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MemoriesAndMe:
I'm not madam o, I'm a dude.
Have you ever been married before? It's my 3rd marriage. 2 divorces already, the last marriage just happened a month ago and divorce is already loading.

After marriage is when you start to see their real colors gradually. They get pregnant and have a child for you, thank God if she no change totally for you

So you're saying that you're completely blameless?

E no go better 4d admin wey change my site link from this post

U will ask 4 water God will give u fire to drink

mocochannel:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8cpNObvm2A?si=nIWeywKH4RFyNtr9



https://thenationonlineng.net/sabinus-confirms-amicable-dissolution-of-marriage/

All celebrities marriage just dey clash no peace because of fame nothing more.... nothing like peaceful ending something must be wrong olden days parents still remains the best

ok good , i can tell you for free that what God hates most is what we are doing and seeing as normal and lawful which is DIVORCE
Malachi 2:16, which says, "I hate divorce... he who divorces his wife covers his garment with violence".

Even our LOrd Jesus spoke against divorcing ones wife ,

[b]3 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?”

4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’[a] 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

7 “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”

8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”

10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”

11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.” matthew19

Now back to the nature of women , the first thing you must know is that ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME , THEY HAVE THE SAME ENERGY , THEY SHARE SOME SIMILAR ATTRIBUTES MOST ESPECIALLY WHEN CHILDREN ARE INVOLVED
let me tell you if you marry a woman , and there is no kid , you are ok , enjoy the moment she has kids , that is all al her attention and love goes to the kid , this is because of the life and pains they share with the baby .THIS IS THE SAME WITH ALL WOMEN ALL OVER THE WORLD.
she will never leave her child and cling to you most especialy if it is a male child , there is this unique bond ,but many men cant understand this and they see this detachment as lack of love from the woman

MemoriesAndMe:
I'm not madam o, I'm a dude.
Have you ever been married before? It's my 3rd marriage. 2 divorces already, the last marriage just happened a month ago and divorce is already loading.

After marriage is when you start to see their real colors gradually. They get pregnant and have a child for you, thank God if she no change totally for you

Which day this one marry come dey talk of divorce n ended peacefully....

Small boy wen never see life dey run so as to begin flex single life hood.

Remember wetin shaggy sing o."life is one big party when you are young, but whose gonna rub your back when all that is gone"

Hilarious!

So why did they marry?

MarkNsukkaBread:
So you're saying that you're completely blameless?

No, I didn't say that. Marriage is a relationship -two people involved, implying there will be differences between both of you. Arguments are bound to happen - what you like may be different from what she likes. Imagine you want to watch soccer and she suddenly comes and change the channel to her favorite to Chinese series. Why you no go vex with her?

Don't forget that each of you have your families and friends you talk and listen to. That's where the problem grows. My current wife and my sister hate each other and I love both of them. Neither of them wants to apologize to each other. Imagine have 10 wives who don't agree with each other. That's too much headache abeg. It's just ok to be single sometimes. Wahala too much when woman don enter sometimes

mocochannel:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8cpNObvm2A?si=nIWeywKH4RFyNtr9



https://thenationonlineng.net/sabinus-confirms-amicable-dissolution-of-marriage/

Ofcourse she's in the UK! LMAOO I Know many of them waiting for 5 years to pass so they get their ilr and divorce their husbands

I hope the uk govt passes the 15 year thing into law retrospectively!

Celebrities are among the world's most stupid people when it comes to marriage issue.

onatisi:
ok good , i can tell you for free that what God hates most is what we are doing and seeing as normal and lawful which is DIVORCE
Malachi 2:16, which says, "I hate divorce... he who divorces his wife covers his garment with violence".

Even our LOrd Jesus spoke against divorcing ones wife ,

[b]3 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?”

4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’[a] 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

7 “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”

8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”

10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”

11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.” matthew19

Now back to the nature of women , the first thing you must know is that ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME , THEY HAVE THE SAME ENERGY , THEY SHARE SOME SIMILAR ATTRIBUTES MOST ESPECIALLY WHEN CHILDREN ARE INVOLVED
let me tell you if you marry a woman , and there is no kid , you are ok , enjoy the moment she has kids , that is all al her attention and love goes to the kid , this is because of the life and pains they share with the baby .THIS IS THE SAME WITH ALL WOMEN ALL OVER THE WORLD.
she will never leave her child and cling to you most especialy if it is a male child , there is this unique bond ,but many men cant understand this and they see this detachment as lack of love from the woman

You are correct

Especially the male child , my sister couldn't leave her 2yrs son with anyone even when she leave to a far place abroad

JooEeL:
As a man, you don't need to marry.

It appears glamarous from the outside but when you get in, you go dey see different kind of pepper everyday. You'll begin to envy men who eschewed it.

If you sit down and calculate everything: how you spend days and nights working hard, hustling, thinking out of the box just to feed your family and deprive your ownself from privileges and savings and how you automatically cancel yourself from availabililty of other women who may be genuinely interested in you, even maybe for simple companionship... you'd get angry.

