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Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by Karlifate: 6:37pm On Nov 16, 2025
Chummynoni:
If you like , don't do anything possible to escape poverty .
Exactly! cheesy
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by nwirinedu(m): 6:47pm On Nov 16, 2025
The proprietors of these private schools are to blame. Many don't know what education is about they don't have standards in their schools.
Always reducing teachers to paupers because of greed.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by Stolen: 6:59pm On Nov 16, 2025
BY THE TIME THEM SUSPEND ON EXPEL AM, I WILL SEE THE OTHER STUDENT THAT WILL PUT HAND ON TEACHER.




THAT HIM PAPA WEY COME FIGHT, WILL BE BEGGING AND STILL THE EXPULSION OR SUSPENSION STANDS.




NO BE EVERYTHING BE VIOLENCE
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by femi4: 7:02pm On Nov 16, 2025
pdppower:
Private school teachers are indeed suffering in this country. The way the proprietors treat them is sometimes worse than slavery
The teacher is wrong in the first place. You don't discipline your students by slapping them
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 7:07pm On Nov 16, 2025
pdppower:
There's a private school in Ikorodu side where the proprietor always frowns whenever teachers want to go home after school closes by 5pm. If he wants to call a meeting, the meeting won't start until after 5pm and will last nothing less than 2 hours.

It's really a curse to be poor in this country.
You remind me of my boss in 2008. I go to work from the outskirts of Abuja, to get to work by 7:45, I have to leave home by 5:30 am. We close by 5pm when it is rush hour, even if I leave immediately, I won't get home before 8pm, but my mean boss who disappears (his driver told us he normally goes home) till it is 4:30pm before he appears to make sure we don't leave before time. By 5pm when we should be leaving, OGA will come and create a very silly task that will keep us in office till about 7pm then I will get home by 10 or 11pm. I will rush to eat in a restaurant at such an hour o but all the restaurants will be closed and I will sleep hungry only to wake up 5am next day for work. One day I just quit! He offered to increase my salary but I said no.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by EDGEof2MORO: 7:18pm On Nov 16, 2025
HacheNoire:
Your rhetoric is wack!

A police man has every legal right to shoot at you if you approach with violence, so what are you saying?

If the teacher was a police man, he would have been justified to shoot the child.
well done

toboizilla:
You never thought before, so you wont understand.
I dont know the principles of the school, If the school allowed me as a teacher to discipline the child, I certainly will else i will report to the school disciplinary team.

Would you take your child to a school where there is no discipline ?
I have taught in the past so I know what it's like to deal with difficult kids in school. If you give me an example of a school without discipline, then i can give you a more definite answer.

HacheNoire:
Your rhetoric is wack!

A police man has every legal right to shoot at you if you approach with violence, so what are you saying?

