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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Houseofglam7(f): 1:12pm On Nov 19, 2025

😮‍💨
For a sec there I thought it was Child of doom again.
Y’all be passing depression around like a blunt huh

Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by matrix199(m): 1:13pm On Nov 19, 2025

Na broke you broke. If money touch your hand, your life go straighten instantly

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by tuoyoojo(m): 1:14pm On Nov 19, 2025

What you have is clinical depression

Go to the hospital, see a psychiatrist, they would give you a couple of meds and you would be fine

Once your mood is better, the other things you complained about can easily be taken care of

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by manuelkel(m): 1:15pm On Nov 19, 2025

Coder2Client:
You are very funny. There is tendency that I am order than you and guess what? I am still single with no girlfriend, no child. Each time I ask a lady hand in relationship I always back out immediately she says yes.

I always tell lies that I am engaged with a woman so that people can leave me alone. Sometimes, I do tell people I have two kids 8 and 6.

Don't put yourself in an unnecessary pressure.

Staying alone has saved you a lot of time that you don't know.

I stay alone a lot. It helps you discover yourself and your purpose.

honestly, infact I recently started putting on a wedding ring just to tell women to keep off zone 😂

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by PapaNnamdi: 1:15pm On Nov 19, 2025

Buy bicycle and ride long distances every morning,
That stuff so good ppl don't realize it can cure depression, hbp and even high blood sugar

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Fiscus105(m): 1:15pm On Nov 19, 2025

Mrdealer4all:
Due to my childhood traumatic life .
I have lost sense of belonging in the society.
All my mates are all married wuth kids.
I stay indoors everyday.
I only go out in the night.
I don't know if I have mental problem.
Nothing impress me in this life.
I feel irritated being in the midst of people.
I always want to be alone.
My life is mess up

While you are growing up, if you don't go sch, learn work, or learn trade,..... you are preparing yourself for disaster when you grown up.....I won't be surprised if you are jobless or job that be like no job.

Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by ariesbull: 1:16pm On Nov 19, 2025

You will not get help if you don't come out clean and confess or tell people the true situations what happened to you during childhood

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Omalicious1: 1:17pm On Nov 19, 2025

Mrdealer4all:
Due to my childhood traumatic life .
I have lost sense of belonging in the society.
All my mates are all married wuth kids.
I stay indoors everyday.
I only go out in the night.
I don't know if I have mental problem.
Nothing impress me in this life.
I feel irritated being in the midst of people.
I always want to be alone.
My life is mess up

I don't think so...I share in most of what u have said but I decided to let the past be in the past. Just face forward and make your life better. Remember, your mates are also in the prison and mortuary, so you still stand a better chance of making your life great.

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Ardeholar: 1:18pm On Nov 19, 2025

RealityKings1:
Look for a football field or a basketball group. Join them. Gradually, you'll understand the truth about society.
Just be free

This may not work if he's really an introvert... I just joined a football team and i still hold to myself... If it's not my wife, i hardly talk... Find it very difficult to make friends and feel very uncomfortable in the midst of crowd.

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Dpaulie(m): 1:19pm On Nov 19, 2025

Coder2Client:
You are very funny. There is tendency that I am order than you and guess what? I am still single with no girlfriend, no child. Each time I ask a lady hand in relationship I always back out immediately she says yes.

I always tell lies that I am engaged with a woman so that people can leave me alone. Sometimes, I do tell people I have two kids 8 and 6.

Don't put yourself in an unnecessary pressure.

Staying alone has saved you a lot of time that you don't know.

I stay alone a lot. It helps you discover yourself and your purpose.

And with all you stated above, with all lies to cover your face, do u think you've discovered yourself huh

? you need a brand new life bro, continue living in self denial... You're living someone else life not yours, you're a father of 2 while u don't even have a girlfriend to start with!
And with your yeye talk some kids Dey like the nonsense talk and nonsense life wey u Dey live, o ga ju!!!!

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by mikeapollo: 1:19pm On Nov 19, 2025

Mrdealer4all:
Due to my childhood traumatic life .
I have lost sense of belonging in the society.
All my mates are all married wuth kids.
I stay indoors everyday.
I only go out in the night.
I don't know if I have mental problem.
Nothing impress me in this life.
I feel irritated being in the midst of people.
I always want to be alone.
My life is mess up

Don't condemn yourself. You never know what others might be going through. Thank God for the little you have, work hard, be hopeful, and things will be better.
God may be planning your blessings, so don't use the apparent successes of your friends to condemn yourself.

PLEASE, DO NOT JOIN BAD GANGS OR FRIENDS BECAUSE OF PRESSURE!

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Jayrow08: 1:23pm On Nov 19, 2025

God will make a way

Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by IGBOPROMISE1: 1:24pm On Nov 19, 2025

Trust me, majority of Nigerians are going through a few or all of the problems you’re going through! Simply take it one day at a time and don’t look too far into the future for now! Key thing is to ensure you emerge from your shell little by little, taking incremental steps which you either improve on every week or month or at least maintain! Try going for brisk early morning walks and making a friend you can confide in, and also work towards getting a job, no matter how little or insignificant, as that’ll also give you a reason to leave the house regularly! Your confidence will start building up without you even knowing!🙂

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by GenFunction: 1:25pm On Nov 19, 2025

Ehn be alone na.
Don't just be a nuisance.
Be a resourceful loner.

