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The video brings to the fore the obvious conflict between age of consent and age of sexual maturity
Sex is a biological act and having sex has to do with physical development and hormones and not age. Age factor was brought in to protect young ones from predators. The fact is looking at that boy, he's every bit matured for sex just as most 16 year old girls are also. The point I'm making is that sex is basically biological and in biology, there's no mechanical set time for testosterone or adrenaline to start pumping. The time they start differ for each person because it's simply biological. Two babies born same day will not grow teeth, sit, crawl, walk, speak the same day. Thus, while the lady's behaviour is irresponsible, the boy's demeanor shows this is not rape in the classical sense. In the legal sense, which is not something that biology respect, it is statutory rape though

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QuinQ:
People do (and enjoy) all sorts of things that are crimes.

Yes, they do.

kingthreat:
Hmmm, so before 2024 Zimbabwe government no get sense abi? Morally yeah it is wrong but on a legal ground, it is a young adult enjoying himself. At 16, I had so much sexual energy and some of my mates were already exploring themselves. Accusing them of being abused when they did it with ladies older than them is crap.

in Iran ...someone woke up and updated the a marriageable age for girls to 9 years old......see ehn, we humans know the right thing...we just want to do evil....

Some pple sat down and did research about on the impact of early sexual exposure which made them establish 18 years as legal age of consent....
There was a time alcohol drinking age was 18, later it was moved to 21..na research

...some pple are exposed to drinking as early as 5 ears old....because the effect is not immediately visible doesn't mean this things doesn't impact the mind and body in some way
.... But una too dey carnally and lustful driven ..... So Na only physical outlook una dey see

Kukutente23:
The video brings to the fore the obvious conflict between age of consent and age of sexual maturity
Sex is a biological act and having sex has to do with physical development and hormones and not age. Age factor was brought in to protect young ones from predators. The fact is looking at that boy, he's every bit matured for sex just as most 16 year old girls are also. The point I'm making is that sex is basically biological and in biology, there's no mechanical set time for testosterone or adrenaline to start pumping. The time they start differ for each person because it's simply biological. Two babies born same day will not grow teeth, sit, crawl, walk, speak the same day. Thus, while the lady's behaviour is irresponsible, the boy's demeanor shows this is not rape in the classical sense. In the legal sense, which is not something that biology respect, it is statutory rape though

So maturity is about how he handled the sexual activity.?? If anyone is introduced to sex early they will handle it well even at 12 or 13....what u pple are failing to see is that boy ddnt start today .....that woman or someone else started abusing that boy earlier than now

Y'all Are just trying to explain what's wrong as right......when u see most 16 year olds take decisions in life that's when u know they are stvpid and the pple that established them minors know what they are doing.......

Offpoint1:
You know a victim when you see one, in that video that boy is clearly not the victim. He might have probably done countless times with his age mate.

Less not shift the goal post from the main issue which is terrible parenting.

In my days, even in my mid 20s, I was afraid of going close to a woman, talkless of touching.

A spoil child is a spoil child

The core of this issue is not the teenager's demeanor,his hypothetical past, or his parents' skills. The core is the abuse of power.

A 33-year-old teacher, by virtue of their role, has a non-negotiable ethical and legal duty to maintain professional boundaries. When they choose to violate that duty for sexual gratification, they have committed the primary offense. Every argument that seeks to scrutinize the child his attitude, his history, his upbringing is a distraction from this fundamental, unforgivable breach of trust.

We protect children and uphold justice by focusing accountability squarely on the adult who held the power and chose to misuse it. Anything less is a failure of logic and a failure of empathy.

This is typically the behavior of women who claim to be "Independent" and don't need a man, only to end up preying on boys. It is baffling that she bypassed all the adult men out there to have sex with a 16-year-old.

The Woman: Needs a long custodial sentence. She is an adult and a predator.

The Boy: Needs strict disciplinary action (short term) so he grasps the gravity of the situation.

