₦airaland Forum

We4all:
I know of statutory rape, but I think there should be exceptions to how some of these cases are judged. A boy of 16 may be a minor under the law, but his actions can be judged depending on the severity of his crime.

I have read in the news how some young men under 17 ganged up to rape a woman in her 30s. Would you dismiss their behaviours and not press charges against them because they are minors? Of course not!

In this particular case, those that watched the video said he was even hitting the woman. He is obviously hooked to porn and just practicing what he has been watching. With a good lawyer, that woman can easily get off the hook.

kingthreat:
This is not abuse. The boy just became a man early.
So are all the young boys that sneak to brothels for short time being abused by the prostitutes?

erniok2:
Why not just call it statutory rape instead of throwing the word rape around.

CJStarz:
No female teacher in Nigeria will ever condescend so low.

FaAbData:
Do you know there's something called statutory rape? Age of consent?.

As a 33 years old man if I sleep with a 17 girl who loves me and was even the one to seduce me and was even the one untop of me taking the lead, it's rape. It's same with a 33 years old woman and a 16 years old girl
Rape doesn't always have to do with force

kingthreat:
This is not abuse. The boy just became a man early.
So are all the young boys that sneak to brothels for short time being abused by the prostitutes?

QuinQ:
How about if it came be proved the boy had been patronizing olosho steady

We4all:
A 16 year old boy is old enough to reject the advances of his teacher. Physically, he is even stronger and from the video, he wasn't rape.

However, people tend to raise alarm if an older man sleeps with a teenage girl because they mostly do it forcefully; even threating them with death. So, comparing both scenarios is absurd!

FaAbData:
All the people that slept with him underage did wrong weda olosho or class teacher.

Stop going around the story, sleeping with a minor is a crime under rape,

Proserpina:
No it isn't absurd! They are the same! Abuse is abuse! If there were to be a confrontation the woman is stronger, it seem otherwise because she was in a lustful submissive state. It's like when a lady pushes a man to the bed with a finger are you saying she's stronger than the man?

That woman abused the boy, he's a minor! There are teenage girls who are sexually experienced and active before they were abused should we doubt or erase their truths because "they were experienced " ?

That woman should be punished!

QuinQ:
Some of the commenters were regretting that no teacher abused them while in school. Just thinking of all the olosho money and wahala they could have saved

Dpsychologist:
When a teenage girl is abused, society rallies in outrage. Yet when a teenage boy is exploited by an older woman, the narrative shifts suddenly it’s “impressive,” “a flex,” or even “something to be praised.”

This is not empowerment. It is abuse.
This is not maturity. It is exploitation.
This is not consent. It is predation.

At 16, a boy is still a minor. His “enjoyment” or perceived skill does not erase the fact that he is being taken advantage of by an adult.

The double standard is glaring: we condemn abuse when it happens to girls, but trivialize it when it happens to boys. That hypocrisy silences male victims, normalizes abuse, and perpetuates a culture where men’s mental health and advocacy are dismissed.

Until we recognize that boys can be victims too, and that predators can be women as well as men, we will continue to fail half of our children.

This is not about gender wars.
This is about justice, protection, and humanity.







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Proserpina:
It's pathetic to say the least! Very disgusting how most men glorify sex yet they are the first to scream "sex is overrated ".

I read some comments on these thread and realised how far behind we really are as a nation.

Dpsychologist:
When a teenage girl is abused, society rallies in outrage. Yet when a teenage boy is exploited by an older woman, the narrative shifts suddenly it’s “impressive,” “a flex,” or even “something to be praised.”

This is not empowerment. It is abuse.
This is not maturity. It is exploitation.
This is not consent. It is predation.

At 16, a boy is still a minor. His “enjoyment” or perceived skill does not erase the fact that he is being taken advantage of by an adult.

The double standard is glaring: we condemn abuse when it happens to girls, but trivialize it when it happens to boys. That hypocrisy silences male victims, normalizes abuse, and perpetuates a culture where men’s mental health and advocacy are dismissed.

Until we recognize that boys can be victims too, and that predators can be women as well as men, we will continue to fail half of our children.

This is not about gender wars.
This is about justice, protection, and humanity.







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CJStarz:
No female teacher in Nigeria will ever condescend so low.

Bamijoko2:
Where is the abuse The boy practically knows what he's doing and he doesn't seems its his first time abeg, so stop been emotional on lies and camouflage.

Omoluabi16:
A whole lot of women too are praising him and hustling for the video. The double standard is glaring.

jojothaiv:
I know that most women will speak from both sides of their mouth or better still rather avoid this thread altogether but as for the men saying sh***t, you're more than irredeemable.

Most men are terrible beings and our comments is a complete sell out. Just look at the way man are praising the boy child and some wished they were in his shoes.

Pathetic fellas.

Dpsychologist:
When a teenage girl is abused, society rallies in outrage. Yet when a teenage boy is exploited by an older woman, the narrative shifts suddenly it’s “impressive,” “a flex,” or even “something to be praised.”

This is not empowerment. It is abuse.
This is not maturity. It is exploitation.
This is not consent. It is predation.

At 16, a boy is still a minor. His “enjoyment” or perceived skill does not erase the fact that he is being taken advantage of by an adult.

The double standard is glaring: we condemn abuse when it happens to girls, but trivialize it when it happens to boys. That hypocrisy silences male victims, normalizes abuse, and perpetuates a culture where men’s mental health and advocacy are dismissed.

Until we recognize that boys can be victims too, and that predators can be women as well as men, we will continue to fail half of our children.

This is not about gender wars.
This is about justice, protection, and humanity.







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CJStarz:
No female teacher in Nigeria will ever condescend so low.

Proserpina:
This is abuse. The woman is a teacher who is supposed to protect ,guide and instill right morals into the boy. Her actions are unethical and irrespective of the boy's background or sexual experience she's not in position to be intimately involved with him.
Prostitution and teaching are two parallel occupations.

I can't believe we ( women) have to fight against girl child abuse and still spare time to educate you men on male child abuse. Phew!

LivingEarthMan:
Yes sir. They are being abused by the prostitutes if they are obviously underaged and the prostitute is an adult.

advanceDNA:
First ...Zimbabwe updated age of consent to 18 years old on Monday 15 January 2024.

Even if consent age is 10 years old or even worse ....The teacher will still be found guilty for abuse of trust, abuse of office, because power imbalance will always be established in cases like this btw teacher and student

Haven't you heard of cases btw senior and junior staffs in work places?? That's even btw two adults ...despite sex started with consent .it has been established over and again that the power imbalance makes consent technically under threat, fear or duress, either for loss of their job, poor appraisals, etc

Dpsychologist:
When a teenage girl is abused, society rallies in outrage. Yet when a teenage boy is exploited by an older woman, the narrative shifts suddenly it’s “impressive,” “a flex,” or even “something to be praised.”

This is not empowerment. It is abuse.
This is not maturity. It is exploitation.
This is not consent. It is predation.

At 16, a boy is still a minor. His “enjoyment” or perceived skill does not erase the fact that he is being taken advantage of by an adult.

The double standard is glaring: we condemn abuse when it happens to girls, but trivialize it when it happens to boys. That hypocrisy silences male victims, normalizes abuse, and perpetuates a culture where men’s mental health and advocacy are dismissed.

Until we recognize that boys can be victims too, and that predators can be women as well as men, we will continue to fail half of our children.

This is not about gender wars.
This is about justice, protection, and humanity.







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