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Pls guys take time to listen to me.
I am a 35years old man
Life was going smoothly. I have every opportunity to make it big in life but I blew everything.

First opportunity was to drop out of my school in 300level. Because of this a lot of opportunities have past me by.

I succeeded in setting up a business but blew it up because of my mental illness. This mental illness is self inflicted because I am the one that use my hand to start going extreme in religion matters this is the genesis of everything.

Third opportunity was when I secured a job, although without academic qualifications, I was been paid some reasonable amount until I bit the finger that fed me.

Qnow I don't have anything left than to stay with my aging mum.

I am really confused I don't know where to start from in life anymore.

Pls anyone can help me here on this forum.

Pls mod. Help me too

Calm down and free your mind from every worry especially anything about religion right now. You are a star, shining even when you don’t feel it. God is guiding you and correcting your path. He has not forgotten you. Stay calm and trust that everything is working out for your good.🙏

Stay calm God is in Control

Rhassidy360:
Calm down and free your mind from every worry especially anything about religion right now. You are a star, shining even when you don’t feel it. God is guiding you and correcting your path. He has not forgotten you. Stay calm and trust that everything is working out for your good.🙏

I just wish I can calm down. Seeing that I had all opportunity to make everything right. But blew it all. It pains me to the borns

Godwithus20:
I just wish I can calm down. Seeing that I had all opportunity to make everything right. But blew it all. It pains me to the borns

I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. It hurts deeply when we look back and feel like we missed our chances. But please don’t be too hard on yourself you’re human, and we all make decisions we wish we could change. What matters is that your heart still wants to make things right. Take a breath, calm down a little, and be gentle with yourself. You’re not finished, and this moment doesn’t define you

For you to admit you bit the finger that fed you means you're in the right track to correct your wrongs.




I'll advice you seek forgiveness from the person. At times people overlook these things but there's repercussion for doing evil. You don't know the curse(s) the person laid on you outta pain.

Let it slide, irrespective of lost opportunity as as long as you are still alive and healthy, bros you can still achieve greatness

Godwithus20:
I just wish I can calm down. Seeing that I had all opportunity to make everything right. But blew it all. It pains me to the borns