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Ellexy:
Abeg oo 🤲

At least, the Presidency should issue a statement on the kidnapping of students.

The whole world has heard it, but Tinubu no talk anything

BlueRayDick:
Baba, I dont think it's worth the hassle. If somebody 4cks ur wife, na to just move on, cut off the wife by making sure she doesn't have access to any benefits she enjoyed as ur wife, carry out DNA to confirm the kids are urs and if possible try to take custody of the kids confirmed as urs.

No need making psosts like what that man did ; it will expose u to ridicule in the court of public opinion. If anybody wants to have details of why u divorced ur wife, let them ask her and let her use her mouth explain her shameful attitude.

For example look at what NeduWazobiaFM's wife was saying after their marraige failed and it was confirmed she actually slept with someone else resulting in pregnancy before marriage. She was the one that was fooolishly explaining how she didn't tell Nedu she was pregnant and Nedu assumed the child was his. She sounded fooolish and everyone till date still see her for who is.

Yes, it is best to move on. But when you divorce her and she can't get alimony so scorned by losing the Mrs tag women see as the ultimate social crown? She'd slander you and say despicable things.

A thousand women rights organizations for her to report you to with false accusations.

To own the narrative especially when you know she:

1. Has an antecedence of vindictiveness, and;
2. Is very active in the social media space.

A woman scorned can't be predicted even by her own mother.


You need defence. Get evidence to support your claim and, if you notice her threats - subtly even, go to the NHRC. Be the first to put them on notice. If she does so first, even your screenshot and recordings can be dismissed as AI.

The scorned female in this story is heavy on social media with a lot of following. Outwardly religious too. Got a lot of traction on all posts.

She tried to pull the victim card. Screenshots and other digital evidence I had saved, and quickly presenting those facts to a federal MDA were my saving grace. I got a proper apology.

I'd have been a hashtag.

Last month, I checked Instagram spam messages on my account I haven't visited all year - I saw a message from the same person trying to reconnect and admitting certain things.

You better control your narrative. At all points even when you chat, ask yourself, "If things go south, and this chat goes public, how will I be portrayed?" When you know this, even a simple, "Babe, you hurt me today" must be addressed.

A woman scorned is unpredictable.

DissTroy:
Years ago I got involved with a certain female. Fairskinned and pretty. We met at a 3-day conference where I was in charge of media and PR. After we kept stealing glances at each other, we eventually talked and, well, you know... It led to us being intimate and going steady.

I found out she was in her finals and seeking a high-ranking position in an inter-school Student Union. She won sweepingly. She confided in me some of her opponents would get disqualified and it played out so.

Months later whenever she visited me or during WhatsApp chats, she'd complain about a certain "Doctor" who was head of student affairs frustrating her and not allowing them have events in one of the schools while they had it easier in other schools.

I told her to confront him. She said she would; no change. I asked that she writes to the VC and a certain female Commissioner. She mentioned I was taking it too far and she knows how to deal with him. Then when he restricted her union access to dues, she revolted against him. I saw text messages. I helped her draft the letter to some bodies. Beautifully written.

The man and I became acquainted somewhat at the same event I met her without knowing I went on to have anything with her later. One day he invited me to a lounge so we could talk more about digitisation of his academic research and how he could diversify with online courses.

I told this lady and she went,"Babe, it's not far. Easy to locate. It's even close to his house" while she was doing her beauty routine so we'd retire for the night.

"Even close to his house." Then it clicked! They have a history before she met me! How else would she have known his house?

We had each other's phone passwords as she managed social media pages too for some brands so I helped her with PR-speak. I searched the man's name in her Messenger app. Checked their chats from a year before we met. They had a thing before she broke it off months before she met me! It made sense then!

Basically, he did her favours even after meeting me while making herself seem available to continuing it until she won the election. I not knowing thought she was genuinely being persecuted.


Last month, at a meeting with some elites, I reconnected with the man. He's become a professor. About 50 years old now or so. We talked a while and resumed chatting online. He still doesn't know how connected a web we both were asides the digitisation of his works; that we had a thing for the same girl. Thank goodness the coochie didn't blind me.



By everything sacred in the universe, I swear this story is true. I only did not mention exact places and dates to protect the identity of the man.

Connect the dots with the recounts and exchanges with KingTom this morning then come to your own conclusions.

Just watched the video of the cheating wife



Omoh, na very few people normal for this country

It's either na content the case be, or that woman is truly empty upstairs

Ellexy:
Exactly. Whole thing looks like they set him up and wanted him gone. If the military is compromised like this, what are the chances of winning this war against terrorism and insurgency?

