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Coder2Client:
You are very funny. There is tendency that I am order than you and guess what? I am still single with no girlfriend, no child. Each time I ask a lady hand in relationship I always back out immediately she says yes.

I always tell lies that I am engaged with a woman so that people can leave me alone. Sometimes, I do tell people I have two kids 8 and 6.

Don't put yourself in an unnecessary pressure.

Staying alone has saved you a lot of time that you don't know.

I stay alone a lot. It helps you discover yourself and your purpose.

No everyone comes out of that lone room fire better. Some actually lose all to depression.. Gosh!! That position of self discovery is insanely tough,but get through it and you become a real warrior.

Just get out of your head. It's all a lie.

According to fela kuti . . . Freedom na sickness..... 👉👉


Different different fever na him dey
Different different fever na him dey
Different different fever na him dey
Malaria fever nko? (He dey!)
Jaundice fever nko? (He dey!)
Hay fever nko? (He dey!)
Influenza fever nko? (He dey!)
Inflation fever nko? (He dey!)
Freedom fever nko? (He dey!)
Yellow fever nko? (He dey!)

Na him dey bring the matter na he dey!!

Go for deliverance or rather go village go baf for una village stream or river.
You need cleansing, u don go carry one demon for that OS joint u dey always hangout.
Thank me later.

Mrdealer4all:
Due to my childhood traumatic life .
I have lost sense of belonging in the society.
All my mates are all married wuth kids.
I stay indoors everyday.
I only go out in the night.
I don't know if I have mental problem.
Nothing impress me in this life.
I feel irritated being in the midst of people.
I always want to be alone.
My life is mess up

Your life is NOT messed up

Grow up
Go talk to a therapist,a spiritual leader or something

Just try and get help

Not joking, u can compose this write up urself, it means you are not completely messed up. If u wouldn't mind, go to Prayer City along Lagos Ibadan Expressway. I am sure you will be fine at the end of the exercise.

Or u can join the army force help us fight bandit ..

Coder2Client:
You are very funny. There is tendency that I am order than you and guess what? I am still single with no girlfriend, no child. Each time I ask a lady hand in relationship I always back out immediately she says yes.

I always tell lies that I am engaged with a woman so that people can leave me alone. Sometimes, I do tell people I have two kids 8 and 6.

Don't put yourself in an unnecessary pressure.

Staying alone has saved you a lot of time that you don't know.

I stay alone a lot. It helps you discover yourself and your purpose.

This isn't normal. It's spiritual.. you know this

Mrdealer4all:
Due to my childhood traumatic life .
I have lost sense of belonging in the society.
All my mates are all married wuth kids.
I stay indoors everyday.
I only go out in the night.
I don't know if I have mental problem.
Nothing impress me in this life.
I feel irritated being in the midst of people.
I always want to be alone.
My life is mess up

How many times will dis make front page?

Negroid001:
The guy is not serious.
He just wants attention.
Na only woman him reply, twice.

A f**l at 40 is a f**l forever.

Mrdealer4all,

This is man made saying. In the Bible and God's Word, there's nothing like a "fool at forty is a fool forever". My life is regulated by God's Word and not the words of mere mortals aka carnal men.

Well I always known Nigerians to be loud mouth and of low IQ. My story is on Nairaland.

I lost everything in my 30s but recovered everything at 40s.

Stop using your mouth to cause people pains and depression on the internet else I see worst things happening to you in coming years. No be curse. I've tasted the worst situations in life but yet was never moved to join the multitude to commit wickedness even though I've the opportunity to become a "bad guy" then.

Oga! When there is life there is hope. Yours is not the worst. Don't go commit suicide o. Associate with people.

Take the easy way out bro. Smoke weed and thank me later

Na u condemn urself by urself. Seems ur a weakling. Ogbeni wake up and live life.

Come for counselling

My situation tho but I smoke cana errday to calm my nerves working hoping on God to locate me

How do you feed

Mrdealer4all:
Due to my childhood traumatic life .
I have lost sense of belonging in the society.
All my mates are all married wuth kids.
I stay indoors everyday.
I only go out in the night.
I don't know if I have mental problem.
Nothing impress me in this life.
I feel irritated being in the midst of people.
I always want to be alone.
My life is mess up

If you could sit down to write all these stuff. That means you already have answer to your problems. However, get close to God. Jesus saves .God bless you great man!

You can only move forward when you truly believe that no one else can run your race. Stop comparing yourself with other people’s achievements. Focus on your own journey and live your life.

Your can still work it out...

If only you promise your self not to stay indoor too much

ChangedMan1999:
You are not alone


My own brother who is a doctor working for the Federal Government dislike because of my poor academic performance

If I had money I would have given my studies 100% concentration, but I have nothing

My father who is a professor, would be giving out 50,000 to different women, but when I ask him for Money he will start shouting at me


In school I stayed alone. One of the reasons was the fact that my teeth was rotten. I asked my father for money to see a dentist he started shouting at me


If I start writing my story when

YOUR FATHER IS A VERY USELESS MAN

Stayupup:
What about work? Don't you work?

