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I just got a Job offshore this year may me and this my colleague is in the same department. We both started this job for the first time through the connection of my uncle who also brought him to the work
. Our job is to take care of the customers uniforms and keep the place gift in the vessel doing my time at the vessel from may to late June I fell very sick the medic was attending to me but the sickness was persisting this my colleague went to tell our cam boss I might be having a deadly disease that y I was not getting ok they should send me to the hospital to run several test . ( It was made known to be by person who was there when this my colleague was telling the cam boss). Once u are booked out it take the grace of God to come back to the Job. The camp boss was able to convince the medic to send me to the hospital for check up . When I arrive the hospital I was attended to and check up was carried out luckily I was not having any terminal illness or HIV or any deadly decease. I was attended to I became strong and I went home for my off . When I came back to work after my off everyone came to greet me except this my colleague which I notice the ist 4 days of my resumption to work again when I started work the costomers and everyone in the ship was happy with me due to my dedication to work people from this my colleague side started begging me to wash their clothes for them they said this my colleague is a disaster in washing I never for one day mock this my colleague or tell anyone one what the costumers are saying this guy became very jealous of me that he is now monitoring me every thing I do. I tried my best to talk to him let them be peace but this guy is just planning how to get me sack by all means gossiping me almost every day. I woke one night to ease myself around 2am at night I was shock to hear my name at this guy mouth talking with someone I pretended I didn't hear anything I went to ease myself. Tomorrow he is going to is 28, days off y am yet to complete my 28days which means I will be staying y he is leaving this night this guy came to me and said if u urinating move closer to the pool y urinating I was looking at my phone he said I am talking to u . I was like guy what ur problem with me bro this guy was now saying I have mental problem what does that implies he is just looking for a way to get me out by all means. Right now am confused the country is very difficult things are very expressive my salary is close to 300k the job is helpful to me pls what should I do. I have avoided him no solution, I have tried to be close to him is even worse should I quit my job for this guy and go and start doing menial job or what. Am sad

Continue with your job with dedication, mind your own business and always ignore him...

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Oga, don't dull yourself, this guy can do anything to hurt you and that job.
This is why it's good to know how to do warfare prayer.
That so called friend most probably never liked you before, even though you thought u were friends. This is an eye opener for you.
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Please this guy is not a friend, don't even assume 1% he's a friend, he's got hatred, bitterness and jealousy for you. Imagine talking to you angrily for urinating at 2am and even calling u mental... What friend does that, same person your uncle helped o.
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Oga start prayer... I mean, night prayers.
This is a sign of witchcraft. Don't underestimate what he can do

Avoid him by every means possible, this is not a being you should have close. Just ensure to be dutiful and be of good behaviour at your place of work. Most importantly be prayerful and every evil trap he sets for you will back fire on him, the heart of man is desperately wicked. Thank you.

Please what part of the country is he from? I'm asking because there's a particular tribe in Nigeria that their natives behave like this.

If I tell you what to do, will you want to do it? But anyways, just keep been diligent, dedicated in your work and allow nature to judge. Though I don't like judging from a one sided story but I wish you the very best in your future endeavor. I hope you will do DNA test on your kids because colleagues can't be stressing you this hard, government is stressing you, work is stressing you, economy is stressing you and a non-virgin partner will also be stressing you with paternity fraud.


What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Why will you want to leave your job because of the ingrate you also got connected..part of the reasons why e dey always hard to help person...

If you must leave, he also must leave... Wotowoto for everyone ni o.. he is toxic and wants you uncomfortable... No gree for am

Don't fret.. continue to dedicated and hardworking... Also remember to always be prayerful.

You didn’t come there to make friends bro,since he’s giving you a hard time then you also give him what he gives you and let’s see who’ll break.You have to be smart in doing it cause any day you guys fight then your job ends..We call that the Art Of War..You have to be smart in there or he’ll send you out but you should break him and he will be thrown out..

duduade:
Why will you want to lead your job because of the ingrate you also got connected..part of the reasons why e dey always hard to help person...

If you must leave, he also must leave... Wotowoto for everyone ni o.. he is toxic and wants you uncomfortable... No gree for am

Don't fret.. continue to dedicated and hardworking... Also remember to always be prayerful.

Abi ooo.So far na mouth action then no problem but if they exchange blow their job is gone,so give am back hot hot and the guy go Bleep up cause he won’t take what he’s given out..

