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Hello guys, please I want to know if it’s okay for a daughter to see her fathers unclothedness because she is so attached to me and I take care of her alone so I don’t know if it’s okay for me to change my dress while she is In the room because I do send her out and she doesn’t like going outside to wait due to the nature of my compound, so I need matured advice on this issue and please she’s just 4 years old.

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I will answer you sir. Please do not expose that baby to nonsense. Don't expose your unclothedness cum emptiness before her. Now you have the counsel, go and use it. Nawa for people oooo

Don’t send your 4yr old outside. There are ways to change clothes or dress without her seeing your unclothedness. Just wear boxers. As long as you wear boxer you are alright. You can tie towel on your waist and use it to wear your boxer before removing the towel.

You are trolling and you know this.

Same you that posted you got married to your virgin wife in 2024 and her being pregnant as of last month, November and how you posted she had been denying you sex, making you resort to masturbation, how did a 4 year old daughter come into the picture and living alone with her one room?

Can't you change right from the bathroom or wear a short atleast? Abi which kind compound you dey stay?

She doesn't like going out...

SO?

Is the outside unsafe?

You are already starting to fail as a parent. You are already failing to teach your child at a young age that she can't always get what she wants or have her way.

She doesn't like going out but she has to go out anyway.


You have to balance kid's mentality. Some parents still need parenting!

Mindlog:
You are trolling and you know this.

Same you that posted you got married to your virgin wife in 2024 and her being pregnant as of last month, November and how you she had been denying you sex, making you resort to masturbation, how did a 4 year old daughter come into the picture and living alone with her one room?

My wife has finally relocated back to stay with her parents and I have gone to bring in my daughter to live with me but I will be telling you guys how it all happened

brain54:
She doesn't like going out...

SO?

Is the outside unsafe?

You are already starting to fail as a parent. You are already failing to teach your child at a young age that she can't always get what she wants or have her way.



She doesn't like going out but she has to go out anyway.


You have to balance kid's mentality. Some parents still need parenting!

I live alone and In a public setting

HelenaWills:
Can't you change right from the bathroom or wear a short atleast? Abi which kind compound you dey stay?

It’s a public setting but she’s too clingy and I don’t know the best way to go about it and I want to know if it’s bad to change my dress while she’s on the bed watching her phone

2mch:
Don’t send your 4yr old outside. There are ways to change clothes or dress without her seeing your unclothedness. Just wear boxers. As long as you wear boxer you are alright. You can tie towel on your waist and use it to wear your boxer before removing the towel.

Exactly what I have been doing because I feel bad when I send her outside the house

The husband of my aunt's friend used to do the same thing until their daughter started telling anyone who cared to listen about how her father has tail between his legs that is bigger than that of her brother.

And why are you having custody of your 4 years old daughter when her mother is still alive? At that age, she needs her mother more than you, she should be just visiting you and not living with you... Take her back to her mother and wait for her until she's old enough to look after herself, then she can come and live with you.

EmperorIsaac:
I will answer you sir. Please do not expose that baby to nonsense. Don't expose your unclothedness cum emptiness before her. Now you have the counsel, go and use it. Nawa for people oooo

Lol na real nonsense bro

Xso666:
Exactly what I have been doing because I feel bad when I send her outside the house

I get the picture now. One room apartment, public bathroom and toilet. Bro the towel is your best option for now or carry boxers enter the bathroom and as soon as you are done bathing, wear the boxers, enter house and dress up. Most importantly please and please try get a selfcon at least or two rooms in the same public settings. It's well

kiddaz:
I get the picture now. One room apartment, public bathroom and toilet. Bro the towel is your best option for now or carry boxers enter the bathroom and as soon as you are done bathing, wear the boxers, enter house and dress up. Most importantly please and please try get a selfcon at least or two rooms in the same public settings. It's well

Oluwa go do am

There are some questions that you shouldn't be asking. Why should a little girl see her father's unclothedness? Do you want to corrupt her mind at this early age?

That was how a very close relative started. In his case, he is a sexual pervert. He ended up sleeping with his daughters and nothing has happened to him.

In my opinion, if couples are divorced, let the kids remain with their mothers. This should be enforced, especially if the children are girls.

Teach her to turn around and to give you privacy while you change. A four year old understands instructions when explained correctly and firmly.

We4all:
There are some questions that you shouldn't be asking. Why should a little girl see her father's unclothedness? Do you want to corrupt her mind at this early age?

That was how a very close relative started. In his case, he is a sexual pervert. He ended up sleeping with his daughters and nothing has happened to him.

In my opinion, if couples are divorced, let the kids remain with their mothers. This should be enforced, especially if the children are girls.

I’m not a pervert and can never sleep with my daughter I only came here to ask fathers and mature minds please no insult

Double0h7:
Teach her to turn around and to give you privacy while you change. A four year old understands instructions when explained correctly and firmly.

Most times she’s on her phone watching coco melon but I still end up asking her to go outside and which is why I asked if there’s anyone experiencing this with their clingy daughters

Then how do you go to work? You are an incompetent father, return that child to the mother. It is totally wrong for father's to be given access to female children.

Xso666:
Most times she’s on her phone watching coco melon but I still end up asking her to go outside and which is why I asked if there’s anyone experiencing this with their clingy daughters

She’s not a clingy child, she is a child. You’re basically putting her outside as in the streets per say because you live in a single room. Please up your finances before someone evil traumatises that little girl. Let her stay in the room but teach her to turn around and do whatever she’s doing while you change quickly using a sheet or towel to wrap around your waist. It’s worrisome that something so common sense baffles your brain that you came online to ask if a girl child can see you naked.

