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Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by femi4: 1:02pm On Nov 16, 2025
Daejumong:
Pastor Bakare was working somewhere before he started his own Chambers! He likely had the money and that was why Pastor Adeboye advised him to ensure he pays her!
Didn't you see that it was stated that he was just starting and Baba even went ahead that every Nigeria man should follow that route

That's a terrible advice. The economy of the country is so poor that both parents working are still finding it difficult to take care of the family
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by MaxInDHouse(m): 1:04pm On Nov 16, 2025
femi4:
Didn't you see that it was stated that he was just starting and Baba even went ahead that every Nigeria man should follow that route
That's a terrible advice. The economy of the country is so poor that both parents working are still finding it difficult to take care of the family
So in a nutshell Baba is WRONG!🤔
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by femi4: 1:05pm On Nov 16, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
So in a nutshell Baba is WRONG!🤔
100%
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by MaxInDHouse(m): 1:08pm On Nov 16, 2025
femi4:
100%
But does that mean the Baba doesn't use godly wisdom when dishing out such an advice?😟
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by cardoctor(m): 1:09pm On Nov 16, 2025
Doesn't he do more than that even before then bro?
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by femi4: 1:10pm On Nov 16, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
But does that mean the Baba doesn't use godly wisdom when dishing out such an advice?😟
He's human n every human judge situation using their brain. The only God wisdom is scripture and the scripture didn't forbid woman to work
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by Big2bore(m): 1:15pm On Nov 16, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
Go to God again?😟
Guy, what is the use of Bible in your hand? 2Timothy 3:16 compare to 2Corinthians 11:12🤔
I just want to remind you even if you read the Bible you may not have the ability to understand the Bible remember also that the devil understands the more and can twist the Bible to suit his argument, so my advice to you Lean how to hear and ask questions from God for confirmation be your decision
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by MaxInDHouse(m): 1:16pm On Nov 16, 2025
femi4:
He's human n every human judge situation using their brain. The only God wisdom is scripture and the scripture didn't forbid woman to work
Thank you for this because i often ask how people evaluate these men as MOG when the men in question don't reply on God's word for guidance while shepherding others!😟
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by BarrElChapo(m): 1:20pm On Nov 16, 2025
Did he also tell you to sleep with her at night? The things these people say to their followers amazes even the dumb.
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by MaxInDHouse(m): 1:20pm On Nov 16, 2025
Big2bore:
I just want to remind you even if you read the Bible you may not have the ability to understand the Bible remember also that the devil understands the more and can twist the Bible to suit his argument, so my advice to you Lean how to hear and ask questions from God for confirmation be your decision
Tell this to your pastor i'm using the full strength of God's word each time i make a comment so instead of arguing go straight to the scriptures i quoted and tell me the PRACTICAL APPLICATION which negates how i applied it!🤔
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by Big2bore(m):
MaxInDHouse:
Tell this to your pastor i'm using the full strength of God's word each time i make a comment so instead of arguing go straight to the scriptures i quoted and tell me the PRACTICAL APPLICATION which negates how i applied it!🤔
My brother no be fight, we are just learning, am not saying you're wrong, okay, what am trying to say when we read from the scriptures we need to be guided by the holly spirit of God, that's what I do when reading the Bible, and I ask questions while reading the scriptures from the holly Spirit, let me also remind you during the period when Jesus was in wilderness fasting for 40 days and 40 nights devil tested him quoting the words in Bible to Miss lead Jesus and Jesus also quoting the words in Bible back to the devil , this happened because Jesus is also a God.

What am only trying to say here as regards the topic, is that we should be careful when we judge people by what we read or here .
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by Guestmale: 1:45pm On Nov 16, 2025
brain54:
Na the father in law own shock me pass...
Maybe his father in law was trying to tell him to keep his family affairs from the outsiders.
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by israelmao(m): 1:49pm On Nov 16, 2025
StoryHaven:
He has a good relationship with Pa Adeboye but takes Oyedepo as an enemy. While the same Oyedepo is Adeboyes boy.

How do we explain this.
Bishop Oyedepo and Pastor Bakare have since reconciled
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by Yomit71(m): 2:02pm On Nov 16, 2025
SpaceX:
As a man you must have control over your wife, if she does display behaviour like this, punishing her is the right thing to do. Your wife must submit her all to you, you are the master of your home, stop running to third parties. Handle your business as a man
Okay, tell us how you intend to punish her if you were in his shoes 👟
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by Bluntemperor: 2:17pm On Nov 16, 2025
brain54:
Na the father in law own shock me pass...
God Bless Daddy Adeboye- the Wise one will always be Wise,more Wisdom Sir!
To Pastor Bakare,
Thank God For Following the Adeboy's Counsel,so you look back today,I'm sure you are grateful that GO groomed you and there No Loss!
•God Bless These Two-Great Men Of God - the Omoluwabis!👏🤙.
For As The Scripture Says' There Is Safety In The Multitudes Of Councillors ' ♥️ Provibes!
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by femi4: 2:30pm On Nov 16, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
Thank you for this because i often ask how people evaluate these men as MOG when the men in question don't reply on God's word for guidance while shepherding others!😟
Most of them give advice based on experience or personal belief.

