law.

Known murderers still gets a defender... The maybe it was this or that crew. Rather than stand for the truth, they'll subtly boycott it... You lots are sick in the head.
If you don't believe in training your child the right way, no problem. But when that spoilt child Infringes on someone else's privacy you don't get to dictate how they should react. You raise uncultured kids then go "it's gentle parenting, he or she loves this or that" and a total stranger is supposed to accept that rubbish? Una dey ment! The lady did well by servicing the boy and resetting his mother's dysfunctional brain too.

Your dressing matter and boy is checking the temperature of the contents

nurusystem:
➜Your dressing matter and boy is checking the temperature of the contents

A 7-year-old, who only moments before ran around naked and carefree, concerns himself with people's dressings and asserts himself as a temperature checker for other people's bodies? By what statute do you lot raise your children with this mentality and to the profit of whom?

I have said it so many times before now. Nigerians are generally terrible parents. CPS is overdue at this point in time if that nation is ever to begin moving forward.