To be honest, that boy is now a potential liability to girls his age. At 16, having this level of sexual experience is dangerous for his development. I also refuse to believe he was entirely passive; he likely played a willing role, but she is the adult and bears the blame.

Kukutente23:
The video brings to the fore the obvious conflict between age of consent and age of sexual maturity
Sex is a biological act and having sex has to do with physical development and hormones and not age. Age factor was brought in to protect young ones from predators. The fact is looking at that boy, he's every bit matured for sex just as most 16 year old girls are also. The point I'm making is that sex is basically biological and in biology, there's no mechanical set time for testosterone or adrenaline to start pumping. The time they start differ for each person because it's simply biological. Two babies born same day will not grow teeth, sit, crawl, walk, speak the same day. Thus, while the lady's behaviour is irresponsible, the boy's demeanor shows this is not rape in the classical sense. In the legal sense, which is not something that biology respect, it is statutory rape though

You’ve correctly noted that age of consent is a legal construct, not a purely biological one but that’s exactly the point.

Laws aren’t based on biology alone; they are based on ethics, power, and protection.

Biological maturity does not equal psychological, emotional, or social maturity.
A 16-year-old may be physically capable of sex, but they are not equipped to navigate the power imbalance inherent in a relationship with a teacher an adult in a position of authority, trust, and responsibility.

The law intervenes here not because the teenager is biologically immature, but because the structural and psychological dynamics make genuine, free consent impossible in such a relationship.
Statutory rape laws exist precisely to protect minors from adults who could otherwise exploit their physical maturity while bypassing their developmental vulnerability.

So while biology varies, the ethical principle is constant: adults in positions of power must not sexualize those they are meant to guide and protect regardless of how “mature” the minor appears.

We4all:
A 16 year old boy is old enough to reject the advances of his teacher. Physically, he is even stronger and from the video, he wasn't rape.

However, people tend to raise alarm if an older man sleeps with a teenage girl because they mostly do it forcefully; even threating them with death. So, comparing both scenarios is absurd!

Your argument makes several flawed assumptions.

First, strength ≠ consent or power. A student's physical size does not neutralize a teacher’s institutional, psychological, and authoritative power. Consent requires equal freedom to say no without fear of academic, social, or emotional consequences something a student cannot freely do when the other person controls grades, reputation, and discipline.

Second, you assume rape must be physically forceful, ignoring coercion and grooming. Legal definitions of statutory rape recognize that minors cannot meaningfully consent to adults in positions of authority regardless of visible resistance. The absence of a struggle doesn’t imply genuine consent.

Finally, to claim that abuse of girls is "mostly forceful" while dismissing abuse of boys as inherently different is a harmful double standard. It ignores the reality that boys can be groomed, manipulated, and psychologically coerced often in ways that leave no visible marks but cause lasting harm.

The core issue isn’t gender or physical strength it’s the abuse of power by a trusted adult.
Dismissing that based on the victim’s gender or physique perpetuates the very stigma that keeps male victims silent.

popp:
Which abuse, I watched the video, if you see the way this boy was spanking the lady while giving her fast and furious you will get crazy.

An abused person can appear enthusiastic, even dominant, within the dynamic their abuser has constructed. That does not mean the relationship is consensual, ethical, or legal. Grooming works by making the victim feel complicit, special, or "in control" as part of the manipulation. The teacher, as the adult and authority figure, created the context and set the stage. The student is acting within a scenario designed and permitted by the abuser.

This is why the law focuses on the position of the adult, not the behavior of the child. A 16-year-old is legally and developmentally incapable of consenting to a sexual relationship with their teacher period. Their physical actions do not change the fundamental power imbalance, breach of trust, or criminal liability of the adult involved.