Very low.

izzou:
Just watched the video of the cheating wife



Omoh, na very few people normal for this country

It's either na content the case be, or that woman is truly empty upstairs

man can always sue sha

adultery is a fineable crime in southern naija

daddy freeze learnt this the hard way

Ellexy:
Exactly. Whole thing looks like they set him up and wanted him gone. If the military is compromised like this, what are the chances of winning this war against terrorism and insurgency?

which is why i said kuffar and lower case muslims are an endangered species in the nigerian army

izzou:
Just watched the video of the cheating wife



Omoh, na very few people normal for this country

It's either na content the case be, or that woman is truly empty upstairs

link

DissTroy:
Yes, it is best to move on. But when you divorce her and she can't get alimony so scorned by losing the Mrs tag women see as the ultimate social crown? She'd slander you and say despicable things.

A thousand women rights organizations for her to report you to with false accusations.

To own the narrative especially when you know she:

1. Has an antecedence of vindictiveness, and;
2. Is very active in the social media space.

A woman scorned can't be predicted even by her own mother.


You need defence. Get evidence to support your claim and, if you notice her threats - subtly even, go to the NHRC. Be the first to put them on notice. If she does so first, even your screenshot and recordings can be dismissed as AI.

I agree to the fact that when woman is scorned she can go to any extent to mess the man up and I also agree that evidence is needed by the man shield himself from any vengeful accusation.

What I don't really find necessary is a man announcing to the world that another man slept with his wife like that guy did on facebook. Na still him go live with the shame and even his kids might not be spared when they become teenagers and their peers make them butt of joke because of that post their father made about their mother.

As soon as Tinubu got most governors in his pocket, kidnappings have returned à la Jonathan.

The president must find solutions.

No excuses.

Video shows terrør!sts reaching a peace deal with communities in Katsina State🇳🇬💔😭🙆 pic.twitter.com/d0UwhXRery

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) November 18, 2025

Home state of the immediate past president by the way.. Buhari, one lucky devil, spoilt this country and just left quietly..

Majority of northern ruling elites are just pure evil..Not sure the north is salvageable..

No SOE in Northern Nigeria as at now

CrystalTiger:

Video shows terrør!sts reaching a peace deal with communities in Katsina State🇳🇬💔😭🙆 pic.twitter.com/d0UwhXRery

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) November 18, 2025

Home state of the immediate past president by the way.. Buhari, one lucky devil, spoilt this country and just left quietly..

Majority of northern ruling elites are just pure evil..Not sure the north is salvageable..

iamoyindamola:
link

Boy go ban me

Just use that guy name and search his profile on Facebook.

You go see am there

GrammarNazi1:
The president must find solutions.

No excuses.

Is there really a solution?

We basically run the same structure in this country. When PDP leaves, all of them decamps to APC. When APC leaves, all of them decamps to PDP.

Is it Matawalle that will profer solution? Tinubu cannot even sack him because Party people must come first.

GloriousGbola:
We better just split Nigeria and let them go their way. I prefer to be a Muslim minority in a secular country

Gumi actually speaks for these clowns who actually celebrate bandits, terrorists and murderers as freedom fighters

Look at them boldly celebrating terrorists on social media and no DSS is arresting them.

for all intents and purposes they fully and wholeheartedly support boko haram

I have to wonder about what goes through the minds of the northerners who fled to the south. Because in the end it seems like they also support all of this while running away from it

Wait a minute, you're a Muslim?? Wow never knew that. That's actually good to know. Shows there truly are moderate Muslims.

There’s already a problem when you’re screenshotting conversations with your own partner. It means you’re anticipating failure before the relationship even breathes. If you need receipts to feel safe, that’s your sign, you two were never meant to be together in the first place. These red flags aren’t exactly advanced calculus.

For some of us, once we start dating someone, we stop chatting with them online oh. Anything we want to say, we say it face-to-face or on a call.

If you’re with someone you constantly have to monitor, screenshot, and stay on guard with, you already know you shouldn’t be with them. But people force what shouldn’t be forced, all because they lack proper vetting instincts.

GrammarNazi1:
As soon as Tinubu got most governors in his pocket, kidnappings have returned à la Jonathan.

Why is this the case?

GloriousGbola:
which is why i said kuffar and lower case muslims are an endangered species in the nigerian army

Cos the overwhelming majority are Muslims?

izzou:
Boy go ban me

Just use that guy name and search his profile on Facebook.

You go see am there

https://x.com/mrodeyduncommon/status/1990600213560430652?t=K4NoZsGPVCF7DpVSk8haNA&s=19

This has to be a content, a woman can't be this stupid

CrystalTiger:

Video shows terrør!sts reaching a peace deal with communities in Katsina State🇳🇬💔😭🙆 pic.twitter.com/d0UwhXRery

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) November 18, 2025

Home state of the immediate past president by the way.. Buhari, one lucky devil, spoilt this country and just left quietly..