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Op, take it up in Prayers. Pray Pray Pray Pray Pray

He has studied you, and seen that you’re a good person with high morals, that’s why he can do all that and go scot free. You have to change yourself to a beast in his eyes by being the aggressor for a change, dish out series of your own confrontations and arguments, enough to rattle him, but not get you fired. If you can’t, just ignore him, avoid him and go and pray.

Freshtruth:
I just got a Job offshore this year may me and this my colleague is in the same department. We both started this job for the first time through the connection of my uncle who also brought him to the work . Our job is to take care of the customers uniforms and keep the place gift in the vessel doing my time at the vessel from may to late June I fell very sick the medic was attending to me but the sickness was persisting this my colleague went to tell our cam boss I might be having a deadly disease that y I was not getting ok they should send me to the hospital to run several test . ( It was made known to be by person who was there when this my colleague was telling the cam boss. Once u are booked out it take the grace of God to come back to the Job. The camp boss was able to convince the medic to send me to the hospital for check up . When I arrive the hospital I was attended to and check up was carried out luckily I was not having any terminal illness or HIV or any deadly decease. I was attended to I became strong and I went home for my off . When I came back to work after my off everyone came to greet me except this my colleague which I notice the list day of my resumption to work again when I started work the costomers and everyone in the ship was happy with me due to my dedication to work people from this my colleague side started begging me to wash their clothes for them they said this my colleague is a disaster in washing I never for one day mock this my colleague or tell anyone one what the costumers are saying this guy became very jealous of me that he is now monitoring me every thing I do. I tried my best to talk to him let them be peace but this guy is just planning how to get me sack by all means gossiping me almost every day. I woke one night to ease myself around 2am at night I was shock to hear my name at this guy mouth talking with someone I pretended I didn't hear anything I went to ease myself. Tomorrow he is going to is 28, days off y am yet to complete my 28days which means I will be staying y he is leaving this night this guy came to me and said if u urinating move closer to the pool y urinating I was looking at my phone he said I am talking to u . I was like guy what ur problem with me bro this guy was now saying I have mental problem what does that implies he is just looking for a way to get me out by all means. Right now am confused the country is very difficult things are very expressive my salary is close to 300k the job is helpful to me pls what should I do. I have avoided him no solution, I have tried to be close to him is even worse should I quit my job for this guy and go and start doing menial job or what. Am sad

You are giving him Attention dt is why he is still doing wat he is doing to you.
Ignore him.
Reduce any form of closeness to him.
Let your communication with him strictly be official.
Whenever he raises voice at you , make your own louder.
He is a bully. That is their strategy. To make the oda person cower.
Funny enough don't be surprised that you can beat him.
Don't fight at work place. You may be sacked.
Don't keep your food or drink in the office.
Don't keep any of your personal belongings in the office.
Let your uncle be in the know about this issue Incase anything happens to you.
Don't chicken out and resign because of him.

Na this kind person I like so that I will know how to deal with them. The worst thing is dealing with someone without knowing that he or she is your enemy..... Why thinking of quitting as an option when you have already won half of the battle for knowing that he is your enemy.

gerizzim:
You are giving him Attention dt is why he is still doing wat he is doing to you.
Ignore him.
Reduce any form of closeness to him.
Let your communication with him strictly be official.
Whenever he raises voice at you , make your own louder.
He is a bully. That is their strategy. To make the oda person cower.
Funny enough don't be surprised that you can beat him.
Don't fight at work place. You may be sacked.
Don't keep your food or drink in the office.
Don't keep any of your personal belongings in the office.
Let your uncle be in the know about this issue Incase anything happens to you.
Don't chicken out and resign because of him.