To claim the boy wasn't victimized because of how he participated is to fundamentally misunderstand how predation, especially of minors, actually works.

advanceDNA:
So maturity is about how he handled the sexual activity.?? If anyone is introduced to sex early they will handle it well even at 12 or 13....what u pple are failing to see is that boy ddnt start today .....that woman or someone else started abusing that boy earlier than now

Y'all Are just trying to explain what's wrong as right......when u see most 16 year olds take decisions in life that's when u know they are stvpid and the pple that established them minors know what they are doing.......

So how come there are people at 30s and 40s that are not good in bed. It's obvious this is not his first sexual encounter but I doubt you can pin that on the lady in question since the story is that she came from the US to Zimbabwe and decided to take up a temp teaching job. So it's obvious she got into contact with the boy recently. Besides, it seems you're making it as if all sexual encounters that people labelled minor have is basically predatory. I think that's patently false. Most minors engage in sexual activity out of their own volition either with their peers or in the case of males especially with prostitutes.
You didn't get my point though. I'm saying the age of consent is purely mechanical not biological while sex is a biological activity
If you claim that most 16 year olds make stupid decisions why then do we allow them choose what they want to become in life and which universities to attend? We have 16 year olds that have made serious scientific discoveries. Like I said, ageing or growing up is a biological process not mechanical so pinning sexual activity on a particular age is subjective and not based on reality

Dpsychologist:
You’ve correctly noted that age of consent is a legal construct, not a purely biological one but that’s exactly the point.

Laws aren’t based on biology alone; they are based on ethics, power, and protection.

Biological maturity does not equal psychological, emotional, or social maturity.
A 16-year-old may be physically capable of sex, but they are not equipped to navigate the power imbalance inherent in a relationship with a teacher an adult in a position of authority, trust, and responsibility.

The law intervenes here not because the teenager is biologically immature, but because the structural and psychological dynamics make genuine, free consent impossible in such a relationship.
Statutory rape laws exist precisely to protect minors from adults who could otherwise exploit their physical maturity while bypassing their developmental vulnerability.

So while biology varies, the ethical principle is constant: adults in positions of power must not sexualize those they are meant to guide and protect regardless of how “mature” the minor appears.

I understand very well your point. But psychological and emotional maturity does not have anything to do with age as well. I have a friend who began taking responsibility for his younger siblings when they became orphans when he was in secondary school. Due to poverty and the wicked (if I can say) disposition of relatives, he took over his mother's trading (dangerous as it was) and he began fending and taking care of his younger ones. This delayed his own education though. The point I'm making is that emotional and psychological maturity are not mechanical as well. We have fools at 40!!

You seem fixated on making it a case of sex exploitation. But I'm looking at the wider view. Indulge me pls. I'm trying to connect how the lady and the boy got to the point where they started having sex. Don't forget this is Africa where the system is not as permissive as the West.

I've read most stories like this in the West and it's usually easy to see where contact occurs. The teacher sees the physical attributes of a male student and then goes close to him, inviting him to her house for one thing or the other, attending parties he's billed to attend etc. Those kinds of situations simply don't exist here. The gap between strident and teacher is very wide to leave room for such exploitation.

I suspect the teacher got wind of the guy's sexual prowess and instead of taking action by exposing him and getting help for him, she decided to take a piece of the pie. My point is she couldn't have groomed him because the conditions for such to occur are far limited in our social setting. If she wasn't privy to his sexual ability, I doubt she would have made a move on him.

Also, what if he set off his sexual journey by engaging prostitutes. I hope you're aware prostitutes especially in Africa will be least concerned about a customer's age. I have firsthand knowledge of this when growing up. In such circumstance, is the prostitute the one coercing or using power or is ur the other way round?

I just want us to have a clear understanding not condoning the behaviour here. I'm strictly against child abuse of any form.

