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Wallade:
➜Did you see me advise other women? I am only concerned about my mom, dad and the unborn child. I have no business with your father and mother and I can't influence how you would handle yours in your home except you seek my advice.
➜Humiliation and embarrassment doesn't kill, the effect is temporary if you are matured enough to handle it. I don't wanna care about how you would handle it and I have no advice for you on that.

I didn't see this?

Wallade:
She could see it as betrayal. I see it as saving the marriage. They are grown parents. They will get over it. My mother should be matured enough to take a pinch. She would survive it.

2. Is this some roundabout way of saying your mother deserved to receive humiliation and embarrassment from even within — the man she was married to, who was supposed to protect and safeguard her and her children from that sort of thing?

Keep writing stories that never existed

Mariangeles:
What a shameless and irresponsible dad you have.

Plot twist: the son also slept with the maid.

Shameless father yes but it's also a perfect suggestion if he wants to cover up.

Boy admits he committed the abomination and the father protects him from the wrath of the mother. everybody is safe. Lol

But this will be unfair to the woman..

Lol You see that little family secret that your father thinks he is keeping, that maid will expose it one day🤪, it is just matter of time. She has your entire family's ball in her hands, just one provocation and the whole wide world will hear it.

Chilipepper:
My dad wants me to claim the pregnancy he is responsible for: man seeks help

Please kindly ask your father if you take up arms and join bandits in insurgency and if youre caught and sentenced to death by hanging if he would switch positions with you?

Righteousness2:
The kind of things you hear in these End of the Endtimes, you just know the Devil is sitting on top the Spirit soul and body of so many and is out to package souls to Destruction.

It's not that bad as it seems.
What belongs to the dad somehow belongs to the son. He should protect his dad and his family.

Shawarmagirl:
➜As for me, I will uphold the integrity of my family and claim the pregnancy. I will take all the blame. After she put to birth, I will take my mum out for lunch, then beg her I have a confession but she must promise me never to cause problem or speak out. I will tell her who is responsible and I accept it to uphold the family interest.

You will force your mother to accept your father's betrayal as well as your stewpidity over a meal?

Some of you literally hate your mothers and maybe don't even see them as human beings at all. Na wa oo!

It's not a good idea in my humble opinion.

It seems daddy wants to still have easy access to the maid and his forthcoming son now to be presented as a grandchild. This way, mummy will forgive her son over time and take charge of the "grandchild". The problem is that, the maid or her family will eventually speak out if she feels shortchanged along the line. Has he thought about the effect on his son's future in terms of marriage? He should be introducing himself as a baby daddy to prospective spouses when he's not? He'll just complicated his life over a matter that doesn't concern him...(if he had no sexu@l relationship with the maid.)

Daddy should send the maid away and take care of her and the baby.

Your father is shameless

Wallade:
She could see it as betrayal.

I see it as saving the marriage. They are grown parents. They will get over it.

My mother should be matured enough to take a pinch. She would survive it.

Your betrayal will hit her harder than her husbands. Women whose husbands are wayward place more trust and reliance on their children.

many comments have shown how folly some people are to support and help cover up evil

Shameless men everywhere. Some women dey marry rubbish sha...

hope lalami3232/Sonnobax15 gont reD this thread

SpencerForbes:
The question is—

• Do you love your family well to uphold its integrity?

• Can your mother bear the outcome of the news (some women are patients of HBP and diabetes)?

. What’s the guarantee your father won’t repeat the mistake again??

JSYK: She’s untouchable to you. So marriage is out of the plan but if you can take the fall while she’s on baby mama stipend, then there’s no problem. But if your mom can stomach the news without you destroying the family. Then you can refuse.

Before you quote me, remember women have been hiding paternity fraud for ages and they’ve been forgiven. So there’s no harm in also forgiving a man

Chilipepper:
My dad wants me to claim the pregnancy he is responsible for: man seeks help

Tell your dad to man up and claim his responsibility. Does your dad not the consequencies of shinning free kongo.
If you decide to claim your dad's responsibility, then you would live to regret it

MaziObinnaokija:
hope lalami3232/Sonnobax15 gont reD this thread

Be like I sight sonnobax15 with one eye😂 I see lalami3232 with megaphone doing the Lord’s work for bustop😂

The father still gets intentions of chopping the maid,he could have simply pay her off to go start a new life in another location.

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Chilipepper:
My dad wants me to claim the pregnancy he is responsible for: man seeks help

Despite the fact that your dad is s useless man I still advice you to take the responsibility to save your family cos mum will be devastated if she finds out and don't miss the oppyof being dads favourite via every every

Don't ever agree to that evil, he is looking for a way to give the child inheritance, if he is so shameless to impregnate a maid ,he should bear the consequences. Let your Mum be aware cos their next plot will be to silence your Mum.

Endtime Daddy

Honesty remains the best policy.
Don't play the fall guy

SpencerForbes:
The question is—

• Do you love your family well to uphold its integrity?

• Can your mother bear the outcome of the news (some women are patients of HBP and diabetes)?

. What’s the guarantee your father won’t repeat the mistake again??

JSYK: She’s untouchable to you. So marriage is out of the plan but if you can take the fall while she’s on baby mama stipend, then there’s no problem. But if your mom can stomach the news without you destroying the family. Then you can refuse.

Before you quote me, remember women have been hiding paternity fraud for ages and they’ve been forgiven. So there’s no harm in also forgiving a man

Your father should be man enough to face your mother .....


ecxept she is the bread winner

Kobojunkie:
I didn't see this?

2. Is this some roundabout way of saying your mother deserved to receive humiliation and embarrassment from even within — the man she was married to, who was supposed to protect and safeguard her and her children from that sort of thing?

You don't have to agree with my approach however, that would be my approach, not yours.

I care less about yours.

delpee:
Your betrayal will hit her harder than her husbands. Women whose husbands are wayward place more trust and reliance on their children.

Never mind, she will be fine. I would still be her son.

CJStarz:
Honesty remains the best policy.
Don't play the fall guy

Then the mother should die of heart attack right or he should destroy his family??
The only thing he has to do is sign an agreement that the father will be taking care of the child and he has to promise if it happens again, he’ll take the blame and all his secrets will be out.

If it was a woman, we would have clapped but since it’s a man he deserves to die. The child isn’t a stranger, still the same blood. The mistake has been done. They’ll send the girl far away and start paying her stipends. If all of them play their parts well, no harm will be done. The mother may even die without ever realizing such a thing happened.

Your dad sef is not "jugunu". Why not promise her heaven and earth to abort the pregnancy, then take her to a proper hospital to do it?

Your papa get money?

SpencerForbes:
The question is—

• Do you love your family well to uphold its integrity?

• Can your mother bear the outcome of the news (some women are patients of HBP and diabetes)?

. What’s the guarantee your father won’t repeat the mistake again??

JSYK: She’s untouchable to you. So marriage is out of the plan but if you can take the fall while she’s on baby mama stipend, then there’s no problem. But if your mom can stomach the news without you destroying the family. Then you can refuse.

Before you quote me, remember women have been hiding paternity fraud for ages and they’ve been forgiven. So there’s no harm in also forgiving a man

You Sabi advice but which one be no reapeat mistake again.
Mistake Kwa
Mistake bawo

These things happened in days of old with social media
Even your mother will not want the shame and would want you to do so. ...anyway depends on how she holds the marriage and family

Righteousness2:
The kind of things you hear in these End of the Endtimes, you just know the Devil is sitting on top the Spirit soul and body of so many and is out to package souls to Destruction.

None of these is new... Didn't Abarahm impregnate his maid?