The day you figure it out that society has deceptively wired us to be "good slaves" in what we mistake as marriage... when you see your wife eating so fat on the sofa and not giving 2 fuccks about properly addressing ur sexual needs... or u look at her and imagine how many guys chop her when she dey uni or poly... na that day ur liberation begin

Lolz I understand your points, but marriage is good to some extent, the joy of having kids in wedlock is unquantifiable. This is the number one gain men get in marriage; having kids in wedlock and for the continuation of your lineage.


Any guy planning to marry because he wants sexual satisfaction is wasting his time, he will definitely regret because that your super gorgeous hot wife will become unattractive to you at some point, not because she has gotten fat or out of shape, nope but because of the natural form of men that makes them lose sexual attraction for a woman they are seeing and living together with over time which is the main cause of men cheating that nobody talks about.

Controlled polygamy would have helped to solve this issue to an extent, I could be wrong.

So any guy looking to marry a very hot or pretty lady hoping that will make him not to cheat is wasting his time, let him marry her first and give himself 5 years maximum lol.



Now back to the main benefit of marriage to men; procreation in wedlock, you need to see how I play with my daughters, you will think I am a baby like them and you need to see their joy, we play like puppies, sometimes it makes me wish they remain this age cos of the super bond lol.



But it comes with too many responsibilities sha, the financial responsibilities of sustaining a quality family nowadays anywhere in the world is not for the faint hearted lol


If I am to give advice based on my bad guy side, I would advice rich guys not to marry lol, and if you must marry as a rich guy, marry a girl from a rich family background not even a girl that hustled to become rich, run from them.


But then, my Godly side is against such ungodly counsel, so I will advice all guys to marry but when they are financially and emotionally ready to overlook and ignore many things and to play fool sometimes, not because you are a fool but for the sake of peace and for the sake of the kids.

that is why you see that female child usually love their father , they will stand by their fathers anytime . while male kids will support their mom without even thinking or asking questions . when a woman has female kids , the man transfers his affection to hos daughters and they in turn return it , the same goes for women to , they transfer the love they have for their husbands to their sons , reason why yoruba women will usually call their sons oko mi meaning my husband . if the man doesnt have any female kids ,he may be forced to now look for frmales to transfer his love to , not that he doesnt love his wife anymore , but it isnt all men that have this kind of maturity to be able to withstand all these

Zocalite:
You are correct

Especially the male child , my sister couldn't leave her 2yrs son with anyone even when she leave to a far place abroad

onatisi:
The best solution to divorce is polygamy .most especially for men ,if you know you are losing feelings for your wife ,just marry a second one . Just an opinion though

is this your advise applicable to all categories of men?

onatisi:
that is why you see that female child usually love their father , they will stand by their fathers anytime . while male kids will support their mom without even thinking or asking questions . when a woman has female kids , the man transfers his affection to hos daughters and they in turn return it , the same goes for women to , they transfer the love they have for their husbands to their sons , reason why yoruba women will usually call their sons oko mi meaning my husband . if the man doesnt have any female kids ,he may be forced to now look for frmales to transfer his love to , not that he doesnt love his wife anymore , but it isnt all men that have this kind of maturity to be able to withstand all these

lol you seem to be right.


The way I love my daughters eh, e be like I am in love

onatisi:
that is why you see that female child usually love their father , they will stand by their fathers anytime . while male kids will support their mom without even thinking or asking questions . when a woman has female kids , the man transfers his affection to hos daughters and they in turn return it , the same goes for women to , they transfer the love they have for their husbands to their sons , reason why yoruba women will usually call their sons oko mi meaning my husband . if the man doesnt have any female kids ,he may be forced to now look for frmales to transfer his love to , not that he doesnt love his wife anymore , but it isnt all men that have this kind of maturity to be able to withstand all these

Things change when the kids grow to be adult especially for the male child

exactly and this is what i always tell my fellow men , a man world and life is totally different from a woman world . old age insurance no cover man oo, it only covers the woman or mothers . a man has to plan his old age before getting there . another thing i always tell men is that , as we men grow older we gradually become useless , as our kids become more independent we become more useless as we grow older , but vice versa is the case for women , as women grow older they become more and more essentially important to their kids . reson why our fore fathers uusually keep marrying till their old age

Zocalite:
Things change when the kids grow to be adult especially for the male child

when a youth that doesn't listen to advice or hear what the old one says he or she gets married and gave birth to children, what do you think the outcome will be for those kids (it only takes the Grace to see the next generation from them to live upright) ?

I will say this first
Where we are coming from has a lot of lessons it teaches us while we are growing up

Though some are trained in good manner but later became bad but all in all that good manner our parents put in us will always give us a flash back whenever we are doing bad

Upbringing has a lot to do in our life and that of our kids

onatisi:
surrisngly there is NOWHERE IN THE BIBLE THAT GOD COMMANDED ONE MAN ONE WIFE . ask any pastor to prove it , they will only show u what paul said and even that bible verse has nothing to do with polygamy . no wonder many christians nowadays have started marrying more than one woman

Go ND read your Bible again . But before u do that. Hope you know the difference between wife ND wives?
If you have known the difference. Just go ND study your new testament

Genesis 2:24 (God’s original design)
Matthew 19:4–6 (Jesus reaffirming monogamy)
1 Timothy 3:2 (Church leaders as examples)
Titus 1:6
Ephesians 5:31

Go ND read those Bible verses

I have always known that marriage is a scam..