Kukutente23:
I understand very well your point. But psychological and emotional maturity does not have anything to do with age as well. I have a friend who began taking responsibility for his younger siblings when they became orphans when he was in secondary school. Due to poverty and the wicked (if I can say) disposition of relatives, he took over his mother's trading (dangerous as it was) and he began fending and taking care of his younger ones. This delayed his own education though. The point I'm making is that emotional and psychological maturity are not mechanical as well. We have fools at 40!!

You seem fixated on making it a case of sex exploitation. But I'm looking at the wider view. Indulge me pls. I'm trying to connect how the lady and the boy got to the point where they started having sex. Don't forget this is Africa where the system is not as permissive as the West.

I've read most stories like this in the West and it's usually easy to see where contact occurs. The teacher sees the physical attributes of a male student and then goes close to him, inviting him to her house for one thing or the other, attending parties he's billed to attend etc. Those kinds of situations simply don't exist here. The gap between strident and teacher is very wide to leave room for such exploitation.

I suspect the teacher got wind of the guy's sexual prowess and instead of taking action by exposing him and getting help for him, she decided to take a piece of the pie. My point is she couldn't have groomed him because the conditions for such to occur are far limited in our social setting. If she wasn't privy to his sexual ability, I doubt she would have made a move on him.

Also, what if he set off his sexual journey by engaging prostitutes. I hope you're aware prostitutes especially in Africa will be least concerned about a customer's age. I have firsthand knowledge of this when growing up. In such circumstance, is the prostitute the one coercing or using power or is ur the other way round?

I just want us to have a clear understanding not condoning the behaviour here. I'm strictly against child abuse of any form.

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To add, 99 per cent of boys of that age will cherish the experience forever as a badge of honour.

Not condoning it oh.

Dpsychologist:
Let it be known that,

Alot of men are the ones praising him in the comments section on where such things are posted.

When a girl child is being abused, we speak up the best way we can.

When it reached our turn on our own gender, suddenly many men are hailing his handling skills.

We are not even in shock that at 16 he is already doing that, this means he has been exposed to this far earlier than that age.

And you want society to take us serious ?

we are not women oga
Nobody is worried about that
It's false accusations we worried about

Kukutente23:
So how come there are people at 30s and 40s that are not good in bed.

first...sir what do u mean by "not good in bed?" Is it until pple behave like porn0graphy actors that they are good in bed??
See ehn...One of problem with the last two generation is media driven standard ...u find 8 and 9 year olds who have seen vagin@, breasts and even raw sex their parents have never seen..... And when these sexually derailed children act out their derailed mind....you the equally lustful, carnally minded adults praise and them as matured and experience...that's not maturity sir...

Kukutente23:
It's obvious this is not his first sexual encounter but I doubt you can pin that on the lady in question since the story is that she came from the US to Zimbabwe and decided to take up a temp teaching job.

she's an educator sir.....we can pin everything on her because shes guilty of abuse of student, abuse of office, and power manipulation because power imbalance is involved in this issue......I don't know why you all only see sex btw two humans from the animalistic point of view of sex.....we are humans for a reason and not a dogs ....
...that a person's p€nis can rise doesn't mean it can enter any hole.....i mean......that's how we arrived at all the madness of sexual corruption we have in the world today

Kukutente23:
Besides, it seems you're making it as if all sexual encounters that people labelled minor have is basically predatory.

how did I label all sex minors have as predatory... We are talking about a 33 year old and a 16 year old boy.....how did u arrive at all ??

Kukutente23:
Most minors engage in sexual activity out of their own volition either with their peers or in the case of males especially with prostitutes.

which they shouldn't be doing in the first place because they lack the mind frame to handle the outcomes involved......
...a pr0stitute is a morally bankrupt person and shouldn't be sleeping with a minor in the first place..

