₦airaland Forum

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
When a woman destroys herself, she won't spare her daughter, she will finish her too!

A good woman will always direct d steps of her daughter not to fellow her wrong past life giving her a bright future even as little as she could so u lied...

From every angle of this story her mother was definitely an Olosho in her prime and she used that attribute to influence her daughter

Kobojunkie, come and cover up for the mother while blaming the father for everything as usual.

I'm certain you wished the story was the other way round.

muyico:
Your mom don't failed you, but you failed yourself !
I could vividly remember my late mom, she didn't blived in education, she only blived on handwork, like acquiring a skills, but I gat determination to be graduate, my brother's,?? My sister's?? I enrolled to pt programme, now! I'm HND holder in computer!

Your story doesn't resonate with hers pls, coz u are fortunate doesn't mean everyone will be. So move aside abeg.

Delimadaddy:
A good woman will always direct d steps of her daughter not to fellow her wrong past life giving her a bright future even as little as she could so u lied...

mstchew

pocohantas:
A better arrangement would be for these mothers to sleep with the men. That is what her mother and Regina's mother should have done. Not pushing their teenage daughters into marriage and relationships. I don't understand Nigerian mothers and the obsession with marriage, even when their daughters don't know left from right.

If you are separating/divorcing your husband, do not run away with kids you cannot fend for. It is insanity to do that. The kids interest should always come first!!!

Nice
Keep it up.

muyico:
l lost my dad ages of 12, I dey primary 6 den! But full determination in me, I must be graduate, one day! My guy?? No excuse!!

Don't judge others with your own experience. You don't understand her mental capacity then. For a woman you call your mother to push you down that path can be confusing to a teenager. You don't know what she went through so it's senseless to judge her. I don't support the child she killed though.

SpencerForbes:
Most Nigerian women are like that. That’s why we have lots of hookup babes still living with their mothers. This generation is gone🤦‍♂️🤧

You can’t shame the shameless
🚶‍♂️

You're wrong..
Most Nigerian women and not like that, but many are like that.

There's a difference between most and many.

Lekan239:
ok. As u get the certificate now, wetin u don use am do

Thank God! I'm company employee, teams supervisor

juwoonn:
You're wrong..
Most Nigerian women and not like that, but many are like that.

There's a difference between most and many.

My opinion, my choice of words and with what I’ve seen in Nigerian societies, I still stand by “most”

I’ve got friends that were pushed by their mothers into yahoo plus because the mothers wanted to belong. I heard they even have a branch in Benin city.

I’ve had discussions with girls whereby their mothers collect gifts from their boyfriends and support them.

Women’s greed is insatiable🤦‍♂️🤧
🚶‍♂️

omooba969:
I think you're out of touch, as you're unable to relate with her struggle, her pain and her reality.

My late mom said, I should go and fridge repair, I don't heed to her advised, I pursue my aims and career, most celebrity's today, if they asked them, in first place u start Ur journey, did Ur parent support it, most always said NO!! She gat no excuse!! U as a person?? Did Ur parent choose for u?

Robenna:
She failed herself how?

Did she tell you that she didn't believe in education again abi no be cause of financial issues make am stop.

Nawa

and lazy to hustle?? I gat a gurl in my street now, she selling pomo alata, and fry ₦100 meats, that is weytinz she take sponsor her self for sch! My dear brother?? Now! Education is more Dan my parent don't send to sch, who send me?? I sent myself, I did pt, working and studying den! I go class every weekend, I explained to my boss, he allowed me,, freelancer is dere, remote jobs full, so which excuse she want give me??

ukaface:
Omo
Make I sha no talk Wetin Dey my mind
But yeah…. Congratulations

Working and studying isn't easy task, if I show my pictures den, u will not believe I'm d1,, I old pass my ages, ages of 29, I don gat grey hairs, some grey hairs nah stressed, lack of sleep

nedekid:
How does that relate to a teen age girl? You want to compare the vulnerability of a girl to that of a boy?