Thanks for this advise am usually hot temper who raises is voice y he kept calm after looking for my trouble I will now look like the aggressor I have avoid this guy with every opportunity but he kept on monitoring and looking for a way to get me react I can't fight in an offshore work I will get book out and kick out of the job

badaru911:
Continue with your job with dedication, mind your own business and always ignore him...

ok sir I was doing just that when he came to irritate me yesternite I have to react when the pressure is getting out of hands I reported him to the medic this morning and d medic told me he observe him . He said I should keep doing what am doing

FreeSpirited:
Oga, don't dull yourself, this guy can do anything to hurt you and that job.
This is why it's good to know how to do warfare prayer.
That so called friend most probably never liked you before, even though you thought u were friends. This is an eye opener for you.
.
Please this guy is not a friend, don't even assume 1% he's a friend, he's got hatred, bitterness and jealousy for you. Imagine talking to you angrily for urinating at 2am and even calling u mental... What friend does that, same person your uncle helped o.
..
Oga start prayer... I mean, night prayers.
This is a sign of witchcraft. Don't underestimate what he can do

That is the worst part same person my uncle help, my Dad was the person who gave my uncle this job years ago and my uncle gave me this job this year and he was also a beneficiary of the good my Dad soul years ago without my Dad helping my uncle how will my uncle have help us. Yesterday night I have to soul money to our church building and pray to God for divine intervention. When I woke up this morning a customer was already complaining that the guy has destroy his covorou and he want to go and report him to the project Manager they said they are all going to say it in safety meeting tomorrow morning that the guy does not kw how to wash. God knowsy hands are clean am not working for another man down fall I see him as a bro but he sees me as a competitor and a treat. When my Father was telling me the heart of a man is wicked I didn't understand the phrase very well until this . My uncle help u , u trying to bring down the relative of the person who help u. E was even saying my uncle is among those eating the salaries short paying them he said the salaries is up to 500k he is gingering others to protest to get his due salary. No be very body them dey help some help can be ur own destroution

IkeIgboNiile:
Please what part of the country is he from? I'm asking because there's a particular tribe in Nigeria that their natives behave like this.

igbo

Openair:
Op, take it up in Prayers. Pray Pray Pray Pray Pray

ok sir

This OP's Story is TOO LONG.

Make I go find Eba and Egusi Soup chop, b4 I try to read it.

Did you and the guy have a clash before you both joined this company?

Freshtruth:
I just got a Job offshore this year may me and this my colleague is in the same department. We both started this job for the first time through the connection of my uncle who also brought him to the work
. Our job is to take care of the customers uniforms and keep the place gift in the vessel doing my time at the vessel from may to late June I fell very sick the medic was attending to me but the sickness was persisting this my colleague went to tell our cam boss I might be having a deadly disease that y I was not getting ok they should send me to the hospital to run several test . ( It was made known to be by person who was there when this my colleague was telling the cam boss). Once u are booked out it take the grace of God to come back to the Job. The camp boss was able to convince the medic to send me to the hospital for check up . When I arrive the hospital I was attended to and check up was carried out luckily I was not having any terminal illness or HIV or any deadly decease. I was attended to I became strong and I went home for my off . When I came back to work after my off everyone came to greet me except this my colleague which I notice the ist 4 days of my resumption to work again when I started work the costomers and everyone in the ship was happy with me due to my dedication to work people from this my colleague side started begging me to wash their clothes for them they said this my colleague is a disaster in washing I never for one day mock this my colleague or tell anyone one what the costumers are saying this guy became very jealous of me that he is now monitoring me every thing I do. I tried my best to talk to him let them be peace but this guy is just planning how to get me sack by all means gossiping me almost every day. I woke one night to ease myself around 2am at night I was shock to hear my name at this guy mouth talking with someone I pretended I didn't hear anything I went to ease myself. Tomorrow he is going to is 28, days off y am yet to complete my 28days which means I will be staying y he is leaving this night this guy came to me and said if u urinating move closer to the pool y urinating I was looking at my phone he said I am talking to u . I was like guy what ur problem with me bro this guy was now saying I have mental problem what does that implies he is just looking for a way to get me out by all means. Right now am confused the country is very difficult things are very expressive my salary is close to 300k the job is helpful to me pls what should I do. I have avoided him no solution, I have tried to be close to him is even worse should I quit my job for this guy and go and start doing menial job or what. Am sad

Sorry.
Can you help me talk to your uncle to connect me to offshore work.
I will sacrifice 2 months of my salary