The problem is ...You are looking at the issue from a carnal and basic biological point of view however....there is a legal, ethical and moral side of it wrapped together....see......if for example a 17 year old boy sleeps with your 13 year old daughter.. u won't say all your are saying

Kukutente23:
You didn't get my point though. I'm saying the age of consent is purely mechanical not biological

I get ur point...ur problem is ..u want us to view sex btw a 16 year old boy and his 33 year old teacher purely from only the angle of p£nis can rise and there is a v@gina that can gladly collect

But the truth is age consent it is not pure mechanical ...research is poured into these things before establishing law....for example if u approach a 9 year old for sex which Muslims consider as old enough...
There's is a greater chances the child won't say no, perhaps because they've been exposed to sex online or tv they shouldn't have and therefore assume they shouldn't be doing same , or they trust who is trying to molest them, or they fear the person....altogether such a child has not developed nor under the implications of saying no or yes...

.... A human being must fully understand the implication of what they are engaging in before they are tagged legally matured to give consent......and that's what research and legal consent age brings to the table...

Most children, early & mid teenagers are driven by only impulse only with no sense of responsibility or implication and should not be considered matured to give consent to anything that involves pleasure l, from sex to drugs to alcohol etc....

Kukutente23:
If you claim that most 16 year olds make stupid decisions why then do we allow them choose what they want to become in life and which universities to attend?

lol... u are becoming desperate just to prove a point.....even a 6 year old can sometimes decide they want or dont want in some context/situations.....Comparing sex to continuing study from secindary school after most are expected to be 18 shows how desperate u are to prove a point.....i get ur desperation shaaa....u are carnally driven in the issue...

Kukutente23:
We have 16 year olds that have made serious scientific discoveries.

u are only shooting ur argument in the leg.....give me 5 examples of such sixteen year olds that have made serious scientific discoveries and I will show you the positive impact of if not being exposed to sexual corruption in developmental years especially by predatory adults......

Kukutente23:
Like I said, ageing or growing up is a biological process not mechanical so pinning sexual activity on a particular age is subjective and not based on reality

U are too carnally driven...that's why u dont think sexual activity should start at a mentally ready stage and not only a biological ready stage...
When Muslims start to tell u 9 year old are ready to be sexually taken...y'all tackle them .... Yet y'all turn round and say contradictory...

DeepSight:
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To add, 99 per cent of boys of that age will cherish the experience forever as a badge of honour.

Not condoning it oh.

Exactly
Especially given the position in that video
No way that guy will feel abused given the way he was wrecking his teacher's behind
He's like a don among his peers now. I bet many envy him and wish they are in his shoes
This does not mean it's not reprehensible but when it comes to abuse, there's nothing in that video that connotes abuse of that boy. It could even be said that he was the one abusing the teacher

Dpsychologist:
When a teenage girl is abused, society rallies in outrage. Yet when a teenage boy is exploited by an older woman, the narrative shifts suddenly it’s “impressive,” “a flex,” or even “something to be praised.”

This is not empowerment. It is abuse.
This is not maturity. It is exploitation.
This is not consent. It is predation.

At 16, a boy is still a minor. His “enjoyment” or perceived skill does not erase the fact that he is being taken advantage of by an adult.

The double standard is glaring: we condemn abuse when it happens to girls, but trivialize it when it happens to boys. That hypocrisy silences male victims, normalizes abuse, and perpetuates a culture where men’s mental health and advocacy are dismissed.

Until we recognize that boys can be victims too, and that predators can be women as well as men, we will continue to fail half of our children.

This is not about gender wars.
This is about justice, protection, and humanity.







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This is where the world is coasting now esp with this generation of GenZ. The so called boy has been doing this before he was 14 given his confidence and handling skills. He might have been the one who approached the teacher and fell for his handsomeness and courage to approach her. He's mature enough to handle his own decisions and the consequences thereafter. I can bet you he's a very rich kid and the teacher has been getting good money from him given the way teachers salaries are handled in some African countries

This is not to excuse the dumb teacher from her own blames too cos she should have drawn a boundary that would not give kids the confidence to encroachecen if she's sex starved or a money longer. She might go to jail depending on the laws of Zimbabwe regarding such issues. No law, no punishment

CJStarz:
No female teacher in Nigeria will ever condescend so low.

