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gohf:
you gave an open answer bro

I didn't. This is a Christian topic on a Christian thread. Your initiative is key

SpencerForbes:
If there’s sexual immorality, then definitely there’s sexual morality (opposite) and our preachers always divert from that.

So OP what’s sexual morality
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Sexual behaviours that are antithetical to morality. I have helped OP answer your question.

tete7000:
Sexual behaviours that are antithetical to morality. I have helped OP answer your question.

According to your answer,is it morally wrong for two people that have come on to age of consent to have sex

SpencerForbes:
😂😂😂🤧
The rate at which ur pastors (role models) visit hotels with young girls, I doubt we’ll have up to 10 from Nigeria in heaven.

Or I guess they went there for “deliverance”
Keep selling your story to the blind😊
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This thing you have said is the absolute truth. I don't respect them one bit. I have experienced it first hand so no be online story or newspaper thing. Not one, not two, not three that I know who are rotten when it comes to women. Some of them sleep with sisters. Some of them are diabolical, some of them are fraudsters; they steal from the church. Some of them play church politics (causing chaos) more than the National Assembly. Since I became privy to all these, my respect for them dimmed. I was so disappointed. I even called one of them out. It's a shame what Christianity has become.

More like stealing from yourself

SpencerForbes:
According to your answer,is it morally wrong for two people that have come on to age of consent to have sex

It depends on what yardstick you are measuring with. From a Christian perspective, if they are not married, it is a sin and immoral.
However, if you are an atheist, your basis can be legal which you can deduce the answer to your question by yourself.
I am not an atheist though but a Christian by choice, so my conclusion is that it is immoral and sinful for two unmarried people to have sex.
In a nutshell, the answer to question of morality can be relative, depending on your viewpoint.

SpencerForbes:
If there’s sexual immorality, then definitely there’s sexual morality (opposite) and our preachers always divert from that.

So OP what’s sexual morality
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It is sex after lawful marriage and during marriage.

tete7000:
It depends on what yardstick you are measuring with. From a Christian perspective, if they are not married, it is a sin and immoral.
However, if you are an atheist, your basis can be legal which you can deduce the answer to your question by yourself.
I am not an atheist though but a Christian by choice, so my conclusion is that it is immoral and sinful for two unmarried people to have sex.
In a nutshell, the answer to question of morality can be relative, depending on your viewpoint.

Even for atheists it is immoral. Morality cuts everybody down

SpencerForbes:
According to your answer,is it morally wrong for two people that have come on to age of consent to have sex

Yes!

Even without Christianity, the family of the couple are disgusted and disappointed when they find out that the couple have had sex before the wedding. And in fact many couples almost did not marry because of it.

oluwaseyi0:
What we should preach is safe sex,condom, unwanted pregnancy prevention

What if someone (a man) is sleeping with your daughter (+18), sister (18+), wife or mother using condom will you feel comfortable with the whole thing after all they are consenting adults?🤔

Sex is the major area most of you waste energy on while leaving the real social problems out. Who are the tribalist and extremists who continue to support evils in Nigeria just because they have not experienced it or their tribesman is the person claiming to be presiding over Nigeria? Are those ones not Christians who need sermon? Why much needles energy on innocent sex

MaxInDHouse:
What if someone (a man) is sleeping with your daughter (+18), sister (18+), wife or mother using condom will you feel comfortable with the whole thing after all they are consenting adults?🤔

Take my wife out of the equation, my mum too if my dad is alive every other person can do whatever they want

I'm not going to sleep with my sis myself, and all the girls have been sleeping with have bros too, I'm not the only bro in the world

18 is adulthood, if we ain't ok with that we should ask national assembly to change it ...maybe to 30 or whatever we want, that will also apply to driving, voting, drinking and whatever is specified as for adults only

My paternal grandma even got married at age 16, and that's because that's what their law said then, now our law says 18 and above

Condom and other protection during sex simply means they won't have unplanned kids either married or not

If you don't understand something just ask WHY?