Freshtruth:
I just got a Job offshore this year may me and this my colleague is in the same department. We both started this job for the first time through the connection of my uncle who also brought him to the work
. Our job is to take care of the customers uniforms and keep the place gift in the vessel doing my time at the vessel from may to late June I fell very sick the medic was attending to me but the sickness was persisting this my colleague went to tell our cam boss I might be having a deadly disease that y I was not getting ok they should send me to the hospital to run several test . ( It was made known to be by person who was there when this my colleague was telling the cam boss). Once u are booked out it take the grace of God to come back to the Job. The camp boss was able to convince the medic to send me to the hospital for check up . When I arrive the hospital I was attended to and check up was carried out luckily I was not having any terminal illness or HIV or any deadly decease. I was attended to I became strong and I went home for my off . When I came back to work after my off everyone came to greet me except this my colleague which I notice the ist 4 days of my resumption to work again when I started work the costomers and everyone in the ship was happy with me due to my dedication to work people from this my colleague side started begging me to wash their clothes for them they said this my colleague is a disaster in washing I never for one day mock this my colleague or tell anyone one what the costumers are saying this guy became very jealous of me that he is now monitoring me every thing I do. I tried my best to talk to him let them be peace but this guy is just planning how to get me sack by all means gossiping me almost every day. I woke one night to ease myself around 2am at night I was shock to hear my name at this guy mouth talking with someone I pretended I didn't hear anything I went to ease myself. Tomorrow he is going to is 28, days off y am yet to complete my 28days which means I will be staying y he is leaving this night this guy came to me and said if u urinating move closer to the pool y urinating I was looking at my phone he said I am talking to u . I was like guy what ur problem with me bro this guy was now saying I have mental problem what does that implies he is just looking for a way to get me out by all means. Right now am confused the country is very difficult things are very expressive my salary is close to 300k the job is helpful to me pls what should I do. I have avoided him no solution, I have tried to be close to him is even worse should I quit my job for this guy and go and start doing menial job or what. Am sad

you too report to your uncle and get him sacked before he gets you sacked.

Freshtruth:
That is the worst part same person my uncle help, my Dad was the person who gave my uncle this job years ago and my uncle gave me this job this year and he was also a beneficiary of the good my Dad soul years ago without my Dad helping my uncle how will my uncle have help us. Yesterday night I have to soul money to our church building and pray to God for divine intervention. When I woke up this morning a customer was already complaining that the guy has destroy his covorou and he want to go and report him to the project Manager they said they are all going to say it in safety meeting tomorrow morning that the guy does not kw how to wash. God knowsy hands are clean am not working for another man down fall I see him as a bro but he sees me as a competitor and a treat. When my Father was telling me the heart of a man is wicked I didn't understand the phrase very well until this . My uncle help u , u trying to bring down the relative of the person who help u. E was even saying my uncle is among those eating the salaries short paying them he said the salaries is up to 500k he is gingering others to protest to get his due salary. No be very body them dey help some help can be ur own destroution

This is terrible.
Person wey just start work , greed is now making him to attack his helper.
You see, na one spirit dey use da boy
They give u job, u are here complaining of a job where u earn abt 300k.....maybe joblessness is better than a 300k job
Keep praying O Oga, don't joke with your prayers this time.
Pray against evil eyes, pray against evil plot, pray against evil enemy.... Cos some enemy can't even be won over because they've given their heart to the devil.... It's only Gods judgement that their behavior can attract if you continue your prayers.
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Don't hate him, don't back bite him... Just keep praying and doing your job. God will avenge you surely because God hate wickedness against upright people who call on him.

Sirchiboy:
Sorry.
Can you help me talk to your uncle to connect me to offshore work.
I will sacrifice 2 months of my salary

OP, Fear this kind of people. E get why

FreeSpirited:
OP, Fear this kind of people. E get why

Really

Are they bad people

Freshtruth:
Thanks for this advise am usually hot temper who raises is voice y he kept calm after looking for my trouble I will now look like the aggressor I have avoid this guy with every opportunity but he kept on monitoring and looking for a way to get me react I can't fight in an offshore work I will get book out and kick out of the job

Please work on your emotions.
Devil can use your emotions to spoil things. Be assured that devil is using that boy.
Part of his strategy is to get you angry, sad and frustrated, which can endanger your reputation and your work. Please avoid violent loud confrontation.
Play your game more calmly though firmly. If he does what's annoying.. React reasonably, and make your position clear and firm. Afterwards ignore him. Don't let him turn your reputation to a fighting irritating person. People are watching what is happening. Be in control of yourself
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He's the temptation sent to you in that job... You have to pray and apply wisdom in all scenarios cos things can get ugly pretty fast if you allow raw emotions to take over.... Be careful he's trying to use everything and means to implicate you