You underestimate the power of money. The son of the senate president at age will bang his school teacher in Nigeria if he wants.
What money cannot do...more money will do it

That kid banging is teacher is a very rich kid and showering her with money and gifts before it got to that level

Morizo:
You underestimate the power of money. The son of the senate president at age will bang his school teacher in Nigeria if he wants.
What money cannot do...more money will do it

That kid banging is teacher is a very rich kid and showering her with money and gifts before it got to that level

I seriously doubt that angle. I think the power dynamic is actually the opposite way round!
The boy has significantly less to lose (reputation, career, status) compared to the teacher. This means she has to be the one constantly funding or supporting him just to ensure he keeps their secret locked down.

Secondly, since the teacher is reportedly based in the USA, I genuinely wonder what the boy, operating locally (I assume), could possibly offer her that would be so valuable it would completely becloud her sense of reason and self-preservation.

Where were all these sexed up teachers when I was kid?

hobyner:
Where were all these sexed up teachers when I was kid?

Hold on, you sound like someone who'd be scouting for a someone’s daughter to serve watery beans! I'm genuinely convinced that if you had the chance, you'd seduce the teacher, then run here to cry "abuse" the moment you were caught.

That’s precisely why I think the boy needs to face immediate, short-term punishment. His actions and experience here don't look like an amateur mistake; they look like a seasoned professional exploiting a situation.


The core problem is society's focus. We spend so much energy sensitizing the female gender that we have completely ignored the male side.

Many young boys don't know how to resist sexual temptation from women, especially older ones. They mistakenly believe succumbing makes them "matured" or "manly."

The parents must also take serious blame for failing to equip their son with proper boundaries and moral training.

We need better education for boys on sexual refusal and consent, not just for girls!

The prostitutes could go to jail if the parents of any underaged boys who patronised them decide to take legal action against them. Sex with a minor is illegal irrespective of the circumstance.

kingthreat:
Lol, something the boys use their money to pay for

Crazy things are happening.

DiarisGodoo:
Does it matter I was the one after her?

as a lawyer, in the eyes of the law, it doesn't matter

advanceDNA:
first...sir what do u mean by "not good in bed?" Is it until pple behave like porn0graphy actors that they are good in bed??
See ehn...One of problem with the last two generation is media driven standard ...u find 8 and 9 year olds who have seen vagin@, breasts and even raw sex their parents have never seen..... And when these sexually derailed children act out their derailed mind....you the equally lustful, carnally minded adults praise and them as matured and experience...that's not maturity sir...

she's an educator sir.....we can pin everything on her because shes guilty of abuse of student, abuse of office, and power manipulation because power imbalance is involved in this issue......I don't know why you all only see sex btw two humans from the animalistic point of view of sex.....we are humans for a reason and not a dogs ....
...that a person's p€nis can rise doesn't mean it can enter any hole.....i mean......that's how we arrived at all the madness of sexual corruption we have in the world today

how did I label all sex minors have as predatory... We are talking about a 33 year old and a 16 year old boy.....how did u arrive at all ??

which they shouldn't be doing in the first place because they lack the mind frame to handle the outcomes involved......
...a pr0stitute is a morally bankrupt person and shouldn't be sleeping with a minor in the first place..

The problem is ...You are looking at the issue from a carnal and basic biological point of view however....there is a legal, ethical and moral side of it wrapped together....see......if for example a 17 year old boy sleeps with your 13 year old daughter.. u won't say all your are saying

I get ur point...ur problem is ..u want us to view sex btw a 16 year old boy and his 33 year old teacher purely from only the angle of p£nis can rise and there is a v@gina that can gladly collect

But the truth is age consent it is not pure mechanical ...research is poured into these things before establishing law....for example if u approach a 9 year old for sex which Muslims consider as old enough...
There's is a greater chances the child won't say no, perhaps because they've been exposed to sex online or tv they shouldn't have and therefore assume they shouldn't be doing same , or they trust who is trying to molest them, or they fear the person....altogether such a child has not developed nor under the implications of saying no or yes...