I gat gurl here, hawking fry meats dressed with pepper, and pomo dressed with pepper, selling ₦100 ₦100
This gurl dey HND 2 now!
Bros??
No excuse!!

nedekid:
You are not serious. Did you read her age was 17?

my ages is 12 den! So compare it?? Ages of 12, my late mom said I should go and learns fridge repair, but I refuse, no1 can't control Ur future, except u allow them!

themanderon:
Don't judge others with your own experience. You don't understand her mental capacity then. For a woman you call your mother to push you down that path can be confusing to a teenager. You don't know what she went through so it's senseless to judge her. I don't support the child she killed though.

ages of 12, my late mom advised me to go and learns fridge repair, i said no, i start working with baba onih chalk, i mean working at chalk factory, i go dere, after sch hour and weekend, that is how i sponsored myself, deborah my co worker, she be teenager den! we hustle together! my guy?? no excuse, i as long i achieved it, nobody! wey no fit achieve it

[quote author=muyico post=137308010][/quote]Oga it's not the same. Did your mum or spirit of your dead father encourage you to do yahoo at 15 or 16 years

Please sir, do not be unfortunate and stop being insensitive
Her mum told her to start keeping boyfriend for money at the age of 15 years, a girl who was previously on scholarship
At that age, we took our parents as gods, a friend told me back then in secondary school that wrestling was acting but because my dad said it was real, I almost fought with the guy. My brother and I started calling him names just because of.... I hope you get now
A psychologist once said, "Give me a dozen healthy infants, well-formed, and my own specified world to bring them up in and I’ll guarantee to take any one at random and train him to become any type of specialist I might select—doctor, lawyer, artist, merchant-chief and, yes, even beggar-man and thief, regardless of his talents, penchants, tendencies, abilities, vocations, and race of his ancestors."
So you going to school and finishing HND is probably because your father encouraged education while he was alive and you wanted to make him proud!!!

muyico:
ages of 12, [my late mom advised me to go and learns fridge repair, i said no, i start working with baba onih chalk, i mean working at chalk factory, i go dere, after sch hour and weekend, that is how i sponsored myself, deborah my co worker, she be teenager den! we hustle together! my guy?? no excuse, i as long i achieved it, nobody! wey no fit achieve it

But before the death of your father, what was his plans for you Mechanic or a graduate

Redemption88:
But before the death of your father, what was his plans for you Mechanic or a graduate

graduate, my late dad value education, his aims for me, is to become an engr

Redemption88:
Oga it's not the same. Did your mum or spirit of your dead father encourage you to do yahoo at 15 or 16 years

Please sir, do not be unfortunate and stop being insensitive
Her mum told her to start keeping boyfriend for money at the age of 15 years, a girl who was previously on scholarship
At that age, we took our parents as gods, a friend told me back then in secondary school that wrestling was acting but because my dad said it was real, I almost fought with the guy. My brother and I started calling him names just because of.... I hope you get now
A psychologist once said, "Give me a dozen healthy infants, well-formed, and my own specified world to bring them up in and I’ll guarantee to take any one at random and train him to become any type of specialist I might select—doctor, lawyer, artist, merchant-chief and, yes, even beggar-man and thief, regardless of his talents, penchants, tendencies, abilities, vocations, and race of his ancestors."
So you going to school and finishing HND is probably because your father encouraged education while he was alive and you wanted to make him proud!!!

you no gat my points! I lost my mom February 2 this yr, 2005, I finished o level, she advised/encouragesd me, to go and learns fridge repair, I said "NO" if her mom instructed her to marry older man, she gat all right to say "NO"! Most Nigeria celebrity, they parent don't support in first place, after they become successful, they accept them back, Funke Akindele, one example, Femi Adebayo second example

muyico:
you no gat my points! I lost my mom February 2 this yr, 2005, I finished o level, she advised/encouragesd me, to go and learns fridge repair, I said "NO" if her mom instructed her to marry older man, she gat all right to say "NO"! Most Nigeria celebrity, they parent don't support in first place, after they become successful, they accept them back, Funke Akindele, one example, Femi Adebayo second example

Nope, this particularly girl most certainly thought her father abandoned her when he didn't come for her. And I can't even begin to imagine the things the mum might have said to poison the dad's image.
Both femi Adebayo and Funke Akindele were supported. Any famous celebrity today had SOMEONE who BELIEVED and INVESTED in their career!!!

muyico:
graduate, my late dad value education, his aims for me, is to become an engr

If by this your answer you still don't get my point, then there's nothing I can do.
You finished school because you wanted to make your dad proud, it's not a broken home, the 2 aren't the same. Most children from broken homes don't turn out well(you can ready studies done on this)
Please don't compare children who lost their parent to those from a broken home!!!

Yenyenyenyenyen!

Nonsense talk

muyico:
Your mom don't failed you, but you failed yourself !
I could vividly remember my late mom, she didn't blived in education, she only blived on handwork, like acquiring a skills, but I gat determination to be graduate, my brother's,?? My sister's?? I enrolled to pt programme, now! I'm HND holder in computer!