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RevenuesBoost:
Guess you don't know this family.

It's a skit they always play, where the woman is always after the husband's money.

And the man is always complaining of how the wife lied to get money from him.

They're on all social platforms.

it is content but thy are reviewing what some men are passing through in marriage,one of my neighbor recently gave thesame complain about his wife,that whenever the compound tax levy of #500 she will tell him is 20k.

Gotocourt:
Most Women feed fat because of the kids.

🤣🤣😂 seriously

Mindlog:
Don't stress yourself, it is a skit. Their content is focused on the wife regularly scamming the husband.

yes but thats what most men suffer in marriage.

seunlayi:
It's not new,, it's very common, if you get time to dig deeper, you'll see many things that will make you doubt the word LOVE.
But the beauty of it is that many good wife will use the difference to balance up some deficits or lack in the family

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There is nothing beautiful about being a thief, defrauding your husband, only to claim that you used the money to balance whatever up.

Why not just be sincere?

grazoks:
The guy and his wife are a skit makers... And their skit is always in that line. The wife plays the role of always extorting the husband. Before una go begin lash women for this NL, e no dey hard una

Na wetin most women weh dia men get money dey do for marriage na u no know

TheWebbers:
Stop believing stories posted on X. 99% of them are made up.

This particular story was just a joke anyways. The couple (the Shelton family) are skit makers and their niche is about dishonest and fraudulent wives.

However, far too many wives are guilty of fraud and shortchanging their husbands.

Even my NGO pays directly to school and joins the school group so no one will scam us not to talk of you with proximity to the school not checking. Even University Tuition, we collect portal log in and pay directly... that's absent parenting ...you pay for it. Can schools try to scam us...maybe but I negotiate hard when they want to start changing tuitions...no, you sacrifice too if NGO is paying unless you want us to withdraw support. You can't trust most people in Nigeria sadly.

eherbal:
https://www.gistreel.com/man-in-shock-after-discovering-wife-collects-%e2%82%a6480k-but-pays-only-%e2%82%a6145k-for-daughters-school-fees/

SpencerForbes:
This gender running games on men since the dawn of time. That's how they end up building properties behind your back and effectively turning their own husbands into tenants.

When the whole thing blows up, she'll suddenly drop a bombshell ‘she owns a house back in the village, or she's been bankrolling some young sugar boy on the low.

If guys really understood who they were sharing their life with—their real thoughts—they would be careful in their dealings with women. Forget that cliché ‘behind every successful man’. True success comes from your own hard work or your family. The original women— in that wise saying—ended in Gen X.

Jesus Christ!!

This is a comedy skit!!

An old one even!

Seun Mynd44 Nlfpmod Fergie001 please please what's happening with our NL these days oooo?

eherbal:
https://www.gistreel.com/man-in-shock-after-discovering-wife-collects-%e2%82%a6480k-but-pays-only-%e2%82%a6145k-for-daughters-school-fees/

This is a comedy skit for crissakes!
What's it with you people and mischief??

advanceDNA:
U go shock say her supporter will justify this wickedness ....

Na their type u go give 30k to cook soup, she go still tell you, "things were too expensive, I had to lend you 40k extra..so u are owing me 40k plus the 300 naira I used to buy salt when you were not around, making N40,300" ...

Look well ooo...no marry your enemy because she get yænsh

It's a comedy skit. I watched on Instagram over 3 months ago.

Get a life please.

Nazgul:
Why is he shocked, didn't he date her to know the kind of person she is?

When the only reason why you married your wife is because of her front and back, don't act surprise when she starts showing you shege in the marriage.

it's a skit. Save the motivational speech.

tishbite41:
Nah
This is wild!

I've heard about a man riding Okada owned by his wife!
He was dropping returns everyday!

Him for no drop. Nah side chick him go spend am for. He will complete the money and then own the bike. Issa simpu sturvs.

Na those wey dey marry spec get this problem.

If you wan marry, be you a man or woman, look well, and chose partner base on character.

mikeapollo:
Does the man not ask for evidence of payment, receipt etc after the wife collects N480k for the daughter's school fees?

Evidence from your wife ?

Unless he go use trick collect the receipt such as saying it’s for record purposes.

But when a man begin Dey ask for evidence from wife, he marry wrongly

Go are do dna test for the girl ok

Snow2six:
You de train girl for sch..wow..anyways,e no bad, u just helping out, Abeg do everything for her till she serve.U can still help her family to foot there bills

yes sir

pinknipple:
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The man is a fool sir.

The whole evolution of marginalization started with the dreaded,evil union called marriage.

Marriage is evil.


Certainly! The justification could center around the idea that marriage often enforces traditional roles that can limit individual autonomy. In some cases, it may lead to power imbalances, particularly if one partner controls finances or makes unilateral decisions. This can perpetuate cycles of marginalization for the partner who feels less empowered. Additionally, cultural expectations surrounding marriage can sometimes prioritize the institution over personal happiness and equality, leading to resentment and conflict. Thus, some argue that the dynamics within marriage can be detrimental rather than beneficial, contributing to broader societal issues.