.... A human being must fully understand the implication of what they are engaging in before they are tagged legally matured to give consent......and that's what research and legal consent age brings to the table...

Most children, early & mid teenagers are driven by only impulse only with no sense of responsibility or implication and should not be considered matured to give consent to anything that involves pleasure l, from sex to drugs to alcohol etc....

lol... u are becoming desperate just to prove a point.....even a 6 year old can sometimes decide they want or dont want in some context/situations.....Comparing sex to continuing study from secindary school after most are expected to be 18 shows how desperate u are to prove a point.....i get ur desperation shaaa....u are carnally driven in the issue...

u are only shooting ur argument in the leg.....give me 5 examples of such sixteen year olds that have made serious scientific discoveries and I will show you the positive impact of if not being exposed to sexual corruption in developmental years especially by predatory adults......


U are too carnally driven...that's why u dont think sexual activity should start at a mentally ready stage and not only a biological ready stage...
When Muslims start to tell u 9 year old are ready to be sexually taken...y'all tackle them .... Yet y'all turn round and say contradictory...

I believe you should know that being good in bed means ability to satisfy one's partner sexually.
I don't know what you mean by I'm carnally minded. I assume we're having an adult conversation on sex and sexuality. I don't know if there's a spiritual angle you're looking to bring in but sexual activity is basically a carnal act.
Have you seen the video? She's being in the school for about a year. Do you mean this guy just started having sex last year? I don't think so.
You need to carry out proper research on this subject. The age of consent and maturity are social and legal construct not based on research. It was once fixed at 12 even in Western countries. A 12 year old child should be sexually mature in the physical sense. The fear there is that they shouldn't be taken advantage of since they do not have full gasp of the social and potential physiological implications. In this case, the debate is not about the social and physiological implications since it's obvious the young man is not doing it under duress nor is the lady in question unaware of such implications. Minus the age of consent, this will definitely qualify as consensual. The big question mark is the relative position of the two individuals involved since one has a coercive and administrative power over the other. If we're to go by psychological research, the age of full readiness for sex and its ramifications should be between 25-32 years.
Human psychology is fluid and can't be fixed based on age. The age factor is just used as a baseline to protect the younger ones.
There's no human knowledge that has ever put the age of puberty at 9

Kukutente23:
I don't know what you mean by I'm carnally minded. I assume we're having an adult conversation on sex and sexuality.

u are carnally minded means u are only viewing this issue from an animal point of view .. we are humans..... that's why we have rules of inappropriateness, ethics, morals, and of course legality about such matters

Kukutente23:
You need to carry out proper research on this subject. The age of consent and maturity are social and legal construct not based on research.

lol... u are the one that needs proper research.....social and legal constructs are also research driven to begin with...

Kukutente23:
It was once fixed at 12 even in Western countries. ....

so how did u think they arrived at 18?? U think they just did so because they felt like protecting kids...?? How did they arrive at kids needing protection after u have established they are mature .....Baba, please go and read clinical psychology journal on this issue and see how they are used to established law in the west....

.......It's research that is used in other spheres of society... For example..a chemical used in preservation and coloring thats classified as food grade many years ago may now be classed as illegal this year with new research outcomes.....

Kukutente23:
A 12 year old child is sexually mature in the physical sense. The fear there is that they shouldn't be taken advantage of since they do not have full gasp of the social and potential physiological implications..

This is funny....so why are u looking at the issue from an animalistic POV alone, when maturity should be viewed from mental and bodily maturity altogether....??

