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I need blunt, practical advice.

Some younger neighbors in my compound have been acting disrespectful for a while. They push dirt and trash toward my door, drop rubbish in my space, and act bold every time I clean.

I’ve already reported this four times, and nothing changed.

Lately it got worse:

They stopped my little brother to intimidate him

They banged on my door

And after cleaning again, they pushed dirt from their dustbin area back to my front


I already gave them a final warning. I’m not interested in shouting or childish reactions. I want to handle this in a controlled, calm, strategic way.

So my question is:

What’s the smartest final move now that they’re still testing boundaries after multiple reports and even involving my younger brother?

Should I go silent ?

Should I escalate differently?

What approach ends this behavior for good without making me look reactive?


Looking for advice that helps me keep full control of the situation.

One question.

Whom did you report to?

Johnnoah1st:
I need blunt, practical advice.

Some younger neighbors in my compound have been acting disrespectful for a while. They push dirt and trash toward my door, drop rubbish in my space, and act bold every time I clean.

I’ve already reported this four times, and nothing changed.

Lately it got worse:

They stopped my little brother to intimidate him

They banged on my door

And after cleaning again, they pushed dirt from their dustbin area back to my front


I already gave them a final warning. I’m not interested in shouting or childish reactions. I want to handle this in a controlled, calm, strategic way.

So my question is:

What’s the smartest final move now that they’re still testing boundaries after multiple reports and even involving my younger brother?

Should I go silent ?

Should I escalate differently?

What approach ends this behavior for good without making me look reactive?


Looking for advice that helps me keep full control of the situation.

Take picture evidence it recording. Visit the nearest police station to report the case and give the police 10-20k to fuel the police van.
Once you've done the above, leave the rest to God and see wonders.

Going silent will only make things worse. Once lived in a compound like that, those guy bullied the caretaker like there was no tomorrow. They tried it with me, but I gave one of them serious beating, neighbours and area men were on my side, the landlord had to evict them.

Report them to the police, or area vigilante although if their hand hot pass your own, nothing go come out of the case, rather it will make things worse because they will use their money to buy their way and bully you.
If you try reporting to the landlord, police, or vigilante and it still continues, I recommend moving out of that place.

Take video and picture evidence to the caretaker or landlord, and if it persists involve the police. Even the landlord will be forced to react if he finds out the police are involved