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OK... Someone married an old cargo,, so what? You married at 44 doesn't mean you are not an old cargo, the bottom line is, there is always someone for that special someone, the problem is finding that special someone. Some find their's early, some find their's late or luckyly at the "right" time.

Samantha125:
African traditional weddings come with traditional rituals that must be performed to solidify the unity... So I'm curious, with the way Islam and Christianity have deeply infiltrated Nigeria, do you guys still perform those traditional wedding rituals or you just do traditional weddings for the sake of forging social bonds?

We stick to the usual routines, like getting things for the family and all that. As long as it is not about hurting anybody, we are good with it. Some of our traditions might get a bit modernized, but deep down, they still follow the old ways.

Celebrityblog:
https://www.instagram.com/p/DQbhxkiClcS/?img_index=1&igsh=cXVhazJ3YTI1OTE0

44 is old my sister; if your mum had gotten married at 44, you'd be 12. Please, let's leave this God matter; the guy just wanted to do you a favour. Thank him!

Celebrityblog:
https://www.instagram.com/p/DQbhxkiClcS/?img_index=1&igsh=cXVhazJ3YTI1OTE0

44 is old my sister; if your mum had gotten married at 44, you'd be 12. Please, let's leave this God matter; the guy just wanted to do you a favour. Thank him!

To those who assume marriage is a destination ,
Thank God she has arrived. And you are the next.
You will reach there in Jesus name.

GenFunction:
Lol.
Switching churches upandan wen dem don reach juventus age

Bro Abeg Elucidate me on this Juventus age.

Konjiboii:
My moniker was a reflection of my chuku chuku past and I want to give thanks to God for making me survive the number of kontus I devoured in my prime, and also to appreciate him for making my current girl somewhat decent, only way you will know she’s not decent is during adult play and that is between me and her. Girl when dey panic if I tell her I haven’t eaten by 1pm , girl when dey remember my siblings birthday before I do, girl when dey top up groceries and foodstuffs, girl when dey put me for prayer and anoint my head before I leave for work each day. Na still girlfriend she be oh I never marry her yet. But if na pretend she’s doing one hell of an act, she is currently leading the pack I no go lie .

Come back here 5 years after marriage and let's have this discussion.

E be like sey na today you sabi women. The only gender that spoke to the devil one on one. If that gender do anything good, it's either a mistake or it's a form of deception.

After you marry her, you'll know the difference between 6 and half a dozen.

#Picks_tooth

Samantha125:
Is this one of the Nigerian traditional wedding attires? If it is, what tribe is it?

Stop asking dumb questions. That's a Ghanaian attire. The man is a Ghanaian

Men are in short supply worldwide. UN releases demographic report for the first quarter of 2025. There are 7.8 billion people on planet Earth. - Women = 5.6 billion breaths - men = 2.2 billion So the UN advises women to be cautious in their attitude towards men, because out of 2.2 billion men: - 1 billion married already - 130 million in jail - 70 million suffer from mental health problems and various illnesses. That means there are only about 1 billion men available for marriage. And who is this billion : - 56% are unemployed - 3% of them are gay - 1% are Catholic priests. - 10% are parents or close relatives - 30% over 65 years old So, ladies, married or single, treat men with respect. There is a shortage of men all over the world.So Aunty Hold your man tight!

lilvicky68:
Marriage, the highest achievement for Nigerian Ladies

I dey tell you my brother 😆

eepeepook:
These women spend their lives peppering peers. No wonder they’re never truly happy. How will you sleep well when your mind is always thinking of the next step to stunt on your opps?

Its mind blowing how everything in nigeria is wired stupidly.
That word "Opps" in the Western world is used as opportunities in business world.
But in nigeria its used stupidly

ravensckar:
Come back here 5 years after marriage and let's have this discussion.

E be like sey na today you sabi women. The only gender that spoke to the devil one on one. If that gender do anything good, it's either a mistake or it's a form of deception.

After you marry her, you'll know the difference between 6 and half a dozen.

#Picks_tooth

Don't mind that guy him just start adulthood ..

What will fade with time 😆

ravensckar:
Come back here 5 years after marriage and let's have this discussion.

E be like sey na today you sabi women. The only gender that spoke to the devil one on one. If that gender do anything good, it's either a mistake or it's a form of deception.

After you marry her, you'll know the difference between 6 and half a dozen.

#Picks_tooth

I’m not one to assume and jump into conclusions, i have been with tons of women, I’m not proud of it but in that experience I have observed certain patterns that are relatively easy to spot in Nigerian women, she is still under surveillance but it’s looking good thus far.

Cti28:
Bro Abeg Elucidate me on this Juventus age.

Do you know juventus?
What is their nickname?
There's ur answer .
Therefore;
Normally when u see juventus,u go know.You no need elucidation

SpencerForbes:
So she’s celebrating her marriage🤔🤔 what happened to being independent and single lady that don’t need a man🤷‍♂️
🚶‍♂️

Don't mind them 🤣🤣, being independent and don't need a man go understand many things once e done dey reach menopause age.
Most of them regret that decision low-key forget.