Till date, Pastor Chris is yet to apologise to Nigerians for misleading many people on 5G
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by Cocolatti(m): 2:43pm On Nov 16, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
This guy had the intention of starting his own church business but most people may not see it.
Initially he was with Kumuyi but realized that there is no chance of becoming popular in Kumuyi's church so he decided to leave for Adeboye church where people will know and recognize him that's when he told Adeboye that Kumuyi said Adeboye is teaching heresy and after becoming famous through Adeboye church he decided to start his own then he said Adeboye laid a curse on him.
Gullible people may be carried away with their stories but if you look critically into the matter you will see that they are not believers in Christ rather they're all worshipers of Mammon seeking worldly riches! Matthew 6:24 smiley
God bless you.
I always tell my fellow believers that Mammon has a temple here in Nigeria and many of our so-called Men of God are his agent and disciples.
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by franvincoop: 2:52pm On Nov 16, 2025
Na so e suppose dey.
Even if na im wife run go here Papa house, popsy go tell am to return back to her husband's house immediately.
Nothing concern am, especially the issue for return brideprice, u don buy u don buy, no refunds.

On the other hand, Adeboye was right though, you know if im no pay im wife that salary, how she go take pay tithes make Adeboye see food chop?

brain54:
Na the father in law own shock me pass...
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by Eriokanmi: 3:02pm On Nov 16, 2025
franchasofficia:
Hehe, our Gen Z Horsebands will not like this oh, nlfpmod come and see what am saw shocked cheesy
Yes, that's the reason many of them have failed marriages today. They're the most-stubborn and wayward of all generations
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by LordReed(m): 3:15pm On Nov 16, 2025
SpencerForbes:
When I read N375, I thought it was typo😂😂😂
If he doesn’t see it as a disadvantage, why should I 🤷‍♂️

If you can afford it, why nothuh
But if you can’t, protest ooo. If not you’ll die of stress and overthinking.
Dude N375 in the 1980s was a lot of money o.
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by MaxInDHouse(m): 3:17pm On Nov 16, 2025
Heard you but when talking about anyone who has labeled himself "PASTOR" know that such a person is for public recognition which Jesus warned his disciples against {Matthew 23:8-10} so there is nothing to debate about such ones they are all thieves on pulpit!😟
Big2bore:
My brother no be fight, we are just learning, am not saying you're wrong, okay, what am trying to say when we read from the scriptures we need to be guided by the holly spirit of God, that's what I do when reading the Bible, and I ask questions while reading the scriptures from the holly Spirit, let me also remind you during the period when Jesus was in wilderness fasting for 40 days and 40 nights devil tested him quoting the words in Bible to Miss lead Jesus and Jesus also quoting the words in Bible back to the devil , this happened because Jesus is also a God.

What am only trying to say here as regards the topic, is that we should be careful when we judge people by what we read or here .
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by belikewater: 3:26pm On Nov 16, 2025
brain54:
Na the father in law own shock me pass...
That's a very wise father-in-law, take it from me. Taking any side would make him out be a villain either way.
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by belikewater: 3:30pm On Nov 16, 2025
Money na water those day now, any wife wey try that kain rubbish for this Tinubu economy go collect and the in-laws sef go collect join angry
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by Advancedman(m): 4:13pm On Nov 16, 2025
Best advice ever.
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by Pious101: 4:21pm On Nov 16, 2025
SpaceX:
As a man you must have control over your wife, if she does display behaviour like this, punishing her is the right thing to do. Your wife must submit her all to you, you are the master of your home, stop running to third parties. Handle your business as a man
punishing her as ur slave?
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by Care4: 4:29pm On Nov 16, 2025
franchasofficia:
Hehe, our Gen Z Horsebands will not like this oh, nlfpmod come and see what am saw shocked cheesy
How many Gen Z girls are ready to stay at home and mind their business?
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by Ayokequeen(m): 4:43pm On Nov 16, 2025
Lol, the method many of you are applying these days that results in massive divorce? You can't know it all oga, you need someone on whose wings you fly until you balance on air.
SpaceX:
As a man you must have control over your wife, if she does display behaviour like this, punishing her is the right thing to do. Your wife must submit her all to you, you are the master of your home, stop running to third parties. Handle your business as a man
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by StoryHaven: 5:14pm On Nov 16, 2025
israelmao:
Bishop Oyedepo and Pastor Bakare have since reconciled
That's great
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by writeprof(m): 5:55pm On Nov 16, 2025
brain54:
Na the father in law own shock me pass...
Why huh

That's the wisest and most sensible father in law to have.

He only reminded Bakare that the woman has left their cover to be under his own. So, Na their business. He has his own family to think of ma grin
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by writeprof(m): 5:57pm On Nov 16, 2025
“I wasn’t happy with the counsel because I was scared of how I would cope as the sole breadwinner of the house. The Holy Spirit then took me to Isaiah 54:5 and showed me a Scripture I will never forget,” I,the Lord your God,your maker, I am your husband. The Holy Spirit then said if I am your husband, treat your wife the way you want me to treat you! “

I LOVE THIS! THANK YOU HOLY SPIRIT!
EVERY CHRISTIAN NEEDS TO BE FILLED WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT TO SUCCEED IN THE JOURNEY OF CHRISTLIKE VICTORY ON EARTH.
Re: Adeboye Asked Me To Be Paying My Wife Her Salary When She Left Her Job - Bakare by tdayoojo(m): 7:56pm On Nov 16, 2025
StoryHaven:
He has a good relationship with Pa Adeboye but takes Oyedepo as an enemy. While the same Oyedepo is Adeboyes boy.

How do we explain this.
Using panadol for another man's headache is suicidal. How are you sure they are enemies?
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