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Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by fxexperts: 2:40pm On Nov 27, 2025
Kobojunkie:
See, this is how stewpid men end up in prison in that Nigeria. If we check now, that same man may have been cheating on that same woman, but the moment he finds that she has found herself her own side-dick, he goes into a stewpid rage over what is absolutely nothing. undecided
This dude should be taken to Iselu for a proper checkup.
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by AfDapone: 2:40pm On Nov 27, 2025
You wan fight for jennyclay, you are OYO. grin grin grin grin grin


Edit: Seun 30 character bot don tire ni? I've not heard from it lately.
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by LeeSmart: 2:51pm On Nov 27, 2025
BigYash:
You be moon moon.

You went cheating on someone who paid your price,feeds you,gives you shelter and the moon moon you is saying it's nothing?



Even though I dislike the fact that the man went fighting,because they r better ways to deal with the two bas. tards without it even getting to the public.
Person dey bear junkie for e name, you come dey take am serious😂😂
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Pat081: 2:51pm On Nov 27, 2025
Hmmmmmmmm
The man na fool
Why can he send her awayhuh
For me to do that I will send her away
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by ZUBY77(m): 3:00pm On Nov 27, 2025
BigYash:
You be moon moon.

You went cheating on someone who paid your price,feeds you,gives you shelter and the moon moon you is saying it's nothing?



Even though I dislike the fact that the man went fighting,because they r better ways to deal with the two bas. tards without it even getting to the public.
Na you get time to reply that thing.
Always promoting disaster.
If you want to cheat as a woman, stay in your papa house.
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by ZUBY77(m):
Staywithbina:
People are just stupid ,what will it take you to just walk away if you know you can’t handle her ,I swear sometimes I see the way men in marriages behave like toddlers and am ashamed ,if I find a woman am married to doing something fishy ,if I can’t handle it ,I just end the marriage than publicly washing out dirty linens outside
Do you know what average men go through to be able to get married. You spend millions on trad, millions on wedding, rent and furnish accomodation just to make her comfortable. She comes up and start sleeping around and your best solution is to walk away and probably start looking for another.

Marriage would be so good if the bills are split, or atleast force the women to return half of the expenses if they are caught cheating. It will make walking away very easy.

Footnote
I will not spend my millions to bring you to my life and house and you tell me whatever I do, you will do the same.
When you were in your father's house doing whatever you like, nobody cared.

This is where I vote for legalizing baby mama. You as a woman can stay in your papa house and fvck a million men and even have kids for them.
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by CJStarz: 3:16pm On Nov 27, 2025
Anything could have happened to have made for the detour. That's not cheating. He didn't find her in a compromising position with the man.
Fiscus105:
Wife telling husband she going to market and latter found in different place.


Which cheating bigger than that oooo?
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Kobicove(m): 3:19pm On Nov 27, 2025
Una sure say no be skit? undecided
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Kobojunkie: 3:25pm On Nov 27, 2025
Meedon:
She is a married woman of particular concern. A disgraced married woman
Is thediwgraced married woman your property that you should reason you should fight another man and possibly end up in jail for it because she no longer desires you? Nonsense!

By the way, is a cheating married man also a disgraced man, or does this fire in you also only rise when a woman is involved since a whole lot of you delude yourselves still into believing women are your entitlement? 🥱🥱🥱

How come we also never see this sort of fervor when your politicians and gods of men dupe your lives? 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Awon first class didinrin!🙄🙄🙄
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by gentlesmithugo(m): 3:27pm On Nov 27, 2025
Staywithbina:
People are just stupid ,what will it take you to just walk away if you know you can’t handle her ,I swear sometimes I see the way men in marriages behave like toddlers and am ashamed ,if I find a woman am married to doing something fishy ,if I can’t handle it ,I just end the marriage than publicly washing out dirty linens outside
wait first till it reach ur turn,den we will hear from u
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Kobojunkie: 3:29pm On Nov 27, 2025
Wickedtruths:
Your post is a reflection of your kind of upbringing.
Not necessarily but yet, I was not raised tinybrained that I would believe it my place to go fight another human because I was rejected by a lover. 🥱🥱🥱