Double0h7:
She’s not a clingy child, she is a child. You’re basically putting her outside as in the streets per se because you live in a single room. Please up your finances before someone evil traumatises that little girl. Let her stay in the room but teach her to turn around and do whatever she’s doing while you change quickly using a sheet or towel to wrap around your waist. It’s worrisome that something so common sense baffles your brain that you came online to ask if a girl child can see you naked.

Thanks for your contribution but it’s not my fault I find myself in this condition as I am not a lazy person also

Xso666:
Thanks for your contribution but it’s not my fault I find myself in this condition as I am not a lazy person also

May God make a way for you amen 🙏

Mindlog:
You are trolling and you know this.

Same you that posted you got married to your virgin wife in 2024 and her being pregnant as of last month, November and how you she had been denying you sex, making you resort to masturbation, how did a 4 year old daughter come into the picture and living alone with her one room?

NL police done catch this one

Pootle:
NL police done catch this one

One of my urgent 2k runs, is tied to pointing out such inconsistencies, so the person would be aware.

Mindlog:
You are trolling and you know this.

Same you that posted you got married to your virgin wife in 2024 and her being pregnant as of last month, November and how you posted she had been denying you sex, making you resort to masturbation, how did a 4 year old daughter come into the picture and living alone with her one room?

I had a daughter when I was serving in Akwa ibom but I lost the mum and I have been fighting for custody of my daughter and I just got it due to my wife had to leave me to her families house due to I am having some business backlogs and things aren’t going on smoothly for now so I had to Man up and bring my daughter to the city so she’s all I got now and that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t get married if I see a genuine and sincere woman because I need companion and there’s nothing sweet about being single.

Xso666:
✓ It’s a public setting but she’s too clingy and I don’t know the best way to go about it and I want to know if it’s bad to change my dress while she’s on the bed watching her phone

She is not too clingy. You probably abandoned her somewhere where she has been living anxious and rejected until you came back to get her. At that age, she is probably fearful you will abandon her again like you did before. Did you at least abandon her with her mother before now?

Anyways, you are a human being and can learn to take a shower and change your clothing after the child has fallen asleep or is temporarily distracted.

Kobojunkie:
She is not too clingy. You probably abandoned her somewhere where she has been living anxious and rejected until you came back to get her. At that age, she is probably fearful you will abandon her again like you did before. Did you at least abandon her with her mother before now?

Anyways, you are a human being and can learn to take a shower and change your clothing after the child has fallen asleep or is temporarily distracted.

Thank you for the advice kobo

Xso666:
Hello guys, please I want to know if it’s okay for a daughter to see her fathers unclothedness because she is so attached to me and I take care of her alone so I don’t know if it’s okay for me to change my dress while she is In the room because I do send her out and she doesn’t like going outside to wait due to the nature of my compound, so I need matured advice on this issue and please she’s just 4 years old.

Please help move to front page so I get more opinions on this🙏

Of what benefits is your unclothedness to her

Pls send her out anytime you want to change

Once she starts seeing your unclothedness the devil will advice her on what to do with it

So when she gets in contact with a bad guy using it on get will be easy because she has seen it in you and may accept it on her by another

After all you have it and it's not new to you

[quote author=frozen70 post=137778018]Of what benefits is your unclothedness to her

Pls send her out anytime you want to change

Once she starts seeing your unclothedness the devil will advice her on what to do with it

So when she gets in contact with a bad guy using it on get will be easy because she has seen it in you and may accept it on her by another





Thanks for this, though she’s just 4 so I sometimes think she’s just a baby and will definitely forget all of this when she grows up

Come ooo you this boy.


Your timeline is contradictory. Or are you posting fictional or misleading stories, possibly for attention, engagement, or trolling. The stories do not align with real world timelines or biological possibilities. really need to Explain this



@Xso666, you need to explain this calculation to us very well. How can your wife be pregnant in September–November, and now in December you have a grown daughter of 4 years who is too attached to her father? This timeline doesn’t make sense. You can’t use our heads to play. Please clarify these contradictions.

The math is not mathing

Xso666:
Hello guys, please I want to know if it’s okay for a daughter to see her fathers unclothedness because she is so attached to me and I take care of her alone so I don’t know if it’s okay for me to change my dress while she is In the room because I do send her out and she doesn’t like going outside to wait due to the nature of my compound, so I need matured advice on this issue and please she’s just 4 years old.

Please help move to front page so I get more opinions on this🙏

lilsmart:
Come ooo you this boy.
Your timeline is contradictory. Or are you posting fictional or misleading stories, possibly for attention, engagement, or trolling. The stories do not align with real world timelines or biological possibilities. really need to Explain this

@Xso666, you need to explain this calculation to us very well. How can your wife be pregnant in September–November, and now in December you have a grown daughter of 4 years who is too attached to her father? This timeline doesn’t make sense. You can’t use our heads to play. Please clarify these contradictions.

The math is not mathing

Yes I already explained it here that I had a daughter when serving and I lost her mum, I wasn’t able to get custody of my child due to I have not balanced yet and so when I got balanced my wife which has just left me now to return back to her family house refused me bringing my daughter to stay with us, but now that she has left me I went to bring my daughter to live with me as the grand mum doesn’t have anything doing and i feel it’s right time for my daughter to come to the city and have a good life with me.

Noted.

From experience,I know it's not easy being a single father, especially when your workplace doesn't have an on-site crèche.

But you will come to love it and it will build you is a way even you won't expect gor the bestooooo

Xso666:
Yes I already explained it here that I had a daughter when serving and I lost her mum, I wasn’t able to get custody of my child due to I have not balanced yet and so when I got balanced my wife which has just left me now to return back to her family house refused me bringing my daughter to stay with us, but now that she has left me I went to bring my daughter to live with me as the grand mum doesn’t have anything doing and i feel it’s right time for my daughter to come to the city and have a good life with me.