Whether they used condoms or not you won't be happy is someone is sleeping with your wife or mother.
Why?
Because it'll make you feel uncomfortable.
If your daughter is still in school though 18+ you won't be happy to hear that someone has slept with her for some time only to break up and go for another young woman the same applies to your sister.
That's why sex in marriage is the only one that makes us all feel comfortable as those doing it no matter what they agreed to do behind closed doors is nobody's problem as long as they both agreed as husband and wife!😟

oluwaseyi0:
Take my wife out of the equation, my mum too if my dad is alive every other person can do whatever they want

I'm not going to sleep with my sis myself, and all the girls have been sleeping with have bros too, I'm not the only bro in the world

18 is adulthood, if we ain't ok with that we should ask national assembly to change it ...maybe to 30 or whatever we want, that will also apply to driving, voting, drinking and whatever is specified as for adults only

My paternal grandma even got married at age 16, and that's because that's what their law said then, now our law says 18 and above

Condom and other protection during sex simply means they won't have unplanned kids either married or not

Dtruthspeaker:
Even for atheists it is immoral. Morality cuts everybody down

You have spoken the truth from an infallible point of view. However, people can choose to believe what suits them. At the end of the day, everyone advertently or inadvertently pay the price for his/her choices.

placeofallure:
This thing you have said is the absolute truth. I don't respect them one bit. I have experienced it first hand so no be online story or newspaper thing. Not one, not two, not three that I know who are rotten when it comes to women. Some of them sleep with sisters. Some of them are diabolical, some of them are fraudsters; they steal from the church. Some of them play church politics (causing chaos) more than the National Assembly. Since I became privy to all these, my respect for them dimmed. I was so disappointed. I even called one of them out. It's a shame what Christianity has become.

Your standard should be Jesus Christ not pastors or general overseer. because same way u will stand in front of throne of judgement to give account, they also will give account.

Finally, I will advise u to leave any church where the pastor lives hypocritical life and not according to the word of God.
I'm sure there are true churches, u just need to find it.

SIRTee15:
Your standard should be Jesus Christ not pastors or general overseer. because same way u will stand in front of throne of judgement to give account, they also will give account.

Finally, I will advise u to leave any church where the pastor lives hypocritical life and not according to the word of God.
I'm sure there are true churches, u just need to find it.

Of course! I'm not a baby Christian, I don't need to be told that. I left already. It's been two years that I left now, but I called them out before I left. I would have put them on the broader SM but for my respect for God.

The church was the church I was born in. One of these orthodox churches, big one with a big name you wouldn't believe. I grew up there, I worked diligently but along the way, the leadership got bad. To them, I was just a naughty, mouthy, little girl but I'm glad I spoke out, someone has to!

Those of us that left formed a new one. I'm one of the trustees and we're doing well. The leadership is transparent and progressive.

tete7000:
You have spoken the truth from an infallible point of view. However, people can choose to believe what suits them. At the end of the day, everyone advertently or inadvertently pay the price for his/her choices.

My brother that is the koko of the matter

Aify147:
Run from what? You people should stop demonizing something that God created for us to rejoice with. Nothing anybody will tell me to shift my eyes from 'akpabio'. That thing can sweet for Africa.

Those in support, hit 'like'...

Oya why married people no Dey enjoy am ?

SpencerForbes:
😂😂😂🤧
The rate at which ur pastors (role models) visit hotels with young girls, I doubt we’ll have up to 10 from Nigeria in heaven.

Or I guess they went there for “deliverance”
Keep selling your story to the blind😊
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Pastors are not the standard, Jesus Christ is. Looking unto Jesus, Hebrews 12:2. It didn't say looking unto pastors.

Jumbojax:
I agree, wanting something even when you don't want it is suffering, but I disagree with your last point. The only thing that sends someone to hell is unbelief

Wrong. Unbelief is not the only sin that sends one to hell. They that name the name of the Lord must depart from iniquity. Go and study the book of Revelations to see the categories of those to be cast into hell, see Revelations 21:8, Revelations 22:15.

Gracefilled01:
Wrong. Unbelief is not the only sin that sends one to hell. They that name the name of the Lord must depart from iniquity. Go and study the book of Revelations to see the categories of those to be cast into hell, see Revelations 21:8, Revelations 22:15.

Yes all those sins are done by people going to hell, but where sin abounded, grace abounded much more. That’s why anyone guilty of those sins can be made innocent through faith alone in Christ alone.
Revelation 21:6
And he said unto me, It is done. I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end. I will give unto him that is athirst of the fountain of the water of life FREELY.

Revelation 22:17
And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life FREELY.

Gracefilled01:
Pastors are not the standard, Jesus Christ is. Looking unto Jesus, Hebrews 12:2. It didn't say looking unto pastors.