U keep trying to justify sex btw a boy and and an adult woman as just sex btw animals and therefore no biggie....... Yet u agree laws are made because pple can take advantage of them....
So I ask?? Is it not just sex the two wants?? What do u now agree that one can take advantage of the other when u also feel both a matured for sex??
Why is the fear that they can be taken advantage of still there??

Baba...It's because these children only appear bodily mature but are in many ways still a minor in the mind which is what makes us who we are........they are not mentally matured enough to under the full implication of their actions....
For example....research shows that Children that learn sex from movies or porn0graphy are only driven by impulse to act out what they've seen....but because movies never portray the use of protection, hardly ever show pple get pregnant or have herpes or HIv, and other negative outcomes from reckless sex engagement ....these children are never experienced enough to consent .....

Kukutente23:
In this case, the debate is not about the social and physiological implications since it's obvious the young man is not doing it under duress..

that's the thing...u don't even have knowledge on how pple can be a willing participant in sex yet be under duress....u are claiming obvious from a video....
If this happened btw the teacher and a 9 year old u will still see the same thing in the video ...because sex is a pleasure act that most pple need discipline to resist even as adult.....so it makes the matter worse that an over 30 year old adult is doing such with a boy.....
U can't conclude there anything including from the video u watched....

Kukutente23:
Minus the age of consent, this will definitely qualify as consensual.

it will not fly as consensual because power imbalance is involved in this case and that's what pple like u with only animalistic view of sex don't see

Kukutente23:
The age factor is just used as a baseline to protect the younger ones.

it is not just a baseline....it is arrived at considering both mental and bodily maturity which cannot be separated and functions together in a person....

Kukutente23:
There's no human knowledge that has ever put the age of puberty at 9

The muslims and Arabs beg to differ....just as u are trying to carnally present maturity to be a matter of what u see........the Muslims also put theirs at 9 since many children start growing pubic hair and even start menstruating around that age ...
.infact...a 6 year old has gotten pregnant and delivered a child before....

Baba...I notice u keep trying to down play the reason behind establishment consent age at 18. U keep making it look like something that's done just for protection if these minors but it doesn't mean they are not ready to be fvcked..

but I ask u again....why do these children need to be protected if they are ready for sex and sex is what the adults want from them..??

If u see your 15 year son doing this same thing to a gay man of 33 years....I'm sure u will scream that the man must manipulated and groomed him.....

kingthreat:
This is not abuse. The boy just became a man early.
So are all the young boys that sneak to brothels for short time being abused by the prostitutes?

The guy sabi Knack abeg ...

Small remain make ihm beat Baltasar Records ....

He dey tear D teacher wetin no Good ...

We4all:
A 16 year old boy is old enough to reject the advances of his teacher. Physically, he is even stronger and from the video, he wasn't rape.

However, people tend to raise alarm if an older man sleeps with a teenage girl because they mostly do it forcefully; even threating them with death. So, comparing both scenarios is absurd!

I wonder person dey tear tear Pvnny like that and dem call am Rape ....

That boy should be jailed for Abuses of His Teacher ... The Slap wey dat Ass receives no be here ... backhand, Up Down Slams and Hammers ...

Eleribu lo mo yen

ashawopikin:
as a lawyer, in the eyes of the law, it doesn't matter

Never knew a 15-year-old girl can statutorily rape a 16-year-old boy who was chasing her!
Check well. I think you’re wrong

DonroxyII:
I wonder person dey tear tear Pvnny like that and dem call am Rape ....

That boy should be jailed for Abuses of His Teacher ... The Slap wey dat Ass receives no be here ... backhand, Up Down Slams and Hammers ...
Eleribu lo mo yen

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How una take watch the video. Which app?

DiarisGodoo:
Never knew a 15-year-old girl can statutorily rape a 16-year-old boy who was chasing her!
Check well. I think you’re wrong

the law is not emotional.how do u convince a judge that a minor seduced you? Eveñif it's the, it's still a crime.