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Thereedemer: 1:28pm On Nov 19, 2025

Negroid001:
Dude is 40

Must you cast random dude
because of small credit card info wey u get

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by APOPTOSIS: 1:30pm On Nov 19, 2025

Mrdealer4all:
Due to my childhood traumatic life .
I have lost sense of belonging in the society.
All my mates are all married wuth kids.
I stay indoors everyday.
I only go out in the night.
I don't know if I have mental problem.
Nothing impress me in this life.
I feel irritated being in the midst of people.
I always want to be alone.
My life is mess up

I don't know what you have ever been through but it may not be close to mine, again, it may be far worse.
But let me tell you, your life isn't messed up at all.
U can start by changing your location

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Tayorshd87(m): 1:31pm On Nov 19, 2025

Cum4me:
I don't understand don't you have handwork. Or certificate do you want to tell me all your life you have been staying indoors doing nothing. Then meet others and do Yahoo na. Because masturbation will finished you doing nothing being alone. Sometimes we are just the problem of ourselves stop complaining oga get busy

.I guess have passed through this stage in life 😊
When I don work I do masturbating everyday and every time because am idle I have to do it to watch porn etc

But when I went to school graduate and get small job like just to get me busy infact I hardly have time to masturbate even when I married is just once in a week knack I dey get time self

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by IGBOPROMISE1: 1:33pm On Nov 19, 2025

Jayrow08:
God will make a way

….Where there seems to be no way!

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Empresa: 1:34pm On Nov 19, 2025

Shataaaap there. Which childhood trauma?

Childhood trauma talk say make you no nack Abi belle one girl or get pregnant?

Your problem is INFERIORITY COMPLEX. You are already seeing yourself as a failure and that is why you are staying away from people.

Let me tell you one bitter truth Everybody have one problem or the other, if you hear there problem, you will give God the glory for your life

Problem de all side, pick up yourself and fight for your survival. In life, you must be fighting for something or you are dead.

Remember the law of Natural Selection

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by oskisammy: 1:34pm On Nov 19, 2025

Do you have an incurable viral infection? if you don't
your own better

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Maitunbi: 1:36pm On Nov 19, 2025

Of course you have a mental illness an it's called anxiety & depression.

But there is hope.

I have some advice for you:
1. Start to meditate little by little. Use an app if you have to and don't ever stop. I'm serious.
2. Get some sunlight every day.
3. Start to exercise. Any way you can.
4. If you are a Christian, then join a bible believing church. You can even join a department after some time.
5. Get engaged in any kind of legitimate work that brings money to your pocket.

All will be well in no time.

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Ten06(m): 1:38pm On Nov 19, 2025

I don’t know your age and your qualifications, I would have advised you. I have gone through similar situations before

Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by integrity16(m): 1:40pm On Nov 19, 2025*

Oga! Please see a therapist ASAP. Even God said it is not good for a man to be alone.

I am not trying to preach marriage o, what I am trying to say is loneliness is ungodly so do everything possible to avoid chronic loneliness.

When God said "let us create man in our own image" that tells you that God doesn't encourage loneliness, he needed to interact with Adam. So please try to socialize a little, maybe one or two friends is enough.

Join an association, maybe your CDA or something.

Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by laslimdajay: 1:41pm On Nov 19, 2025

Story of my life 😢😢

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Emmabyte: 1:41pm On Nov 19, 2025

Op do you even have work in the first place

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by victorazyvictor(m): 1:45pm On Nov 19, 2025

Mrdealer4all:
Due to my childhood traumatic life .
I have lost sense of belonging in the society.
All my mates are all married wuth kids.
I stay indoors everyday.
I only go out in the night.
I don't know if I have mental problem.
Nothing impress me in this life.
I feel irritated being in the midst of people.
I always want to be alone.
My life is mess up

Oh my Dealer!
Plz give me soap na....finish this ur story.

Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by kels4fun(m): 1:46pm On Nov 19, 2025

Coder2Client:
You are very funny. There is tendency that I am order than you and guess what? I am still single with no girlfriend, no child. Each time I ask a lady hand in relationship I always back out immediately she says yes.

I always tell lies that I am engaged with a woman so that people can leave me alone. Sometimes, I do tell people I have two kids 8 and 6.

You just described my life. Just that I doing pretty well. I love staying alone. I don't even enjoy sex.

Don't put yourself in an unnecessary pressure.

Staying alone has saved you a lot of time that you don't know.

I stay alone a lot. It helps you discover yourself and your purpose.

Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by Aditkd(f): 1:47pm On Nov 19, 2025

Greetings all.
Hope you all are having a pleasant day?
First and foremost, I want to wish all Men, Happy International Day for all Men.

My dear brother, it seems you are showing signs of depression, if I may advice pls, it will be good if you can go to the hospital for full mental assessment and history will be taken to know the main root of the problem and look for ways to treat you both medications and also therapies.

Also, try to get involved in some sporting activities cause that will also aid to improve your mental health.

Breathing exercises, taking of walks in natural environments can also aid to improve your mental health.

I wish you the very best this life has to offer, don't ever give up or allow the past to keep you limited or scared to venture into the future with dreams and aspirations.

A lot of persons also have different childhood traumas but they are also surviving and trying to take each day in strides.

If they can do it, then you can do it.

Don't ever relent and keep your dreams alive.

Do have a pleasant day ahead Sir and all.

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by COEMMA(m): 1:48pm On Nov 19, 2025

If you are listening, this is what only Jesus can do.
Search for Apostle Johnson Suleman in YouTube and Facebook, listen to his messages, follow him up in Wonders without Numbers every weekday from 5am-6am ( Nigerian time )
Just listen to 5 of his messages and you will be fine

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Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by JuanDeDios: 1:48pm On Nov 19, 2025

Double0h7:
Those sound like depression symptoms. Check your vitamin D and iron levels. If those are normal then you may just be struggling with your childhood trauma.

Could be. Or could be a neurodivergence. I know people think everything is trauma these days. He should get himself assessed for ASD.

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