Where at thou? all these long turenchi because of Shelton family and their everyday money trouble. Your knowledge is limited
The daughter's name is Aria

Mans married a bandit.
Na this kind wife fit orchestrate her own kidnap with her ex make hubby pay money.

SisterAnn:
It's a comedy skit. I watched on Instagram over 3 months ago.

Get a life please.

What has comedy got to do with real life? ..I'm talking what happens to pple in their home u are getting triggered becos it's ur gender doing shameful things......y'all try and open thread for once to educate your kind....

See as people are commenting on a skit as if it really happened. Make una dey comot for nairaland once once na.

If the father and daughter is the picture you posted, it is content. Mama Aria, one of the most hilarious content you will watch

Don't be hard on yoursel, it is content. Mara Aria does worse to get money from her husband

advanceDNA:
What has comedy got to do with real life? ..I'm talking what happens to pple in their home u are getting triggered becos it's ur gender doing shameful things......y'all try and open thread for once to educate your kind....

pek:
Don't be hard on yoursel, it is content. Mara Aria does worse to get money from her husband

again...what has this being a content got to do with the fact that it actually happens in real life..........??

advanceDNA:
U go shock say her supporter will justify this wickedness ....

Na their type u go give 30k to cook soup, she go still tell you, "things were too expensive, I had to lend you 40k extra..so u are owing me 40k plus the 300 naira I used to buy salt when you were not around, making N40,300" ...

Look well ooo...no marry your enemy because she get yænsh

Kobojunkie is coming to defend her with very fine English...

Choosing a school should be done by both parents and the fees shouldn't be a major criterion or the only criterion. Men should learn to be involved in their children's lives beyond financial contributions.

That said, there's nothing I detest than dishonest people, especially someone who is so close to me. In my opinion, this calls for a divorce, or at least a separation.

SpencerForbes:
This gender running games on men since the dawn of time. That's how they end up building properties behind your back and effectively turning their own husbands into tenants.

When the whole thing blows up, she'll suddenly drop a bombshell ‘she owns a house back in the village, or she's been bankrolling some young sugar boy on the low.

If guys really understood who they were sharing their life with—their real thoughts—they would be careful in their dealings with women. Forget that cliché ‘behind every successful man’. True success comes from your own hard work or your family. The original women— in that wise saying—ended in Gen X.

A lot of women are like this, even our mothers that we love so much today pulled these stunts too in the past. I think it's just in their nature, it will take grace of God for a woman or wife not to outsmart her husband like this. What men should do is double check on these things if you can't afford these excesses. No make any woman pressure you to death.
This is how men will Work! Work!! Work!!! to their death and sometimes with little or no appreciation sef. Na one we go bury yesterday so, may his soul rest in peace. May God help us!

Don't marry from a poor home...they only date or marry for survival

They will always say they want the Best for there daughters or themselves but no hassle na wahala......na you even cause am sef.

Funny enough, when it comes to relationships in many African societies, the expectations placed on men and women are still heavily shaped by tradition. A lot of women are taught—directly or indirectly—that a relationship must come with financial security. “Provide and protect” becomes the unwritten rule: provide means food, clothes, and basic needs; protect means shelter and stability.

Today, the pressure is even stronger. Some men practically put girlfriends on a payroll, and financial dependence becomes the foundation instead of genuine partnership. No wonder the relationship landscape feels upside down.

Even during marriage processes, love is almost an afterthought. The first questions from the family aren’t about compatibility or character—they’re about your job and whether you can “take care” of their daughter. And sometimes you just sit back and wonder: why send a girl to school to earn good grades if her future is still expected to revolve around depending on a man who probably went through the same school with fewer opportunities?

It makes you think deeply about how much our society still ties a woman’s value to a man’s wallet instead of her own abilities, potential, and independence.

eherbal:
https://www.gistreel.com/man-in-shock-after-discovering-wife-collects-%e2%82%a6480k-but-pays-only-%e2%82%a6145k-for-daughters-school-fees/

Seen a case where the woman didn't even pay a dime until the principal had to call the father to inform him that they are about to hold exams and he noticed that he doesn't owe school fees. He paid it right away got the receipt and called the wife to ask about it. Only to discover that she borrowed the money and added it to her business and she forgot to pay. Many of those things you call wives are actually animals especially those middle aged ones and their newbies. They can lie for hell and money no dey reach them.

As a man make sure you do some responsibilities yourself. Like buying things for your children, paying their school fees and ensuring that they depend on you for survival, otherwise, that your wife go tell them say she dey struggle to make them succeed even when she doesn't do anything

You sure say na you still have the child
Try and do DNA before spending this much on children

eherbal:
https://www.gistreel.com/man-in-shock-after-discovering-wife-collects-%e2%82%a6480k-but-pays-only-%e2%82%a6145k-for-daughters-school-fees/

advanceDNA:
What has comedy got to do with real life? ..I'm talking what happens to pple in their home u are getting triggered becos it's ur gender doing shameful things......y'all try and open thread for once to educate your kind....

I say things as it is. I don't do gender stuff I'm not a feminist, I don't even know what it means. I'm only a realist.
I'm realistic enough to know that most men, especially Africans thinks having a penis is all it takes to be a man. I also know they think they are favourably disposed to eat their Cakes and still have it just because they are males