Samantha125:
Is this one of the Nigerian traditional wedding attires? If it is, what tribe is it?

Oron people from Akwa-Ibom State

SpencerForbes:
It is a Nigerian traditional marriage. Efik or Ibibio to be precise.

That is Oron in Akwa-Ibom

Women in general get married expecting a man to fix their life and their mistakes. To fill in their shortcomings.
That’s not a problem if the woman is 20–24 years old.
But with every passing year, those problems and shortcomings grow. A woman over 40 has her whole life behind her — a life full of traumas, disappointments, failures, frustrations. She dumps all of that in front of a man and expects him to solve it. That’s completely wrong.

Watch this couple over time — in at most two years, everything will fall apart.
A man enters a relationship or marriage to start a family and have children. To make a woman happy and to be happy himself in that marriage.
Yes — we men also want to be happy. Unbelievable, isn’t it?

A woman over 30 already has difficulties conceiving, and those over 40 have very small, almost negligible chances.
I honestly don’t know what an ordinary woman in her 40s or 50s can offer me — unless she possesses some truly exceptional qualities.

goran3310:
Women in general get married expecting a man to fix their life and their mistakes. To fill in their shortcomings.
That’s not a problem if the woman is 20–24 years old.
But with every passing year, those problems and shortcomings grow. A woman over 40 has her whole life behind her — a life full of traumas, disappointments, failures, frustrations. She dumps all of that in front of a man and expects him to solve it. That’s completely wrong.

Watch this couple over time — in at most two years, everything will fall apart.
A man enters a relationship or marriage to start a family and have children. To make a woman happy and to be happy himself in that marriage.
Yes — we men also want to be happy. Unbelievable, isn’t it?

A woman over 30 already has difficulties conceiving, and those over 40 have very small, almost negligible chances.
I honestly don’t know what an ordinary woman in her 40s or 50s can offer me — unless she possesses some truly exceptional qualities.

the man did her a favor. But the woman na big fine meat normally. Women are meant to be enjoyed endlessly

There is a difference between getting married and staying married!
There is a difference between being ahead by scoring a goal in a soccer game and eventually winning the match!
Stay humble and work towards sustaining ur marriage instead of bragging online!

No matter how they try to deny it, the entirety of the being and Thier ultimate goal is about getting a man. Without that, they believe they've failed.

She only gave a testimony I don't know why people are crying over that?

lilvicky68:
Marriage, the highest achievement for Nigerian Ladies

Having a successful marriage is the highest achievement of everyone. People who think otherwise are likely still very young.

Does Marriage erase the fact that your still old cargo?

Celebrityblog:
https://www.instagram.com/p/DQbhxkiClcS/?img_index=1&igsh=cXVhazJ3YTI1OTE0

Her man dey on dread and he dey do pink lips .. great 😃

It's best not to publicize anything .. people will talk always

goran3310:
Women in general get married expecting a man to fix their life and their mistakes. To fill in their shortcomings.
That’s not a problem if the woman is 20–24 years old.
But with every passing year, those problems and shortcomings grow. A woman over 40 has her whole life behind her — a life full of traumas, disappointments, failures, frustrations. She dumps all of that in front of a man and expects him to solve it. That’s completely wrong.

Watch this couple over time — in at most two years, everything will fall apart.
A man enters a relationship or marriage to start a family and have children. To make a woman happy and to be happy himself in that marriage.
Yes — we men also want to be happy. Unbelievable, isn’t it?

A woman over 30 already has difficulties conceiving, and those over 40 have very small, almost negligible chances.
I honestly don’t know what an ordinary woman in her 40s or 50s can offer me — unless she possesses some truly exceptional qualities.

Goran ....you like firing too many bullets bro

kolente:
Your mouth can hasten your divorce also.

Why not celebrate silently and move forward.

this desire to pepper imaginary enemies is usually their downfall in marriage.

Next She will want her new husband to behave in a certain way to Pepper this or that person.

For a few months or years the man will endure it because the marriage is fresh.

But later it will become absurd to the man and he'll resent it. Most men don't live their lives to pepper or impress anyone.

Before you know it they crash. They just don't learn.

See how blessinceo was posting everything on social media just to pepper?

We4all:
I don't see any reason why a lady should be celebrating her marriage as if it were one of life's achievement. It was clearly stated at the begining of time that marriage is for companionship, so it is only d..i..c..k heads that would mock a lady for getting married even at 60. If a 43 year old lady is too old for marriage, then tell your dads to dovorce your 60 year old moms because they are too old to stay married.

Lol so much ignorance in one post. Do they pay you for all these you do?

GenFunction:
Do you know juventus?
What is their nickname?
There's ur answer .
Therefore;
Normally when u see juventus,u go know.You no need elucidation

Okay! Ah! I never thought in that direction. " "Old lady"

Tenrack:
Lol so much ignorance in one post. Do they pay you for all these you do?

You clearly don't know the meaning of the bolded word.

I reserve my comment