So why should I follow a religion or teachers whereby the leaders are hypocrites. What do we teach the pagans

Keep deceiving yourselves🤧🤧🤧
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SIRTee15:
Your standard should be Jesus Christ not pastors or general overseer. because same way u will stand in front of throne of judgement to give account, they also will give account.

Finally, I will advise u to leave any church where the pastor lives hypocritical life and not according to the word of God.
I'm sure there are true churches, u just need to find it.

If you all can follow what you preach, then why should I follow you. You people only talk and no action.

Clear example of do what I say but don’t do what I do.

What’s the point of going to medical school, if you ain’t going to practice medicine?

tete7000:
It depends on what yardstick you are measuring with. From a Christian perspective, if they are not married, it is a sin and immoral.
However, if you are an atheist, your basis can be legal which you can deduce the answer to your question by yourself.
I am not an atheist though but a Christian by choice, so my conclusion is that it is immoral and sinful for two unmarried people to have sex.
In a nutshell, the answer to question of morality can be relative, depending on your viewpoint.

I love your open mindedness. Not like Dtruthspeaker that lives on deceiving himself. Even God gave us free will. That’s what I wanted to listen to.

Dtruthspeaker:
Yes!

Even without Christianity, the family of the couple are disgusted and disappointed when they find out that the couple have had sex before the wedding. And in fact many couples almost did not marry because of it.

Which family, the ones that trains their girls to date rich men like Regina daniels mom and co

It’s better you stop quoting me because it seems you live in space.
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SpencerForbes:
Which family, the ones that trains their girls to date rich men like Regina daniels mom and co

It’s better you stop quoting me because it seems you live in space.
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Is the bold moral? You see how you talk yanapata?

It's always your first comment that is sensible but when you are criticized, your response starts dropping to faeces.

SpencerForbes:
I love your open mindedness. Not like Dtruthspeaker that lives on deceiving himself. Even God gave us free will. That’s what I wanted to listen to.

As I said it is always your first comment that is sensible.

So as God gave you freewill why have you not kukuma gone to CBN and tell them to give you any amount of money, instead of suffering doing content, since you have freewill?

Dtruthspeaker:
As I said it is always your first comment that is sensible.

So as God gave you freewill why have you not kukuma gone to CBN and tell them to give you any amount of money, instead of suffering doing content, since you have freewill?

Have you heard of actions and consequences even physics calls it cause and effect. Seems I’m replying an ignoramus.

Okay dive. I prefer to hear from people that has something tangible than sentimental people🤧🤧🤧🤧
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Jumbojax:
Yes all those sins are done by people going to hell, but where sin abounded, grace abounded much more. That’s why anyone guilty of those sins can be made innocent through faith alone in Christ alone.
Revelation 21:6
And he said unto me, It is done. I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end. I will give unto him that is athirst of the fountain of the water of life FREELY.

Revelation 22:17
And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life FREELY.

Lol..Hypergrace preachers. You mean one can claim to abound in grace yet remain a kidnapper, murderer, rapist, etc, and then makes it to heaven eventually? Lol. This is beyond me. Those that name the name of the Lord must depart from iniquity! Christ says that at the last day, some will say they did this and that in his name, yet he will deny them, Matthew 7:22-23. Not every one who calls Lord Lord enters the kingdom of God.

Grace is given so that you can live a godly life, Titus 2:11-12, because without it, it's impossible to. So my brother, repent from your sins, else Anyways, I hope you allow the Holy Spirit to teach you the truth.

Gracefilled01:
Lol..Hypergrace preachers. You mean one can claim to abound in grace yet remain a kidnapper, murderer, rapist, etc, and then makes it to heaven eventually? Lol. This is beyond me. Those that name the name of the Lord must depart from iniquity! Christ says that at the last day, some will say they did this and that in his name, yet he will deny them, Matthew 7:22-23. Not every one who calls Lord Lord enters the kingdom of God.

Grace is given so that you can live a godly life, Titus 2:11-12, because without it, it's impossible to. So my brother, repent from your sins, else Anyways, I hope you allow the Holy Spirit to teach you the truth.

Funniest part is that you all think because you obey the law automatically you have a free pass to heaven.

Even Paul stated that it’s good to keep the law but focusing on it, he said “so ye boast not”
Keep celebrating your outward holiness and show off but if your heart ain’t aligned with God. A Samaritan would be chosen before you. Just like “The Good Samaritan”

Shalom
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