She no carry anything only fine face

Wise decision. Most women mission in marriage is to bring down a man especially when it turns sour. Marriage is one the millions way a man can kpai prematurely.

Statistics have shown that Marriage in this Gen Z Generation style is the Worst since the history of humanity.

No Genuine Love ... Zero knowledge about Building a lasting Marital relationship.

Everything about Marriage in the Gen Z Generation style is monetary Transactions.

I pity any Millennials Guy that is married to a Gen Z girl .....You gonna learn the hard way ...

1. few days ago, it was Senator Ned Woko with her Gen Z Baddie Regina Daniels

2. Yesterday it was 2Face with her Gen Z Baddie Natasha

3 Today it is Sabinus...with her Gen Z Baddie Cianna Chapman ... hahahaha 🤣 🤣 🤣 see funky name ...see wetin person go marry.

My humble advice to any Millennials Guy and older generation...leave the Gen Z Baddie Girls alone Biko ...


Let the Gen Z Baddie marry their fellow Gen Z guys ....let them handle themselves...

Diamond098454:
Why are they divorcing and separating here and there? This marriage of a thing is really scaring me

Would you be any different from what men are getting from women these days in marriage?

I have read the passages you submitted ,none supported monogamy ,let's leave others to judge whether the passages you dropped actually affirmed monogamy

ojonugba2014:
Go ND read your Bible again . But before u do that. Hope you know the difference between wife ND wives?
If you have known the difference. Just go ND study your new testament

Genesis 2:24 (God’s original design)
Matthew 19:4–6 (Jesus reaffirming monogamy)
1 Timothy 3:2 (Church leaders as examples)
Titus 1:6
Ephesians 5:31

Go ND read those Bible verses

MarkNsukkaBread:
So you're saying that you're completely blameless?

Another angle to it . If you divorce once , itaybe a mistake , but twice , one has to look inward to see if one is at fault. Most of the time we point fingers at people and only see other people mistakes forgetting the fact that we ourselves are not perfect and maybe the other party is just reacting to something which we are doing wrong

What did he expect when he presented wealth instead of his personality to lady.

The lady lured him to perform a secret wedding with her in the name of she doesn't like publicity (clear red flag that she doesn't like him and she's not proud of Sabinus).

She later brainwashed Sabinus to relocate her to the UK for her post graduate which she happens from there after securing her masters degree. Sabinus is not just a video comical Moo _gu but a realm life simp

We4all:
Looking at the picture of the wife, one can tell why he married her. This is the problem with most celebrities. They always go for the prettiest faces, but end up regretting their choices.

She wasn't that pretty when he married her. See below

franchasofficia:
Lolz I understand your points, but marriage is good to some extent, the joy of having kids in wedlock is unquantifiable. This is the number one gain men get in marriage; having kids in wedlock and for the continuation of your lineage.


Any guy planning to marry because he wants sexual satisfaction is wasting his time, he will definitely regret because that your super gorgeous hot wife will become unattractive to you at some point, not because she has gotten fat or out of shape, nope but because of the natural form of men that makes them lose sexual attraction for a woman they are seeing and living together with over time which is the main cause of men cheating that nobody talks about.

Controlled polygamy would have helped to solve this issue to an extent, I could be wrong.

So any guy looking to marry a very hot or pretty lady hoping that will make him not to cheat is wasting his time, let him marry her first and give himself 5 years maximum lol.



Now back to the main benefit of marriage to men; procreation in wedlock, you need to see how I play with my daughters, you will think I am a baby like them and you need to see their joy, we play like puppies, sometimes it makes me wish they remain this age cos of the super bond lol.



But it comes with too many responsibilities sha, the financial responsibilities of sustaining a quality family nowadays anywhere in the world is not for the faint hearted lol


If I am to give advice based on my bad guy side, I would advice rich guys not to marry lol, and if you must marry as a rich guy, marry a girl from a rich family background not even a girl that hustled to become rich, run from them.


But then, my Godly side is against such ungodly counsel, so I will advice all guys to marry but when they are financially and emotionally ready to overlook and ignore many things and to play fool sometimes, not because you are a fool but for the sake of peace and for the sake of the kids.

💯 For you Sir

SlayQueenSlayer:
Most women genuinely don’t like the idea of having a jester for a husband, regardless of how much money is involved.

^^^
Interesting angle.

onatisi:
The best solution to divorce is polygamy .most especially for men ,if you know you are losing feelings for your wife ,just marry a second one . Just an opinion though

The economy of the nation will teach you a lesson

Good one.

Marriage is the greatest societal scam against men. It is designed to keep the man in emotional and economic captivity. Say no to marriage and live longer and happier.