If the teacher was a police man, he would have been justified to shoot the child.
not surprised. the typical Nigerian has no regard for human life so it is perfectly ok to say you will support a police officer who shoots someone that is violent.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by Originalsly: 7:26pm On Nov 16, 2025
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esteemj:
Which one is the man walked up calmly to the teacher. He spoke angrily, walked up to the teacher but the slap was what I didn't expect. It was out of way especially because the teacher had apologised. Now the bass voice you heard isn't the JSS2 students voice. Its the Principals voice who I personally know and can recognise even from sleep. Don't be typing trash and saying what you don't know. Worst still the Principal didn't make any attempt to stop the man from hitting the teacher .The woman's anger was prompted by she not knowing Mr Makundu was recording the incident. This is also totally wrong from the Principal. Its was an internal crisis. Why record people without their consent? Its a right violation. Then posted on external platform(social media). Afterall they're not the students attending Starville. It was the fact that the woman realised they were been recorded and the Principal shouting to beat the teacher more that infuriated her which was also wrong for her to have joined in the slapping scene. Watch the video again.
Now my biggest blame goes to the Principal. Immediately the man slapped the teacher, he should have ran towards the man to stop him. What if the teacher passed out and died or something? Principal will be accessory to this incident.
Now the school suspended teacher(meaning school accepted he was wrong and the trigger) and expelled student(also school believe he was wrong too). The school should've sacked the teacher and also expelled the student to create a balance. Afterall the teacher was the trigger from the word GO. Both cause and effect should've received 50percent each punishment! Simple! Even the Principal beats too. Its not new in this school. How won't the teachers slap and beat when Principal does same?
The school's policy on discipline needs immediate review to cover up the gap of physical contact during discipline. There are actually worse punishments than beating or slapping...lol!
However in all, everyone was wrong.
Student...wrong; parents ...wrong; teacher....wrong; school....wrong. Its a case of four wrongs don't make a right!
Walked up calmly is relative to the he situation ... the very reason you were surprised by the slap. If he charged him .. then you would've not been surprised. On the recording and narration ... I was almost sure the voice was that if the person recording. For a moment I thought the voice was matured and probably that of the Principal or any adult who came with the parents. But immediately I ruled out the Principal .... how can a Principal encourage a parent to beat a teacher? ...in his office? No way I thought . Thanks for this ... now I'm speechless. Why would you the teacher even want to continue teaching there? ...and I hat should be a warning to other teachers. And yes ... how low can the Principal be to post the video on SM? Low life principal ... probably has cameras in the girls washroom.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by EDGEof2MORO: 7:32pm On Nov 16, 2025
themanderon:
It's your type that support all sorts of bad behavior by these kids.
i do not condone physical violence from anyone! You can be the president of Nigeria, you have no right to slap my child.

Listen, there are many ways to discipline a disobedient child that does not involve physical violence. Times have changed and this barbaric way of beating ourselves in the name of training has got to stop. Are you trying to tell me that it was the beatings you endured as a child that made you a millionaire today?
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by Originalsly: 7:32pm On Nov 16, 2025
themanderon:
So that gives him the right to push his teacherhuh Is that what you are saying? This generation is messed up.
Since you are about rights .... does the teacher have the right to slap the student? You slap someone you should be expecting the person ... especially a male to retaliate... except if the slap is from the parent.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by nickxtra(m): 7:34pm On Nov 16, 2025
pdppower:
An alleged incident at *Starville School in Jahi, Abuja🙆🏼‍♂️*

.A teacher claimed he slapped a student for reportedly pushing him twice. Later, during a meeting with the principal and the parents, the situation escalated when the parents began slapp!ng the teacher back too 😭💔.

Video cannot be uploaded because it is heavy.

Peoples Comments :

• That's what poverty has reduced the teaching profession to.

*The uncouth and untrained child becomes more arrogant in class; at the effrontery of rudely pushing the teacher again in the nearest future.*

• So terribly pathetic and the ministry of education will see this and will not doing anything about it

What are your views ??
There should be a an agency to regulate private schools in Nigeria
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by themanderon: 7:46pm On Nov 16, 2025
EDGEof2MORO:
so the teacher had no other means to discipline the student than to slap the child?

I support the parent slapping the hell out of the teacher. this nonsense physical abuse must stop. If the teacher is a champion of slapping people that disrespect him in his own house, they should leave that behaviour at the gate when the step into the school.
I pity you for you know not what you are doing. Solomon in the book of Proverbs said spare the rod and spoil the child. He also said that a child you fail to discipline would bring shame And disgrace to you in future. Do you know better than him? He also said foolishness abound in the heart of a child but the rod of correction drives it far from him.
The reason we are having so much moral decadence in today's world is that people felt they were wiser than the people of old but the results we are having today is a generation of godless, mindless and morally bankrupt youths who dare things we never imagined during our time yet they are getting away with it.
I see the effects of not punishing children adequately in all these western countries. Even in South Africa here the result is teenage pregnancy, rebellion, drug addiction and all sorts of reprehensible acts.
We will surely not like what's coming with our thoughtless actions.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by themanderon: 7:53pm On Nov 16, 2025
Originalsly:
Since you are about rights .... does the teacher have the right to slap the student? You slap someone you should be expecting the person ... especially a male to retaliate... except if the slap is from the parent.
I am sorry you are thinking this way. If you don't want your child to be disciplined keep him in your house. Train him however you wish but don't cry when he turns into what you don't like in future.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by themanderon: 7:55pm On Nov 16, 2025
EDGEof2MORO:
i do not condone physical violence from anyone! You can be the president of Nigeria, you have no right to slap my child.

