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Caaz:
Go back to your mother to raise you properly,its not an insult,its the raw truth,,And one innocent woman ended up with someone like you,you re always bitter,i m here wondering how toxic your life will look like offline.
You had better not enter 2026 with this toxic attitude of yours....
It's well with you.

Lovit:
➜In all you do, marry an emotionally intelligent woman. If not, small quarrel like this, she won't cook talk less of serving you food
Women low on EI, always lose their marriages, sometimes people think it is an evil spirit or village people that are causing women from a particular family to lose their marriages, but it is just low emotional intelligent that runs in that family
➜ How do you know a woman with low emotional intelligence?
1. They quarrel a lot
2. They are very irritable
3. They don't know how to say sorry
4. If there is a quarrel, even if she is at fault, she won't admit it and she won't apologize
5. If you are married to them, you the man will always be the one to make peace, she doesn't know how to make peace
6. Their mood swings controls them, they don't think outside the box
7. Relationship with them is always one sided, you do everything to keep the relationship going. the day you stop, relationship dies
8. They are always critical, frowns at jokes, they don't overlook faults
etc

dbestuncle:
Nairaland ladies don't like to share opinions on topics like this, most times it is us the men asking and same we answering even some female monikers are actual males too.
So where are the women, ladies and girls who we look onto to take over

dbestuncle:
Nairaland ladies don't like to share opinions on topics like this, most times it is us the men asking and same we answering even some female monikers are actual males too.
So where are the women, ladies and girls who we look onto to take over

Double0h7:
I would never “fight” a man but if my shouting and dragging earns me a right hook, then you’ll need to ask the prison guards how they will serve his watery beans, because if I serve him food and he eats it; that’s a story for another day. 😶‍🌫️

debbydams:
babe your food is ready, should I serve it?

poshestmina:
I married a Foodie. No need to call him , just set the table ,He will eat first and then start the argument again "Listen to me,I'm the man here " .


Kpele oh,I drag your boxers with you?

poshestmina:
I married a Foodie. No need to call him , just set the table ,He will eat first and then start the argument again "Listen to me,I'm the man here " .


Kpele oh,I drag your boxers with you?

Caaz:
Your own sef dey talk...mine will jux keep calm and be looking at me,when the talk don too much,he will stand up,give me water to drink and Continue looking at me lolzz

Na me sef shame go dey catch....he hates anything quarrelling/malice ,give him food he go collect chop,tell you thank you.
And he forgives easily.

Caaz:
Op the illustration pictures you use is scary and it depicts domestic violence.
If it's the normal quarrel that couples normally have there is no big deal in serving him food the normal way,i go even siddon follow ham chop the food.

When i m quarreling with my spouse i still serve him food so he can have strenght to quarrel with me,although my husband is not the talking type and on the calm side,he will collect the food and eat and still tell me thank you.

Moreso our quarrels dey be like skits,i go just talk my mind and the next minute we don dey talk.

Between us we know say we go always dey miserable without each other.

Aye13th:
After Fighting with your Husband, How will You call Him when food is Ready ?
Men Let us see wife materials

Bukolaberry:
Hmmmmm i will drop the food on dinning table and say COME EAt, but if i want to continue with The quarrel i will send my daughter, omo that wan dey pain him.

poshestmina:
I married a Foodie. No need to call him , just set the table ,He will eat first and then start the argument again "Listen to me,I'm the man here " .


Kpele oh,I drag your boxers with you?

Double0h7:
I would never “fight” a man but if my shouting and dragging earns me a right hook, then you’ll need to ask the prison guards how they will serve his watery beans, because if I serve him food and he eats it; that’s a story for another day. 😶‍🌫️

Double0h7:
I would never “fight” a man but if my shouting and dragging earns me a right hook, then you’ll need to ask the prison guards how they will serve his watery beans, because if I serve him food and he eats it; that’s a story for another day. 😶‍🌫️

brain54:
Majority of the few female nairalanders feel too proud to comment...

The rest you see forming crews and clicks forming cabals. You only see them on threads where one comments then you see the rest come in to comment on the comment of the crew member and not on the thread o.

They like to follow themselves like lezzys.


Only a few are exempted like the one from the south and a few that are more active on the food section.


The only person I can vouch for as a female here that can contribute on threads like this is that one from the South. That one makes meaningful conversations most times on topics!

wunmi590:


You will hardly see females contribute on sensitive topics, which needs their answers, because majority of the small nairaland boys and alpha males have chased them away...

Gone are those days, when things were running smoothly on this forum

Aye13th:
After Fighting with your Husband, How will You call Him when food is Ready ?
Men Let us see wife materials

Maryam1234:
Na marriage wey never mature supposed answer the question

As for me after quarrel and he's settled I go ask babe 'Make I bring the food 'if he says yes I serve and we eat together...

Na quarrerl we query we no go starv ourselves

For early years of marriage after quarrel him chop or not E no concern me o😏Las Las he go call my mama say him wife no give am food since yesterday....

We grow with age and some emotions begin to die down gradually...

If we try keep enemy this days we no go survive because our business will be affected so we quarrel wisely and codedly,after all teeth and tongue must clash so disagreement in marriage can not be totally avoided no matter how perfect the couple claim.