Na God dey feedam.

Dpaulie:
And with all you stated above, with all lies to cover your face, do u think you've discovered yourself? you need a brand new life bro, continue living in self denial... You're living someone else life not yours, you're a father of 2 while u don't even have a girlfriend to start with!
And with your yeye talk some kids Dey like the nonsense talk and nonsense life wey u Dey live, o ga ju!!!!

Wetin yeye for the life him the live? You weh get children how your life take better pass am?

Pray4meJC:
Mrdealer4all,

This is man made saying. In the Bible and God's Word, there's nothing like a "fool at forty is a fool forever". My life is regulated by God's Word and not the words of mere mortals aka carnal men.

Well I always known Nigerians to be loud mouth and of low IQ. My story is on Nairaland.

I lost everything in my 30s but recovered everything at 40s.

Stop using your mouth to cause people pains and depression on the internet else I see worst things happening to you in coming years. No be curse. I've tasted the worst situations in life but yet was never moved to join the multitude to commit wickedness even though I've the opportunity to become a "bad guy" then.

You had something and then you lost it. You were never lazy. You went through tough times. Success has always been waiting for you it was just timing.

This op has no drive or ambition. I've checked his other posts. He wants self pity. I have friends like that and i didn't baby them. I was harsh on them. That's how they picked up.
When i had my own crisis, thanks to stern advice from friends and family especially my old man, i was able to pick up too.


The op ignored a long list of advice and only replied a female twice trying to make small talks. All your advice in the air. Do you get why i am stern now?

Tough times never last....... BUT tough people do

U have to be Tough

Your problem is that you don't have money and you are an introvert. Try and make money and you will be happy with yourself

You can sign up for Talk Therapy with Mercy. She has been through childhood trauma too.
+2348030699358

Mrdealer4all:
Due to my childhood traumatic life .
I have lost sense of belonging in the society.
All my mates are all married wuth kids.
I stay indoors everyday.
I only go out in the night.
I don't know if I have mental problem.
Nothing impress me in this life.
I feel irritated being in the midst of people.
I always want to be alone.
My life is mess up

At least you are where you want to be and haven't messed up a child's life.

You are in a better place than a lot of people.

Some are in relationships that are horrible and they can't break out of for various reasons, some have children with people they can't stand to be around.

Lots have messed up live's and have to tolerate it, your life isn't perfect but you have a degree of control.

Some are sitting down jẹjẹ and minding their own business yet are subject to abuse and insults routinely by their partners or ex-partners but they have to tolerate it and dare not react.

Millions would swap with you in a heartbeat, congratulations for having such a good life, Shane you don't realise or appreciate it.

What then is the problem? If all your peers jumped into the ocean, will you? Life is a marathon. When you’re ready to settle down, you will. I hate the phrase “settle down.” It implies that one once had a wild phase. In your case, it is not applicable. You stayed indoors most of your life.

Mrdealer4all:
Due to my childhood traumatic life .
I have lost sense of belonging in the society.
All my mates are all married wuth kids.
I stay indoors everyday.
I only go out in the night.
I don't know if I have mental problem.
Nothing impress me in this life.
I feel irritated being in the midst of people.
I always want to be alone.
My life is mess up

Reloadedisraelp:
According to fela kuti . . . Freedom na sickness..... 👉👉


Different different fever na him dey
Different different fever na him dey
Different different fever na him dey
Malaria fever nko? (He dey!)
Jaundice fever nko? (He dey!)
Hay fever nko? (He dey!)
Influenza fever nko? (He dey!)
Inflation fever nko? (He dey!)
Freedom fever nko? (He dey!)
Yellow fever nko? (He dey!)

Na him dey bring the matter na he dey!!

Yellow fever you the bleach ooo
You the bleach oooo

Mrdealer4all:
Due to my childhood traumatic life .
I have lost sense of belonging in the society.
All my mates are all married wuth kids.
I stay indoors everyday.
I only go out in the night.
I don't know if I have mental problem.
Nothing impress me in this life.
I feel irritated being in the midst of people.
I always want to be alone.
My life is mess up

how old are you?

RealityKings1:
Look for a football field or a basketball group. Join them. Gradually, you'll understand the truth about society.
Just be free

Nice one..... trust me that will help

Find a gym nearby and focus on it religiously, gym bros are the best bros because most of them are relatable or have bigger evils they are dealing with. You don’t just work on your physical health but mental wellbeing when you exercise. The society we live in now is terrible and no one can be trusted so maybe being alone isn’t soo bad, don’t panic or rush people into your comfort zone, take your time and observe if they energy and chakra matches yours.