Listen, there are many ways to discipline a disobedient child that does not involve physical violence. Times have changed and this barbaric way of beating ourselves in the name of training has got to stop. Are you trying to tell me that it was the beatings you endured as a child that made you a millionaire today?
This is the school of thought that brought the society to this rotten level we are having today.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by HacheNoire: 8:12pm On Nov 16, 2025
themanderon:
I pity you for you know not what you are doing. Solomon in the book of Proverbs said spare the rod and spoil the child. He also said that a child you fail to discipline would bring shame And disgrace to you in future. Do you know better than him? He also said foolishness abound in the heart of a child but the rod of correction drives it far from him.
The reason we are having so much moral decadence in today's world is that people felt they were wiser than the people of old but the results we are having today is a generation of godless, mindless and morally bankrupt youths who dare things we never imagined during our time yet they are getting away with it.
I see the effects of not punishing children adequately in all these western countries. Even in South Africa here the result is teenage pregnancy, rebellion, drug addiction and all sorts of reprehensible acts.
We will surely not like what's coming with our thoughtless actions.
You nailed it!

Those wannabe’s want to act and sound western but forgetting that same countries churn out more nuisance’s than they can never imagine.

All in the name don’t touch my kids, many kids have lost it to great extent that their own parents can’t even control them. You will be astonished to find a 18 year old who lacks the very basics of manners and etiquette .

Of you don’t want anyone to touch your child, home school him. Don’t put the burden of “Don’t touch my child” on teachers.

They tell you there are many ways to discipline a child than flogging the hell out of his soul. Look at the crip of kids we churning out today? Look at their life style, disrespect and even disbelief in hardwork and patiently climbing the ladder to success.

Parents are the root cause of Nigeria’s problems. Bad parenting is the root cause of EVERY societal menace in our country.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by themanderon: 8:19pm On Nov 16, 2025
HacheNoire:
You nailed it!

Those wannabe’s want to act and sound western but forgetting that same countries churn out more nuisance’s than they can never imagine.

All in the name don’t touch my kids, many kids have lost it to great extent that their own parents can’t even control them. You will be astonished to find a 18 year old who lacks the very basics of manners and etiquette .

Of you don’t want anyone to touch your child, home school him. Don’t put the burden of “Don’t touch my child” on teachers.

They tell you there are many ways to discipline a child than flogging the hell out of his soul. Look at the crip of kids we churning out today? Look at their life style, disrespect and even disbelief in hardwork and patiently climbing the ladder to success.

Parents are the root cause of Nigeria’s problems. Bad parenting is the root cause of EVERY societal menace in our country.
In fact I was discussing with the mother of one of these reprehensible youths this evening. When she was a child I was warning and trying to correct that girl but the mother was not totally appreciative of my efforts. She felt I was being too hard.
Now what is happening? The girl has grown wayward. Doesn't respect and appreciate her mother and now the same mother complains to me about the said girl. It's just crazy.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by HacheNoire: 8:27pm On Nov 16, 2025
themanderon:
In fact I was discussing with the mother of one of these reprehensible youths this evening. When she was a child I was warning and trying to correct that girl but the mother was not totally appreciative of my efforts. She felt I was being too hard.
Now what is happening? The girl has grown wayward. Doesn't respect and appreciate her mother and now the same mother complains to me about the said girl. It's just crazy.
Many in those shoes! It’s even a norm now. At 16, they already have full grown wings and you can’t even talk to them again. At 18, try standing your ground and they move out of the house.

All these started in the name of “talk to the child”. Don’t daze him or there are better ways to speak with a child.

A child should experience extreme limits of what his parents detest and what their responses would be. When he/she doesn’t know, limits have disappeared and fear he has not for you or anybody else.