Marriage has never been permanent or by force. If I no longer want a person or a person no longer wants me, my life continues. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Originalsly: 3:30pm On Nov 27, 2025
If the man never knew the woman was married ... he should've known then and stepped away .... hopped in his car and kept it moving. It is built in the he DNA of man to "cheat" ... it is also built in the DNA of man to "flee" when confronted by the husband ... and it is built in the DNA of man for the husband to be violent to the lover. Laws have taken this into consideration... and he reason there is that special provision ... crime of passion. So it is useless talking about ho th husband should behave ... his behaviour was normal. The lover's behaviour was not . He is laying down there ..if dead ..the husband will either get off the hook ... or punished very lightly.
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Kobojunkie: 3:30pm On Nov 27, 2025
gentlesmithugo:
wait first till it reach ur turn,den we will hear from u
You better go ask the 10s of thousands of men wey dey kirikiri for that particular stewpidity if they would do it again. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Staywithbina: 3:41pm On Nov 27, 2025
gentlesmithugo:
wait first till it reach ur turn,den we will hear from u
Oga I have caught many of my girl friends cheating ,if a girl am dating sends me a video of her dancing with another man ,I will masturbate on it ,everybody is not like you ,most of my girl friends tell
Me how cold hearted I am ,ma gee nothing about woman moves me
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Nefort: 3:53pm On Nov 27, 2025
Kobojunkie:
See, this is how stewpid men end up in prison in that Nigeria. If we check now, that same man may have been cheating on that same woman, but the moment he finds that she has found herself her own side-dick, he goes into a stewpid rage over what is absolutely nothing. undecided
You need to condemn the cheating first before questioning the man's faithfulness. What if the man has been absolutely faithful? Your comment is a bad attempt to make the public believe his wife's cheating is justified because he might also be cheating on his wife. Your comment was driven by the urge to defend a fellow woman and not by reasoning and intelligence
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Mrfixitt(m): 4:01pm On Nov 27, 2025
Kobojunkie:
See, this is how stewpid men end up in prison in that Nigeria. If we check now, that same man may have been cheating on that same woman, but the moment he finds that she has found herself her own side-dick, he goes into a stewpid rage over what is absolutely nothing. undecided
Over nothing you said ? Too many Oloshos these days
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Kobojunkie: 4:05pm On Nov 27, 2025
Nefort:
You need to condemn the cheating first before questioning the man's faithfulness.
✓ What if the man has been absolutely faithful?
✓ Your comment is a bad attempt to make the public believe his wife's cheating is justified because he might also be cheating on his wife.
✓Your comment was driven by the urge to defend a fellow woman and not by reasoning and intelligence
I can't condemn the cheating since Nigerian men have, have on the most part, stated that man is allowed to cheat in a relationship. By that, Nigerian women(also humans/ same species as man) have also have the freedom to do so in their Nigerian marriages. undecided

2. There were no what-ifs to the claims bellowed for thdecades -- from the time of our ancestors--- by Nigerian men. So why should I consider a what if here? 🥱🥱🥱

3. Your interpretation of my comment is wrong. I hold no opinion as far as the cheating. I don't really care about it.,
My one and only concern here is the man there reasoning that he is justified in his assaulting of the other man. Go Kirikiri and you will find 10s of thousands of men locked up in there all because they could not control their emotions over woman matter. 🥱🥱🥱

I only mentioned his possibly cheating on her too to illustrate the fact that even adulterous Nigerian men are also known to resort to the same levels of foolishness that the man displayed in this situation. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by ernjoyeer: 4:06pm On Nov 27, 2025
Staywithbina:
Marriage is a big scam ,the biggest of it all,the only men who suffer are those who ain’t prepared for it ,I can do everything a woman can do and even better aside giving birth and if I need kids ,I know my way around it without marriage ,I really pity married men I swear ,they are in for a long rough ride ,women are using our men and they don’t know ,a girl don’t give a damn about you ,all she cares is that ring and the title mrs and once she has it ,she’s living her life for self
I agree with you to a point, honestly marriage is becoming uninteresting.
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Kobojunkie: 4:06pm On Nov 27, 2025
Mrfixitt:
✓ Over nothing you said ? Too many Oloshos these days
Go Kirikiri go ask the men there who were jailed flr years over that ssme stewpidity whether na something then. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by gentlesmithugo(m): 4:17pm On Nov 27, 2025
Staywithbina:
Oga I have caught many of my girl friends cheating ,if a girl am dating sends me a video of her dancing with another man ,I will masturbate on it ,everybody is not like you ,most of my girl friends tell
Me how cold hearted I am ,ma gee nothing about woman moves me
who is talking about gal friend here.we dey talk about wife,u dey talk about gal friend
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by gentlesmithugo(m): 4:18pm On Nov 27, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You better go ask the 10s of thousands of men wey dey kirikiri for that particular stewpidity if they would do it again. 🥱🥱🥱
I won't waste my precious time arguing with u.u don't worth it
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Nefort: 4:18pm On Nov 27, 2025
Kobojunkie:
I can't condemn the cheating since Nigerian men have, have on the most part, stated that man is allowed to cheat in a relationship. By that, Nigerian women(also humans/ same species as man) have also have the freedom to do so in their Nigerian marriages. undecided
I only mentioned his possibly cheating on her too to illustrate the fact that even adulterous Nigerian men are also known to resort to the same levels of foolishness that the man displayed in this situation. 🥱🥱🥱
Stop defending your poorly worded comment. You could have said something like:

Cheating is wrong. I hope the husband is also faithful to his wife.
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Nefort: 4:20pm On Nov 27, 2025
Kobojunkie:
I can't condemn the cheating since Nigerian men have, have on the most part, stated that man is allowed to cheat in a relationship. By that, Nigerian women(also humans/ same species as man) have also have the freedom to do so in their Nigerian marriages. undecided
Stop the generalization. Just because you read some stupid posts on Nairaland doesn't mean it reflects the general opinion of the entire Nigerian men.

I only mentioned his possibly cheating on her too to illustrate the fact that even adulterous Nigerian men are also known to resort to the same levels of foolishness that the man displayed in this situation. 🥱🥱🥱
Stop defending your poorly worded comment. You could have said something like:

"Cheating is wrong. I hope the husband is also faithful to his wife."

Your comment was made out of pure bitterness towards men.
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Kobojunkie: 4:24pm On Nov 27, 2025
Nefort:
Stop the generalization. Just because you read some stupid posts on Nairaland doesn't mean it reflects the general opinion of the entire Nigerian men.
✓ Stop defending your poorly worded comment. You could have said something like:
✓ Cheating is wrong. I hope the husband is also faithful to his wife.
Generalization, you say! The fact that not a single Nigerian man has of note publicly denounced the trend which began during the time of your ancestors and continues to this day in most every traditional group is evidence enough that more this is a cultural norm. In fact, by my generation, the women had begun teaching their daughters that they would need to overlook cheating of their husbands in the marriage home. undecided

2. Yawn ! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

3. Not in the Nigerian content where more than 90% of the time, society faults the women even when it is the man doing the cheating....abegi make I hear word.🥱🥱🥱
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Kobojunkie: 4:27pm On Nov 27, 2025
ogaemma:
✓ May it happen to you and may you not fight.
Brainless mugu
It is brainless individuals such as yourself who reason that commiting a crime gets you some release when 10s of thousands of people like you are today in Kirikiri for the same thing. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Meedon: 4:48pm On Nov 27, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Is thediwgraced married woman your property that you should reason you should fight another man and possibly end up in jail for it because she no longer desires you? Nonsense!

By the way, is a cheating married man also a disgraced man, or does this fire in you also only rise when a woman is involved since a whole lot of you delude yourselves still into believing women are your entitlement? 🥱🥱🥱

How come we also never see this sort of fervor when your politicians and gods of men dupe your lives? 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Awon first class didinrin!🙄🙄🙄
Kobo why are you crying?
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Kobojunkie: 4:50pm On Nov 27, 2025
Meedon:
✓ Kobo why are you crying?
When did the Yawning emoji become crying emojis for you? 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Husband Caught His Wife Flirting With A Man In Asaba by Starz825(m): 4:50pm On Nov 27, 2025
In football...its a crime to catch your player flirting with another club while still under contract with you...its outright disrespect.

Take for example...Luiz Diaz was caught flirting with Barcelona while still under contract with Liverpool in Feb. 2025.....and did not go down well with his then club.

Hence, he was sold off the following summer to Bayern.....

In another twist, Liverpool is currently regretting that sale of Luiz.....cos he was an important player for them....though they will be fine...cos no player is bigger than the club.

The Man is the Football club and the woman is the Player.

My advise is if the man deem her fit to be important in his home...He can forgive her but if she is not adding any value....then bin her.
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