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Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by Blitzking: 6:23pm On Dec 05, 2025
Many guys will choose to be molested like this..see as he dey slap that assss without pity
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by IronGalaxy: 6:25pm On Dec 05, 2025
Fake story
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by advanceDNA: 6:25pm On Dec 05, 2025
kingthreat:
Is Nigeria better than Italy where the age of consent is 16?
Also, just checked that in Zimbabwe where it happened, age of consent is 16. So what's your case actually?
First ...Zimbabwe updated age of consent to 18 years old on Monday 15 January 2024.

Even if consent age is 10 years old or even worse ....The teacher will still be found guilty for abuse of trust, abuse of office, because power imbalance will always be established in cases like this btw teacher and student

Haven't you heard of cases btw senior and junior staffs in work places?? That's even btw two adults ...despite sex started with consent .it has been established over and again that the power imbalance makes consent technically under threat, fear or duress, either for loss of their job, poor appraisals, etc
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by FreeIgboho: 6:45pm On Dec 05, 2025
IronGalaxy:
Fake story
Are you alright? The VIDEO is there
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by FreeIgboho: 6:48pm On Dec 05, 2025
Blitzking:
Many guys will choose to be molested like this..see as he dey slap that assss without pity
One of the commenters was regretting that no teacher molested him throughout his schooling.
He'd have saved some money on olosho grin
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by FreeIgboho: 6:51pm On Dec 05, 2025
kingthreat:
Is Nigeria better than Italy where the age of consent is 16?
Also, just checked that in Zimbabwe where it happened, age of consent is 16. So what's your case actually?
Actually in Northern Nigeria age of consent is 11, as long as you marry the girl

Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by CorrectionFLuid: 6:53pm On Dec 05, 2025
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That boys future is already at low battery. He already can't be accepted into a lot of establishments and institutions.

He better realise this early and work towards being self made.
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Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by FreeIgboho: 6:56pm On Dec 05, 2025
CorrectionFLuid:
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That boys future is already at low battery. He already can't be accepted into a lot of establishments and institutions.

He better realise this early and work towards being self made.
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Are you OK at all?
How?
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by IronGalaxy: 6:58pm On Dec 05, 2025
FreeIgboho:
Are you alright? The VIDEO is there
Do you see their faces? Are the same people on the pics in the video?
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by IronGalaxy: 7:01pm On Dec 05, 2025
virginboy1:
Sex is overrated and very distracting undecided
hell no!
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by FreeIgboho:
IronGalaxy:
Do you see their faces? Are the same people on the pics in the video?
Yes. And the lady's name too. And see some comments below

advanceDNA:
On a normal day...that's one of the classic rape apologist defence...They paint the victim as an enabler of the crime that happened....its the same defence the perpetrator of the rape use to justify their act.....

U know what's funny? ur desperation in justifying this ......i mean.....there should be potential sex offenders list for women like you to protect boys since you see nothing wrong with fvcking a minor because he's a boy......

.. And yes...i noticed you repeatedly called him a boy, which is what he still is...a boy!! In every measure ....yet your carnal, dlrty rape apologist mind couldn't establish what is wrong.....

If you care to know.... there are enough clinical journals on line on psychological impacts of rape on boys and even men
How about the commenters on the video regretting they were not molested

Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by Mirasteel: 7:08pm On Dec 05, 2025
I watched the video and it seems the boy was enjoying it.

I don't really think it's molestation since hlthd boy agreed to the act, the only problem is that he's still a minor.
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by Godsonkemz(m): 7:09pm On Dec 05, 2025
How can a beautiful lady like this involve herself in a humiliating sex scandal which could not only ruin her teaching career but could land her behind bars when there are many capable mature men for her age with bigger cucumber she could have enjoyed without getting herself messed up.
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by IronGalaxy: 7:09pm On Dec 05, 2025
FreeIgboho:
Yes. And the lady's name too. And see some comments below
The lady wearing white is actually South African not Zim thats why I'm calling bluff on this
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by FreeIgboho: 7:11pm On Dec 05, 2025
IronGalaxy:
The lady wearing white is actually South African not Zim thats why I'm calling bluff on this
The video shows underage smacking a grownup
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by KingDashx(m): 7:12pm On Dec 05, 2025
Saw this video on telegram
I just dey laugh.. boy dey spank am anyhow, Kai this life don scatter
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by We4all: 7:12pm On Dec 05, 2025
advanceDNA:
there should be potential sex offenders list for women like you to protect boys since you see nothing wrong with fvcking a minor because he's a [b]boy......[/b]

.. And yes...i noticed you repeatedly called him a boy, which is what he still is..[b].a boy!! In every measure ....yet your carnal, dlrty rape apologist mind couldn't establish what is wrong.....[/b]
I find the emboldened very funny and couldn't help laughing. Don't blame me for what aunt Jumoke did to you as a teenager. But I'm sure you must have enjoyed it.
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by Thomasankara(m): 7:15pm On Dec 05, 2025
[/color]you don add Ur own o,the guy no suck anything o[color=#770077]
8starmember:
They should jail the lady

If reverse is the case the whole world will be on fire to crucify the male child

She took advantage of the boy

Imagine that boy mother seeing how her child is sucking dirty toto
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by IbnB: 7:28pm On Dec 05, 2025
No abuses here

That boy done dey &vck ashy tey tey
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by advanceDNA: 7:33pm On Dec 05, 2025
We4all:
I find the emboldened very funny and couldn't help laughing. Don't blame me for what aunt Jumoke did to you as a teenager. But I'm sure you must have enjoyed it.
Lol....Another classic rapist and rape apologist defence .....telling the victim they must have enjoyed it.......these are the same things men say when women get raped for going to the house of the rapist.....