We have them in every street in Nigeria now. Don’t touch my child. Parents who know their children are internet fraudsters and cultists.

Parents have completely lost it and these wannabe’s were never raised like that. They just wanted to act westernized and lost the grip.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by toboizilla: 9:01pm On Nov 16, 2025
EDGEof2MORO:
well done



I have taught in the past so I know what it's like to deal with difficult kids in school. If you give me an example of a school without discipline, then i can give you a more definite answer.



not surprised. the typical Nigerian has no regard for human life so it is perfectly ok to say you will support a police officer who shoots someone that is violent.
Please If as a teacher, your student slap you, what will you do ?
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by DrOA: 9:16pm On Nov 16, 2025
This is totally wrong! There is no justification for what the parents have done. Even if the teacher was at fault, they have taken laws into their hands. There is a need for justice for this poor teacher!
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by CryptoPornster(m): 9:30pm On Nov 16, 2025
I know when some people read what I have to say after this, they will say all sorts but my understanding is my understanding and can only be changed when I am legit convinced otherwise.

Not everybody can handle the teaching profession.
First of all, no teacher has the right to hit a pupil under any circumstance (only when his/her life is being threatened at that particular point in time. Note: the threat has to involve a weapon and reflex action can beget hitting. That's very justifiable under the law).

From the parents' statement, we are made yo believe the school has CCTV cameras installed in the classrooms and they have requested to see the footage.
If the footage shows any form of assault, the teacher will face the wrath of the law.

As for the parents, any angle y9u look at the matter from, dem don je gbese.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by Fab21: 9:32pm On Nov 16, 2025
pdppower:
An alleged incident at *Starville School in Jahi, Abuja🙆🏼‍♂️*

.A teacher claimed he slapped a student for reportedly pushing him twice. Later, during a meeting with the principal and the parents, the situation escalated when the parents began slapp!ng the teacher back too 😭💔.

Video cannot be uploaded because it is heavy.

Peoples Comments :

• That's what poverty has reduced the teaching profession to.

*The uncouth and untrained child becomes more arrogant in class; at the effrontery of rudely pushing the teacher again in the nearest future.*

• So terribly pathetic and the ministry of education will see this and will not doing anything about it

What are your views ??
By Alex Onyia

This morning I followed up with the case from Starville School Abuja on the couple (Mr & Mrs Balogun) who slapped their teacher.

The year 8 child has now been expelled from the school and the parents permanently banned from the school.

What really happened was that the teacher (Mr. Etim) asked the boy to line up with other students. He was unruly and the teacher tapped his head. The student immediately pushed the teacher twice which resulted in the teacher slapping the boy.

The school sanctioned the teacher with forfeit of a week salary and also issued him a final warning letter never to lay hands on any child or he get sacked.

The school Principal (Mr. Makundu) apologized for over 30 minutes to the couple. The teacher also did apologize but the parents chose to take laws into their hands.

We will need to talk further legal actions to ensure that this doesn’t become a norm with parents in our schools.

If a parent doesn’t want their child to be disciplined, they should do home schooling.

Alex Onyia from X
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by Fab21: 9:33pm On Nov 16, 2025
This morning I followed up with the case from Starville School Abuja on the couple (Mr & Mrs Balogun) who slapped their teacher.

The year 8 child has now been expelled from the school and the parents permanently banned from the school.

What really happened was that the teacher (Mr. Etim) asked the boy to line up with other students. He was unruly and the teacher tapped his head. The student immediately pushed the teacher twice which resulted in the teacher slapping the boy.

The school sanctioned the teacher with forfeit of a week salary and also issued him a final warning letter never to lay hands on any child or he get sacked.

The school Principal (Mr. Makundu) apologized for over 30 minutes to the couple. The teacher also did apologize but the parents chose to take laws into their hands.

We will need to talk further legal actions to ensure that this doesn’t become a norm with parents in our schools.

If a parent doesn’t want their child to be disciplined, they should do home schooling.

