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"I raised my stepdaughter like my own child. The biological father never spent a cent on her. In fact, he left her mother when she was barely a month old.

I took her to the best private schools in KZN and she went to two best universities in Europe. She's an engineer and doing very well now. Guess who she bought a Mercedes-Benz? She literally dumped me as her father and now that dude has replaced me.

For over 26 years he didn't care about her. He probably even forgot she existed. When he heard she's....." – A man has shared a heartbreaking story about how his stepdaughter, whom he raised and cared for since infancy, abandoned him for her biological father after achieving success.

His words …

“Hi Auntie Momoza.
Please keep me anonymous. The post about the stepfather who got arrested for assaulting the biological father? I relate.

I raised my stepdaughter like my own child. The biological father never spent a cent on her. In fact, he left her mother when she was barely a month old. I took her to the best private schools in KZN and she went to two best universities in Europe. She’s an engineer and doing very well now. Guess who she bought a Mercedes-Benz? She literally dumped me as her father and now that deadbeat dude has replaced me. For over 26 years he didn’t care about her. He probably even forgot she existed. When he heard she’s highly educated and doing well he came running and it didn’t take long before she forgot the guy who stepped up. I heard she is building him a house.

Look, I don’t want her money, I have enough. I just wanted our daddy-daughter relationship to continue as normal. I’m hurt she replaced me with someone who is clearly using her and poisoned her against me. The mother sees nothing wrong with it.”

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Hmm, this is serious oo, but to be honest I prefer donating money to orphanage homes, NGOs and and other charity organizations than taking such risk

Infact I will receive more blessings from God for helping the less privileged with such huge amount of money

Lastly, if you want to do it, do it without expecting anything in return

This is one of the problem you face when you married a single mother... No matter how you care for your step daughter , her biological father will surely shows up from no where when it times to reap what you have sow....

Mr step up daddy, your eye don clear, anyways I doubt this. This story may probably be fabricated

This is why I keep telling my fellow men never to date single mothers. Her child will never appreciate anything you do for them and the mother will not allow you discipline the child as well.

Single mums are a huge baggage every right thinking man should avoid.

I think single mothers should be doggedly discouraged in the society. Sounds judgmental, yes!
Exception of those raped, the ones still in contact with their baby daddy should try and settle their scores with their baby daddies.

Blood is thicker than water. You don’t expect a child who was unaware of what transpired to understand your reason for taking his/her mother in. Majority of them will always go back to their father. Yes few might want to stay but what is the percentage and why live in hope, praying your “child” don’t go back to his father when you can have your own and be sure he’s going nowhere.

On the other hand, I also blame step dads, no sympathy. What were you expecting, who confused you, why live in hope?
As a single father, it’s either you have proper and legal agreements with your wife, if it is possible or you expect something like this. I ain’t got pity for them. It’s better to adopt a stranger and know he’s a stranger than train someone else child with the delusion that he’s mine🍹
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Nairaland and lies.

"I raised my stepdaughter like my own child. The biological father never spent a cent on her. In fact, he left her mother when she was barely a month old.

I took her to the best private schools in KZN and she went to two best universities in Europe. She's an engineer and doing very well now. Guess who she bought a Mercedes-Benz? She literally dumped me as her father and now that dude has replaced me.

For over 26 years he didn't care about her. He probably even forgot she existed. When he heard she's....." – A man has shared a heartbreaking story about how his stepdaughter, whom he raised and cared for since infancy, abandoned him for her biological father after achieving success.

Some nairalanders will begin to cry even though the story is farfetched. Because charity is not imbibe in them.

To them life is a give and take. But if God had put charity in the power of your hands
Do it.

One of those incredible Twitter stories that you can't verify its authenticity

This is quite painful, oh well, lesson learnt.. Talk about a very bad investment.

Okay, next storyline please.

That serious o imagine that

He had it coming....

Never expect anything from step-children. Even your own children may ignore you

Before nko

Is this kinda society where such children are easily refered to as bastards, then you think one that really knows who her dad is won't go back to him?

Dey play

I hope he has his own children sha because those are truly the ones he got.

She thinks local blood is always thicker than foreign blood. Some people have HIV blood flowing in them may she not discover that the hard way.

For me, impacting in her life and she being successful is enough satisfaction. I wouldn't have seen training her to be something in life as an investment to gain personal interest.

I can never ever believe this story..

This is another story to generate traffic and poison the minds of step dad's towards their step daughters......

This story has been churned over and over again

Next!!!

Kajaard:
This is why I keep telling my fellow men never to date single mothers. Her child will never appreciate anything you do for them and the mother will not allow you discipline the child as well.

Single mums are a huge baggage every right thinking man should avoid.

What of single dads- should right thinking women also avoid them?

Do you know what these 2 men have in common- Jeff Bezos and Saquille O'neil.

They were both raised by stepfathers, and they have fantastic relations with them

Shaquilee only discovered as a teenager that his stepfather wasn't his biological parent.

Jeff Bezos adopted his stepfather's name. I am sure O'niel too bares his stepdads surname.

Please stop demonizing all single mothers, and what about their dads?

Blood is thicker than water

I wish Nairaland is known for moving real life stories that can spark intense debate and result in massive help, but na traffic dem dey run after. Shior!

I worn most people on this, but they won't listen, put yourself in the girl's shoes, there is this craving by everyone to be identified genuinely. However this does not mean that you will not be appreciated for your support but switching you for the real person is a no. The earlier any individual willing to render such support understand this the better. The answer to that man's confusion lies in his last statement " The mother see nothing wrong with that". Probably the mother told her how the father loved both of them and assumed the father left them mainly because of financial stress.

If you had use that money to train dogs or even open a poultry farm by now we should have been talking about exports to other countries

You'll learn the hard way

Blood is thicker than water!

No man should be okay with someone he never gave birth to calling him "Father"!

Your wife's child before you met is never your child!

Kajaard:
This is why I keep telling my fellow men never to date single mothers. Her child will never appreciate anything you do for them and the mother will not allow you discipline the child as well.

Single mums are a huge baggage every right thinking man should avoid.

As quiet as its kept a guy in the news married a single mom with a child and I think he regretted it. I won't name or hint his name for obvious sensitive reasons on this platform.

Never raise another man's child, with expectations.

The fact remains that if it is not yours then it is not yours
For what so ever reason a foolish man decides to train a child for a wise man,if I will date or marry a single mother then it is either I tell her that I won’t be responsible for her child no matter what unless the father is dead.id rather adopt a child instead of that,I will never carry a lazy man’s baggage,love can never make me stupid.
All these ladies leaving their husband’s house and be fighting to possess a child they can’t train,I pity una…Tinubu will make all these nonsense tradition stop by false.

Almost Always better to marry a Widow than put up with a single mother. Everyone knows where a widow's husband is 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

Don't marry a single mother, but you said, NO... You are a 'real man'
Oya, why are you now acting weak??

God1000:
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A touching tale that almost certainly sounds fabricated..However, life has taught me not to have any expectations when reaching out to humans and that includes even blood line.

Years back I gave the best to my siblings who today can't afford to ring my line with a simple "How are you". Notwithstanding I have no regrets because that much I did for them was borne of true love and no expectations.

At this stage of my life I'm presently dating a single mum. I do willingly take care of both mother and son with no expectations. Interestingly the seven years old boy promised me a car yesterday. Do I believe him? No!!..He was just excited I bought them a new tv to replace the bad one..Lol

Well this situation is still better than paternity fraud.