Majority of northern ruling elites are just pure evil..Not sure the north is salvageable..

These people are not even hiding their face sef. Funny thing is if u ask them what exactly is it they are fighting for, u won't be able to make any sense out of their demands.

We all know that since the Niger Delta militants got amnesty from Federal government for fighting aginst environmental degradation and the dangers crude oil expose host communities to , Northerners have been yarning to have such olive extended to them. That is the mindset of people Like Gumi; he believes government needs to "settle" these terrorists for peace to reign.

The thing is how do u settle people who have ideological beliefs and religious extremism fanning their fight against the state ? How do u justify settling people whose goal is to forcefully convert others to their brand of extremist religious intolerance and want every decision of the state to revolve around them?

Gumi would claim they are not educated, don't have access to basic social amenities and that the government owe them a great deal of benevolence. One cannot but wonder where such crazzzy thought is coming from because there's literally free/cheap education available to anybody that has interest in this country. How do u claim someone doesn't have access to basic social amenities but he has enough money to buy Automatic Assault refiles and some RPG?

I agree with the legal briefing of the new INEC chairman in which he linked these terrosists' actions to the Uthman Dan Fodio Jihad which led to the same Fulanis conquering Hausa kindgoms and taking possession of their land in process. Except the FG does something, we might see these people attempt the 1804 conquest with modern arms and ammunitions if care is not taken.

izzou:
Is there really a solution?

We basically run the same structure in this country. When PDP leaves, all of them decamps to APC. When APC leaves, all of them decamps to PDP.

Is it Matawalle that will profer solution? Tinubu cannot even sack him because Party people must come first.

I understand that solutions to certain problems plaguing that region of the country seem impossible to come by.

However, there certainly have to be solutions.

I would suggest a more effective army through better funding for the military for improved intelligence and a very high increase in manpower, and a complete stop to rehabilitation of insurgents, and a determination to forgo votes from that part of the region, since they put up this primordiality because votes from there are precious to winning an election.

TemporaryHansel:
There’s already a problem when you’re screenshotting conversations with your own partner. It means you’re anticipating failure before the relationship even breathes. If you need receipts to feel safe, that’s your sign, you two were never meant to be together in the first place. These red flags aren’t exactly advanced calculus.

For some of us, once we start dating someone, we stop chatting with them online oh. Anything we want to say, we say it face-to-face or on a call.

If you’re with someone you constantly have to monitor, screenshot, and stay on guard with, you already know you shouldn’t be with them. But people force what shouldn’t be forced, all because they lack proper vetting instincts.

Are u serious about the bolded? Like u won't chat ur partner and would only speak on phone ?

Lolz. Wait till u get married fess, u will be chatting ur wife in the room while u are the parlor

iamoyindamola:
https://x.com/mrodeyduncommon/status/1990600213560430652?t=K4NoZsGPVCF7DpVSk8haNA&s=19

This has to be a content, a woman can't be this stupid

she made peace with the man who sent her to school

iamoyindamola:
https://x.com/mrodeyduncommon/status/1990600213560430652?t=K4NoZsGPVCF7DpVSk8haNA&s=19

This has to be a content, a woman can't be this stupid

This is what we still spoke about yesterday concerning all these proposal and putting woman under pressure for marriage.

See her claiming she just accepted his proposal despite having someone she was still actively dating. Before a man goes about proposing marriage he needs to cross his T's and dot all i's in this age and time, lest he marries someone whose heart is elsewhere.

For this man's sake I hope everything is a skit sha.

GloriousGbola:
she made peace with the man who sent her to school

She said it with no remorse, she sounded clueless

BlueRayDick:
Gumi would claim they are not educated, don't have access to basic social amenities and that the government owe them a great deal of benevolence. One cannot but wonder where such crazzzy thought is coming from because there's literally free/cheap education available to anybody that has interest in this country. How do u claim someone doesn't have access to basic social amenities but he has enough money to buy Automatic Assault refiles and some RPG?

these people ran the country for close to 30 years. they had enough time to build the north into a competitive region

but they opted for feudalism

BlueRayDick:
This is what we still spoke about yesterday concerning all these proposal and putting woman under pressure for marriage.

See her claiming she just accepted his proposal despite having someone she was still actively dating. Before a man goes about proposing marriage he needs to cross his T's and dot all i's in this age and time, lest he marries someone whose heart is elsewhere.

For this man's sake I hope everything is a skit sha.

It has to be a skit, unless she's suffering some serious brain damage