Alex Onyia from X
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by DrOA: 9:49pm On Nov 16, 2025
There is a need for justice for this publicly humiliated teacher. By taken laws into their hands, they have perveted the justice that their child would have been entitled to!
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by Barteze: 9:53pm On Nov 16, 2025
pdppower:
There's a private school in Ikorodu side where the proprietor always frowns whenever teachers want to go home after school closes by 5pm. If he wants to call a meeting, the meeting won't start until after 5pm and will last nothing less than 2 hours.

It's really a curse to be poor in this country.
Hahaha! Reminds me when I was in the banking sector our madam usually scheduled meetings for 7pm and most times the meeting starts by 9pm (which is actually the closing time for us then forget the 5pm written on your employment letter) most times the meeting ends very late in the night. I later understood that most bosses that stayed late in the office were actually waiting for traffic to reduce.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by Originalsly: 10:13pm On Nov 16, 2025
themanderon:
I am sorry you are thinking this way. If you don't want your child to be disciplined keep him in your house. Train him however you wish but don't cry when he turns into what you don't like in future.
If the parents trained the child well then the child will almost always be well behaved at school. If you support a teacher slapping your child in the name of discipline ... that's on you. And we wonder why some parents allow their children to be brutalized by teachers ... at times leading to death.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by Gentlesoul2021(m): 10:14pm On Nov 16, 2025
pdppower:
There's a private school in Ikorodu side where the proprietor always frowns whenever teachers want to go home after school closes by 5pm. If he wants to call a meeting, the meeting won't start until after 5pm and will last nothing less than 2 hours.

It's really a curse to be poor in this country.
No be heirsville school b dt at mowo kekere
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by delishpot: 11:04pm On Nov 16, 2025
pdppower:
There's a private school in Ikorodu side where the proprietor always frowns whenever teachers want to go home after school closes by 5pm. If he wants to call a meeting, the meeting won't start until after 5pm and will last nothing less than 2 hours.

It's really a curse to be poor in this country.
That's how you people promote crime. Will everybody be rich at the same time? You guys always misplace your priorities. I stead of holding govt responsible for the lax laws protecting citizens and asking the govt to do their job so that Everyone would be treated with dignity you are here pushing a different narrative.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by themanderon: 11:14pm On Nov 16, 2025
Originalsly:
If the parents trained the child well then the child will almost always be well behaved at school. If you support a teacher slapping your child in the name of discipline ... that's on you. And we wonder why some parents allow their children to be brutalized by teachers ... at times leading to death.
I am not in support of injury to any child. The importance of displine especially in schools cannot be overemphasized. There should be moderation in all things. Students must have some fear factor for authority especially for teachers.
We dared not challenge any teacher during our time. Imagine a student pushing a teacher for trying to exert authority and you people are hear supporting that deviant. Mark my words those foolish morally bankrupt parents that did this will later cry blood and blame the devil like many today are doing forgetting their foolish actions damaged the child.
Spare the rod and spoil the child. This time tested proverb cannot be a lie despite the fact that this woke godless generation is trying to make it so.
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by Insectkiller: 11:29pm On Nov 16, 2025
brain54:
Well, his actions are inconsistent...

He should have thought his actions through to the end. And if the parents decide to hit him he shouldn't stand there like a coward unable to defend himself.

He was even shaking like a leaf while explaining his reason for slapping the kid.

You can't be a brave hero when dealing with a minor and suddenly start shaking when a bigger bully comes along.


All of them are bullies by the way... from the kid, teacher and parents. Just the biggest bully got his way!
grin grin grin
He met his Waterloo... grin grin
Why slapping the child in the first place.. a stick would have been better..
Re: Parents Slap Teacher In Abuja Private School (Photos) by Insectkiller: 11:33pm On Nov 16, 2025
Why did he slap the child in the first place??
Is slapping a way of discipline..??

2 don cut 4..

He (teacher) beats or bully the child... Parents came beat or bully the teacher...

No case..

If the teacher had use a sticcain on the child..then, we may call it discipline..
But slapping the child is a physical assault and not discipline...

Am not taking side with the child but I am just telling u d fact..


The teacher has received the slaps for free grin grin grin

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