Again ...u just a Rape apologist justifying sexual abuse, abuse of trust, abuse of office, just to mention a few of the teachers offense.

I would have told you again to go online to educate yourself on academic research of impact on rape on boys/ men......but Sadly... shameless pple like you cannot be shamed and are too carnally minded to see admit wrong doing cool
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by Arda1000(m): 7:47pm On Dec 05, 2025
FreeIgboho:
One of the commenters was regretting that no teacher molested him throughout his schooling.
He'd have saved some money on olosho grin
kia

Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Dec 05, 2025
We4all:
A 16 year old boy is old enough to reject the advances of his teacher. Physically, he is even stronger and from the video, he wasn't rape.

However, people tend to raise alarm if an older man sleeps with a teenage girl because they mostly do it forcefully; even threating them with death. So, comparing both scenarios is absurd!
Do you know there's something called statutory rape? Age of consent?.

As a 33 years old man if I sleep with a 17 girl who loves me and was even the one to seduce me and was even the one untop of me taking the lead, it's rape. It's same with a 33 years old woman and a 16 years old girl
Rape doesn't always have to do with force
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by Omoawoke(m): 7:58pm On Dec 05, 2025
Hmmmm

Chai!

Justice for that boy!!

The boy must be in severe pains now that bad belle people don come pour sand for his garri!!

See better pepper soup !
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by 7upnigeria: 8:00pm On Dec 05, 2025
Dpsychologist:
When a teenage girl is abused, society rallies in outrage. Yet when a teenage boy is exploited by an older woman, the narrative shifts suddenly it’s “impressive,” “a flex,” or even “something to be praised.”

This is not empowerment. It is abuse.
This is not maturity. It is exploitation.
This is not consent. It is predation.

At 16, a boy is still a minor. His “enjoyment” or perceived skill does not erase the fact that he is being taken advantage of by an adult.

The double standard is glaring: we condemn abuse when it happens to girls, but trivialize it when it happens to boys. That hypocrisy silences male victims, normalizes abuse, and perpetuates a culture where men’s mental health and advocacy are dismissed.

Until we recognize that boys can be victims too, and that predators can be women as well as men, we will continue to fail half of our children.

This is not about gender wars.
This is about justice, protection, and humanity.


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Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by Host78: 8:07pm On Dec 05, 2025
Video dey the link for my profile sha cheesy
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by Dennisochampa: 8:20pm On Dec 05, 2025
with the video I watched... that didn't look like molestation to me.... it looked like 2 adults having a time of their lives but the woman mess up for running the show with a 16 year old
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by We4all: 8:30pm On Dec 05, 2025
FaAbData:
Do you know there's something called statutory rape? Age of consent?.

As a 33 years old man if I sleep with a 17 girl who loves me and was even the one to seduce me and was even the one untop of me taking the lead, it's rape. It's same with a 33 years old woman and a 16 years old girl
Rape doesn't always have to do with force
I know of statutory rape, but I think there should be exceptions to how some of these cases are judged. A boy of 16 may be a minor under the law, but his actions can be judged depending on the severity of his crime.

I have read in the news how some young men under 17 ganged up to rape a woman in her 30s. Would you dismiss their behaviours and not press charges against them because they are minors? Of course not!

In this particular case, those that watched the video said he was even hitting the woman. He is obviously hooked to porn and just practicing what he has been watching. With a good lawyer, that woman can easily get off the hook.
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by themanderon: 8:56pm On Dec 05, 2025
CJStarz:
No female teacher in Nigeria will ever condescend so low.
Don't be too sure.
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by erniok2: 8:59pm On Dec 05, 2025
advanceDNA:
Lol...Emotions?? See u justifying rape with all vocabulary u can find...
what has emotions gotta do with established law ..u think those that established that under 18 are minors and cannot consent to sex are stupid??
...16,17 year old girls seduce their fine older teacher all the time....doesnt change the fact that it's statutory rape ..... U are a rape apologist and u should be ashamed of urself because u won't say the same if ur son was involved..

Tueshh!! cool
Why not just call it statutory rape instead of throwing the word rape around.
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by LordReed(m): 9:00pm On Dec 05, 2025
kingthreat:
You're the one so much concerned about the illegality of a 16 year old boy sleeping with an adult. This happened in Zimbabwe and the age of consent is 16.
Ahh OK let's move the goal post. Sure buddy.
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by Mosco100(m): 9:01pm On Dec 05, 2025
God forbid!
Re: 33-Year-Old Teacher Molested 16-Year-Old: Why Do We Still Fail The Boy‑child? by Wills083: 9:03pm On Dec 05, 2025
Which molest una dey talk about, no be the boy dey raise him hand to spańk his aunty so ?
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